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Wait wait wait they are cooking meth in Nigeria now? or is that crack they are making

bro you messed up. never ever ask anyone how much a gift they are giving you cost. it's as if you are insinuating that it is cheap. i would probably take offense like she did

No you are not being choosy. Your story basically said you were just friends who were cordial to each other and nothing more. You haven't dated or hung out together and he is suddenly proposing marriage?

If you like him, suggest that you both date first so you can really get to know each other and then decide on marriage later

Brownbarbie97:
That makes it all better

makes what better? Life is all about choices and the people on the outside who think they know best you judge you for the choices you make.

crismark:
How u take knw Chai!!! I fear u

i have an instagram account. any other questions?

AdeOluwaTomiwa:
The only phone that can be useful to your son is the DroiPad 7D,simply because its affordable and it can help him study..I think you should get it for him if you can,in the western world,his age mate already own a computer for assignments

a computer for assignments is different from a a phone with gaming apps. Also the kids in the west are developing attention deficits and developmental delays because of their constant use of phones and tablets. There was a recent news story that showed kids not paying attention to their parents or things going on around them as long as they have their eyes in the phone/tablet. Allow your kids to grown with an idea of reality as supposed to the virtual b.s

Bashspeaks:
Having a son made me realise parenting is not easy and made me appreciate my parents more. I'm not married but I've a 6years old son and his mother makes unneccessary demands every now and then, the latest she made that's getting on my nerves is asking me to get a phone for our son and she is really serious about it. I really don't understand what a boy of that age will do with a phone, it will only distract him and expose him to stuffs that's not meant for him

I tried making the mother see reasons with me but she insisted I must get one for him, what do you suggest I do?

DO NOT BUY A F'ING PHONE FOR A SIX YEAR OLD

who is he calling? if the mother says he needs apps to learn then look for a cheap tablet and load it with educational apps.

poster is lying this girl is one of the girl who acts porn with that kingtblock guy on instagram

question is where have you traveled to? and where did you stay?

oilcity:
Hello nairalanders, pls I need ur opinion on dis issue.
I am a university graduate in my late 20s. While I was in d university, I proposed nt to reason gf till my final year for personal reasons. But I kept lots of female friends. In fact, majority of my friends where females aldoe dey were d ones coming around me. So I proposed in my mind to select from among these my female friends wen am ready for a relationship.
Wen I was finally ready, two were in my mind. dey were my course mate and we all flowed well. So I went to my first option and told her abt my feelings for her. Lo and behold she said she was nt interested in any relationship with me aldoe I felt she would give me a chance . Given d fact dat we av been friends for abt 4 years, I felt she has known me well enough to knw if I'm d kind of guy she can date or nt. So I apologized to her backed off.
So I went to d other babe who is her friend and my friend. And dat one admitted dat she has been in love with me since den and gladly accepted. But when d former one heard dat we r nw dating she took offence. Wen I later approached her, she said, I f*** up. Dat even if she said she's nt interested, shouldn't I av pressed more?. Dat she said no nd I jost gave up nd went to d other babe. I didn't knw wat to say. She and dis my babe beef started immediately. Up till today dey no longer talk o. And wen dis my babe later heard dat I had asked d other babe out before her, she no Wan use ear hear say me and dat babe dey talk o. As a guy I still try to talk and flow with d other babe, but since my babe knew I had asked her out before, she doesn't want us to talk to each other again.
So pls pple, was my approach wrong? Mature minds pls.

i hate the way you type

anyway you are F'ed up for doing what you did. you ruined a friendship. on the other hand the first lady is crazy for expecting you to not move on after she rejected you. your fault here is the fact that you tried to date two women who are friends and now they aren't friends anymore because of your azz. Now after ruining their friendship you are still trying to chat with the first woman after your girl told you to stay away from her.

your future with these women is on a timer

Warthog or wild pig

who did Kane and Abel marry if God created only Adam and Eve

use whatsapp or IMO to make video calls for free

why protect their dignity? this one na the proper time to have them be naked for all to see.
All this magun stuff with no picture evidence tire me.

