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youngalex:
Very soon she will start preaching about virginity for instagram like One Toke,i always tell ladies no matter how you detest young guys cos they are broke you will still see them become rich someday with their lovely wife and kids...it's just a matter of time...the wise ones take time to build with their man and enjoy the fruits for life

even the broke guys get thier own whalala...so wetin you dey talk...

Okestra01:
honestly speaking,there is nothing like marrying from the middle class society as a man if you are very successful,because there is this peace that comes with that class.They worry less and they are well trained and brought up with discipline.Its the rich that will always worry that their son or daughter will not marry from low class and most of this kids have nothing to offer.My friends mum once told him to marry a teacher if he wants peace and good state of mind and someone that will have time for his kids.Im not in a position to judge them but i must say everything is not money.Peace of mind is very germane in marriage.merci beaucoup

well said

If he is Genuine with his probe he should start with Tinubu's first and not playing to the the galary of witch hunting only Fashola

VOM:
what I find quite funny is how she rolled over to the cliff's edge from the spot where she was shot,I don't know which is more silly between Nollywood and Bollywood.lol and smh

Abi...I thought my eye were deceiving me..Indian films and their magic..anyway..i think Sugni needed to die anyway to fulfill the producers vision of the story, because she was suppose to collapse on the floor and not over the edge of the cliff.

PunkyVeer:
*hugs*

Thanks

PunkyVeer:
What's wrong with my grammar, grammar nazi? Take a chill pill for that headache & then beat it! The irony!

more like your grammer is right on point..

TheDauraMallam:
Lol, still cherry picking, right?

Idi Amin, Robert Mugabe, Ibrahim Bambangida, MO Abiola, Abumbi II, (the 11th fon, or king, of Bafut, Cameroon, has close to 100 wives.), Mswati III, current King of Swaziland has over 25 wives and so forth..

If you quote me again, I will send your reasoning back to kindergarten.

Spits.

you are definitely not a sound person..if you are you would know how to choose your word wisely when commenting on a public forum...do us a favour and keep quiet if you have nothing sensible to say....and stop being a nuisance in this forum.

TheDauraMallam:
You are the racist here and I see nothing wrong about telling the truth. You are the one who choose the racial message, and left the other message (which was even more important to this topic).

Let me re-expatiate, racist:

"[s]By now every one of us has seen it practically that the Blacks cannot rule themselves. Give them guns and they will kill each other. [/s]They are good in nothing else but making noise, dancing, marrying many wives and indulging in sex. [s]Let us all accept that the Blackman is a symbol of poverty, mental inferiority, laziness and emotional incompetence...[/s]"

P.W. Botha

Now, kindly ignore the lined words and slowly read the bolded.

Typical black man. Always cherry picking words in everything.

A typical black man you said..including you( if you happen to be one) they are good for nothing...but making noise and dancing and marrying women....GOD IN HEAVEN-----this are racial hateful word used by white South Africans ( called the BOAS) they used it to describe the black Africans and the need to see then as sub human back then...and you with your arrogance have the nerve to bring this rubbish to a black forum...are you high on something or what....so the Like of the Dangotes...the Elumelus'..the Martin Luther King , Chinua Achebe, Nelson Mandela ,Desmond Tutu,Mohammed Ali and many others..so these great black men that have affected the world positively were all good for nothing , dancing and marrying women..is n't it??...if you are white your hate for the black man is despicable..you cant even hide it but if you are a black man then i am ashamed of you and feel very sorry for your low self esteem. Goodness. dont ever quote any racial comment and bring it up here to offend our sensibility..this is not a white mans forum pls...

TheDauraMallam:
[size=15pt]"[/size]By now every one of us has seen it practically that the Blacks cannot rule themselves. Give them guns and they will kill each other. They are good in nothing else but making noise, dancing, marrying many wives and indulging in sex. Let us all accept that the Blackman is a symbol of poverty, mental inferiority, laziness and emotional incompetence...[size=15pt]"[/size]

P.W. Botha

Take your racia comment out of this forum...that is if you are a white person.. but if you are a black man..then i feel very sorry for you for your self esteem has striped off from you by the western world...your comment rick of inferiority complex.

