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gramci: President GEJ will win Rivers State anyday, the other northern states you mentioned he didn't win there in last election. So these men are political liability for now. So the only way to put them to good use is to frustrate them out of PDP so they can form a party that will split APC's vote.

PDP is long gone. It is better you wake up. A house divided against itself can't stand.

Cooking!

Who is buying? Who is selling?

Very interesting. the Awise Agbaye try no be small.

I just realised that I'm an introvert. Somebody should answer me,is being an introvert bad? I sit at extreme in church because I hate being surrounded,I screen calls,I write poems,most especially I don't know why I'm always avoid meeting new people. Infact the article paints a picture of me. My question is,is it bad to be an introvert?

Yeah! Losing a congregation is nothing to losing God's presence. He should have confessed his sins to the congregation,and keep himself from the alter to avoid leading God's people astray.

CLIQBOY: Wich one be douching

It is washing vagina after sex.

OP,you try o! From Abule egba to sabo. U just dey follow am like zombie. Hmmm... I prefer to sit inside gutter by myself to prevent him from this nonsense.

Ngige all the way. The chosen one.

In as much as she wants the pastor to pay for his sin,then she must also ready to pay. She doesn't need to force judgement and the condemnation. The judgement and condemnation is at God's own time,and bible was not wrong when it said judgement will start from the house of God. If human beings are not aware of the evil deeds of the pastors,God is aware.
For two of them to remain alive after going against God's will,it is not a negligence of duty on God's part. It is just that He is merciful and always seeking for the repentance of the sinners.
She should stop embarrassing herself. And let the pastor come out and confess to the church. God forgives.

1"But I Don't Know How"

Skill deficits are one of the most basic
reasons for procrastination. If you lack the
skills to complete certain tasks, it is only
natural to avoid doing them. For example, you
may be a slow reader. If you have several
lengthy articles to read before you can write a
paper, you may postpone the reading because
it is difficult. You may even have trouble
admitting your poor reading skills because you
do not want to be seen as seem "dumb." Thus
procrastinating may seem better than facing
your need to improve your reading skills.
The key to solving skill problems, is to identify
what the problems are. Often a counselor, an
instructor, or another professional can help
you to make this determination. When you
know the problem, then you can take action to
correct it.

2"This Stuff Is Just Plain Boring"
Lack of interest seems to play a role in
procrastination. All students from time to
time lack interest in a course, however, not all
of these students delay in studying or
completing assignments.
If your natural interests are not stimulated
by the course content, one solution to
procrastinating may be to "just do it" (i.e.,
simply continue to attend class and do the
assigned work on time). This will give you more
"guilt-free" time to do those things that are
more interesting to you. Of course, it won't
necessarily make the class or assignment
interesting, but at least you will not cloud the
"good times" with worry.

3"I Don't Feel Like Doing It"
Lack of motivation is a commonly given reason
for not attending to an unpleasant task. Most
procrastinators believe that something is
wrong with them if they do not feel motivated
to begin a task. This simply is not true. How
many folks do you imagine feel motivated and
energized by the prospect of raking leaves, or
changing the oil in the car, or doing taxes?
These tasks are often seen as unpleasant and
less than exciting. To believe that you must
feel motivated in order to begin a task has
the order of events in reverse .

4"But What If I Can't Cut It?"
Fear of failure is another reason people
procrastinate. It goes something like this: If I really try hard and fail, that is worse than
if I don't try and end up failing. In the
former case, I gave it my best and failed. In
the latter, because I really did not try, I truly
did not fail. For example, you may postpone
studying for a major test and then pull an "all-
nighter." The resulting grade may be poor or
mediocre, but you can say, "I could have done
better if I had had more time to study."

5"How Can I Top This?"
"Fear of success" can be the other side of
"fear of failure." Here you procrastinate
because you are fearful of the consequences
of your achievements. Maybe you fear that if
you do well, then next time, even more will be
expected of you. Or, perhaps, succeeding may
place you in the spotlight when you prefer the
background.
Procrastination of this kind may indicate an
internal identity conflict. If your self
worth is tied to your level of achievement,
then you may constantly question yourself
about how much you must do to be "good
enough.

