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PaulCI:
Sad! They are scarred for life...those who have been raped or molested. It affects them hugely, their perception of marriage, the opposite sex and a whole lot of other things. And yes, for this few i make an exception when i say its their character that denies them the opportunity of getting a good man to marry them. For this few, i say it's no fault of theirs and totally absolve them of all blames. Not so for the unmarried women of 30 and above...this ones really kill their chances themselves...greed, promiscuity, ill manners and the rest of the vices they have got in them....thats what to blame for their status.

Be careful of the things you think and write...you are a man and have never been in a woman's world before, so i will just over look some comment of yours. Now let me educate you about the some things in life....for you to get married to somebody means you must have been attracted to him and going to further to appreciate his good personalities using that to over look his weaknesses. Now not every one is fortunate to meet some that kind of person as well as someone they are at peace with.....if you are a bit mature then you should know what i am trying to say here...you just don't get married becos your biological clock is clicking...thereby picking the next available guy that comes your way, even when you don't even like him....tell me what will become of such marriage....she cannot give all herself to this person becos she is forcing herself to love him....that is where the problem is...now who will suffer from this woman act of desperation..is it not the man as well as the the woman herself? nobody is perfect but seeing your man and marrying him is grace...grace i call it.....just the way life smiles over some people and frowns at others..Don't come here and ever judge all women over their 30's for all manner of immortality that could be responsible for their single-hood, not all of them fit into your description, rather, you should thank them for taking their time to find the man they can be happy with so that the home will be a happy one...if you say some women that is understandable but stereotyping all 30+ women as if you know all of them is really not fair...if you have a sister who has never been promiscuous and materialistic but have not seen a husband at 34 , will you be happy if a random guys comes to tell you that she is where she is today becos she has bad manners and immoral? will you be happy...be very careful with the way you abuse people.

infact is people that don't know me that called
me names.if I truly scam u d way claimed it.let
God judge both if us.I did not deny the fact that u
paid for your gowns d crosser I use all d bale or
my customers lasttyr was seized.I have to resend
all d customers bale one after d other.your bale
arrive on 17th march d crosser called ur line and I
also called your linei could not reach u pls I have
never scam or dupe anybody in online or offline.
since this yr, I have delivers my of my customers
bales in which all that I supply bales will be me
witness. None of them wil come out and said I
have dupe him or her.so pls tenny or whatsoever
u called your name.pls I'm kneeling down begging
u don't tarnish my image I do chat with u when d
issuses was going on.I lost my bbm contact so I
have reactivate my bbm again.so plss if you don't
know me.don't judge me.a Lady from nowhere
named gracelwal has tarnish my image by laying
false Accusations on me.God vindicate me by
troubling her spirit.later she opened up that
someone use my Advert to scam that it was not
me.plss.
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you both had a contract..since you could not deliver the goods as promised by you after customer had made payment for it is called bridge of contract..whatever that might have cause you not to deliver the goods means you should return her money to her..... that is it...for you to come online to advertise and convince people that they can entrust their money to you before their goods are delivered to them means you should have done your home with with crossing all your Ts and doting your I's in terms of shipping ur goods without obstacles..so Woman..pay her back her money...if not you will be seen as a fraudster and a thief...why didn't you get back to her all these while when she was pleading with you.You better look for the money and send it back to her if not it will not be well with you.

gab264:
In this 28 century can a girl display those characters for you.
Am still lookin.
who cares anyway.

If a girl display's such character before you, wont you tagg her as desperate? you guys are the one scaring women away from doing exactly what thier hearts tell them to do for their guys because they will be scared their guys will take them for granted..which is true. I have seen many of such cases.

The marraige has not yet been consummated so the woman can still annul the marriage.

chrisantus52:
Hey Friends I need where to work infact any type of work, am tired of been at home that's why am deciding to come to lagos state to look for any type of work that I can do, but my problem is that I don't know anybody in lagos I need help I need where to stay, I don't have money to rent pls help me guys shelter and work pls.

Lagos is worse off if you dont have money accommodation and most especially a very good support system...you go see oba no be small...

agarawu23:
Justwise, I have been waiting to ask you this question , please what can you say about Chile (south America) ? A guy is ready to prepare necessary documents for me but I don't know how life is over there and I will be going alone without knowing anyone there (but I ain't scared of that , I don do am before and God was by my side ) so any info boss ?

