Politics › Re: Gambari The Slap Next Time: Femi Adesina Article Against Ibrahim Gambari In 2008 by Omeleyi: 11:36am On May 17, 2020 |
Yahooba man!! over to u. |
Sports › Re: Emmanuel Okocha: I Cried As Okocha Dribbled Khan, 6 Defenders In Germany by Omeleyi: 10:59am On May 16, 2020 |
Okocha my niggie |
Phones › Re: ***** Infinix Discussion Thread ***** by Omeleyi: 10:59pm On May 15, 2020 |
Hi everyone, my infinix hot 6 pro had charging issue. After getting it fixed, I noticed the radio app stopped working. No more listening to my favourite FM station on my phone.. Please what could be the problem?? |
Health › Re: My Experience As A Covid 19 Survivor. by Omeleyi: 9:28pm On May 15, 2020 |
OK thank God for ur life but I will take Dokpesi's ( AIT owner) story to the bank... And he asked " what's the difference between Malaria and covid 19?"... I'm also curious |
Celebrities › Re: Am So Pained, My Life Is Shattered -actress Destiny Etiko Cries Over Dad's Death by Omeleyi: 5:54pm On May 15, 2020 |
Take heart baby. God loves him more |
Celebrities › Re: 'I Just Gave Chioma The Cucumber In The Shower' – Davido Brags by Omeleyi: 5:47pm On May 15, 2020 |
Eating pomo wey u never pay for and announcing it to the world. Guy, u need to check ursef |
Politics › Re: Femi Adesina: Obasanjo Would Have Insulted Those Demanding Presidential Address by Omeleyi: 4:55pm On May 15, 2020 |
Omooba77: The Special Adviser to the President on Media and Publicity, Femi Adesina, has faulted those demanding that the President, Maj.Gen Muhammadu Buhari (retd.), addresses Nigerians on the COVID-19 pandemic.
Adesina said this in an article titled, ‘If you can’t take blows brother, don’t throw blows’, which was posted on his Facebook page.
He said if it were former President Olusegun Obasanjo that was still in power, he would have insulted those calling on him to address them.
Adesina was reacting to the criticisms he received from a large section of Nigerians over his outing during a programme on 95.1 Nigeria Info FM Abuja.
Many Nigerians slammed Adesina for saying the fact that they voted for Buhari didn’t give them the right to order him around.
Source: https://www.femiadesina.com/if-you-cant-take-blows-brother-dont-throw-blows/ Continue your ass licking brother, at least e dey put food for your table. Just continue effin moro.n |
Foreign Affairs › Re: China Replies Trump Over Threat To Cut Off Ties by Omeleyi: 4:36pm On May 15, 2020 |
[s] Ruggedniggaone: Donald fraud the ipob Lord and Savior is a madman and if care is not taken he will cause ww3 with his unguarded vituperation [/s] Retard |
Education › Re: E-learning: Atlantic Hall Imposes N175,000 Monthly Fee For Online Learning by Omeleyi: 9:25am On May 15, 2020 |
Focusmind: My kids school did same. Infact they said that third term have started with their online teaching and would allow just 10% discount on the normal school fees. Mind you, as a parents, you prepare your kids for the learning, burn my data for hours, sometimes stay with them during the online tutorial and follow up with their assignments and mark them.
you are practically doing everything. When we had the online PTA, I had to pour out my mind with anger. Annoyingly, most parents seemed scared to challenge the owner of the school. I was dumbfounded. This Nigerian mentality of showing I am richer or I am better than the next person could be childish sometimes.
Some parents were even praising the school owner and teachers for coming up with the online teaching and accepted the fee structure. I was like what a Bleep!. I told them, 60% discount from the normal fee or nothing.
The owner later called me and accepted my 60% request but said I shouldn't inform other parents as they seemed ok with the fee.
I told myself, wetin be my own, call who? If they willingly accepted your proposal, fine and good with them. I thank him for accepting my 60% and I kukuma maintained myself without discussing anything with other parents. If you are not good with the offer, go and negotiate your own discount base on your peculiar circumstances but some would be forming Dangote at PTA meeting.