6"You Can't Make Me"
Rebellion and resistance constitute the final
set of issues
which can underlie procrastinating behavior.
Delaying tactics can
be a form of rebellion against imposed
schedules, standards, and
expectations. The expectations are often
those of a power struggle,
usually not on a conscious level. As an example,
your father has
an accounting business and has alwaysplanned
on having you become
his partner after college. You are enrolled in
the College of Business
and like accounting, but since you started
college you have been
wanting to explore some other careers
unrelated to business. Your
father says, "No, you'll stick to accounting
and like it."
As a result, you don't turn in work on time,
"forget"
to do assignments, and earn low grades,
sometimes flunking a course.
Rebellion against external evaluation is
another facet of
this sort of procrastination. For example, if a
teacher has offended
or angered you in some way, you may retaliate
by turning something
in late or procrastinating indefinitely.
Sometimes these same tactics
are used on classmates in a group project
setting or with parents.
The thing to remember is that you ultimately
lose (i.e., getting
the bad grade, loss of self-respect, etc.).
Rebellion and resistance are re-actions not
actions, thus,
the control of your behavior rests with
whatever or whomever you are
rebelling or resisting. If you are rebelling
against your parents,
then they have a great deal of power in your
life--probably more than
you really want. Decide what you want for your
life--don't just react
to someone else's decisions for your life.

Rolly83: @Op,ur analysis of number 4' is totally wrong....I knw dis from expierence.

Not everybody believe that Jesus is the son of God. So I didn't expect everyone to believe the myths and facts. It is natural you disagree.

Emekayoung: Are u ok at all,why on earth are u calling SEUN's name for GOD's sake,was he the one who wrote this article?
I can see u're on drugs again...

Oga,nothing like heavenly feeling,womanliness and joystick for that article.

InvertedHammer:
HEEEEEEEYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!

You don't have to bring my name into it!

You can still make your point.

I beg no Vex.

yunglykmine: OP, Abeg wetin be the meaning of ur username? #justAsking.

MONKEY-WATER no other meaning

booqee: i really don't understand d first point. Not conceiving during ur period?? The op is saying two things there. Pls explain

Point 1 is very clear. You can't conceive during mensuration period. It is a known fact.

sexymoma: Am not concern bout what you actually stated....


Jos trying to find the meaning to your username.

Kai,your mind is polluted. The meaning is MONKEY-WATER

moscobabs: I really love this write up but pls I have a question to ask....If someone wife loose her pregnancy could it be as a result of the man infertility

Infertility does make one pregnant. Getting ones wife pregnant means ones sperm is fertile. Losing the pregnancy is as a result of her health issue.













My opinion o.

[quote author=nadia_SA]omiobo y do I find in thes kinda threads!!


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yuzedo: op bro, is it save to put "just d tip"? Plis am askin 4 a freind!

Tip of what?

Most couples who are trying to conceive know that their lifestyle choices—diet, health, age, and genetics—will all affect your ability to get pregnant. However, sweeping under the bed (an old wives’ tale) will only banish dust bunnies; it won’t actually discourage your chances of conception.

While we’ve left behind many of the superstitions surrounding fertility and getting pregnancy; there are still multiple myths that many couples buy into (both those trying to get pregnant and those not trying to conceive).


1. You Can’t Conceive During Menstruation

It doesn’t matter if you’re having sex during your period to practice “safe sex” or avoid this period because you’re trying to conceive, no one gets a baby-making free pass at any time during a women’s cycle. In reality, there are very few days when you can have sex without worrying about getting pregnant since sperm can live inside a woman’s body for approximately 5 days.


2. Inverted Sex Positions Will Boost Chances of Conception
If you’re doing a handstand after sex in the hopes of gravity aiding your pregnancy efforts—all you’ll probably end up with is a stiff neck. It makes sense that inverting after ejaculation might help sperm reach the cervix faster, but this small distance really won’t make or break your chances of conceiving.

