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helinues:
I know one thing for certain, OBJ can never go against SW presidency interest in 2023.

That na sure banker

You don't know OBJ

Kudos to him

KingOfTheDamned:
Exactly . It may be just 500k cash ... they just want to teach her a lesson. One can't carry 13 million just like that on the road even in 1000k bills tjay would be too much

She didn't carry 13m cash rather every thing she stole include jewelry is totaled 13m.

KingAzari:
Background of the story: Years ago, Lagos state government, under the military regime, land-grabbed some landed property belonging to Shangisha people of Magodo under a false pretense of using the land for public interest, only to turn around and shared the land amongst themselves and their elite friends and families.
The original land owners having seen that the government scammed them of their land went to court. All the court judgements since 1984, up to the recent judgement by the highest court in the land(Supreme court), favored the original land owners.

The AGF, being the number one law officer of the land, sent policemen, who are number one law enforcer in the land, to execute the final order of the supreme court of Nigeria.

However, Lagos governor, the number one "Pointus" Pilate of the land, went there to subvert, interrupt and prevent the execution of a valid court order.

So it was actually the FG protecting the interest of Shangisha people who were scammed by the state government.

Thank you for this concise and elaborative explanation. Now I understood the matter clearly.

kayuseful:
Lol
What could be more ceremonial than that?
You can't do anything but you are only allowed to hold meetings, chop rice and asun

You don't need to waste your time arguing with those secondary school students. Nairaland is now full of underage kids.

ahnie:
The **Help me take care of my wife and kids** part got me loooo'ed.
Oga bangalee

You're not alone. I don laugh tired

Richpet85:
Please do not mind my english consider any error as typo but I honestly needed a sincere advice.

My marriage will be 8 years by September 2022. The journey of marriage has not been rosy and sometime I feel I made a very huge mistake by marrying my wife. I met her in April that year, we date for 6 months and we finally got married Sept same year. Prior before we got married I took her to meet with my siblings since my both parents were late specially our 2nd daughter who her husband sponsored my secondary education. She was cool with my family and never raised any concern during this period of courtship.

Suddenly a night of our wedding everything changed. That same woman that took care of my family as hers turned into directly opposite of who she used to be. To cut the story short, she started dispising my family and the thought of their sight irritates her.

She started by complaining about my sister's son living with me before we got married, her mum and other of my siblings to the point that anytime my eldest sister visited she will leave my house with tears.

My wife also ensure she send all my siblings and relations away from me and my house no go area for them. But what confuses me was that she doesn't behave in a similar manner whenever her own siblings or her mum visits our home. Her behaviour towards my family has destroyed the joy we once had as siblings. The marriage has produced 3 kids of which my last child is less than a month old. Anytime she put to bed her mother has always been the one coming for OMUGOO. None of my siblings can come to my house because of her attitude towards them.

I can't tolerate it further am dying silently as am typing this msg her mum, her immediate junior Sister are in my house and every where is very peaceful. If they were my mum or sibling my house would have been burning by now.

I made conscious effort to kill and ignore this feeling but anytime I see her mum and sister. I feel very depressed in my own house. There are other ill behaviour she have which I can tolerate but seeing myself separated from my siblings because of my wife is my greatest Marital night mare.

I am sincerely fade up with her but my kids are my greatest weakness. The thought of leaving my house and go far away from her or rather travel abroad and leave there permanently has recently overcrowded my mind. But I can't stop thinking about my kids, their future and what they will turn into if she is to raise them alone.

Don't forget I have provided her with everything needed to be comfortable in marriage, house, cars, business etc mostly importanly I am not cheating on her, I don't smoke, I don't keep late night and I don't have friends because she has sent everybody close to me away from my life.

I need a mature advice and no insult please.

I am emotionally trumatised and feel so depressed.

You think you don't want insult while in reality that's exactly what you need.
I hate it when an adult is behaving childishly. Let me tell you what you don't know, if you allow her to kill you with depression in less than a year she's moved on with her life.

