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lol..very funny

SLIDEwaxie:
pla, stop getting me wrong o. We still talk and caht very good. Besides, I have another babe, beautiful and normal. I am not saying I was pained because I wasn't. I was already months into another relationship before we broke since av first lernt abt her escapades. We live far apart.

What I am saying is: cheating doesn't have an excuse...one cheat because one is morally declined and not because she/he felt hurt.

I have been cheating since I knw abt relationships...

ok.

SLIDEwaxie:
my babe of five years cheated last yr, I booted her asss. I dnt give a fucck or care.

This is the deal, I cook beans for children but I dnt eat it. Now, if u dnt want to eat beans, swerve. No be big deal.

It's not like I flaunt my cheating...its capped and u won't even knw...

But, call me anything u like, I will be down with the morally declined lady and not a dog. So, I cheat, so what? Does that give u the opportunity to cheat? No, it doesn't. You cheat only to prove that you are as despicable as I am...so, dnt come hanging on the excuse that u cheat cos I cheated. No, babe, u are a dog...just like I am!

dont pay evil for evil..if you continue to cheat becos you are pained does not justify why you should hurt an innocent woman in your relationship. it would be better to be a player than make a woman commit to you with the soul aim of cheating on her so that you can repay women in thier own coins..that is wickedness..and kama is so good that when it time to settle to down to find that good woman it will seem like finding a niddle in a grain sack..If you cheat in a relationship where there is no commitement then no problem but when there is commitment from both parties and alot of sacrifice and investiment has been poured into the relatioship, i dont see such behavious as morally ok..becos you are hurting the very person you looked into her eyes never to hurt...when you give out love then you get love in return but when it the other way round then you cant find love and affection from that person..even if you choose to have 100 side chicks..you will only satisfy your physical need but not the very need that you craved for ..You can only get what you give..I pray you find some one that will change your heart toward women for good..life is too short.

Emaprince:
you must be very very foolish/stewpid for asking this question!!!

Lets start from you.... Are you faithful? How many girls in this country are faithful?

Our boys dont even have the money to keep more than one girl but you girls goes after both boys and sugar dadies. I'm really surprised that a girl has the temerity to ask this question in a country where every single girl has more than two boyfriends. SMH!!!

you seem bitter about something else but definately not this topic...point of correction, not all girls are unfaithful...we still have good girls that are modest and keep to one boyfriend at a time..if they introduce such girl to our Nigerian guys, they will say they are not as flashy and curvy like the girl about town...a beautiful, curvy, tall girl that socializes alot is bouned to come across many admires that would want to date her at all cost with money to throw around. So if guys know these kind of girls and still ready to stick your head in it why then do you come back like wounded lions...when thier heart have been broken by this flashy girls.backing and abusing innocent women here on nairaland.WHY?
So dont stereotype all women if not you will have problem with trust...Sorry if your heart must have been broken in the past..We women must have had our own share of heart break too with our guys but we dont always lash it out on you guys. pls dont take it out on the op..You came on too harsh..that is not fair.

SLIDEwaxie:
People like me who cheat in relationships will only cook u a reason as an excuse. Cheating is a mental disorder, it knws no bound. There's no need asking questions: I cheat cos I wanted to. I dnt think I will stop!

And dnt let a cheat promise u he will stop, well, for what is wot, he will want to, but he won't.

The only thing I realise is that, when u dnt want to cheat, you won't. Even if a girl stands stark naked in front of u. But when we want to cheat, we just dnt see the logic in no wanting to.

But there is a clear difference btw a cheat and a fool who has no self-control.

I see..so two can play the game then..while you are cheating your babe will be having a little of her own too and there wont be any hard feelings..right?

ideatoprince18:
THE SIMPLE REASON WHY MOST MARRIAGES DONt LAST IS DAT WOMEN CAN NEVER B SATISFIED ....... FEMINISM HAS TAKEN OVA D TOTAL BRAINS OF OUR WOMEN .....I HATE IT WHN I SEE A WOMAN CLAIMING EQUALITY WIT A MAN ....... THAT IS U AREE OPENLY SAYING THAT G-D DOES NOT KNOW WAT HE IS SAYING WHEN HE MADE MEN HEAD AND NOT HELPER ....... ANODA REEASON IS DAT ......... IF UR WIFE .... I REPEAT .... IF UR WIFE HAS TASTED UP TO FIVE DICK B4 SHE MARRIES U ...... SHE CAN NEVER B FAITHFUL!!!!"

Oga,that is rather unfair...your judgement of women and the number of men they must have been with before marriage is really poor..It does not always work like that..A virgin can still cheat on her husband if she has it in her mind to do it and a girl about town before marriage may remain faithful in her marriage depending on how these two individual hold on to thier vows..it all depend on the individual mind involve here and value they place on thier marriages..

