₦airaland Forum

omablogs:
then wait for the they they are taken to lab

funny you..

omablogs:
fodo you still believe that theirs still a good trusted politician in this country

I dont..until they have been tested.

ImaIma1:
You are so right.

A lot of people make single women think that something is wrong with them. That they are single because of their wrong doings of some sort.

I have an aunty that is over 40 with a child from her first marriage that met a single man of 45 that has never been married. The guy is everything she wants in a man. They will be wedding soon. Meanwhile some men would have made her feel she is used product or old newspaper.

Apparently, he was disappointed badly by a younger girl. Somehow, people do not question older single men but only attack the ladies.

That is the Nigerian society for you.

IBBG:
You speak a lot of sense in all your post. i love your independent thinking. I like people who challenge the bandwagon effect and try to devise their own school of thoughts that aptly suits their life. Don't let anyone define the quality of life you decide to live for yourself. Morever this issue is overflogged and overhyped. it is one of those phases in life.

Thank you.

Gkay1:
upon ur beauty, fame, nd everything, u cant show ur husband to the world.
what kind of shameless life b dis na.
Y U DEY HIDE D MAN ABI NA MARRIED MAN.
ABI D PIKIN NOR GET PAPA.
STOP TELLING US STORY, SHOW US D MAN.

Let her be jor..you guys have abused single ladies on countless occasion,about how they still single because they refuse to soak garri with you guys but would rather hubnoped with sugar daddies that is why they are old , unmarried and miserable..this one that is supper rich and has also come under your hammer too abi? because she decided to have a child outside wedlock which is what you guys are equally known for..having baby mamas all over the place without anyone raising an eye brow.She is a successful business women that can pay your salary in a life time..with surplus change still in her pocket...mind your business and go get a job so that you will be a bit responsible in your dealing with women.Mind your business and let her be.

Chiwude:
I don't believe this. But if true then APGA and APC should get ready to push out all PDP governors in the South-East to dislodge the myth that PDP has the east on lockdown. PDP needs to be buried in the South-East for good so that other parties can truly stand.

you guys should be active in politics by registering for your PVS..the point raise was not captured by you but you went ahead with the Nigerian closed mind of "we nor go gree ooo we no go gree"...without looking at the numerical component that is suppose to make The south east an attractive bride...of all the regions the in the south, south is east came last as regard PVS registration and collection...una nor go register yet how can you guys have the strength to court your way up the latter of Nigerian politics..It pained me that the VP slot might not be coming to the south east(it would be a great opportunity to position a south east candidate for presidency) put take a look at the all the disadvantage of south east to gather large vote as compared to other regions in and for campaign funding nko..it is a game of numbers at this junction my brother.

Sophyrocks:
My goodness! Are we twins? A lot of what you just typed was what i had in mind.Awesome! Oh, how i loooooove my peace of mind! I can get rid of anything that denies me that.

ya i suppose ...from a different mother though.

SolutionMee:


Saraki as the face of our democracy is not power hungry.

He will sign it.

His goal is not just to rule Nigeria but to help remove a bad leader from government.

are you serious..Saraki is a corrupt politician just like the other..what did he do for Kwara state when he was Governor? that state is one of the worst state in Nigeria. The only thing you can is that he might be the necessary idiot we can use to replace Buhari who is too dull to comprehend what is going on around him not to talk of governance..since there is no credible option available for Nigerians to choose from.We need a healthy president to replace Buhari..if we are to ask for corrupt free candidate..there is non among the PDP and APC...the other small parties where we have credible Nigeria seem almost invisible to Nigerians..the thing just tire me.

resurgent2019:
You better take it easy. Some guy must have really hurt you. I dont want to meet your kind in real life. Gush, so bitter!

bitter with men? never...but to subject women to pain and misery all in the name of marriage..no way...I like well groomed guys that have respect for women because they were brought up by mothers that were treated like queens by thier fathers.

megareal:
Why are folks abusing him? The man said in both statements that he cannot fathom anyone being gay, meaning he is repulsed by the mere idea and continued that yet he wouldn't punish them for that except they openly declare it and rub it in the face of the law.

All he was saying was, if you are gay, kindly hide it, don't try to drag anyone else into it by being proud and openly flaunting it else the law of the land will deal with you.

My sister, thank you for this..at a time.i started wondering if Nigerians cannot read and discern information anymore without following the backwogan headlines of bloggers..it baffles me.After reading it i came to realize what he was trying to say..which is not bad..before now homos were doing their stuff behind closed doors and people pretended it they do not exist until they decided to bring it out in the open to campaign for their right..in order to be accepted for who they are..society cannot accept them but at the same time they should not flout it in the open..i understand Donald Duke.Please Nigerians should try to read news/infomation on the pages of the paper very well before jumping into conclusion this is the reason why we are easily fooled by our leaders because of this problem.It as if majority of Nigerian are shallow minded..

