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frozen70:
There won't be any big deal if the marriage brokes

Divorce is not a stigma, it involves two adults

If its not working out with the both of them, they can go there separate ways

Marriage is not a do or die affair

In simple terms.. This is cowardice

frozen70:
What's your communications with her before this recent developments ❓

Is she bearing grudges with you, women can fight cold War while living with their hubby

Has her attitudes towards you changed ❓

If you love her
Seat her down and have a talk with her, whatever the reason, play the fool and let everything get settled

Women can start up anything unhealthy just to show displeasure

Absolutely wrong. You can try cold war with boyfriend, manipulations of any sort is wrong in marriage.. She shd have thought of settling with him amicably instead of war. The man is getting stressed out already. His marriage is now a matter of endurance and not enjoyment. One day d bombshell will break. Any attitude that's acidic to free flow in marriage shd be stopped ASAP. She needs to grow up.

amiibaby:
This is nasty

Lol. Like she really wanna show all. She didn't even try to do it diplomatically.. No shyness of any sort. I like cleavage too but this one be like an unexposed lady.

I wish everybody can maintain such niceness till adulthood. Cus e be like say as person dey grow, evil dey block d mind.

Girls in their early 20s behave like they have all the time in d world. Na 30+ dey find yes or no answer within 1 week of meeting them. Then you'll wonder wetin she they look till now weh d hurry come increase like this.

Lol. Na you be father Christmas

Lol. You be learner?

Most men prefer the first kinda women though

These are the types of daughters you can't see on d streets. Girls with good parental nurture.

MUSAPLC:
Dear house,
When I always see my wife online ,when I chat with her no response from her and on this day I confront her she told sometimes she most have sleep up.
She can be online as more ten hour.
I don't want to believe what my mind is telling me.
I need ur advice.

Familiarity is creeping into ur marriage. Your wife is being insensitive... That's all. She's not cheating on you, don't think that way.

Lol. Some ppl are not gifted in framing lies at all.

If a girl do this, that means the rapture will happen tomorrow

ikechimarten:
I'm love with a girl, I don't what to do so that she can love me more.even more than they way I love here

Turn yourself to money

Benbisco:
My fellow females who have been viewing this thread to read comments just like me. One thing keeps appearing: WIGS!!!

PLEASE, henceforth let's do the needful. Wig no be by force. You can carry your natural hair sometimes. You owe no one no apologies. After all na only you waka come.

Hmmm ladies like u are rare, you learn fast..its good. Others na shakara dem go dey do

Benbisco:
I'm a female but I so love your list. I saw No. 1 in church, it was pink!

Lol. Sharp vision

If you really love each other, you would have told him/her that u applied for lottery or u plan to study abroad and it can work out any time soon.

It happened to me actually. Apart from the fact that she's an emotional extremist, she said we shd do introduction then she'll go learn fashion abroad for 2 yrs and then come back for marriage. In my mind I said oookay na so? So u go dey emotionally attached with another man there I go come dey here like mumu waiting endlessly and heartbroken. So one day I went to her at home and spent time with her, then humbly explained to her to go abroad and come back if God says we'll marry when ure back we will. No introduction yet..

D mumu started the normal girl rudeness and broke up with me. I was just wondering. Now I hrd shes no more going abroad and that she's pregnant for a guy outta wedlock. My own love no be mumu love o. I stand by the truth always.

I know a guy who did introduction with a lady 5 yrs older than him in a deeperlife church before going abroad. When he got there and saw young Nigerian female scholars, speaking sweetly and single, he blamed himself terribly. In fact the mother-in-law confessed she used juju on him, he was deported with knicker n tshirt cus he didn't want to come home and didn't call his naija wife again.

So shine ur eye!

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aydultimate7:
i am interested in you,kindly lets chat in private.

Replied ur DM

Its in d divorce court that it will be decided who takes the custody of the child.

Whether divorced or not, my advice for you is stop contending with d woman, evil or not, her understanding is limited, she's a woman, the mistake has been made already. Go to her family instead, let them grant u the freedom to come check on ur child from time to time. In d court if she wins d custody, then u shd solicit for having him spend holidays with you or taking him out on holidays in addition to checking on him till he's 18 when he can choose who to stay with

The essence is to keep ur relevance in ur boy's life till he's grown up. You're even lucky he's a boy, I congratulate you, there's only little d mother can do to keep him from you, you just need patience. A boy will always go back to an inspiring father when its time no matter how much she tries to brainwash her own child for her lack of understanding. She can't hide the truth forever, it will dawn on her soon.

