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when you met her, we weren't there when you took her number we weren't there, when you talked dirty to her, we weren't there. Only you can decide if you like her or not. Only you know if you just want to hit and run or if you truly only see her as a friend. If you don't really like her like that, make sure you tell her now so as not to hurt her later.

So... you feel ashamed that she told everyone because of 300 naira if she is that impressed with 300 naira then you must be chasing women who are easily impressed.

Indomie the food source that's killing Nigerians quietly.

bank transfer
western union
give to someone going to deliver

it's not okay for either to hit. if a woman hits me i might retaliate depending on the force in which she hit me. or else she would be asked to leave or removed from the area.

on the other hand if a woman spits at me, i would lay her azz out with an upper cut

LOquence:
thanks for the info. I will pass your msg across. But if I may ask what is the easiest route?

marriage before you even set foot on us soil

LOquence:
A friend is relocating to USA on a visiting visa. Is it possible for him to work and extend his visa and possibly become an LPR in USA?
What are the most likely hurdles to jump in his quest for freedom and better life?

living as an illegal immigrant is not easy. There aren't any cops chasing you or looking to stop you and ask for your green card but working conditions would be hard. you wont get the jobs you want, you wont get the pay you deserve and the people who know you are illegal would probably try to take advantage of you because they know your status.

Tell your friend to also watch the news and see the political landscape of America. Illegal immigration is a hot topic which also fuels the fire of life being difficult for illegals.


The easiest route right now is to....

it's called being asexual

This post is a lie. first off in the US we say room mate not flat mate and the picture of the so called police, is of a woman sitting at a mall being creepy.

that looks gross. i bet her back must be killing her and under her boobs must smell so damn bad because she can't possibly wash it proper.

whom ever sets up the date pays. if you get to the date and figure out that the person is not who you want, make them pay half (Go dutch)

i almost made that mistake. Glad i didn't. The father of her kids was always around and he was also actively trying to get her back. Too much drama that was so wack.

Legend87:
Hello, Romancelanders. Please, there's an issue which i seek advises from you all...

There's this girl i met. I expressed myself to her. She told me she has a guy but can hook me up with her friend. I decided to meet her friend. And, along the line, things got well between myself and the friend. We became love birds.
Now, the lady who hooked us up openly told me that she's jealous & she wants me to break my relationship with her friend and date her.

Please, opinions.

Pls don't make the mistake to dump someone who loves you for a friend who is grimy enough to do such to her so called friend. That woman can not be trusted.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8O2e29Wbx1k


fun turn up

Rubbish. Things you don't take with you when you die and it would be out of style next year anyway

poster

you are funny as hell. you stopped seeing him and you are just friends but you are mad about who he claims or not claim as his GF. Lets stop the b.s. you are interested in him as more than just a friend and you need to let your feelings be known before it's too late assuming it isn't seeing as he has a lady who has the keys to his home already.

what was the real reason you didn't stay together? was it because he didn't have a job? By the way as ITbomb said why are you still single and belly aching about who he claims or not claim?

hottadiva:
1. Is he lying to me and why seeing as he has nothing to lose? (yes he likes someone else. you snooze you loose)
2. Do I bear this hurt and walk away from someone that has been my bestie and we've gone through so much together? ( yes just walk away)
3. What does true friendship/love require in such times? (true friendship will be to respect his relationships and not be a saboteur to his happiness)
4. How do I walk away without feeling like a part of me is dead? ( there is no way you wont feel that way. so just keep on walking)
Sorry about the long epistle but we really need candid advice.

Poster

you have point but in reality different things work for different people.
Living together before getting married doesn't guarantee anything nor does it mean anything. If you live together before marriage, you might find out about each others quarks and either work on it or decide it's not your cup of tea. Same thing happens when you get married.

The only guaranteed thing is death. So in our culture, it might be taboo to live together before marriage but in other cultures, it's not that much of a big deal.

to touch on some of your points

1. Why Are We Moving In Together? ( love, economics)
2. Do You Want Children? ( maybe but who says once you live together you must have children)
3. How Are We Handling the Financial Obligations? ( this should be discussed before hand)
4. Where can this possibly lead, marriage? Or breakup (Both)
5. What Happens If We Break Up? ( Break up is break up you either pack your bags or i pack mine or we sit and look at each other)
6. If he's so eager to have me, why don't he just put the ring on it ( Small pikin and naija way of thinking. Not all of these decisions depend on the man's intentions)
7. How long will your biological clock permit you to stay with him, before it becomes a do or die affair ( Adult relationships consist of communication. if you are worried about biological clock then you prob should get married before moving in)

Strahovski1:

I give you good money and show u what u missing as lesbian

This made me actually LOL

i don't usually respond to posts that are not originally posted by NL users but in this case, if i knew the girl i would tell her to not stop seeing the guy because she asked her sister before she started dating him. Besides, what if the guy had changed his mind about her? and doesn't want her?. why is your mom picking sides? im sorry to say but your mom and sister are showing gold digger tendencies.

that would have been my response

KingRex1:
Mhisbliss can u see wat I'm saw?

