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rezy15:
True talk! So have you asked ur Disloyal Nigerian mother who your real father is?

Hahahah!! good question...well said

moneyhungry:
Marriage is bondage.
Variety is the spice of life- buhari 1985.

Marriage is a good thing especially when you are with the one you love and apply the principles of marriage...when you grow up you will realize what have once told you. Cheers

searching4l0ve:
THIS IS WHY I WONT ADVICE ANYONE TO MARRY THESE DISLOYAL THINGS CALLED NIGERIAN WOMEN. THEY ARE SO RANDY AND PROMISCOUS WITHOUT ANY SENSE OF DIGNITY. MANY MEN HAVE FALLEN VICTIM OF THIS SCAM CALLED NIGERIAN WOMEN ALL IN THE DISGUISE OF FAKE LOVE. I KEEP SEEING MARRIAGE THREADS ON NAIRALAND WEEKLY AND I CANT BUT SHAKE MY HEAD FOR THE UNFORTUNATE GROOM WHO IS ABOUT TO BE HOOKED IN DELUSION OF MARRIAGE AFTER YEARS OF PROSTITUTING IN THE NAME OF RELATIONSHIP BY THE SO CALLED WIFE. MANY NIGERIAN MEN ARE RAISING BASTARD KIDS IN THEIR HOMES WITHOUT KNOWING DUE TO IGNORANCE ABOUT THE PROSTITUTES THEY CALL WIVES. A FOREIGN LADY IS BETTER THAN ALL THESE HYPERTENSIVE NIGERIAN WIVES BECAUSE THEY ARE MORE SINCERE AND KNOW WHAT TRUE LOVE & COMMITMENT REALLY MEANS.

I RATHER MARRY A DOLL THAN MARRY A NIGERIAN GIRL.
#Team foreign girls

Meeen!!! Nigerian women must have really dealt with your for you to be this bitter toward us. haba!! "let me take a glass of water first"....hmmm!! Mr man, not all Nigerian women are unfaithful and the so called foreign women you prefer are more roundly and un-serious than Nigerian women..please be objective in your comparison and stop getting too emotional. There are unfaithful women every where in the world and marriage breaks up as a result of this thing called cheating which is even more rampant abroad. So It all broils down to the individual person and what makes up his/her personality. You might be hurting from your past relationship/marriage but please don't go all stereotypical on marriage and women as a bad thing that ever happened in this world.....Life is alot sweeter when you are in a happy marriage with a woman you love and respect and she loves you back. Cheers

tonytony208:
You have a beautiful submission up there, but I will like to state ma, that the two of you cannot always agree with each other. There are times one will be saying A and the other will be saying B. The way forward is not for the two of you to be saying the same thing every time, but for you to accept each other's differences, individuality and unique personality. For all you know, the other person's different point of view may turn out to be the better choice.

From the little I understand, relationship/marriage is built on compromise. I can't always have my ways and she can't always have her ways. We have to compromise to condescend and meet up at a central meeting point of view (I have a feeling you'll understand what I mean). I must be ready to let go of some of my standards, while she too must be ready to let go of some of her standards.

I suspect you are Yoruba (I hope am right). I will therefore summarise all my yappings with a proverb: mò wà f'óníwà l'ó n jé ore j'òré.

Believe me ma, it's all about accepting each other's different points of view and working out a meeting point, using elements of our different ideas as the building block to a common ground.

NOP..i am not Yoruba, I am from Delta state.

Dosinspector:
Am from delta and am igbo and a biafran, and any south southner who is not comfortable with biafra should naturalize with Osun or Oyo,its a free world.

just because you are a Delta Ibo does not give you the right to tell other ethnic group in Delta state to naturalize to other south west region just because they are not in support of the Biafra project...are you for REAL?...The Itsekiris, the Urhobos, the Isoko and the Ijaws are from and they are more Deltan than you Delta Ibos..> you guys better go and form your Anioma state and get out of Delta state then you can make it the FCT of BIAFRA...ok..Rubbish.

