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I remember when I was a kid and my mom took my sister to one of those vision seers who then told my mom that my sister was pregnant with no medical test. My mom got angry yelling and screaming at my sister only to go to the doctor to find out that it was a lie.

I share this to say no one knows the future except God. If you claim Christian and still have someone predict your future for you then you are wasting your time. Now one has a perfect story in life because life has its ups and downs and to put your down on a girl who probably just loves you is unfair. If you were broke and she gladly stayed with you, isn’t that someone to have in your corner?
Life is constantly changing and if i were her I️ would threaten you too because you gladly smash but now want to remember what you bablawo pretending to be a pastor said

Because you are willingly poisoning yourself and others around you

Your friend should probably look for someone who has the level of education that he feels is up to per. Some might get angry with this community but remember that women will mostly marry someone who they feel is up to a certain level of financial success. So your buddy should do the same. Besides there are too many stories of a man helping to pay for a woman’s education and she later leaves.
If you want to empower her do it because you want something good for her future. If you want to marry her, get to know her and make sure she loves you and is willing to further her education before doing anything

You fell for a Ponzi scheme. Hope you have learn your lesson. Now forget that money and move on with your life. Nigeria’s economy is not good at the moment so why would you think anyone can double your money in less than 24hrs

Besides it 10k

So what did they take from you? How did they take it? What were you promised?

You just posted pics with no explanation. In some places you can be sued for defamation

First question is are you Nigerian? I ask because this story sounds like copy n paste. Second you know that woman will use you for a green card and leave when she is comfortable in America. 3rd why did you choose to take advantsge of those marry russian women sites while you could have gone to south America

Anyway i bet your kids want you to be happy so tell them soon and you should take it slow with Nataliya get to know her more before you propose. Dont forget california is a property state. If she divorce your butt she will get half

thebest1210:
Hello all,
Please I need your opinions on this. I applied for a New Zealand student visa. I have been contacted by my case officer. Was asked to send my phone number, so that we can discuss my visa application. She was supposed to call me yesterday, but I didn't see her call. Please, who has ever experienced this? What kind of discussion will it be? What kind of question(s) Will I be asked? I'm really anxious and nervous.
Funny enough, I've "glued" my phone to myself, ever since I got the mail.
Thanks for your opinions.

why not reach back through the medium in which she contacted you to ask about the missed call?

rolandoh:
I am a Nigerian..but currently in Togo now..how possible it is for me to come to cape Verde by land..and how should I come..your reply is required very neccessary for me.

cape Verde is an island which you can't reach by land. i don't know if there is a boat that goes there from the continental land but might be possible

Hey all my Houston people. i am relocating to Houston next week and i was wondering if anyone had a hook with the dealer auction in Houston connect because i need to buy a car. Hook me up please

grayht:
currently using my horn as a walkie talkie...

Why is she in contact with her ex would be my question

pretty16:
Thank you my brother. U have just said it. When you are willing and ready to work, I don't see why u should be homeless. An average hardworking Nigerian, who has had it tough in naija, cannot go to america and be homeless. Most Americans don't know the opportunities they have. Some lazy Black's don't even want to work. They rather live on welfare, foodstamps and all, cos they know their government takes care of them. Some would say why should they work when "Uncle sam"would take their money. So they rather sit and live off the money given to them from those that are working hard. And then start to envy Nigerian immigrants or other immigrants coming in, working hard, paying their taxes and living their American Dream.

you are right and wrong in this matter. Just because you had it rough in Nigeria doesn't mean the opportunities you think are boundless would be available to you. Most people who come here first off get a culture shock when you get indoctrinated into the system. Meaning you pay your way for everything and there is almost no hook ups and people go to jail if you are caught in corrupt situations especially if you are part of the "poor" class.
Most of the so called lazy blacks that you speak of are not at fault because there generations have been stripped of their dignity and their children don't know any better. Just like our parents instilled church and education in us, their parents were dealing with a system that was made to keep them down while hating themselves and being dependent on govt programs (for most anyway)
If you were born here, and your parents were the ones who came from Nigeria, ask them about what they went through and the sacrifices they had to make.

Anyone can be homeless I know because I have worked in the NYC shelter system and the stories you hear will have you shaking your head. Drugs violence child abuse lose of job lack of opportunity lack of family support laziness etc is all part of it and it surly can happen to anyone

KendrickAyomide:
bros i can never be homeless there.. i don't know about you, don't judge my life from your perspective.. every body life no be d same you hear

okay "bros" we never ever pray for any of our family to be homeless but I'm just saying to you that it can happen to anyone.

