₦airaland Forum

Baby mama: Gosh
I couldn't help it


How many times have you told her to her face how you married her to take the shame of pregnancy off her
With the the way you are carrying on here,I bet the woman gets that sorry line every solitary moment
Besides the other selfish reason about populating your father's compound
Nonsense!
You regret having a second child with her?,infact you hate having a second child
What father says that about their own child/children?
She is a torn in your flesh
What a wuss
You regret the first child,you regret the second,you regret your marriage
Your whole life is full of regrets,when will you grow up and be a man?
What a zero

The Bible says a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife
You haven't read that part abi?
Read that first post,it's all about your parents
Where does this woman come in right in this marriage of yours
You married her because she was carrying a child that will be like a second child to your parents
You hate her yet she birthed yet another child
Now you and your parents want to turn her into a mere uterus ,baby making machine since you can wake up and make decisions regarding the children she carried 9 months a piece sotay your parents will waka from their abode to come and take the kids
You do have a nerve don't you?
You are lucky it was just your torn clothes,some mothers would have attacked both you and your parents and NTA will come and snap foto

Do you want real truth or you want some small boys advising you
Retrace your steps
If you divorce this woman and keep the same parents and same mindset,I promise you,you will divorce again unless the next wife is barren and or jobless.
If you doubt me try it

I wish the woman will even wake up and divorce you when she gets wind of exactly what you think of the union
She is a medical doctor you say,she can do without your immature self

I love this! Op sounded like a kid that is being controlled by his parent. He is not ripe for marriage.
Sometimes when my parent want to act funny I take action that seem rude to my parent but I know within me I'm doing something right. They have lived their lives they should allow me to live mine. All I need is their prayer not physical interference.
The parents of the op are acting funny because op is the only son.

Pchidexy: Thanks Omiobo for your invaluable advice.
What skill would u advice me to go for?

In Nigeria of today,I will advice to learn a skill that demand continuous/routine maintenance. As in a skill like;
* Computer engineer including networking
* Office installations
* Plumbing/pool/water treatment plant
* Electrician
* Mechanic
These skills are making it big on island. When you have one as handwork you will be called on time to time for repair and maintenance. From repair and maintenance you will make your cash,and being an independent man as a handwork man you will have time for yourself to further your career if you are discipline. It worked for me.
A job of #12000 per month is time wasting. I believe you are still young to learn one of abovementioned skills.

Pchidexy: Hello house! I am confused. Advice me on the choice to make between my job as teacher which pays me #12000 and a prospective job as a hotel barman. This one is gonna pay #10,000 but there are some chances of making a little money from customers(not official). Please I need your advice pls.
Peace...
Mod front page pls.

Sorry I can't advice on jobs that will waste your time. It is better to learn handwork than to waste years on a job that won't give you the financial strength to develop your career. Learn something worthy of your valuable time. I know it is not easy learning a skill without being paid for 2yrs or more but it is a knowledge acquired for life not some worthless job that won't even put food on your table.
Mind you I developed my career through my handwork.

Go out of the circle of your family to help the needy around you. Let your life reflect on those who are around you.

Isaiah 58:10
If you pour yourself out for the hungry and
satisfy the desire of the afflicted, then shall
your light rise in the darkness and your
gloom be as the noonday.

Matthew 25:34-46
Then the King will say to those on his right,
‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father,
inherit the kingdom prepared for you from
the foundation of the world. For I was hungry
and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you
gave me drink, I was a stranger and you
welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed
me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in
prison and you came to me.’ Then the
righteous will answer him, saying, ‘Lord,
when did we see you hungry and feed you,
or thirsty and give you drink? And when did
we see you a stranger and welcome you, or
naked and clothe you?

When you do for needy you lend God.

Happy birthday to me! I dedicate today for the needy.

Afam4eva: Is it only in a church that one can find a bible or can pray?

The op,a canal man like you need to go to church to be nurtured with the words of God.

Afam4eva: Getting close to believers is not the same as getting close to God. The church is in your heart and not in a building called church.

Don't mislead the op,where do you want him to get the words from? Shrine?

Afam4eva: Getting close to believers is not the same as getting close to God. The church is in your heart and not in a building called church.

Don't mislead the op,where do you want him to get the words of from? Shrine?

Afam4eva: It's a blackmail. If it wasn't, the prophecy would have been that you should get close to God and not go to church. Going to church is not the ish but being close to Chineke is the koko.