Saff:
Most men of this generation are mentally weak and unable to handle life circumstances. Relying on weed/ alcohol, cigarettes or any kind of drug to function.

Most are lazy and not ambitious looking for easy quick money.

Not responsible, looking for a woman to help them or give them money. I don’t blame them, most were raised by women with the father absent or barely there. They don’t understand what it means to be a MAN.

Most men have poor financial management. Spend all their days on social media, betting, money on random women. It’s pitiful.

Most men never take responsibility for themselves. Always looking for one person/ thing to blame for their misfortune.

Rather be single, have a child and be happy than raise a boy into a man because his father didn’t do that job. I’m sorry.

NOT ALL SHALL..BUT YOU REALLY CAPTURED IT,NICE ONE

millionboi2:
lol.......if only thy know how scared we are.

that is a generalization..i bet you that some people that have been sexually active in the past can stay without sex for one than a year..it a matter of principle.its like all the women you ever come across are sex addict.Nairaland..you guys wont seize to amaze me

Yomit71:
only if you know the trauma and emotional syndrome attached. ask those who are in the situation

that being single has alot of emotinal trauma..it a myth to me.because if you are single by choice that means you have other things doing for yourself that you have always wanted..to achieve..but the others that allow family and social pressure to get to them usually fall into your category.I choose to remain single by choice not because i am looking for a man with money but Someone I will be at peace with..I have not found that person..and if I dont find him..then I would rather remain single ..forget the biological clock bla bla bla..things..I really don't care about those things..I am this kind of person that believe that i need not conceive and give birth before i can be a mother, must I?..no!..there are so many motherless children all over the place that need all love and care that they can get..if possible a mother figure....so there are so many things in this world that need our attention and contribution for the good of mankind...Marriage is not for every body.If you find love and a good and hard working person with a wonderful personality then marry but if not it is not the end of the world..one should not end up with necessary idiot and monster in sheep clothing just because society is on their neck to get married...I see marriage has one of those circle of life and not everyone will be captured in this cycle.So let the single women be please...na waooo!!

victorian:













Don't mind them. Guys in such category thinks a bazooka dickk Is all women need. Just be fucvking all styles all day and she will never leave? Na today?
Not all women are controlled by their Pussies.

Of course guys hating on women here are highly frustrated and their only way of venting it out is by cursing women all day long, as if their life's depends on it And trust me, they feel a sense of relief and joy during such fanatic outbursts online.
Later they will open series of threads, seeking for a girlfriend or wife, year in, year out, same monikers or new monikers.

cronsberg:
Because believe it or not, numerically there are more women than men to the extend that if all men were to marry a woman each, there will still remain basically millions of women unable to find husband cuz all the men are taken. Plus the facts that men are likely to end up in prison, more men die than women, plus all the gay men etc. Polygamy offers a solution, but we are made to think its backwards and uncivilized. So here we are, with majority of new borns being females. Makes it look like as if we are really heading towards the prophecy that a dozen women will be chasing after one man because of male scarcity. Funny enough, with all that, women are still foaming hard to get and playing games, which interestingly also contributes to more women being single because men simply are refusing to chase after the hard to get women unlike before.

they are the same..but the number of educated men and employed men limited as compared to the number of educated women that are employed...

victorian:
I can do the work.. But I don't patience for unnecessary games, drama or abusive attitudes.. I can't condone such.. I can stand by a man , who shows he's hardworking, responsible and well brought up. But if he's an abuser and a leech.. I ain't working with him on that lane.

That was well said.Some Nigerian guys think their joy stick is crested with gold and silver, so therefore we should accept all the ill mannered men with their nasty personality, who really need some growing up to do.So many of them dont know that their pleasant /terrrible personality and attitude to life have a long way in defining who they are..the hard workers that are properly brought up by good women will never come here and be hating on women. Only loosers with serious low self esteem do that..am sure they do that to make themselves feel very good with what they are.

cornel9297:
how are you gonna deal with spiritual konji??

sex is a thing of the mind..if you are principled..you can be without sex for years....I dont see it as a food of life to me.In between these time one can be in relationships..but should it should be one you are happy in and not a toxic one.one where there is mutual respect for each other.

dasparrow:
She is not silly. She is right. Only the living have hope for a better tomorrow. Doubt me? Go and ask all the women who lost their lives at the hands of their abusive husbands. They are lying decayed in their graves now. Never to experience life on earth again. It is better to be single, healthy, happy and alive than married and sick or worse yet, dead.