Dragonking:
Why get married and then deny your husband sex?? Some women are just plain evil.... Anyways, the beating is needed to reset her brain back to default mode.

I hope you wont end up a woman beater...that is if you not not already one.

kilode100:
What's with men and virgin ?
Are you trying to say that for two years the man no fvuk toto?
Women sef, youknow say your kini na expressway you still dey lie!


Who virgin don help sef?

Kai!! your mouth bad no be small....hahaha!! i won laugh die for here..you funny sha.

Idowuogbo:
Oh stop it!!!

That's sooooooooooo boring!!!

its true na....any Hausa/fulani person in the house to confirm this fact ?

Mcleo007:
That marriage should be rendered null and void. It was built on lies and was already dead on arrival. I'd sue her if I were you and claim damages. She doesn't love you, don't be deceived; she used you/took advantage of you to get married.

Hihi!! be like sey na America you dey type this your message from....sue ki ni! collect damage ke!! for Nigeria?...hmmm!!!

Sijo01:
Is this a lone marriage?
Am not seeing any femle/bride among the pictures
OP, where is your yaniyan?

Hausa bride are not usually present at the wedding ceremony..the wedding takes place behind their back while they are kept somewhere till the whole wedding ritual is complete...then she is taken to her husbands house..na only our leaders female daugher we dey see for marriage arena....hmmm!!

PunkyVeer:
I just developed hives because I'm allergic to broke. Catch 22.

Hmm...is there a gun pointed at my head for me to choose either one?

The cheater would be too stressful to deal with, but the money would afford me therapy, long vacations away from him (so he won't touch me. Yuck.) & anti-depressants.

The broke dude on the other hand is broke, which will depress me & the worst part is that he won't even be able to afford medication that'll keep me happy living in squalor with him.

It's too much for a girl to take

babe i feel you...

Not true..when you google your user name the first page that will turn up is nairaland...this is a forum that does not give room for members to edict/change their user name.So i decided to remove my pix instead to be on the safe side.

sonofananimal:
WHY THE WOMEN SHOULD SIT DOWN AND BE FORMING FEMINIST, EATING LIKE FOWL


SO YOU THINK YOU MAKE SENSE

yes..i made alot of sense... you did not answer my questions..as a millionaire, would you still be faithful to that woman that stood by you when you had nothing? will she be the only woman in your life? of cos NO...

sonofananimal:
WHAT MAKE YOU THINK I AM A BITTER MAN

YOU MAY SEE IT AS GENERALIZING COS YOU ARE A FEMALE, BUT THIS IS JUST THE TRUTH ABOUT YOU PEOPLE.

Give some of us some slack here..we are not all that bad..Are women also right by generalizing that all Nigerian men are unfaithful.

Kennedyiheme:
what about you are you working? Or waiting for smeone to cme and liberate you frm poverty? Oprah winfrey didn't wait

I am working and not online complaining about men who cannot provide for their family..or men looking for women that have money to date..we see them every day..so Mr man...i am working and provide for my need myself.

All you guys complaining here, abusing women....thank you very much...yes we agree we like security, comfort and care...on the other hand you guys like beautiful women as well as those that has all the qualities of a wife...abi? now why are you guys complaining? Get a job and make your self and your woman comfortable and stop coming to Naira land to start abusing them. Yes we like money...what about you...wont your love be put to test when you become a millionaire tomorrow? will you remember that woman that stayed with you when you had nothing and still married you. would you still use that same eyes to look at her after her body must have weakened due child birth and working round the clock to keep the home front running smoothly... would you? you are here lashing at us when your fellow men's sins are expose for all to see...what will be your excuse then..that you are an African man and your wife is no longer as attractive as the young olosho girls you are now abusing..these are the ones you will be running after and spending your money on because you want some variety added to your sex life....women are selfish just the way men are selfish...SO YOU GUYS SHOULD GO BACK TO WORK AND BE THE PROVIDER AS IT WAS DESIGNED INSTEAD OF LAMENTING AND ABUSING US.

sonofananimal:
YOU KNOW WHAT?