AfroKnight:
I saw the warning about "Graphic pictures" yet I clicked. Why why why? I wish I didn't see this o. O Lord.

na person pikin be that ooo!!

kilode100:
Those mallams dey get huge Dick, the guy I bought yams from has a very huge C0ck.

I wonder what they eat and what could be responsible for it?


Thanks for listening.

how did u know his cocky is long....abi Una do dat thing? nor quote me ooo...na joke ooo.

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lastpage:
Get a Husband and stop ranting here!

Yes, married women deserve a lot of respect and will always be accorded that due respect than on you over-aged "Agadi Nwanyi" that is playing around, jumping from one bed to another, all in the name of civilisation!

If you like, go to court and say you are not respected like a married woman.
Infact, you are considered not yet responsible, since you are yet to get married.
Who are you "responsible towards"? Your wife? Your husband? Your children?

Oh, l forgot, you many boyfriends/Girlfriends, right?
Who will even put you in sensitive position when they know that you can "bail-out" at anytime since you have no "family responsibilities"?

Like l said, if e dey pain you, charge me to court.

Married and Proud of it. Just see my "ring finger"!



Lastpage!

Don't you think you comment are very harsh and not necessary...I am over 30 and single with an ailment..that does not mean we jump from one man to the other...if you are married and settled then lucky you and pray for us to marry and settle down with someone we love and are compatible with. Will you say becos i am over 30 i should just marry becos of old age despite the fact that i don't have any feelings for the man and stand his presence for long? this is the reason why the rate of divorce is on the increase. People were pressured to marry only to discover that they cannot cope the challenges appears before them. Pls is not just fair to say she is a slut just becos she is not married.Marriage is a good thing and one institution i really long to be part of but i must marry someone that i like. We are all women,words like this hurt alot you know.

hedonistic:
Don't mind wicked Nigerians. These are the same people that would insult and mock the hell out of you if you ever encounter financial shortage and run to them for help after you rush into marriage. They will say 'mumu, na who force you go marry when you know say you no fit feed family'.

If you know how much the average crèche, nursery, and primary school fees cost these days; if you know how much the average manageable one or two bedroom apartment in a decent area costs these days; if you take stock of the numerous spiralling bills these days and the fact that your earnings are barely commensurate with all these.... then you must give yourself serious brain before rushing into marriage to please foolish people who will not help you when the storm inevitably comes.

true talk...you are so on point

MsGlobalwonder:
thank you!! Thank you very much. Nothing to add. Mind you, those choking others with their marital status re more often than none miserable in their marriage.of course they can't leave because of "society" (whatever that means). Domestic violence is on the all time rise, spousal killing is now a normal thing yet they will rather die with the tag "married" than living to fulfill purpose! Marriage is good, marriage is sweet. It is also worth waiting for. If done wrongly, that person of all men is the most miserable. Some can't afford that.

Thank my friend , abeg tell them..dem wont let us rest.

Nairlanders you guys are good with mathematics...I m impress.

When Corpers are decamped what will then be their fate? Will they now restart service with another set?

http://bcove.me/92aspke0

Son Charged with Killing His Connecticut Parents Who Cops Say Planned to Cut Him From Will



The son of a Connecticut couple whose bodies were found months after they went missing made his first appearance in court Tuesday after being charged with his parents’ murders.

After vanishing in August, Jeanette and Jeffrey Navin were found bound with tape and shot to death on a vacant property in Weston, not far from the family home on October 24, authorities said.

Only days before they went missing, Jeanette Navin reportedly told a friend she planned on cutting out their 27-year-old son, Kyle Navin, from their will because of his alleged drug use and fiscal irresponsibility.

Navin had been in federal prison since September on weapons charges, stemming from a search of his Bridgeport home during the investigation into his parents’ disappearance, officials said.

Navin appeared in Bridgeport Superior Court on double murder charges and was held on $2.5 million bond. He did not enter a plea and is scheduled to return to court on November 24.