Thank you my sister ..abeg help me tell them..Nigerian men think its all about marriage...they don't realize that that happiness and peace of mind is key..while some rather sacrifice their happiness at the alter of marriage and remain miserable while others are ready to hold on to it until they find the person whom they will be at peace with..money is not everything but its necessary in marriage. Any man that cannot take care of himself properly should not be talking about marriage..if he does then he is an irresponsible man..look at stout all over the place, especially in Lagos..they are as a result of having irresponsible parents...even the bible say that a man that cannot feed his family is worse than an infidel...

hollah123:
then y don't u remain single forever n see the emotional trauma behind it.many old singles deceive some young ones by claiming feminism n feigning happiness but deep down they cry like a baby.

I would rather remain single and be happy with my life than marry a necessary idiot that will make my life a living hell..so many people don't even know how to smile anymore ..all in the name of societal pressure to marry. Many have lost their lives becos of what society would say if they leave their abusive marriages and the children are also there to consider too isn't it?...of what use is life if half of your lifetime is spent in constant fear and misery...is that life? I define a good life as that which is lived with good and lovely memories of a life time ..either married or single..it now boils down to the individual what they cannot live without even if it will cost them their happiness.

Before My parent died, i long for marriage so much because i wanted it to happen in their life time since they were getting old..but now nature has taken its cause , Both my parents are dead, so I don't owe society or any body any explanation of why i choose to remain single than to be married to a someone that will make my life a living hell....I choose my peace of mind..and it will never be sacrifice at the alter of societal pressure for marriage... what ever possession I have i will go to my niece and nephews..If i don't have children...So stop shaming single women with marriage..they have a right to be happy and what ever makes them happy people should respect it.

Amumaigwe:
And their criteria includes financially capable men who will take care of them.

make you nor go find work make you fit marry wife and have
a family that will be well catered for.....dey there dey look for woman wey go soak garri with you (becos suffer na ur birthright) or dey feed you for house while you lord over her with your silly pride and ego..we know una..lazy loafers.Bye bye.

Ihatelove:
Cause most guys are pricks, so we would rather stay single than die of heartbreak

..my sister, I sister you talk true.

optm:
you were informed wrongly that such would have your eyes damaged. both prescriptions would work for you. making lenses without the cylinder to correct d astigmatism is cheaper than having it ; not that it would damage ur eyes. that's a misinformation

Thank you.

Olatunji Adedeji Odusan, was a young guy with a promising future whose life was cut short by some guards at Christ Embassy Church,Oregun. It was learnt that the guys were recruited by the Christ Embassy Church Oregun Ikeja branch as security guards during the healing school program. Olatunji the deceased was a registered guardian to a student of the healing school Mr Onyeneke, who is physically challenged and on a wheel chair. On the fateful day, 20th August 2018, Olatunji the deceased was brutalized within the church healing premises due to argument on parking at the car park. According to an eye witness, the deceased (Olatunji) we learnt explained he only wanted to pick the student who is on the wheel chair and did not intend to stay long. Unfortunately, the so called guards in brown khaki uniform who are beasts in human skin decided to beat him to the point where he sustained internal bleeding, he was however rushed by Mrs Onyeneke who is also a student with the help of the church ushers to the church clinic, the Christ Embassy church clinic rejected him due to his condition and he was rushed to Lagoon Hospitals, Ikeja with the church ambulance, Olatunji gave up the ghost even before the Doctors on duty could do major checks on him.

Olatunji’s corpse has been deposited at the LASUTH mortuary even as his parents, siblings and family and friends are grieving.

However the culprits are already apprehended and are at Panti Police Station. The family lawyer who spoke with the Chief Security Officer of the Christ Embassy Church said the case should be left for the police to handle.

The miserable part of the story is that Pastor Chris Oyakhlimes church, Christ Embassy’s church did not acknowledge it, neither did they send representatives to the deceased family nor sent their condolences.

The ambulance in pix attached was used in carrying him to Lagoon Hospital,Ikeja while other car was his own.

There should be justice, Olatunji was not a chicken and did not deserve to be treated and die just like that.

Rest in peace Olatunji.

dingbang:
They said the pib will solve problems, where is the effect of the pib?

It has not been signed into law yet.

UncleJudax:
Who de back you for Nigeria?

Nowhere easy but she no give any credible reason why Lagos better ...them dey share food and shelter for Nigeria/Lagos?