THIS YOUR POST ONLY APPLY TO NAIJA WOMAN!
TRY GO OUT SIDE NIGERIA AND SEE THINGS FOR YOURSELF, I HAVE MEET ALOT OF NON-MATERIALISTIC WOMAN WHO JUST WANT NOTHING BUT TO BE LOVE.

NATURALLY NAIJA WOMEN ARE USELESS, THERE FIND LOVE THROUGH MATERIAL THINGS, AND THAT MAKE WE MEN TRY TO DO ANYTHING TO GET MONEY JUST TO CATCH THOSE EEEDIOT (NAIJA WOMEN)

SHALL I HAVE SEEN THE TRUTH!!
NAIJA WOMEN ARE WORTHLES PIECE OF SHITTE!! DON'T STRESS YOURSELF WITH THEM AND SEE THEM COMING YOUR WAY LIKE FLIES

You are a bitter man.....sorry for your heart break but don't start generalizing unnecessarily just because some one broke your heart....NAIJA WOMEN YOU SAID?...IF YOU HAVE A SISTERS AND FEMALE COUSINS THEN THEY SHOULD NOT BE EXEMPTED FROM YOUR VIEW.

Atlantian:
The Bible says, and I quote; "MONEY ANSWERS ALL THINGS". I do not need a woman to love me. I am a strong man. But when it comes to women loving me, I can say I am a butterfly with women. They love me, because I am enigma of some sort. My environs is welcoming, soothing and calm. I treat every guest as the queen of heaven, yet I am superficial and eccentric with the humility of a palm wine tapper. I pour the wines as a professional bar man. In the valley of the shadows of death, I make them fear no evil. I rob their hair with oil and their cups runs over with the wines. Their Goodness and mercy follows me all the way down the bed. In the valley of the shadows of their thighs, I fear no evil. My words, soothes their pains, and make light their worries. True love dies, real love is oiled by wealth. Go and hustle my friend.

Guy see the way you just they flow with your romantic poems..hahaha!!!....Hmmm!! you got real talent in this area...I hey you..

Indians are the worst people to work with...they are wicked and inhuman toward their workers...I dont know if i can use the worse hate but i really dislike them...I resigned from an Indian company because of the the harsh environments i found myself in.I would rather do my own small business that be enslave with some unfortunate Asians who manage to find their way into Africa...I really hate them.Nigerian bosses are far better, though they might have their own excesses but they have human fillings.PEOPLE YOU SHOULD STAY AWAY FROM IF YOU WISH TO STILL HAVE YOUR SELF ESTEEM INTACT..INDIANS, LEBANESE, CHINESE.

Anyone that abuses the black race and Nigeria as a result of these comment are cowards, hypocrites and have inferiority complex ...we all contributed to the mess we we found ourselves in ..if we change our ways and stop worshiping our leaders and wealthy Nigerians due to their ill gotten wealth without questioning where they got their wealth from, protest against marginalization and corruption and stop hiding behind the key board to lament all year round, then Nigeria will be a better place.. the people make up the society and the leaders come from that same society...they are a product of what we are....materialistic..tribalistic..egocentric....and bias even in the face of truth..so don't come her and start talking down on Nigeria..if we want this country to be better then we must all change our ways and give credit and honor those that have integrity and are honest in all their areas of endevour.

how can this man become the president of America when he reasons like this..anyway ..i believe this is what Americans want. there is nothing wrong then if this is what people really want.

Really? so it is very painful to tolerate insult abi.. una never start... since APC started the insult they should learn how to put up with it.

Oduyalerapheal:
Rip to her. May almighty God console her family

HABA....you guys should read stories properly before commenting na!!..the story said the girl has been found... and she said she just wanted to be on her own..they did not say she was found dead na...abi my eyes dey see double?

Calling it “Immigration Reform That Will Make America Great Again,” the New York business entrepreneur laid out his three core principles. Those being:

1. A nation without borders is not a nation. There must be a wall across the southern border.

2. A nation without laws is not a nation. Laws passed in accordance with our Constitutional system of government must be enforced.

3. A nation that does not serve its own citizens is not a nation. Any immigration plan must improve jobs, wages and security for all Americans.