She even needs to be careful in taking sole responsibility on d boy, if he runs away from home or becomes a rif-raf tomorrow, she'll have a lot of questions to answer, the foolish anger will clear off her eyes soon. That's why u shd formalize it by involving ur family with hers, let them know there's full awareness of the child in ur family too.

Imagine! While some women are lamenting that the man isn't taking responsibility on his child, she has a man who wants to take responsibility but for her own selfish reasons, she wants to deprive her child of paternal love. When expenses choke her up, she'll then remember your contact... So selfish. Also bear in mind that its who's concerned abt the child's happiness that will have things going smooth for him/her not who's considering what he/she stands to gain in the matter...that's a secret, keep it in mind..

I happen to be in d boys situation and I'm grown now so I understand fully well.

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Treasuredlove:
yes o. Plus the guy was really honest. I think she respects that. Unlike some people

On the contrary, I think she's mature and enlightened enough to admit and handle the truth. Unlike some people.

Too much expectation of pleasantries and sweet words breed necessary lies. Truth is not sweet, its bitter blunt and pissing and it takes maturity to admit it.

Some women in this case would rather say ..oh! U wanna use me n dump me!...

I will still love everything about her if she doesn't see the sex as she's doing me a favour. Otherwise, she's on her own. Let her retain the humility that she had from the beginning that attracted me to her in d first place.

Exes you mean?

If mothers and grandmamas could dance one corner, these ones no surprise me at all

MissRaine69 shd see this. You said there's nothing wrong in having an affair with a spouse/fiancee's friend just recently. I told you a woman wouldn't accept such and that they're naturally vengeful and paranoid. You sounded as though I was supporting the man.. Before you defend yourself again I think u shd honestly settle whatever issues you may have against men in d past and now. I'm not trying to ridicule you.. Actually I respect people's point of view and im not insensitive but I've been your follower for quite sometime.

Culheart:
Hi NL. I am actually not new to this platform but had to create another moniker to remain anonymous. I need to give love a chance hence my reason for this. I am a single mum of two boys. I need a man who will cherish me, love me n be responsible in totality.

Madam with the level weh u dey now na to manage the man weh God put ur love for him mind to a fair level. Na for heaven u go see totality when you die.

Culheart:
Could be a divorcee or widower. Please he should be one who is financially stable. I know what I went through as a mother, a father, breadwinner n all u can think of. I was totally worn out with financial burden n wouldn’t want to tow that path again. U must love me n my kids n I promise u won’t regret it. Enough said until I meet that responsible dude

If you can't put ur travails behind you, even you won't enjoy the fun u seek.. Thats how men cope with such burden as providers. And this ur presentation would scare any man except for the likes of dangote and otedola

Ayoswit:
Tanx dear

You're welcome.

I dreamt of you and I in the pool last night. When I woke up I was surprised.. I told my elder sister, and she confirmed she likes your disposition since she saw you. What do you think

LisaAnne:
lucky banky

Babe when I checked your dp and saw ur hair...
Mheen, I just dey think how bush for ur private part go full

MrPENIS:
Key word:FORCED

I thought only me noticed.

Your friend is right but insensitive. Reactions shdnt be drastic. When a guy toasts or asks you out next time, listen to him and respectfully tell him why u can't date him. Simple!

When you do dat, you'll be fine, he'll be fine too. You can even come back later when u change ur mind since u left on friendly grounds. But to find women even d married ones who are sensitive are rare. Why do u no think some guys are pressured to lie..its because d girl considers only her own view! Now she's feeling somehow for her reactions. Next time avoid finality in ur reactions and responses, you can't predict tomorrow.

Same with when girls want to brk up. You'll hear them say final words like...its over, I don't want to ever have anything to do with u, to hell with you...blabla. Then when their understanding opens, to come back will be a problem. Avoid final reactions..that's my point.

teresafaith:
Even after the fame, cece still hungly

Lol I concur