I work for myself and business is down for me. I don't hide anything. I will tell the truth, things are tough for me. There is no shame. Bro you did well! if possible you for give that principal e-slap sef... One cold Heineken plus nkwobi for you. You be real gee |
Education › Re: E-learning: Atlantic Hall Imposes N175,000 Monthly Fee For Online Learning by Omeleyi: 9:21am On May 15, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Okpanam Killings: Ohanaeze Moves Against Reprisal Attacks On Igbos In North by Omeleyi: 9:04am On May 15, 2020 |
[[s]quote author=Daddysidhan post=89565387]The Igbos are cowards[/quote[/s] Reason am well |
Travel › Re: The Interchange Julius Beger Is Constructing In Obosi, Anambra (Photos) by Omeleyi: 7:02pm On May 14, 2020 |
[[s]quote author=Kosoco post=89544270]Look at the way you laced your self with sentiment.... as I’m talking to you work is on going at Aba PH road... and others... second niger bridge is ongoing.... even if it’s half and half how many administrations have pour sand for you in the East. I’m so ashamed of what you just blabed now. Pius was an SGF that have all the Powers to attract meaningful project yet he did nothing. Mike Onolememen is a Minister Of works what did he do for you... Big bros just hide your face. Stop wallowing in ignorance.......... Enthnicity have eaten deep that’s why you can’t even perceive developments when one is coming... The Bridge one give in ur state is building have lasted for 5years yet not even nearing conclusion. What have beclouded your sense of reasoning. I’m so bittered with your post.[/quote][/s] |
Travel › Re: The Interchange Julius Beger Is Constructing In Obosi, Anambra (Photos) by Omeleyi: 6:29pm On May 14, 2020 |
[quote author= post=89532279]The interchange is being conducted by Julius Beger it's along Onitsha/Owerri road Obosi very close to Electrical market Obosi, the interchange will lead to Second Niger bridge.[/quote]Nonsense construction... Any interchange that doesn't burst out of oraifite or ozubulu is a rubbish interchange. If it is bursting out of obosi then what is the aim of constructing a second Niger bridge when obosi is almost like onitsha in terms of proximity. The aim of constructing a second Niger bridge my guy is defeated abeg  |
Family › Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Omeleyi: 1:49pm On May 14, 2020 |
tunmiluabi: My story is quite long, please run through with patience.
I married my wife about 11 years ago. By the way I am 46 years old. Before I married my wife, I was not doing well neither was my wife. She was working with a multinational company, earning an equivalent of N40,000. I had a small graphic design business after trying many times to find a good job. I looked for jobs and contracts without any respite. But At this this time, my wife's support was good and I did appreciate every bit of it. At lest we survived on the low...
As time went on, I got a job in one international corporate training company as a Statistics and Business Analysis Instructor, was earning about 90,000 naira. During the times before I got my job, we had accumulated debt and my new job provided us an opportunity to pay them up.
We decided we were going to save part of her salary every month for servicing the debt and save the rest for a rainy day. I was supposed to pay the rent and all other domestic bills, light, kids school fees etc.. Some time she helped with food/groceries. After sometime, she advised we move to a bigger apartment. We still had a daughter by then. I obliged and we did.
To cut the story short, after four years of working, the company folded up because of government policies and we were all laid off. This meant we had to prepare for the hard life ahead. It was hectic and devastating. Me being me, I took it with all sense of grace and hope things will be fine. But the more I thought about this the worse things got. One day out of curiosity I asked my wife if it would be nice to have another child and she advised it was not the best time. I understood and agreed. I then advised my wife if we could start a business and with some savings we had, maybe I could use it to enhance my former business, maybe things might be better this time. She did not show any interest. This time I discovered changes in my wife.
One day she asked me if she could use part of them money to do a course, honestly I was shocked but asked why she did not oblige to my own request. She said "its my money I can use it for whatever I want". My wife however did the course.
To cut the story short, 3 years down the line, my wife stopped having sex with me and this continued for a long time. I became like "shit in her eyes". I lost a bit of confidence though. she would wake me with insults and barrage of dirty words. Because of our child, I agreed to stay a home and try to work online and seek clients and jobs from old client. It was not bad but not promising.
Fortunately for us, my wife got a promotion and her salary was increased to about 170,000. This actually brought out the worst in my wife. Her calmness disappeared and all decorum was buried. We would quarrel everyday and not talk for weeks. She became really mean and controlled everything at home. Please note, she is not a bad woman but can't explain the reasons up till date. I was with no option but to query her sincerity as a wife and that continued for a long time. Our sex life became zero, she would tell me having sex would make her pregnant and was not ready for a second child. Her stories kept on changing and became even worse, rather than coming home she would pass by her mom and be there till late in the night before coming home.
After about 3 years of trying to get something to do, I finally got a place on the island sometime in February 2018, where I would be paid a stipend of 50,000. In addition, I would use my free time to design, print and sell business cards to small companies. The overall income was small but enough for some immediate obligations at home. But to be fair, that was the best I could get since I have not had money in a long time. Unfortunately my wages were not consistent due to challenges the company was facing. But I used the Business card printing to augment wherever possible.