Trump’s plan would deny citizenship to the babies of immigrants living in the U.S. illegally as part of an immigration plan that emphasizes border security and deportation for millions.

Trump described his expanded vision of how to secure American borders during a wide-ranging interview Sunday on NBC’s “Meet The Press,” saying that he would push to end the constitutionally protected citizenship rights of children of any family living illegally inside the U.S.

“They have to go,” Trump said, adding: “What they’re doing, they’re having a baby. And then all of a sudden, nobody knows … the baby’s here.”


Republican presidential candidate businessman Donald Trump speaks with reporters after arriving at the Iowa State Fair on August 15, 2015 in Des Moines, Iowa. The Iowa State Fair is one of the oldest and largest agricultural and industrial expositions in the United States. The fair runs through August 23. (Aaron P. Bernstein/Getty Images)
Republican presidential candidate businessman Donald Trump speaks with reporters after arriving at the Iowa State Fair on August 15, 2015 in Des Moines, Iowa. The Iowa State Fair is one of the oldest and largest agricultural and industrial expositions in the United States. The fair runs through August 23. (Aaron P. Bernstein/Getty Images)
Native-born children of immigrants — even those living illegally in the U.S. — have been automatically considered American citizens since the adoption of the 14th Amendment of the Constitution in 1868.

The odds of repealing the amendment’s citizenship clause would be steep, requiring the votes of two-thirds of both houses of Congress and support from three-fourths of the nation’s state legislatures. Republicans in Congress have repeatedly failed since 2011 to pass bills aimed at ending “birthright citizenship.” Some conservatives believe that the granting of citizenship in such cases could be changed without amending the Constitution.

“They’re illegal,” Trump said, describing native-born children of people living illegally in the U.S. “You either have a country or not.”

Trump said he would also rescind Obama administration executive orders on immigration.

Trump’s plan details how he would have Mexico pay for a wall, citing first the ill economic effects and criminal activity that illegal immigration has contributed to in America, while saying that Mexico has profited from the current system.

“The costs for the United States have been extraordinary: U.S. taxpayers have been asked to pick up hundreds of billions in healthcare costs, housing costs, education costs, welfare costs, etc. Indeed, the annual cost of free tax credits alone paid to illegal immigrants quadrupled to $4.2 billion in 2011. The effects on jobseekers have also been disastrous, and black Americans have been particularly harmed,” his position statement read.

“In short, the Mexican government has taken the United States to the cleaners. They are responsible for this problem, and they must help pay to clean it up,” his statement continued.

Until Mexico pays for a wall, Trump’s plan would “impound all remittance payments derived from illegal wages; increase fees on all temporary visas issued to Mexican CEOs and diplomats (and if necessary cancel them); increase fees on all border crossing cards – of which we issue about 1 million to Mexican nationals each year (a major source of visa overstays); increase fees on all NAFTA worker visas from Mexico (another major source of overstays); and increase fees at ports of entry to the United States from Mexico [Tariffs and foreign aid cuts are also options].”

Here are a few other key points from Trump’s position statement. He said he would:

Triple the number of Immigration and Customs Enforcement agents, funded by “eliminating tax credit payments to illegal immigrants.”
Institute an e-verify system for legal employment. He also said he would require immigrants to prove they could pay for their own housing, health care and more to end abuse of the welfare system.
End catch-and-release, instead detaining illegal immigrants until they are deported.
Cut off federal funding to cities who refuse to comply with these immigration rules.
Trump’s plan also detailed how he would require businesses to hire from the pool of unemployed Americans before issuing H-1B visas.

“Petitions for workers should be mailed to the unemployment office, not [United States Citizenship and Immigration Services,]” he wrote.

His policy was endorsed by Sen. Jeff Sessions (R-Ala.) who chairs a Senate subcommittee on immigration.

“This is exactly the plan America needs,” Sessions said in a statement. “Crucially, this plan includes an emphasis on lifting struggling minority communities, including our immigrant communities, out of poverty, by preventing corporations from bringing in new workers from overseas to replace them and drive down wages.”
http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2015/08/17/read-the-new-donald-trump-immigration-policy-paper-that-ann-coulter-says-is-the-greatest-political-document-since-the-magna-carta/

More heart attack for APC supporters.

