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Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Omeleyi: 4:30pm On May 13, 2020
Scaredd:
I'm dating a deeper life girl, and we haven't had sex since I started dating her last year September.

It's a long distance relationship though, when I visit her and make any move for sex, she ends up saying she's doesn't want to have sex. But she can kiss for Africa which I don't fancy that much.

In one occasion, I took her to the guest room in a hotel, we kissed, she was turned on and started begging me to hold her nipples. I was like "finally!".

I told her oya let's get a room, but to my greatest surprise, she said No. That she doesn't want to have sex now, that it's been long she had sex and if she goes to the room with me she won't be able to resist sex.

Anyway, I let her be because sex should be mutual afterall. I love her and she's not the "give me money" type, rather, I send her monthly stipend at my will. Moreover, sex is not why I travel all the way to see her or still dating her.

I just hope am not being played like someone pointed out in the other thread.

Man up guy
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Lightangel65: 4:39pm On May 13, 2020
Smkinhawt:


U re not being played. She is only being cautious. Girls like her might not be able to control their sexual urges once they start. She is celibate and that is an achievement for her. Since u both are in a long relationship, once u activate her sex life, she won't be able to stop and u won't be there to keep satisfying her. Be wise.

Don't activate what u won't be available to maintain or else another man will take her from u. I do not encourage sex before marriage. Discuss ur values with her.

Since she is a good kisser, she should be good on bed so there is no point saying u want to test if u both are sexually compatible before marriage. Except u are not heading for marriage with he and u just wanna chop and clean mouth.

Cannot control sexual urges, lol
She's banging someone else.
Any girl that gets turned on and says no sex is recieving it elsewhere.
She just says no cause you both agreed no sex, I can bet she's fucki*g someone else
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Nobody: 4:39pm On May 13, 2020
Netcry0:
7months �. Bro you try if me date the the very 1to 2weeks na knacking if she no gree na to cut her off

Na so I see am, but nah nice girl sha. That's the main reason I'm sticking around.
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Nobody: 4:40pm On May 13, 2020
Helios85447:
oboy that babe dey collect better Gbola and keeping you as plan B after she has exploits all the style in porn .hub ..berra wise up too and be knacking another babe make una dey jonz una self...make e no be like say she dey cheat u

This one strong, you got a point
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by GeneralPula: 4:41pm On May 13, 2020
No, you’re being paused. sad
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Nobody: 4:42pm On May 13, 2020
Lightangel65:


Cannot control sexual urges, lol
She's banging someone else.
Any girl that gets turned on and says no sex is recieving it elsewhere.
She just says no cause you both agreed no sex, I can bet she's fucki*g someone else

We never agreed no sex, I'm monitoring her though. It's very unwise to trust girls of these days.

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Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by TrueHeart365(m): 4:44pm On May 13, 2020
"She's not the gimme money type, but you send monthly stipend to her".

Without even knacking? Chai... This babe must have one guy digging that well steady grin

News flash bro.. You're playing yourself
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Nobody: 4:47pm On May 13, 2020
Eniolakiite:
That first statement is golden smiley


it's nonsense lipsrsealed

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Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Raphkriz(m): 4:47pm On May 13, 2020
That is u don get assistant
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Lightangel65: 4:49pm On May 13, 2020
Scaredd:


We never agreed no sex, I'm monitoring her though. It's very unwise to trust girls of these days.

I promise you she's banging someone and keeping you at a side bf.

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Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Nobody: 5:02pm On May 13, 2020
TrueHeart365:


"She's not the gimme money type, but you send monthly stipend to her".

Without even knacking? Chai... This babe must have one guy digging that well steady grin

News flash bro.. You're playing yourself

I bet not, I find out that she is, I walk away
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Nobody: 5:04pm On May 13, 2020
Lightangel65:


I promise you she's banging someone and keeping you at a side bf.

