₦airaland Forum

STARGREEN:
Change her circle of friends 1st.

Do you realize she's an adult?

The truth is that if she's not willing and ready to change her circle of friends, it is beyond what the husband can do, except if he wants to violently achieve that, which is not advisable.

Change comes from within.

@op, you left some points out. Is she working? If no, why? Is she handicapped? If yes, why can't she use her money to create the type of life she wants for herself? Why is she pressurizing you make more money when she can do such?




But op, you fucccked up seriously by laying your hands on her.

I don't believe this man can utter such statement and if it's true that he actually made such utterances, then, why is he taking it personal? Is his church the only one that is closed temporarily?

You're probably not the type of man she would have loved to marry.

She's only stuck with you and that doesn't mean she will cheat on you or treat you badly.

Every marriage with its imperfection.

@op, you wan use the bikini pictures self-service, abi? Go to the appropriate quarters now, you go find more than enough there!

Please, if na play, you people should stop am o!

120, 000 people estimated to be infected bawo?

Won't students resume school this year again?


You people should just try and contain this spread o.

We mustn't be like UK or USA in everything o?

Believe Yahaya Bello and his commissioners at your own risk!

Imagine, a state with no even isolation center, not even one person has been tested there o, talking of being pressurized to announce anything.

Yeye dey smell!

johnkey:
All these girls sharing pussy upandan will be married women one day, gosh some men are on the waiting list for men to be pitied in future, I go just dey sideline dey look and laugh while I bang young pussies with my money. Fück marraige

Your choice!

Just don't blame your village people when challenges relating to old age beckons.

Mariangeles:
An honourable man would find it difficult to cheat.
For most of you guys,cheating has become a weapon. How cowardly!

Of course, it is an honourable man that will find it difficult to cheat on his wife. Any man who find it easy to cheat on his wife does not love her and hence doesn't deserve any submission from his wife. Infact, he deserves any evil that comes his way and life.

So, apparently, we're on the same page.

Mstick:
First of all the "Bible" also said stop committing adultery, love your wife and you people aren't keeping any of this. So don't women also have the right to be loved and respected?!

Didn't you see where it's written in my post that it's the wives'right to be loved?


And you know what? A man who genuinely and truly love his wife will find it difficult to cheat on her.

Mstick:
Why are Nigerian men obsessed with submission?

Because it's their right!

Even the Bible specifically states it in Ephesians 5:22 that wives should submit themselves to their husbands as into the Lord, so, if they're obsessed with submission, it is still within their right.

And you know what, men too have theirs, and it is to love their wives, so, it's also wives' right to be loved by their husbands.

Now fine, you people have been talking about what cross river state has done differently, what has kogi state done differently o?

Sepsis:
It took a while but I’ve found what I was looking for. We can do this.

This thread should have been closed after this post or better still, there shouldn't have been any other response from you after this.

Good luck brother.

@sepsis, you're a good man, a good husband. I know a good person when I see one. You're who you are, you know what you want and you haven't overstepped your boundary with your wish. You have really tried with the way you have been maturely handling the issue in such a way that your wife will not feel bad about it. You are indeed commendable. I, personally commend you, especially in the area of being supportive of your wife.
However, for those condemning you here, not that they couldn't see your efforts but your choice of words is what is giving you away, forgetting that some people are like that, you're a very blunt person, you don't sugar-coat words, you call a spade a spade and that's why they've been trying to blackmail you with different conjectures.

I read in a post where you claimed to have seen what you wanted, if true, then there's no need going front and back with people here. You're the one giving them the opportunity to conjure different conjectures. Stop responding those that are trying to get on your nerves, though, you're trying not to be offended but if you continue reading everything in this thread, you'll definitely get to a point of getting bad about the whole thing.
The purpose of the thread has been achieved, let the thread die a natural death and go ahead and start that which you have discovered as solution/answer to your wish.
Greetings to your lovely wife and kid.

Chuksmonika:
bro,people still fall victim to these daily,especially greedy ones

There you have your answer by yourself......... greedy ones.

obi4eze:
I wonder why a SGF is the Chairman of the PTF. Where is the Vice President that was elected by the masses?