She even see train enter/sleep.

you remember sey all you need na to dress up and crash into people party pretending to be a guest and you will eat to your fill?alot of Nigerians/Lagosians do that a lot.

wait ooo! it just occurred to me that PDP now has both the Senate presidency and Vice..PDP una strong ooo! APC Arrogance put them in this mess..right from the beginning when they (APC senators) were suppose to be in the house but decided to heed to the call of their APC master for a meeting while Saraki came through the back and became the president with the help of PDP, making Ekweremadu a PDP member vice....now the same arrogance have chased Saraki to the PDP giving the party the opportunity to occupy both the senate presidency and the vice.. and the funny thing is that they are not the ruling party..what a shame.APC talks too much without using their head to think of how to maintain the goodwill of their members and to keep watch of their opponent next move. PDP you guys are also corrupt ooo! but i trip for una tactics.

Donald95:
No, she looks beautiful and young instead





Are you pained because he attacks Christianity?? Why not take the battle to God in Prayers ?

your sarcasm is epic..

Curiouscity:
While I abhor domestic violence in any form, I have a question or 2 about the said loan. Where did the woman borrow the money for the husband (abi horseband)? Bank, friend, relative or herself? Was the husband carried along during the loan procurement?

Some spouses are in the habit of telling their partners that the money is a loan from somewhere, whereas, it is their money. If the partner discover this, then that money is gone. Men and women alike.

Be it as it may, it shouldn't lead to physical abuse.

That is why it is called a loan...alot of Nigerians lack integrity when it comes to finances..even if the loan is from either of the parties, the person in question should know that the money must be given back to the lender.What he did is ingratitude..this is the reason why some people rather distance themselves when others have financial issues because paying back becomes a thug of war.especially men..i dont like them when it comes to the issue of money they become something else.

awelekiti:
. I read your post and couldn't stop laughing. When we see the truth, let's say it. You may be an advocate of buhari o, I don't care. I'm neither against apc nor am I for pdp. I say things the way it is. Wait a minute, who started Lagos Ibadan expressway project, Lagos Ibadan expressway railway system,mambila hydro project, Abuja light rail, Abuja kaduna rail project, Lagos and Abuja modern airport projects,youwin programme which has produced thousands of youth entrepreneurs. My cousin who doesn't know anybody in govt was a beneficiary. How much was the security vote of the fed govt when Gej was there, compared to the 1bn usd used for same purpose but without results, how much was usd to naira as at the time Gej was in office? Gej govt had the best agric programme in the history of Nigeria. Fertiliser policy was on point I can go on and on. Though there were pockets of farmers-herders crisis when Gej was there but was properly managed. It has never been this worse. Gej would visit sites where there were crises but buhari shuned benue after their people were slaughtered as ram but could visit the neigb boring Nasarawa and asked ortom to come meet him there to resolve herders crises. Ortom would have been the most foolish governor ever lived , had he honoured the call. All his service chiefs always defy his instructions but he couldn't do anything to remove them. Mention one single achievement of the apc to me . All the projects commissioned by them since they came to power were Gej projects and most of them had attained reasonable levels of completion before apc got there. Gej achieved the aforementioned in 4 years. Tell me if boko haram is fought to finish despite the huge sum spent, the same fighter jets Gej was going to buy, which the apc was crying upon was what they voted the whopping 1bn Dollar to buy. The same shekau apc told us has been killed more than 4 times is still waxing strong. They claim they'd use part of the 1bn usd to fight insecurity. Gej said let's remove subsidy we said noooo. Apc cried foul. Now, apc came to beg us, that they'd use the money to build roads, fix our refineries, provide jobs, fight insecurity, etc and we complied, thinking they'd truly change the situation of the common man as they claimed. Amazingly, none of those mentioned was ever done and we hear they still pay subsidy. All our refineries are in a state of moribund. So sad They said 30k police was deployed to Ekiti for election whereas but only 6k was deployed. They pocketed money for Logistics and accommodation of remaining 24k. Part of it was used in vote buying which was condemned by the international observers who came to witness it, including the BBC. Any day the apc leaves office, their yansh too go open and we'd know who stole more. Even if the pdp was buying votes as alleged, why the apc that came under umbrella of change? Someone pls help me out here.

A well constructive argument from your part.That was well said.

ImaIma1:
Marry what you can handle.

that was well said..dont take in more than you can chew.

Lawalatm:
Best decision ever!..... ........ I'm suspecting El Rufai may also decamp.... .don't mind his kneeling to greet PMB....all those one nah show

decamp to where! He is very well at home in his jihadist party APC..who else has that in their ideology if not APC

chijokz:
Exactly! Winter in Russia is so brutal and long that can push any African to the limits plus Russians being so hostile to immigrants. My advice to them is to connect to other countries like Greece by seeking asylum since we all know they've no intention of returning to Naija.

The kind Visa wey Russia issue i nor think sey them fit waka pass that country ooo! you know sey schengen get different kind of visa