₦airaland Forum

Wait o. I want to approach this issue from the origin of creation. God said "its not good that a man be alone, I will make a helpmeet for him"..it is the man who was alone and eve was created to complement him. Now its the opposite we see as d end draws near. If a woman is lonely, let her take after her hardworking hubby by getting a job to do, that's her duty in d first place..a helpmeet. And not blaming her infidelity out on someone else.

A man leaves home to sweat for money to feed you and ur children...the children that you will depend on later in d name of eating d fruit of your labor (the man who labors sef hardly depends on children) and you think the best way to rid off boredom is by sleeping with another man? You're a prostitute! You're just modifying it with excuses.

BTW how can sex be accidental. Pls I need enlightenment on that..were your senses suspended or how?

pandv:
Do people really change from bad to good? Or, does such change mean pretense?

Yes people do but genuine ones are few..it takes a very hard or bitter experience to change some ppl.. These experiences aren't common.

pandv:
Can you marry someone you know was of bad character that shows sign of change for good?

No. Except I personally witnessed his/her hard-knock or breaking experience and compare his responses with the pre-experience lifestyle... this will definitely take time. Marriage is too delicate a life institution to take such risks, that's why I said No.

blissgregory:
d girl will undastand

You're obviously not in a serious relnshp once before.

tolanibae:
Dont start a war you cannot finish. I hope you understand that people’s daddy, men, you guys will Prostrate Just to put the head.

Its usually rare before you hear us running after it.

Do your maths, add 1 + 1, and know who loves sex more

I disagree with you. Your reason is so archaic.

If you understand psychology, you would know sex is expensive for men, the urge is more than d availability of it and so it becomes obvious when he's in need of it..doesn't mean he enjoys it..its even stressful for most men considering the amount he'll spend.

Sex is cheap to get for girls with many benefits and goodies attached. A girl in spite of shakara n pride can get to sleep with 3 men in a day and no one would know cus it comes almost freely for them when and when not in need of it. That's enjoyment

blissgregory:
Tell her u need some space

Lol. You're neither a good adviser nor a psychologist. And u think if he tells a girl that, all will be fine.

husbandsnatcha:
Yes u ar ryt swt, not Nairaland small boys lyk wetdick n shinaqrambq who are stil boys @ 50yrs

Or frustrated unmarried spinsters lyk marialavina

Hehehehe

Na so

husbandsnatcha:
am nt lonely ,i av guys at my beck n calls , but am a lady of prestige n substance ooh u wont understand

Lol. OK I thought u were a guy at first

You need a matured man you can confide in abt ur sexcapades and fantasies. Not all boys understand

Even prayer might not be needed. You need to get mature more, find true love and avoid loneliness. Its a psychotherapy thing

victorian:
I miss nothing about him.

Hmmm. That can't be true.

This one weak me o.

“Think about it. How long did I work? How long did I support him? I had to give him a lot of money in the divorce,” Murray said. “You tell me what’s the moral thing to do.”

This woman is a thief and a covetous woman. Can u imagine.

The right thing as long as we all know is... An ex is an ex and integrity means standing by ur decision... Simple!

You divorced him decisively and he let you go. Next time, don't take decision by finality...always give a room perhaps there could a turn around. Most young girls too are finalists when they break up a relnshp, later when they acquire understanding, they look foolish to make it up with whom they quitted.

I like d man's reply sha. He answered wisely!

Very real. In fact has been existing for long. Former Nigerian Bar association president now ondo state governor fell in love with his wife who is 2 years older at first sight.

They hardly celebrate thier wedding anniversary without mentioning it.

Fact is u must be a sensual person to get such love. But many ppl are not sensitive about others ordinarily, they're just concerned abt themselves and how others will attend to them always.

Strong konji never catch you that's why.