Read: Son Charged in Murders of Parents Was Angry Over Being Disinherited, Cops Say

His attorney, Eugene Riccio, said the hearing was “just the start of a long judicial process,” the Associated Press reported.

Police investigators wrote in court papers that Navin’s mother had told a friend that she and her husband planned to sell their family garbage business, J & J Refuse, and remove their elder son from their will.

“Jeanette told her many times in the past that she had problems with Kyle regarding his use of painkillers, and his failure to pay his property taxes, and other monies owed,” Connecticut State Police wrote in an affidavit for Navin’s arrest warrant.


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Navin’s home was purchased for him by his parents, the court papers said.

“A post-it note in the business ledger/checkbook labeled ‘Kyle Owes’ showed indebtedness in the amount of $133,000,” the papers said.

Cops say several once-deleted text messages between Navin and his girlfriend, 31-year-old Jennifer Valiante, document Navin’s plan for his parents.

“That’ll allow to stay in our house pay for a full top line remodel and new garage. And have hundreds of thousands to buy my cummins(sic) and you a new car and enjoy life taking vacations, having fun with friends no stress no contact ever again with the bad people,” he allegedly wrote to his girlfriend in July.

“Then we’ll have the 200k credit union, Weston house and j&j profit. I’ve been thinking it nonstop since yesterday. It would solve every single problem and give us a wealthy amazing life. Think about it little one," he allegedly wrote.

Cops say the pair also spoke about the money they believed his parents owed Navin.

“Wipe out the infection and get $ for life. It’s the perfect plan,” Navin allegedly wrote to his girlfriend.

Valiante appeared in court Monday. She was charged with conspiring to kill Navin’s parents and hindering prosecution.

Read: Idaho Rancher is Killed by Police in Shootout They Say Began with His Rampaging Bull

Valiante's attorney, Elliot Warren, said the texts have been "taken out of context," and Valiante would deny talking with or texting Navin about killing his parents and taking their money, the AP wrote.

A tiny amount of Jeanette Navin’s blood was found in her son’s truck near one of two bullet holes in the passenger seat as well as on a partial thumb print on the garage door opener at her home, the affidavit said.

Investigators also found latent bloodstains that matched both Navin and his father’s DNA in Navin’s basement, the court papers said.

The last call Jeffrey Navin’s cellphone made was to his son, investigators said.

“I’m not going home till I know mom is okay,” Jeffrey Navin wrote to his son, the affidavit said. “Did you hurt mom?”

The exchange between the two continued, as Kyle Navin denied doing anything wrong, according to the affidavit.

Navin long had a tumultuous relationship with his parents, investigators said.

“During the course of the investigation, investigators learned that Kyle Navin had a strained relationship with his parents, Jeffrey and Jeanette Navin that extended over a course of years,” the affidavit said.

Navin’s younger brother, Taylor Navin, allegedly told police: “When I heard my parents were missing I thought to myself… they either went on vacation, or my brother did something to them.”

Jeanette and Jeffrey Navin’s bodies were found on the property of an abandoned home that had been empty for about 10 years, the homeowners told police.

The couple’s remains were found in a tarp underneath leaves and other debris, the affidavit said.

The homeowner’s son told police he was acquaintances with Kyle Navin and that Navin had been to the property in the past, but they had lost touch.

“Throughout the course of this investigation, there has not been one instance in which Kyle has ever reached out to investigators to inquire about the status of this investigation,” the affidavit continues. “All contact with Kyle has been initiated by investigators in an effort to locate his parents.”

http://news.yahoo.com/son-charged-killing-connecticut-parents-201600672.html

is not it..there final hotels.

The period of my depression made me to look out for Genuine NGO's in my area and i became a volunteer to the Organization. the fact that there are scheduled plans of travel activities lined up for the year in other state of the country and even outside the country give me this optimistic feeling about life that i am contributing my quota to humanity..So guys if you have a heart of charity to volunteer your time and give back to society and the world at large then i think it is a good therapy to use to avoid being lonely and depress.