Later in 2018 around September, I discovered that my wife had been having an illicit engagement. She had a male fried and I finally got to know about it and confronted her. She did not deny it, she begged and I forgave her. Anyway, I had made up my mind to forgive because of the kid and I never told anyone till date. Moreover, since we were not making love that was of course enough reason for the drastic measure, I told myself. To be sincere I had lost feeling for my wife and sex was difficult. We finally started having sex but I had little to offer her. I would pretend and even have to watch Indecency to be able to have sex with her. I was dead inside. At least my wife was still with me. That was my solace. I guess trust was broken. She however continued with her escapades. The quarrels increased and got worse. There and then name calling became our breakfast and dinner. She advised that since I would never look at her the same and bringing little or nothing to the table that I was free to go. The quarrels went on for quite some time, my wife will go very violent on me some of the times. I am marshal artist with black belt and I have great restraint - for me, fighting and going violent on her was never on the table. One day I thought there was a need to move out and I did indicated to her that I was not comfortable living with her anymore.. That wherever I am, I will see how I can take care of the kids.
She did not care and things became difficult for me. I felt maybe I could stay for sometime, It might be a difficult condition but still not impossible. This became my Achilles heels. There and then I knew my relationship had broken and irreparable. I accepted there was nothing I could, but to be patient and tried to convince myself about our situations and believed our situation was bad, but God’s willing we would overcome. The fight even got worse and became very violent and physical, I would normally just take the beating or hold her hands to avoid any injuries.
The quarrels was beginning to be in the glare of my Kids and since it was not abating, there was little I could do to change the situation. I finally made up my mind on the 19th of May 2019 to move out, but actually moved out on the 30th of May, 2019. Before then on the 26th of May, 2019, I discovered my wife was again engaging in the illicit affair. She would claim she was going to church only to be found at a different location. Honestly I can’t blame her, I blame myself and the situation that caused the demise of our once cherished marriage. At this point in time I realised I had lost and had no fight in me anymore. My kids are still very young. Everyday quarrels, lack of sincere engagement, denials upon denials and her fear of facing her “DEMON” with little chance of her understanding the consequence of her actions - I was left with no choice but to stop FIGHTING. I had no fight left in me. The ultimate decision was to leave. I did not inform her parent about the issue because I had indicated to her I did not want them to look at her differently.
God so good, I got a 500,000 Naira job through a friend in an oil company with a 3bedroon in Lekki fully paid up for 3years by the company. By the way, I am Data Analyst but never practiced for a long time. I studied Computer engineering but for a long time grace did not smile on me. I take care of my kid and I really don't hate her and I am at peace with everything. She still has her job and doing well.
Please note that she did not tell me to leave, I left on my own volition. I could not share the same bed with my wife anymore she apparently could not muster enough strength to stop all iniquities for a conversation that will help see things through. Rather she is turning to blame it on me. We have however resolved to part on a friendly note for the sake of our child.
My reason for posting this is because most us sit behind the desk and computers and do not understood the demons everyone is battling. On a bad day, the best husbands are MONSTER, while the best wives are DEVILS. When we make judgment as males or female. We should not forget about our female child/children, same goes for the male child. I don't know what my wife tells people about what happened but I really don't care and I have made up my mind never to defend myself.
Thanks for reading.
Tunmi Strong man, that's all I have to say |
Celebrities › Re: Emoney's Real Source Of Wealth Exposed by Omeleyi: 3:35am On May 14, 2020 |
Authoreety: Born on the 18th of February, 1981, Chief Dr. Emeka Okonkwo is a Nigerian born multimillionaire and entertainment guru.
His record label, the 5-star music was home to a good number of artists including Skibi, Harrysong, Xbusta and Kcee, his elder brother.
There has also been a lot of rumours regarding the sources of his wealth, as many associate him Hushpuppi, Mompha, BNaira and other Instagram multimillionaires.
Well, the Anambra born entertainment entrepreneur is in a different ball game, as he runs a good number of businesses.
First, Emoney is the Chief Executive Officer of the Emy Cargo & Shipping Nigerian Limited. Their services include Importing, Exporting, Warehousing, Sales of Exotic Vehicles, Clearing & Forwarding, Haulage, Logistics and Sea Freight.
He also runs one of the biggest record labels in the country, and that alone is a multi-million Naira business.
Emoney launched a tomato paste business in 2017, and has a good number of other businesses!
Well, thanks a lot for reading along. You have known the true sources of EMoney's wealth now.
Here you now have it nairalanders, especially those that think he made his money through dubious means...