With women anything is possible, I surely will find out. I'm relocating to the same state she resides by year end.
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Stephenmoka4(m): 5:11pm On May 13, 2020
Everyone with their preference in a relationship, if you can't do without it then you'll have to do the necessary thing.
Some people can't be in a relationship where you won't call them daily, some are the type that one week is too long to take 'em out. There you have it, I don't think she wants to get laid, it's against her religion, can you respect that without putting pressure on her. smiley

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Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Nobody: 5:18pm On May 13, 2020
Stephenmoka4:
Everyone with their preference in a relationship, if you can't do without it then you'll have to do the necessary thing.
Some people can't be in a relationship where you won't call them daily, some are the type that one week is too long to take 'em out. There you have it, I don't think she wants to get laid, it's against her religion, can you respect that without putting pressure on her. smiley

Like I said earlier, I let her have her way. Sex should be mutual. My only concern is that I hope am not being played.
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Stephenmoka4(m): 5:24pm On May 13, 2020
Scaredd:


Like I said earlier, I let her have her way. Sex should be mutual. My only concern is that I hope am not being played.
I like the part that state mutualism. Honestly I don't know how people enjoy any fun activities after putting pressure on someone to do it with them, e.g video gaming or watching movies etc. Don't worry you're not been played, she's keeping her guards up.
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by UniqueQueen12(f): 5:33pm On May 13, 2020
Bad advise everywhere.
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Liposure: 5:43pm On May 13, 2020
Marry her then
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Boydehot: 5:58pm On May 13, 2020
Scaredd:
I'm dating a deeper life girl, and we haven't had sex since I started dating her last year September.

It's a long distance relationship though, when I visit her and make any move for sex, she ends up saying she's doesn't want to have sex. But she can kiss for Africa which I don't fancy that much.

In one occasion, I took her to the guest room in a hotel, we kissed, she was turned on and started begging me to hold her nipples. I was like "finally!".

I told her oya let's get a room, but to my greatest surprise, she said No. That she doesn't want to have sex now, that it's been long she had sex and if she goes to the room with me she won't be able to resist sex.

Anyway, I let her be because sex should be mutual afterall. I love her and she's not the "give me money" type, rather, I send her monthly stipend at my will. Moreover, sex is not why I travel all the way to see her or still dating her.

I just hope am not being played like someone pointed out in the other thread.

Oga, women are so mean and heartless. Let it not be surprise to you that one day she will be the one to tell how she was reap by a guy and she lost her virginity. While you are here waiting for the day she will willing allow you to sex with her.
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by VickyRotex(f): 6:34pm On May 13, 2020
Scaredd:

Well, of all the girls I've dated, this one is different. She wowed me on my birthday. Got me gifts that surprised me. She calls me often, if I don't call, she'll call.

Everything is fine, I'm only skeptical why a [s]hole that has been drilled refuse to re-drilled.[/s] She said I'm her second love, first love traveled abroad and never called.

Probably, she's being careful thinking maybe it's only sex that he wants.

Respect her decision. If you can't, walk away. That she had s3x before doesn't mean she cant decide to stay celibate until marriage. Like you said, it should be mutual, so wait till you're both ready, which should be after marriage.

"Marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled". I know some people are likely to quote me and say otherwise, but that doesn't stop me from saying what I believe to be true.

Don't let some silly advises on this thread make you start tailing her for no reason.

Btw, women are not borehole. You should be defending your girl if someone dares to call her that but there you are saying the same. You guys really need to learn how to talk and choose/use your words wisely.

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Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Nobody: 7:15pm On May 13, 2020
Liposure:
Marry her then

She's in her final year, once she's done and keeps a clean sheet, I'll engage her. That's if covid agree.
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Okoroawusa: 7:48pm On May 13, 2020
She has had sex before but she is not having it again....

She kissed you passionately and was turned on and then told you no sex...

I don't understand...

Are you guys actually dating? Because if u r dating n for 7 months you have no direction what type of relationship n where the relationship is going then you both are taking each other for a ride...

7 months n there is no sex,no concrete commitments,no laid down rules... just testing the waters?
In my opinion 7 months are too long for testing the waters... what exactly are you n her doing?
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Nobody: 8:32pm On May 13, 2020
Okoroawusa:
She has had sex before but she is not having it again....