3. You Can’t Get Pregnant the First Time you Have Sex
Although this might be a sly way for a frisky teenage boy to convince a girl to have sex in the backseat of his parent’s station wagon; it’s a grand mistruth. If she has begun to ovulate there’s always a chance that her egg and his sperm shall meet, whether it’s the first sexual experience or the twentieth.

4. Having Sex Like Rabbits Increases Pregnancy Chances
If you’re a couple that likes to have sex like bunnies every day, congratulations, but it won’t help your chances of conception. In fact, the opposite is true—the more frequently a man ejaculates; the lower his sperm count and concentration will be. Your best bet for getting preggers is to make love during a woman’s “fertile period” with the help of an ovulation calendar.

5.You Can’t Get Pregnant if you’re Intoxicated
It doesn’t matter if you drink alcohol or take drugs—you can still get pregnant. And when you think about it; when drunk or high, you’re probably less likely to remember to use a condom or take your birth control pill so you may be increasing your chances of conception when intoxicated.

6. Withdrawal to Prevent a Pregnancy
Many couples trust the withdrawal method (when a man withdrawals his penis from a woman’s vagina prior to ejaculation) will not cause pregnancy. However, studies show that 4 out of every 100 women will still get pregnant thanks to pre-ejaculate (the fluid that escapes the tip of the penis when stimulated), in which sperm can remain active from previous ejaculation.

7.Douching or Showering Following Sex Will Prevent Pregnancy
Douching and showering are not effective as birth control and neither is having sex in the bath or swimming pool. The truth is that water doesn’t deter sperm from fertilizing an egg, and having intercourse in water can actually raise the risk of pregnancy if sperm is forced upwards into the vagina and cervix.

8. Timing Can Affect the Sex of your Baby
It’s funny that many couples think that they can influence the sex of their unborn child depending on things like diet, sexual position, or date. For instance, sex on odd days will not ensure a male child and sex on even days will produce a girl baby.

9. Failing to Conceive after a Few Weeks Doesn’t Mean you’re Infertile
Conceiving can take time and patience. Just because you’ve been trying to conceive for a few weeks without success doesn’t mean you’re infertile. Although there are no specific dietary instructions to follow, a healthy lifestyle—which includes physical activity, a healthy diet—is important to make conception a reality.

10. You Can Only Conceive if you Orgasm
Even though the female orgasm can aid fertilization—it’s not entirely essential for conception. The theory behind this myth is that the muscular contractions that accompany the female orgasm are needed to pull sperm up into the vagina and cervix, increasing the success of sperm meeting egg. However, you can get pregnant, with or without achieving orgasm.




http://www.activebeat.com/your-health/women/10-myths-and-facts-about-getting-pregnant/

I dey laugh o!

Mikel don score?

waternogetenemy: How will somebody dat came to Apga through the back door, with competition eliminated for him make sense. This reminds me of Daddy and Mummy arrangement for child. Am, i communicating?
The real losers here are Anambarians. Can u imagine Akwa Ibom without Godwill Akpabio or Lagos without Fashola?

Now imagine Anambra without Soludo in the nxt eight years going forward.

True talk! Anambarians don't let Peter Obi take you all for barbarians. No Soludo No APGA.











Ngige all the way

God of Ngige is alive

He(God) prepares a table before Ngige in the
presence of his enemies;
He anointed his head with oil;
His cup runs over.
Surely, people of Anambra shall vote for him
For the Lord is with him.











Ngige all the way!

Was Soludo not under EFCC investigation when he contested under PDP? Didn't they know that he is under EFCC investigation before they invited him to APGA ? Imagine they even chop im money(10million naira) on top political slap wey dem give am. Soludo was so stupid to have fallen for that sh*t. Even if he wins Anambra Governorship election his stupidity will put Anambra in mess. He needs to be political sound before he can lead a state like Anambra. No be this one wey him do Smee smee.

From the look of things,2015 maybe the end of Nigeria.

Laugh wan kill me. Somebody should help me. Melvin sorry o!

Hey guys! NTA is showing BBA live. Thanks to GEJ