Please use that money for this your intended trip to start up a business in Nigeria..no matter how small.

indie22:
That's the same way some people will say that igbo women are all about the money, they lack respect and will not be dedicated to you if you dont spend your life savings taking care of them and their siblings, (b4 i get crucified, i'm igbo too)

Tribe has nothing to do with certain qualities a woman might possess, it's more about the woman's personality and upbringing.

True talk my sister.

Fiscabally:
Iv seen and knew some well educated yoruba men marrying igbo girls this days.im not against this but i thought there are qualities that attracted this.my brother recently got engaged with an igbo girl and i told 1 of his friends(yoruba) who is'nt aware of it,he was like 'correct,ur bro get sense',i askd him y such comment and he xplains that igbo girls are very dedicated and helpful to their husband financially and does'nt lavish money unnecessary on material things like d Yoruba girls,and he also gave me some other reasons like faithfulness to their relationship and so on.Whats ur view on this,cos it seems i might be going 4 Igbo girls too.

The good qualities in a lady that you seek for, cut across all tribe. you can get the good the bad and the ugly in every tribe.Finding a good wife is by luck irrespective of where she is from.

Durent:
I hav been bangin dis babe 4 about 3wks now nd it neva occured to me she was lez till on saturday wen i called her dat i was ho.rny and she told me to come to her place. I went there, entered da room where she stays off-campus nd saw her wit two unclad girls, kissing nd touchin excessively. At first i was like wtf is going on her, she told me to join dem OMG, da 3 of da babes were jst rough-handling durent. It was fun, i touched da oda 2 girls without my babe complaining, the 2 girls were dark nd busty, with flawless pu.ssies, yummy. , i even liked hw they touched each other bodies. I look forward to anoda experience wit dis lesbians but definitely wont marry one
Guys, u shud try doing lez.

you well at all?

How is it done..do you do strictly Corporate or both individuals? Where is your office in Lagos?

Multiple children? where is that coming from?...As for the birthday cake, do you want some?

MrBasketball:
That's what they keep saying... I DON'T DEPEND ON A MAN, I MAKE MY OWN MONEY. but when you are close with them, you will know them.

Are you a woman with multiple children or....?

BTW... Where is our birthday cake?

Because i was not brought up that way...

1stdammy:
I tell u, that wasn't a mistake dear. That's what is called greediness's menh!!!.








One question for u babe, why haven't u made the same mistakes After all, u are human too.........

MrBasketball:
You didn't even make any single point in your post.

She should have keep it to herself instead of coming on here to seek for advice instead, that would have saved her from the bashing she received instead.

I called a gold-digger her because based on the attribute she possessed and everybody knows that... So I'm who I am, there is difference between judging and calling someone something... If your fellow ladies were against her for being greedy and she's part of the man's failure. And if you are the op in disguise who came to defend herself with this, stop running after a man with money, because you won't get a good result at the end.

You can go and have a peaceful day on your birthday.

LOL...Thank you the birthday compliment. I am not the op in disguise ooo! haba! ..I work very hard for my money and take good care of myself without asking a man for money...all i am saying is that we are all human and bound to make mistakes most of the time.This is her cross to carry and she will learn her lessons from life experience.So people here should not over flog this issue with criticism having in mind that she is in a delicate condition.

ilobasama:
Why not do the needful first. You said you are in school , focus on getting a good grade, building yourself and getting ready for the labor market.

Continue being friends with these ladies, try to learn one or two things about ladies, give yourself time. Love will still find you.

At your age, having a girlfriend should not be top on your list. Am not saying its bad o. Just don't rush into any relationship , because you will also rush out

Good advise.

jannies:
Apart from unwanted pregnancy, why do ladies find it hard to believe that HIV is real?? You just meet any guy and open your legs without protecting yourself. @ OP if that man was infected that's how you would have been too? Please don't attempt abortion, no matter how you see it, children are blessings from God!

she is far gone already...abortion is out of the question now.

MrBasketball:
Are you the op? Or I should assume that's your alternate account that you can't reason it that she's a gold-digger and you couldn't say anything about it than to support her for her stupidity for opening her legs for a man she barely know all in the sake of money.

She doesn't love this man but his money... So stop posting nonsensical comments here.

are you telling you that you have not made a mistake before in your life, do you even know her background, and the circumstances she found herself at that point in time? Who are you to judge are...yes she is a Gold Digger...she know that...she got pregnant in other to pin a the man down for marriage but she got her fingers burnt...she already know her mistake and condemned herself a thousand times but does not need all the barrage off accusation going on here.....if she did not put it here online for you to see i don't think you will be busy over another person's headache.

tonychristopher:
Why adk her what she does


She is a shitty slut

Who told you she is a shitty slut...who are you to judge her? are you perfect..what about all the women you have bleeped in the past...what does that make of you....a saint?