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jaymichael:
Jagua lazy man wey Grace dey always beat. I like the way he used to pronounce his wife's name "Grashe Grashe"

haahaha..i remember

Jagua and grace..my belle ooo! my head!!! good old days

LEXYCOM:
This write up just lighten my mood and increase my faith d more cos I have been down and worried since morning

Thesame with me

porshuch:
Sell that cadaver to medical students, let them use it for practical.

jesu...u bad ni

The white kid

Gingerr:
I hope you find love again Celine don but this time go for a younger man pls

My sister the marriage and love for each other lasted becos the man is elderly and mature..this days majority of our young guys are very unstable.They get bored easily after some years with thesame woman in marraige.

Congrat cossy....maybe marriage will make you cover up a little.

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I was banned Becos I commented and supported a motion dat has to do with a biafra topic.hmmm!!! can u imagine?

tearoses:
What were the parents looking at before now
He didn't just start this yesterday
How did they bring him up?
Imagine the effrontery . . the kid threatening to beat up his mother.

It may be too late to get this boy back on the right line. at 16 he is almost an adult and if he offends, he will be treated like an adult.

The problem with kids like this is that the whole community suffers. soon he will be out there being a nuisance to everyone.

they spared the rode and eventaully spoilt the child...I remember when my cousine, grown up guy if 17 yrs, slapped his elder sister of 25 years old..his father ordered my other neighbours to beat him and lock him up in a guard room for two days..he never tried that nonsense again..

strenghtofawoman:
Well said, thank you.

While sex means a lot to men,its not that way for women. Actually u can make a lady happy by showing her love,care and most importantly attention. Pet her and get her gifts once in a while to show u appreciate her. Believe me, she will leave DT sex maniac of a guy and be urs forever

abi? tell the guys..they dont have a clue..of what we want..

Specialbaby:
hehehehehehe.

Goodmorning dearie

morning my friend..

Toks2008:
Gehn gehn! oya make you counter am from the Bible nah.

Women are very funny but GOD in his infinite wisdom knew the intricacies behind marriage and thats why he does not allow marriage in heaven lol!

There is no place in the Bible where it was instructed for a lady to divorce her husband based on sexual infidelity or polygamous tendency because even the great men in the bible were polygamous talking about Abraham,David and even solomon.

Some times when i write deep articles on marriage and relationship, the teenagers and young ladies who are yet to understand life will usually come for my head but the matured ones and our mother wil nod and say THIS IS THE TRUTH.

So whether you ladies who are abusing me now take it or you will remember this article latter because trust my word,95% of men will cheat on their wives before 5years of marriage and if your hubby remains faithful to you then you are among the hundreds of thousands of fortunate lady who make up the 5% of global population.

Crazy enough even myself writing this have never cheated on any lady i have ever been with but i have tried to look among all the friends i ever had and i hardly found any who have not at one point in their marriage had a one night stand.

But i repeat that before anyone makes comment after this very post im making,please and please read my write up very well,assimilate before you comment.

Mr man..you seem to be very proud of the fact that men including u sees nothing wrong in cheating on your spouse...hmmmm!! maybe you should pin a cheaters( " stating i am a cheat..do you mind?) batch on your shirt and tell the whole world what you stand for...people like you that reasons this way always end up jumping from one woman to the other ...looking for what ?? love, peace of mind? i doubt it...if you can inflict pain on your spouse and cause her so much misery why would u expect her to give you joy...when you inflict pain on a woman she will make you stay in a house hunted by her sadness, instead of a home but when if you give her love and joy then she will give you a home...there you will have peace of mind....men that reason like you are selfish and self centered; they are not happy people at all.Maybe you should advocate for two can play the game type of lifestyle, Dont worry..marry a woman and cheat on her then she in return will cheat back then you will know if you can tolerate what you have just ask us women to telerate....village mentality..of our fathers that is what you have..i pity the women that will end up with you. Rubbish topic.

Toks2008:
I honestly believe that as difficult as it may seem,if ladies can take their focus off who her hubby dates,the happier she will be.

Maybe men should nt be so bitter after all when they find thier wives cheating on them as a way of revenge...this topic total rubbish

respect, commuication, self worth, a bit of money for comfort, good family value, listening hears, kind heartedness, honestry, intergrity, faithfulness and moderate temperament. ..if you have this then you wont have any problem with your woman...men start having problems here when they want to eat thier cake and have it..by being unfaithful and inresponsbile and expect the ladies to understand becos they are African men.

Specialbaby:
most ladies cant handle big dick dear.

dont mind him..they dont know that we like it moderate.big dick sucks.

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zoeee:
How does this affect us

he dey try tell us sey he na Candian Citizen. shikene