Church means gathering of believers. He can only get close to God by fellowship. The prophet is right. #Don't get it twisted,going to church is a beautiful thing in Dbanj voice#

OoooJjjjjjBbbbb

bigyomite: Pls how can i remove my name as i am useing ordinary java phone to browse?

Guy,I can see u like displaying ur name. you have ur name as ur signature

DMainMan: Remove your name

Edit ur quote too

Chillisauce: Just chill then, there is nothing to be afraid of if you are clean,
Give him his food if he refuses to eat.
Just take a glass of wine, cross leg, get your sweet food and glass of wine while watching your favorite tv program.
When he sees the sweet food, na only him go wake up for night chop cold food.

Op,don't mind this poster. He wants to ruin your marriage. Keep begging,I think he is a type who finds difficult to bounce back from anger. If you have tried all you could,try the last weapon,"seduction". He will sure come for you.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Childish husband. He drops money for food and refuses to eat. Smh[/quote]That's the best way to deal with a stubborn woman. Are u married? If no,then you need to start thinking of strategies to deal with your woman when she start thinking and acting like Esau.

One part of me believe she will make it while the other believe she won't make it. Anyway I wish u well!

Pelummy: do u have any job u are doing @ present ? if no it depends on u then

but u can give it a trial and stl look out for better one

in youruba proverb - fi isu si ina ko ma wa obe

If it is not rainbow or moonlight hotel,you can do it for the sake of meeting people who can help out of the place.

olala32: I m very skinny, consider if i marry a slime girl ,wht will we produce?
I need a help if marry a fat lady will solve my problem.pls help!

Oga,na new technique to woo fat girl be this again? If u dey skinny visit vulcaniser make dem pump u.

Most of the girls think like Esau while the guys think like Jacob.

PIx or it didn't happen.












If you want to help,help with wisdom. Not everyone deserves to be helped.

Good for him

Hmmmm

For what na? Find out what he or she likes or values.

Our country is far from peace. Breaking of sad news in every parts of the nation. We are all living in fear. Our leaders have failed us. They don't care about the welfare of the people. They don't care if tribes,regions raise against each other,all after is accumulation of wealth. They even sponsor monsters to destabilize the nation to deprive the nation of that peace it craves for.
Hypocrites are those who we call leaders. They are full of deceits. They shifted our attention from the main course by associating the problems of this nation to one person. As a matter of fact, we all have hands in the problems bedeviling this nation. No one,no tribe should be singled out for calamities in this nation.

DR ROBERT OPPENHEIMER,who supervised the creation of the first atomic bomb, was asked to appear before a congressional committee. They asked him if there was any defense against this awesome new weapon of war "certainly" the great physicist replied.
" And that is____" some asked
The audience awaited the answer in subdued silence. "Peace", the eminent scientist replied softly

* someone has pointed out that over the 4000yrs there have been fewer than 300yrs of peace.

Peace is paramount to every nation. A nation that must grow,must seek peace first. There is no substitute for peace. Sacrifices need to be made for peace to reign and the change we desire for this nation to come.
Peace can neither be found in possessions nor bottles as some claimed. And it cannot be found in our leaders. It can only be found in us,"You and I". And it can only be found in us if we decide to make that sacrifice. "Sacrifice" i mean putting all kinds of unrighteousness; greed,hatred,deceits,corrupt practices,love of money,terrorism,tribalism,racism,fornication,adultery e.t.c to death for the sake of the love we have for this nation.
Conclusively,Love you neighbours as yourself. It is when you develop genuine love for your neighbours,that is when you can make sacrifice for peace. Peace of this nation can only be found in us as we make sacrifice. And it takes the God's grace to sacrifice all these evil things. By strength shall no man prevail,it takes his Grace. And you to have His grace,you have to focus on Him. I enjoin us all to live in peace as we watch this nation grows.

Happy new year to all nairalanders.

Watching the drama unfolding while sipping my cold Zobo. It is a pity Nigerians are still thinking like Esau.

Car dealers be careful o! Ask okada riders dem go tell una that with Fashola in Lagos anything is possible.

Op,U would hv included it in post that,differentiate between fat and thick with the aid of picture? It's a pity I don't have pics. Where is born2fuck? Your attention is highly needed.

Give her a true confession text or meet her one on one.
Next time don't take too long to settle issues you may have with your partner. Sometimes it's good to get angry but the good part of it is that you should never let it last long.

Still waiting for Pastor Bakare's prophesy to be fulfilled"there will be another election before 2015".