You come to America with plans and things can fall apart quickly. Your friend who told you to come suddenly stops taking your calls or kicks you out because you wore out your welcome. Or family members acting like you are still in Nigeria while you are busy finding yourself and they kick you out. Or you don't have savings while living from check to check and lose your job. Too many scenarios to mention. It will not be your portion when you get here no agbara olorun

KendrickAyomide:
i can never be homeless in america...With wetin i don see for this Zoo.. Those homeless people there cannot survive 24Hours in this harsh environment

why do you think you can't be homeless in America? Homelessness knows no body it doesn't care about race age or who you know. At least in Nigeria its summer for most of the year

Stevengerd:
You go hear am today, OP look at ur back

Throws up in mouth

oluwanbelee:
I can see men pee on the roadside , with their giant peniss in their hands.

how sexy they are ! I can never see this in my country, unless sometimes when I mistakenly enter male toilets or bathrooms in the swimming pool.

so , I guess how lucky to be born a black woman. she can see many peniss without any effort.

black men pee without minding whether a white person, even a female one , is around him. how easygoing and straightforward they are, I love black men's characters a lot for this.

but one thing is not that happy, because sometimes I could hardly tell apart their peniss from their fingers. They are all black , and undistinguishable. I just know there is something good exposed when a man is peeing .

See this was initially funny but then you turned it to a racist comment so i say Fnck you racist b1tch and keep your racism of this site. Drop dead

what makes her a slay queen?

are you all sure that picture with no make up is not a dude?

JavierEze:
Hello guys,

Very quick one. So this might sound complicated butI need your advise still. So here it goes.

Okay so I'm an igbo girl living in the UK...about a year ago, I started dating this guy who is a year younger than I am and also happens to be Yoruba. I love him very very much and don't want to lose him but here is the dilemma.

Firstly My parents don't want a Yoruba man at allll...
Secondly, he's 26 and I'm 27...For a guy that is really young to start discussing marriage. ..but for a girl everyone knows I'm already an old woman lol!

Ofcourse he might not be very ready to get married for at least another two years...which *sigh...doesn't just sit well with me. I feel we'd make a wonderful couple though and i genuinely want to be with him forever but with these many 'enemies' it has crossed any mind to end it before the battle begins .

I just need to hear other opinions or thoughts around this. Should I stay and fightor should I run. Cheers. Chi.

The issue here is your parents having closed minds. they are stuck in the past and need to be brought out of the hatred (maybe) and prejudice they have. marriage is not about marrying the man from your village it, is actually about marrying someone who loves you who will lift you up who will work hard and make money to take care of himself and his family. marriage is about fighting among each other and knowing when to call a truce. marriage is not involving family and friends in your personal issues. marriage is good times and bad times. marriage is losing interest sometimes but finding ways to reconnect. it goes on and on and on.

you said you love him but it also seems like if you weren't your age you would gladly take your parents advice and leave him. if that is the case you probably should end it and start over getting to meeting and know someone else who your parents would accept or you can look at the experiences you have shared with the man and see the potential he has and plan accordingly and enjoy your future together if thats where his mind is. Honestly i think your parents would cave if you went to them and say he is who you will marry (assuming he has declared and is ready to meet your people)

I wonder how they will feel if you brought home a white brit?

rebirthforgoody:
Some people especially ladies like waiting unclad on the road that doesn't mean they are rape.

which ladies?

redarrr:
i had this discussion with someone and discussion turned out to be an argument and she said if a girl walks on the road naked,does that justify a guy to rape her...please i want u guys to answer this

so i assume your answer was yes?

the answer is no besides the legal, moral and just plain decency matter, you don't know what she is carrying around. she could be sick mentally or physically sick. she could be naked to entrap you because her friends are waiting in the bushes to rob your ass. but seriously the answer is NO

Requiem18:
It just happened.... She's a neighbour so I always pop in unannounced.... Today was the wrong time to that it seems.....

moral of the story: knock before you enter a woman's room.
Go and apologize and make sure you don't spread the story to people who know her (be matured about it)

jayriginal:
He's still fat

he may be fat but i'm sure his cardiovascular health is way better than yours

Otus2121:
Please I want to travel to gambia by road how do go about it, anybody with useful information should please help

so you found this post and ignored everything above before you post?

[quote author=Pricelessangel0 post=59211123][/quote]come on no body goes into a black out trance except mentally ill people. If thats the case, he still needs to go see a mental health professional.

You seem to have spent your life depending on your looks now reality has set in and you have no skills to use in real life. Go back to school or take a menial job and climb your way up. Looks will get you but so far in life

Nothing spiritual about this. The "brother" you speak of is simply conditioned. Everyone has what turns them on and everyone derives sexual pleasure in different ways. For most men it is putting their peen in a v and some it's mastrubation. In your "brothers" case he is into breasts. Their is no issue in your freakyness being breasts but when you can't control yourself from touching people in the same room with you will be the issue. Forget deliverance or fasting go to a psychiatrist to start undoing the compulsive issue of touching people when not invited. He also will need to figure out how to not cum by just touching breast