MarketDispatch:
Seems all the earlier posters are staff or sponsored posts of Fairmoney....as for me I like to know I can walk into the physical branch of my bank rather than bank with an app that Google play can block or an app that can disappear overnight.

I thought I was the only one who noticed that.

I don't even know what to comment and I want to be on FP...

Wow

This world henn

Unknown Buhari boys

Who No know that b4

Ok. Goodluck

Ehyaaà

Leggodeals:
Honestly I blame the man. It is not everything that you say in public. What happens to decorum.

Anyway, i deal on real estate, and my office is in Ikorodu. If you need accommodation to rent, property, land to buy. Call or Whatsapp the number on my signature

I strongly guessed that the life radio program is for domestic issue settlement. Hence, the man has to say everything causing the problem in their family. My guess though, since we don't understand their language

Tonniex:
what are they doing on live radio??
all these pple self

I strongly guessed that the life radio program is for domestic issue settlement. Hence, the man has to say everything causing the problem in their family. My guess though, since we don't understand their language

I'm afraid Nairalanders may exercibate your problem and confuse your confusion.

Gengen

Imagine

Hmmm

Thegracefulness:
You’re a brilliant man. I’m something of a genius myself too. But tell this to the average individual and they’d misunderstand you.

I’m thankful for the woman that birthed me for the opportunity and wisdom she imbibed in me. Unfortunately she’s an “out of school” housewife. I remember one Saturday evening after I had my worst result in school, and then I came back with my report card, and after consoling me, she was forced to tell me her story.

Let me quote her verbatim. She said “I wish I had the chance at pursuing my academics to this practical level. But in our society then, it was unlike today. It was difficult for us women. My father—who is your Grandfather, refused to send me to school because he thought ‘women preserved their values, while men created it.’ That is why the average woman is more desirable and valuable than the average man. I was barely concerned about succeeding in school. I just wanted to go to school because schooling was what at least one girl in each family did at that time. And I was fortunate that your aunties—my sisters, singled me out to go. Because at that time they had boyfriends, and their boyfriends would laugh at them if they found out that they sat down with children for hours, in a small classroom, merely looking at a blackboard.”

She concluded by saying; “Success isn’t a lifestyle choice for ANY man. It’s a matter of life and death. On the other hand, look around you; It’s a lifestyle choice only for SOME women. A woman who fails at career or academia can just simply give up and become a wife, a lover or choose to become a mother like in my case. She would now suddenly be wanted for who she is, or what she has become. But tell me, who is interested in a man who is a loser? NOBODY. What can he make out of his unfortunate situation? Misery. More misery until the end of his days. Pursue your education like your whole life depends on it, because someday you’d realise your whole life really depends on it.”

I almost teared up after this conversation. You have no idea how motivated I became and where it got me today. I wish she had the opportunity I had.

Thanks bro for making my day. I'm saving this comment right now and going to be reading it every day.
May God's mercy never depart your mum wherever she is. You are so lucky to have such a wonderful mum.

drlaykay:
Good for him
By the way, Lateef sounds like a Muslim name.
But a religious bigot said they didn't allow Muslims to work there.

Your mumuism is only equal to no one but yours... You can't differentiate artisan who might not be known by the developer from a company engineer applicant who is going to be a direct employee of the company.

Thank God for saving you

True talk

KimberlyWest:
Also, don't forget that some people who will give you advice today (like the one who's saying a GF cannot open his fridge without his consent) are kids who just finished WAEC and have access to smartphones. Take everything anyone says here with a pinch of salt.

No, I beg to disagree. Everybody can't be wrong. Yes, some are kids but many of us are not. The problem with most of you women is that you always want your husband to be to you, who you'll never want your son to be to his wife.

You're correct though

Unik3030:
Sunday igboho was a nobody in Yoruba land, he's uses to b a pdp thug n one of those people that fought ife war.

It is only u igbos that rate him high because u believe the same way nnamdi kanu is causing chaos in your region he will do same here but yorubas are wiser than that.

He's an hero only to the igbos who want to scatter everywhere but u can't do that madness here in Yoruba land

God bless you for this submission.

Wonderful