Mindfulness:
@anitafancis

You have to find that guy and ask him to assist you with the baby, it is also his child and you two must share the responsibility.
Do you know where he lives or works?

The most descent and matured comment from all other comments.

nwagbunaese:
YIPEEEEEEE...HBD BORNDAY MATE

you too? happy birthday to you too.hahaha!!

klassiquette:
Happy birthday Darl... Have a blissful party

Thank you.

Hello every one.Today is my birthday too. Sep 14...

Rivertemz:
I grew up with somalis.
Islington, London, UK filled with somalis and they all called each other black-african.
I knew somalis who acted like they were jamaican.
I knew somalis who were smart and focused on their books.
I knew somalis who just smoked weed and cause trouble in the community.
I knew poor somalis
I knew middle-class somalis
I knew religious somalis
I knew a few non-religious somalis

Neither of the somalis i knew sounded like your d*mb a**

Good one.

adamskutty:
Ajuran/axum is my boy who joined nl close to 4 years ago with a severe mental problem, i have succeeded by half to keep him in check, his mental sickness do occure once in a while but give me sometime, i promise u that every single virus eating up the cells of his brain will be completely eliminated. However, in order to bring him back to normal and make him behave as every other normal humans behave, he will need to get rid of his current brain while i arrange for a brain donor, a dead person of not more that 48hrs.

Thanks!

Hahahahahaha!! so my God...you are just too funny.

WailingWailer00:
When they have money they never help the poor, they spend lavishly like head of States, Kings etc
When wahala come, they beg like beggars
Timaya, Wizkid,etc be warned

Guy, if you wan die you're free

Whaaaaat!!! did you remember to take your pill today?goodness

Freemanan:
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http://www.today.ng/news/090713286-over-100-biafra-separatists-arrested-in-delta/

Cc lalasticlala

The police should also extend their arrest to the Fulani heads men that have been killing and maiming people in Benue state for some time now..I have never heard of police making extensive arrest of these guys.. no be only South South wahala na una dey flex muscles.The crimes committed over there is 10 times worse ..why are they afraid to make arrest when it comes to crimes involving Hausa/Fulani but they are fast to make this kind of arrest for people that are protesting for their right to have thier own country......na waooo!!

tolzy90:
Cost

Ladies' handbag - 7k
Men's wallet - N700

Ladies' fixing of hair - 5k
Men's haircut - N200

Ladies' fixing of nails - 1k
Men's Blade - N10

Ladies' Bra - 1.5k
Men's singlet - N300

Set of G-string - 1.5k
Men's boxers - N300

Ladies' make-over kit - 10k
Men's handkerchief - N50

Time

Men's spent time to dress up - 20mins
Ladies' spent time to dress up - 1:30mins

Men's time to get haircut - 30mins
Ladies' time to get hair fixed - 2days

Bonus

How many barbers needed 2 cut Men's hair - 1
How many hairstylists needed 2 make ladies hair - 3

This topic is wrong, rather it should be "WHY STINGY GUYS DONT HAVE GIRL FRIENDS

yemstok:
My Bday mate...@last.

hiiipy!! sey we are going to share the same cake? lol

PunkyVeer:
#4 sounds so much like some guys here on Nairaland. So bitter & so jaded, no wonder no one wants them in real life

Abi!!

vicadex07:
Seems you still haven't gotten the point of this thread. I will rather travel and settle abroad than anywhere in Biafra land...aunty

The good for you...

vicadex07:
Bitchh pls...I should try and travel to where? South east? For what. Southwest is like London to igbo people and will remain like that okay.

Now if you have an iota of sense in you, you would have discovered that my thread is a rebuttal of the fallacy being peddled around by your Igbo brothers and it isn't in anyway a chest beating or dickk measuring contest. Now scamper on bitchh and reflect on that.

How old are you...a child you really are...God in heaven..I think you should go back and face your studies. i dont think you should be here constituting a nuisance to the forum..Goodness..you make me laugh..Tell your parents to take you to the south east and south south areas to increase your horizon..if you continue like this then Nigeria is in trouble...what do they teach you guys in school these days...so much hate among our children ..God help us.Please face your book this forum was created for matured mind and not kids.