After all the premarital sex, you still carry mike on wedding day

First of all, na pusssy u need not that u wan marry them, so why d excessive taking out... I agree its ur style though, but reduce it abeg, be lively and homely, let d business finish at home...like give them money to cook for you, crack jokes with them, gibe them eye signals etc just let it be within home and fucck them as they bring d pusssy to you. All d taking out so far, you've been spending and you've not had one sex yet. Its d money they see you have that's making them keep d flow with you or you want to say they've not had sex with another guy since u left for Lagos?

When u get back, just leave them, u can get another girl outside to keep ur soul together, they'd come back to you by themselves instead of you hovering around them. Especially the one who claims to have a bf, d day her bf will refuse to give her money, she'll come back.

And when they come back, don't ask abt their bf and don't suggest taking them out. Keep ur savings for future abeg. Make it appear like uve done ur best, its left for them to show u some love and as dem dey bring d pusssy for you make sure u nack them without mercy.

Why shd a girl be angry when she was d first u tried to date and she said no, only to see her roomie getting along well with you and you too are falling for that.

You now see why prostitutes at brothels have always been of high value and will continue to be...and also the reason why men keep more than one girls

If u know say ur sense dey work, u go leave that girl, face ur work or find another girl with matured sense

I know she's eaten deep into ur mind but u have to regain ur senses bro...that's how they all behave.

Sundarita:
Are you a useless boy or why are you pained?

Good proof!

Sundarita:
Lol, if your boyfriend is not spending on you, he is fucking spending it on another bittthch, it only means you are not worthy of his time and he sees you as a free meal. Useless boys everywhere.

You don't sound like someone worthy to spend on!

Na your first discovery abt women be this? Weh u dey loud am.

She needs to work on herself then.

For the easily angered guy, she's neglecting little things which perhaps means a lot to d guy...he's committed

The guy who doesn't get angry(not bothered) and distrusts her is not committed to her at all..its simple

She better work on what makes d first guy happy or she'll lose at both ends.

Nawa o. So corpers still dey risk their lives to this level for this country.

Drogba head dey glitter o

Your head will just fall off.

This guy is quietly creeping his way into politics....that's his next line of fame after chioma date.. What a wise guy!

Let him apply for manager at brothel na. He no go pay for toto. Na free by handsomeness.

MariaLavina:
What's with all these alpha, beta , Graham nonsense?

Are you all sick or something?


O da bi enipe Messi n gba penalty lori gbogbo yin!

No use laff kill me abeg.

Abi. Especially all those girls weh I give belle that yesterday valentine. Dem go don get belle o

Timekeeper:
Actually I prefer ladies lower than me in age.... I just senior her with 4 years if her Facebook dob is correct sha... I'm just 25, I prefer ladies that are younger than me...

You will be patient to go thru more of such till you attain a grown age.

highqueen:
Today is Wednesday , and it's a working day, go out there and make a living for yourself.
Cheers#

Lol. You just referred to yourself

highqueen:
You were bold to talk about intimacy, but not bold to accept what comes out of it.
Although I know you don't have the money cos guys with money will settle their issues amicably without any cause for alarm, you should restrict yourself from washing your dirty boxers online, you have strength to have erection, but no strength to work for the money.


I would have said your boxers need to be used for rituals, but it's too dirty to be used.

You can't be a good wife and mum with this thinking..although you can be a rich feminist with poor wisdom

What's your definition of intimate. He has not even started the intimacy, he's only saying what he plans with her. Girls who are wise at extorting money from men know the intimate moments they make d requests and get it and not blabing from the beginning

As for you op, I blame you too, you shd know girls brains are not completely formed. When they talk they think of themselves first before others but when you talk, you have to consider their insensitivity before you talk..my point is, you used that word "intimate" in plain terms whose English meaning we all understand but look at how an insensitive girl interpreted it.

I also blame you for going after girls with young minds, go for girls at late 20s and early 30s, they're more definite and sensitive.

Honestly I no blame d guy, if you've experienced the dark side of women, you won't ever feel relaxed on them.

Op when you born 3 pikin, that size no go satisfy you again o and you no go fit talk cus he don tell u from start and u said no. So just help him achieve it but tell him not too much orelse you'll run....at that point, he'll know you mean it.