E-money's Real Source Of Wealth Exposed https://news-af.feednews.com/news/detail/fe9375f1c49d1696de8a30fd0f6393a3?client=news E-money onye nku |
Romance › Re: How Responsible Wives Should Dress In And Around The House by Omeleyi: 4:37pm On May 13, 2020 |
doggedfighter: And what will keep the woman happy 24/7? Hot n steamy sex cum |
Romance › Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Omeleyi: 4:30pm On May 13, 2020 |
Scaredd: I'm dating a deeper life girl, and we haven't had sex since I started dating her last year September.
It's a long distance relationship though, when I visit her and make any move for sex, she ends up saying she's doesn't want to have sex. But she can kiss for Africa which I don't fancy that much.
In one occasion, I took her to the guest room in a hotel, we kissed, she was turned on and started begging me to hold her nipples. I was like "finally!".
I told her oya let's get a room, but to my greatest surprise, she said No. That she doesn't want to have sex now, that it's been long she had sex and if she goes to the room with me she won't be able to resist sex.
Anyway, I let her be because sex should be mutual afterall. I love her and she's not the "give me money" type, rather, I send her monthly stipend at my will. Moreover, sex is not why I travel all the way to see her or still dating her.
I just hope am not being played like someone pointed out in the other thread. Man up guy |
Romance › Re: I Broke Up With My Girlfriend Because I Want To Cut Down Expenses by Omeleyi: 4:25pm On May 13, 2020 |
Localemperor: Its is no longer news that I have been declared insolvent. After all effort to maintain my liquidity level to no avail I decide to let her go.
Just as organization retrenched worker during periods of economic downturn in order to cut cost of operations, I sent her a massage expressing my regret and reasons.
I feed her I pay money for hair dressing I buy clothes I take her out every weekend I buy shoes I do everything thinkable
She works and earns but I still wonder why she would want me to do everything for her. I compiled my income statement and statement of financial position for the first quarter and found out that expenditures have exceeded income and debt is on the rise.
So I wholeheartedly declared my self insolvent yesterday and decided to cut cost in order to protect my goodwill. [color=#006600][/color] Ororo dey your head |
Sports › Re: Oguchi Onyewu Celebrates His 38th Birthday Today by Omeleyi: 2:21pm On May 13, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: The Craziest Thing Your Partner Has Ever Asked You To Do? by Omeleyi: 8:32pm On May 08, 2020 |
Toto no go kee una o  |
Romance › Re: My Fiancée Deletes Chat On Facebook After Conversation by Omeleyi: 3:05pm On May 08, 2020 |
Guy run � � � run for ur dear life. Na dem !!! |
Health › Re: One COVID-19 Patient Escapes From Taraba Isolation Centre by Omeleyi: 7:32pm On May 02, 2020 |
E get y |
Politics › Re: Curfew May Be Imposed On Lagos State Says Sanwo-Olu by Omeleyi: 7:31pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
Shut am down asap |
Politics › Re: Buhari Self-isolates After Showing Signs Of COVID-19 Despite Testing Negative. by Omeleyi: 5:08am On Mar 25, 2020 |
We are in a very dangerous time. Only God can cage this monstrous virus. |
Romance › Re: Lil Richie Professes Love For Imade Adeleke, Davido’s Daughter On Val Day by Omeleyi: 5:25pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
OK nah |
Celebrities › Re: 6 Year Old Upcoming Singer Professes Love For Davido’s Daughter, "Imade" (photos by Omeleyi: 4:09pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
lil guy man wan chop inside 30 billi billi  |
Celebrities › Re: Bbnaija's Mercy, Venita And Diane Thrill Fans With Sexy Red Outfits Ahead Of Val by Omeleyi: 4:04pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
Venita gather for chest o  |
Sports › Re: John Obi Mikel Racially Abused In Trabzonspor Vs Fernabache Football Match by Omeleyi: 9:06pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
See Turks with red skin and black hair dey into racism too. Abegi!!! No mind dem, they ain't real yt. They should first figure that out |
Celebrities › Re: See The Car Kcee & Emoney Gifted Actor Junior Pope (photos) by Omeleyi: 10:34pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Congrats Junior Pope |
Food › Re: Post Your Christmas Food Pictures Here by Omeleyi: 2:40pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
My own food
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Politics › Re: Ebere Ihedioha Gifts A Widow A 2-Bedroom House (Photos) by Omeleyi: 5:49pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Nice one |
Politics › Re: Gunmen Attack Goodluck Jonathan’s Home In Otuoke, Kill 1 Soldier, Injure Others by Omeleyi: 9:29am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Inside life |