She is a student but her mom wants her to marry by force. Also a fake bible thumper is threatening her with bible verses.
The question i will ask is if the mom took a loan or money from the bible guy while promising to have her daughter marry him. Or why the F would her mom be try to get her to marry before completing her education

Gourdoinc:
dont be ignorant. maybe a snap shot will show it. it's a BBm voice note. that was received while using a blackberry who doesn't partition things properly. cos all my BBm voicenotes are stored and still played under the music folder. don't annoy me Mr man

i apologize apparently there are some phones that do that. My sincerest apologies

Wizkhalifa2:
it's not a lie bro, my whatsapp vns re on my music player. Something similar happened to me when I was in sch, but I was with my guys, so we just laughed over it.

what type of phone are you using

lies! how does your voicemail audio end up in your music playlist?

op you seem to be a pedo and your "ex" mom is a love-vendor who pimped out her daughter to you.

no one put any spell on you. you simply got happy because her mom blew some hot air up your arse.

Afonjashapmouth:
From your narration i can tell you have little or no experience with girls. she is ready to have sex with you and to cover up her lies about the virginity poo she has been feeding you, she has to come up with a nice pile up story. tell her to narrate the story again and figure out addition and subtractions. her father sent her to a 22 yrs old boy unknown to her or known?? and the boy lacks the regard for the father to rape her or they both planed the rape?? d story is lame as far as i am concerned. No matter how hard hearted your father is, you being raped by a person he sent you to would not be taken likely by him cos you didn't just go out on your own account. Guy forget nursing all this snakes forming miss innocent hardly is any of them innocent, its the new world.

wow your statement could be true but its opinions like this that makes rapist in Nigeria get away with it. A young woman comes up to you to say she was raped and your initial reaction is she is ready to have sex you think she made up the story to cover up the fact that she isn't a virgin? Did the OP tell you he wanted to have sex with her? or that they have something going?

Not everyone who says rape is lying to cover up the fact that they aren't virgins

luckygirl93:
I have been in a relationship for 5months now and I'm stucked and need a way out.
Here comes the issue. My parents are intertribal and both want me to get married to a yoruba guy saying if u marry outside yoruba land be sure we won't attend. blah blah blah. maybe cos of my dad being yoruba I don't really know.
Recently I met my current guy he's from Akwaibom, I told my mum and siblings about it yesterday and they rejected saying God forbid to it not to talk of what my dad will say when he gets to hear this.
I love this guy and he loves me too. I av told him about my parents choice even b4 we started dating and his response was " my dear when we get to that bridge we will cross it by God's grace and all will be story".
I really don't know what to do. should I quit now that the relationship is still fresh?
I really need your advice Nairalanders.

5 months. that is all

who cares?

DeGuyNxtDoor:

[b]I asked her if she's told her dad and she said no simply because she's scared of him, " should parents make their children feel uncomfortable around them? Shouldn't it be the other way round?" I asked her if she struggled or screamed and she said the guy overpowered her and moreover there wasn't anyone in the compound then.

Now she's been crying over this and saying she doesn't know if he came inside her or not, or if she's contracted a disease or something, and that she never dreamt of losing her virginity in such manner. She said she trusts me and that's the reason why she told me so I can help her, but as her father doesn't know about this do I have anything to do in this

poster you are not her father or even a relative. yes she confided in you but your role here is to direct her to her father. Let him handle the situation or if you have boys, get them and go whoop that rapist's azz.

Kesterina:
Pls i need help. I followed post on this forum and it went a long way in my uk spouse visa application. I just pick up my passport today from the ikeja vac office. To my surprise my passport was not stamped and there was no letter attached indicating my application was refused. I have two question
1. Does this mean my application was refused?
2. How do i go about this. What do i do to find iut ny actual status. Pls i need help!

Bro you were right there why didn't you ask?

i just saw this video on youtube where a Nigerian posted about the lack of employment in Dubai. those looking to go hustle in Dubai maybe this might be a public service announcement


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s2BAn91oOcI

lastmessenger:
Dont try marrying him without your parents approval. Two wrongs can never make a right. My advice to you is to pray and ask God to touch your mum so that she can change her mind.

Are you serious? what two wrongs are you talking about exactly and praying to God to touch her heart Nigerians smh

poster follow your heart. your mom is discriminating against your man because he has a disability. she should be happy that you are happy and the man works hard and treats you right. Ask her is she would want you to get married if God forbid you get in an accident and develop a limp when you walk.

Your mom in her benevolent ignorance probably thinks limping will pass on to the children or some witch craft bullsh1t like that

your experience?

Happy married life to them

for a second i thought the woman was tonto dike

poster

not being rude but there are tons of topics regarding your question. please read through the topics to get an answer and also ask questions in said topics.