She kissed you passionately and was turned on and then told you no sex...

I don't understand...

Are you guys actually dating? Because if u r dating n for 7 months you have no direction what type of relationship n where the relationship is going then you both are taking each other for a ride...

7 months n there is no sex,no concrete commitments,no laid down rules... just testing the waters?
In my opinion 7 months are too long for testing the waters... what exactly are you n her doing?

I'm not understanding as well which is why I needed to hear some opinions.
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by duduade: 9:06pm On May 13, 2020
Have you treated yourself and your tongue... Since April 14th.. Today is May 13th


You that your deeper life girlfriend is magaing...


Nonsense
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by duduade: 9:09pm On May 13, 2020
Okoroawusa:
She has had sex before but she is not having it again....

She kissed you passionately and was turned on and then told you no sex...

I don't understand...

Are you guys actually dating? Because if u r dating n for 7 months you have no direction what type of relationship n where the relationship is going then you both are taking each other for a ride...

7 months n there is no sex,no concrete commitments,no laid down rules... just testing the waters?
In my opinion 7 months are too long for testing the waters... what exactly are you n her doing?


Please don't mind the clout chaser o

Check his previous thread


He had sex with four different women in November last year.. Opened a thread on April 14th this year complaining about some funny symptoms

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Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Steve0979(m): 9:14pm On May 13, 2020
I have one also,for 6 yrs na only kis n hug

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Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Nobody: 9:28pm On May 13, 2020
duduade:
Have you treated yourself and your tongue... Since April 14th.. Today is May 13th


You that your deeper life girlfriend is magaing...


Nonsense

Who be you? Where you from? Who you? E be like say your head dey hot you, abi nah hunger... Mcheeww.

If you must know, the rumbling stomach was due to too much calcium as a result of everyday liquid liquid milk. As for the white tongue, it just stopped.

After my last year messing with woman, I want to be responsible now for once in my life.

Now go get a life idiat
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Nobody: 9:31pm On May 13, 2020
Steve0979:
I have one also,for 6 yrs na only kis n hug

This one strong o!
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by frozen70(f): 10:11pm On May 13, 2020
Scaredd:
I'm dating a deeper life girl, and we haven't had sex since I started dating her last year September.

It's a long distance relationship though, when I visit her and make any move for sex, she ends up saying she's doesn't want to have sex. But she can kiss for Africa which I don't fancy that much.

In one occasion, I took her to the guest room in a hotel, we kissed, she was turned on and started begging me to hold her nipples. I was like "finally!".

I told her oya let's get a room, but to my greatest surprise, she said No. That she doesn't want to have sex now, that it's been long she had sex and if she goes to the room with me she won't be able to resist sex.

Anyway, I let her be because sex should be mutual afterall. I love her and she's not the "give me money" type, rather, I send her monthly stipend at my will. Moreover, sex is not why I travel all the way to see her or still dating her.

I just hope am not being played like someone pointed out in the other thread.

It depends on how long you want to remain with her like that
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by fuwaski(m): 10:46pm On May 13, 2020
Wetin u wan hear now wey u never think.
If she come give u sex, u go still come Nairaland come ask we ur ancestors WHY DEEPER LIFE GIRLS TOO DEY GIVE. Spit on kiss and tell type of men

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Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by Zombiekiller010: 11:05pm On May 13, 2020
No sex,no Gift
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by duduade: 11:52pm On May 13, 2020
Scaredd:


Who be you? Where you from? Who you? E be like say your head dey hot you, abi nah hunger... Mcheeww.

If you must know, the rumbling stomach was due to too much calcium as a result of everyday liquid liquid milk. As for the white tongue, it just stopped.

After my last year messing with woman, I want to be responsible now for once in my life.

Now go get a life idiat


Oodee like you that's why your deeper life girlfriend is using your head Abi
Re: No To Sex For Over 7 Months: Am I Being Played? by EzeNdiAra: 1:13am On May 14, 2020
Nonso92:
Long distance relationship??

Ah bros.

Well,

Lemme not talk.

Next commenter, over to you.

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