I am so sick to my stomach with this pix..God in heaven what do people think about before carrying out this wicked act.

PuciPrince:
You aint wrong OP. Its as bad as seeing women approach men overthere. Its just too common.

The way they look at you alone ehn.

An average south african girl is a single mum. They dump their kids with their granny and keep hustling for money with their body

The Op categorically stated that this issue is became ram[ant as a result of the influx of Zimbabwe citizens into SA..that means, it is the Zimbambwe women in South Africa you should be talking about here and not South African Women..they are two different entities here.

StealthyMe:
And that's another addition to the unending list of baby mamas

But why does she look like a magician in the first photo The 2nd looks better

She is married and not a baby mama.

This one na small one..The traffic i experience on my way to Lagos last week Sunday was terrible..the stand still traffic started from ondo state..we arrive Benin 11am only to get stuck in Ondo State for 10 hrs...na God save us ...we were just praying there that arm rubbers should not take advantage of our predicament...

Kelklein:
SOME BEAUTIFUL LINES.
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1. Sometimes, the only reason why you won't let go of what's making you sad is because it was the only thing that made you happy.

2. The best boyfriend isn't the best- looking, the funniest, or the richest. It's the one that makes sure you know he loves you.

3. Lonely is not a feeling when you are alone. Lonely is a feeling when no one cares.

4. Psychology says, when you truly care for someone, their mood can literally affect yours.

5. Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you'll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others.

enjoy the rest of your day!

Where did you get this powerful message from?Thank you.

Maybe she did not love your Dad as much as you thought..Was your Dad a good and loving father and husband?..One thing i know is that when a wife loses a good and caring husband , she is thrown into morning and will be so deep in thought that she can not tell happenings around her not to talk of Looking at another man.

Kenya's are wonderful people..the same with Nigerians...cant you guys ever come together to discuss issues on how how to help in solving problems face by we africans..of how peoples lives can be affected positively in Africa? i tire for una ooo!! bunches of loosers that is what i call any one that is engage in this Nigeria-Kenya insult.Its not necessary.Rubbish.

utenwuson:
sooo? na who ur wife virginity don help? u ll come here 2 open another thread " my wife don't like sex n am so confuse" lol! any happy married life 2 u n ur virgin! pls don dsvirgin her till she reach men_o-pause

LOL...guy be happy for him na

colp2015:
Premarital sex is a sin; it exposes humans to diseases and untimely death.

Na so Anty Caro do...kept her virginity till 38 years and courted this guy without sex for three years; only to discover that the man is impotent after marriage..she was silent about it for 7 more years.before blowing his cover to their pastor. Now she is depress and now talks to her self while walking on the street. So I believe in testing, even if we do not get down but the man must be able to have an erection somehow.

devonpaul:
Vulgar

Thanks for the correction.

For the men it was an interesting and exciting adventure but for the women, it was painful with mix feelings.

Durentt:
Go and brush up ur toto there, noinsense, dats if u're not a stupiid transgendered oloshi *no ofiense*

you are soooooooooo raw and crass..Jesus..what kind of guys is the Nigerian society breeding these days...that was quite Vulgar and uncivil of you.Goodness

fatheritunu:
Foolish girls, silly fools, idiot girls. All they want is ready made wealth.. That is why rich men will keep on using female for money ritual.

u dey vex ooo..abi dem don break your heart before?..you seem very cross with us.

domwas2:
At 30+ I don't seems getting a serious relationship yet, all my female friends I love all they want is gifts, birthday things, fu*k etc none ever talking about marriage stuff
And when I bring up marriage talks all they respond are excuses...
But the ladies I don't love are the ones ready to settle down with me, even some wanna have my baby.

Nawa o

It depend on the age group of girls you are meeting..if you are seriously searching for someone to settle down with the you should look out for serious minded girls that equally want to settle down too.