Do we still have vice president in Nigeria?

sapientia:
If it was Bill Gates that said this now.

Hmmm

Lol......

Another protest would have been in the pipeline.

The man talk too much, he should learn to know when to keep his mouth shut.

To be candid, Nigerians are really not following the NCDC directives of social distancing, avoiding crowded places and wearing of face masks when it's mandatory to go out. But can we blame them? When there was lockdown, what did our leaders do to cushion the effect of lockdown on the citizens? Hunger nearly kill us while each of the the task force members was pocketing#500k daily. How can they now believe you? You want them to die of hunger while you're enriching yourselves?

Besides, the way and manner you people shrouded everything about this pandemic makes it difficult for the people to believe you. So, we can't totally blame Nigerians, you contribute to their skepticism.

yyba:
This is very commendable from Nnpc, BUHARI lead apc administration means well for Nigeria and Nigerians.

This same Nigeria or another one?

You people should fear God o

yyba:
This is very commendable from Nnpc, BUHARI lead apc administration means well for Nigeria and Nigerians.

For this Nigeria and Nigerians or another one?

Weblord2000:
Match against covid 19 see prediction below. (photos) share your thoughts.

Is this an error or what?


It must be an error!

SafariBoy:
Sir, can i send you my cousin's number so you will speak with him? You people will just be accusing innocent people on Nairaland because they beg for assistance at different dates or time. I know scammer exists but I am not one. I fear God bro!

Lol......
You're not serious at all.

You think we're kids here, right?


Fear God, my foot!

MrBrownJay1:
sadly, with the lockdown and covid-19, there are so many begging thread on NL that it would be impossible to know who are the fraudulent people (or not)...

You're right, my brother.
One by one, we go dey catch them.

SafariBoy:
Imagine calling someone unarmed robber just because i requested for help sincerely oo??
Cc seun, lalasticlala, dominique

What is genuine and sincere in claiming your cousin's wife is at the edge of delivery when it's actually not so.

Honestly, you're shameless.



cc roseb1

MrBrownJay1:
the above in bold is the sad truth... because of these unscrupulous people who create phoney stories for handouts, the real needy people will be overlooked.

How I wish this thread can make FP with a tag that indicates SCAM, so that it can.......
1. Serve as deterrent to others like him.
And

2. To open the eyes of those kind-hearted people to those who genuinely and obviously need financial assistance.

SafariBoy:
I have already reported you to the mod. Life ban is awaiting you. What gave you the effrontery to tag someone a scammer. No! That's defamation of character. As if i request for help same day or time. You see why people like using alternate account to request for help?because people like you will want to dig their past. But i still summon courage to use mine! Brother you messed up big time, I pray God forgive you because if i curse you no man of God on earth can remove it. You might think you are anonymous but nothing is hidden under the heaven.

Are you threatening him?

You should hide your face in shame!

Using different sob stories to defraud kind-hearted people up and down.

You're the one that actually deserve life ban from here and life jail in real life because you're an unarmed robber.

Shameless thing!

MrBrownJay1:
unquote you?! so you can defraud NLers with phoney begging stories?!?!?! this is who you are, and people need to know who you are, so i suggest you embrace it!

Thanks for the good job my brother. You've saved many from falling into the scammer's hands.


This is exactly what I was typing on a particular begging thread the other time, that these guys are majorly scammers. They are just scamming people with different sob stories here and there. I've been a victim of many of them but never again.


So many people out there are truly and obviously needy, ophanages are there, I'll rather give to those ones than these ones that think they are smarter and will be laughing you out whenever they're given money here.

This time is indeed a difficult time for our health workers. Thanks for the sacrifices, you're appreciated!


Quick recovery to you all!

Weldone to the Frontline workers, you're appreciated!


Mr minister sir, There is nothing wrong with trying the vivid organics from Madagascar too.




This pandemic shall soon pass by God's grace.

Good!
Weldone to our health workers!


BTW..........
I hope today's Lagos confirmed COVID19 patients will not be times four of those discharged sha!



This too shall soon pass by God's grace!

Kano again?

May God heal the world.


RIP to him.