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xynerise: What advice do you seek again when the damage has been made?

Certainly, the guy must have had sexx with his wife-to-be.


My brother is too late. I will advise you not to be too emotional on this issue cos you might end up sleeping with her and collect your own share of HIV.

Dont you think is time people know about it before another person sleeps with her?

I dey crazy?. Say wetin happen.

Born2fuck
Idowuogbo
I90

segzi cres: you had better explain cause it means p yousay water.

It means MONKEY WATER

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This is a true story. It happened just yesterday.

I have a female friend in my place of work who is HIV positive. I'm the only one that is aware of her status. I used to stand by and advice on how she can go about her normal life. I pity her a lot because she has no relationship because of her status.
Today,I received a call from her that she want me to advice her on what just happened between her and our co-worker. She began to explain how she had unprotected sex with the guy. I became so annoyed. I shouted at her, I asked her why did she allow such thing to happen when she know her status.
She explained how the guy came to pick her up for party and later took her to his place at late night. She said she never had the intention of having sex with the guy but the guy insisted. She said when guy was adamant,she succumbed to the guy's pressure,and asked him of condom. The guy said he didn't have condom,that she should not worry that he trust her. She said,she didn't want the guy to know her status,moreover she too needed the sex badly after a long period of not having sex. Eventually,they did it.
The problem now is that she said after the sex,the guy told her he is preparing for his Wedding ceremony in December. After the breaking news,she became worried knowing great damage she might have caused the guy.
She said she has been crying since the incident. She said I should advice her on what to do. I said she should call the company doctor for advice because it was the doctor that discovered she has been infected and helped her to bury the secret to avoid losing her job. She said she can't call the doctor because the doctor always warn her not have unprotected sex with anybody. I asked her to tell the guy himself so that he can know the condition of things before going further to have unprotected sex with his fiancee or any other girl.


Omo see wahala o!

Pls your advice.

segzi cres: Omiobo? this the baddest monika after "dobodobo" lol

Lol! It is not what you think.

Pls make sure you have protected sex. Be warned.
When I have full battery I will share a dilemma issue with you.

adaobi123: What is mercy wearing ?

Respect am small na,no call am mercy again,mama purity or mama puri puri

Truly,politics in Nigeria is a dirty game. I pray this country should break on time,I can't continue living with people who ignore the truth to tel lie for selfish again. We want the best,and yet we don't want the best to get us there. Honestly,the attitudes of most Nigerians can't give way for good governance. This generation has failed themselves and the heirs to come.

God owns the heart of people and He owns tomorrow. As for me,I can't write Ngige off. He is still my favourite candidate for Anambra.

dridowu: guy ds ur username fit corrupt person mind ooooooooooooo
@topic, well said by the evil genius. Brighter Rewarding Future

Kai! Your mind dey corrupt already.

[quote author=sagytarius™]Nah! Nofin dey happen. [/quote]Go ask tuface,he go tell something dey happen.

Maclatunji,you are welcome!

melojames: Thats your opinion, though.

If the real song was produced the way Samkclef produced his own,I bet you there won't be anybody's version of gabbage.

atlwireles: which country You think Nigeria is lagos island

Eeeeeeeh!!!! I'm not into tribal thing. It's my opinion, you should post yours,stop questioning my own opinion when you have yours.

collynzo2: Learn how to write properly Jeez! Now wonder you are so fat, too lazy to even write 'thanks' completely.

You all should leave that gurl alone! Ha! Guys like woman,woman like guy. All of una na the same. E don do!!!!!

No doubt Fashola has what it takes to lead this country.

melojames: Samklef on the beat......nice one.

Stop deceiving people. It's rubbish!

[quote author=sagytarius™]All the relationships I've had with ladies were initiated by them. Currently, there is another that met me at my cousine's wedding and she is already all over me. Her calls are already rolling-in; and I know soon enough, she will overcome that inertia to tell me what's on her mind .

Buh, I hate commitments
IMHO, Being Single is the Bomb! [/quote]Na carnival! With time O ma ka lo ju e

This one madness pass derenle o!

This is no time for ego,the man should just quit the job,and look for another job. Who knows he might get more money than 150,000 but the wife may never get upto 1m if she quits.

JudismphD: As long as Lagos is built by the Niger delta oil through the presence of federal infrastructures just like Abuja and Tinubu an Osun man with Fashola Ekiti emperor can bamboozle others to find their way to government house, Oga Apan from Akwa ibom or chukwudi from Anambra can aspire to be anything on Lagos soil. Ododo oro ni yen

Op,you need rest. Just give yourself some rest.

tpacalipse: I am a faithful man. I dated my wife for 8 years b4 finally marrying are. We married without intimate activities b4 marriage. Yes! Married as virgins! I was faithful, and still, I am, not because I love my wife, but because I am partly selfish. I love myself to the extent that the only thing I see is peril if I get involved with any woman. I have worked hard to make a little for myself, and I am making sure adultery will not take anything from me. I don't give out to ladies, even if a lady is dying in my presence, I won't part with anything. The only one who has been able to put up with my craps is my wife, but I keep wondering how and why I love her so much, since I find it extremely difficult to have feelings for ladies.

You are just like me

the guy must be a funny dude.

If gurl see money e go forget 6 packs. No be 6pck we won chop.

I have my own story. It's God's grace to be here.

ogahope: No tribalism here... Is a true talk.... Many Nigerian lik ur selve are only abusing and castigating d govt but failed to commend good effort of d govt... Error founders

I have read your post over and over,I couldn't read meaning to it. Oga make yourself clear.

kel4soft: Dickson is the worst Governor in the history of Bayelsa State. How he is even still on seat amazes me. Enough said!

I pity bayelsa people.