Its obvious you haven't reach jss1 yet because intro to science explains it all. Face your books little one

i guess its true what they say; beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. this poster is the beholder in this case

jstemmanex:
I cant remember how long I av bin hearin the bitter stories of some guys who sponsored their gf's (cum finance) education, family nd all sort only to end wit heartbreaks.

This stories usually av two sets of response. First, mostly guys suggestin he was gullible nd dat guys shldnt spend so much or take full responsibility of the welfare of who dey date. The second set is mostly by women nd dis group av d philosophy dat spending for her doesn't make u her God

What is puzzling now is how this table turn when a lady finances a relationship and it eventually crashes

still waiting for the question....

worry359:
Sorry but we have seen many reports of pregnant women being sent home by entry control.
You need to be able to show correspondence with a doctor and hospital.
You need to understand the costs and have sufficient funds available.
Also you should inform the visa office in Nigeria that you intend to use a visit visa for childbirth.
Note: It is possible that you could walk through immigration non stop, But if questioned you need to show paperwork.

Also please read back and post your questions in this thread.
https://www.nairaland.com/3022823/give-birth-usa-cost-procedures/349

yes there are people sent home all the time but a friend of mine just brought his wife over and she gave birth here. She was also scared about being sent home but they let her pass with no issues. yes he had to pay a pretty penny for the birth but, they are very happy. They went back home last month with their new baby. So what you have heard sometimes doesn't mean an absolute because someone else did it successfully.

truth is you never know what they are looking at or the mood the officers at the airport are in on the day you get there. i have never heard of anyone being turned back because they are pregnant but stranger things have happened

jokunle:
germany has free education system i guess.. but i really would love to go to dubai.. i don't want to fall into wrong or fake hands, you can help me out

you do know this is not the German or Dubai embassy right?

uyiekpen26:
Myself and this particular girl have been dating for quite sometime (let's say like 2yrs) now. This is someone I do everything for. I pay for the house she's currently living in, send her money for her upkeep, paid some of her fees in school and once in awhile take her on some of my trips within and outside the country.

I've noticed that most times when I call her in the evenings she's never with her phone and she doesn't even pick when I call. I thought maybe she's reading or something. So I don't usually bother to ask her. At some point I noticed some strange behaviors in her. This was someone who was never a club person and all of a sudden she started clubbing and smoking shisha. I confronted her and she said it was just once but I kept quiet. So I decided to do a little investigation without her notice. So I called her one day and a guy picked up and asked who I was. I ended the call and decided to pay her a surprise visit. As soon as I entered, I saw a guy on boxers and singlet sitting on her bed and as soon as she saw me she almost developed high BP. But I pretended like nothing was happening and told her I just came to check up on her.

I left her house that in anger. I went straight to the bank the following week I opened an account for her and closed the account. I stopped with immediate effect the visa processing I was doing in her name. Burnt all the clothes I bought for her from dubai recently and gave all the jewelries I bought for her too to one of my neighbors. I told the landlord to issue a quit notice to her in the house she currently stays. I'm supposed to be renewing the rent by October 17. I'm equally thinking of coming to remove everything in that same house by the weekend with some mobile policemen. As for the school fees she can forget about it. She will have to source for that herself. Just yesterday she and some of those her useless friends and family members have been disturbing my phone begging. Saying I'm taking things too far.

you did what's right. she should have the other man pay her way since he is F'ing her. Don't come here next week to tell us you changed your mind

EWAagoyin:
please bear with any blunders im nt myself currently thanks.
we started dating early this year and everything was going on well between us, well i planned making her my wife and i asked about her, she told me about many attempts of rape towards her because she lives in a house with many relative boys but told me non of the attempts was sucessful which she said she is still a virgin, fast forward yesterday i discovered she wasnt a virgin but was now telling that one of the guy succeded in penetrating her bt nt for long, i feel used and disgusted your advices is needed please.

Sounds like you are a F'ing hypocrite. You talked about marrying her because you thought she was a virgin but before you married her, you had sex with her to find out she wasn't a virgin . Now you don chop finish and want to run suddenly her virginity is an issue while you found out she wasn't a virgin by having sex with her. jeezzz awon omo keke re yi

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