I saw this write up from a link....i am thrilled that almost all Africans culture are similar.


Posted on January 16, 2013 by Akaliza Keza Gara


A Traditional Rwandan Wedding

Marriage has always been a very important cultural institution in Rwanda. Prior to and after the wedding ceremony there are a number of traditional practices that take place. The nature of these practices have changed over time, with several ceremonies being combined to take place over a shorter period, however many elements remain as they were hundreds of years ago.

Kuranga

Many couples began with a relative of a bachelor pointing out a young lady as a potential bride for him. This was known as Kuranga which translates directly as, ‘to announce’. The bachelor’s family would then select a man as their representative to be the Umuranga who would act as the go-between for their family and that of the bride to be. His role included intensive research on the lady including her ancestry as well as the conduct of her relatives in society.

Gufata Irembo

Following the research, the bachelor’s father would go ‘gufata irembo’, literally, ‘to take the gate’. This was when the father of the potential groom, or a special envoy selected by the family, would visit the girl’s father to declare the intention of his son to marry their daughter. If the girl’s father accepted, arrangements would be made as to when the introduction ceremony, the Gusaba, would take place. Gufata Irembo still takes place today.

Gusaba

‘Gusaba’ is the Kinyarwanda verb ‘to ask’ and is the ceremony where the Umuranga officially requests for the daughter as a bride. The Gusaba is a battle of wits often involving traditional tongue-twisters as well as riddles and pranks from the girl’s side. The family of the would-be bride, as well as the people of her neighbourhood, were all consulted as, the welfare of children, even in marriage, is the responsibility of the community.

Gukwa

If the Umuranga was successful in Gusaba, the next phase would be the Gukwa – that is the payment of the dowry. The dowry was always strictly a cow, or several cows. Once the negotiations were over, the bride’s side would invite the groom’s side to share a drink. Then, before the groom’s side left, they would often be given a drink known as Impamba which they were to enjoy along their journey home. In modern times, if one side has travelled a great distance they may even be invited to share a meal together with their future in-laws before they return home.

Gutebutsa

After the Gusaba and Gukwa, the families would meet again to discuss the date of the wedding – this was known as Gutebutsa. In modern times, this is often done privately between the bride, groom and their immediate families without involving as many parties.

Gutinyisha

Traditionally, before her wedding day, a bride would spend several weeks in seclusion being cared for by one of her aunts. During this time her aunt would give her advice on how to take care of her future family. The bride would also undergo intensive beauty treatments including daily applications of perfumed cow-ghee with special herbs to give her softer and smoother skin. She would also adhere to a diet regime reserved for brides.

The Wedding Day

On the day of the wedding, a bride would be seated in a traditional carrier known as ingobyi. The ingobyi would have two handles which would be placed on the shoulders of two strong men who would carry her to the groom. After arriving at her groom’s home, she would be taken inside and a special banquet in honour of both the bride and groom would be held. The banquet would include traditional Kinyarwanda dancing and singing.

Gutwikurura

The final ceremony is known as Gutwikurura. The wife’s family would visit her at her new home and bring a number of items to help her settle in. Prior to this, the wife would not have been seen in public and would have completely refrained from any work. In this ceremony, the wife would make a meal for her family and in-laws for the first time.

At the end of any visit to a Rwandan home, including this one, a host would often offer their guests Agashingura Cumu – which literally means ‘that which pulls out the spear’. In the past, men would travel with spears and before entering a home they would pierce them into the ground outside the entrance. The drink would symbolically give the visitors energy to pluck out their spears.

The wife’s family would then journey home and the young couple would begin their new life together.

https://itriedtowarnyou./2013/01/16/a-traditional-rwandan-wedding/

all this yoruba vs Igbo e- war is just limited to the internet....if una hate one another how come you guys are marrying one another .... the wedding i am going to attend in August is between a Yoruba man from Osun and an Igbo Lady from Enugu. Secondly my colleague in the office is from Anambra state while his wife is from Ekiti....make una stop all this hate speeches oo...because if this materializes into reality what will happen to children born into this inter-marriage.

Amosun, go and fix Alagbole/Akute that your contractors started before the election ...you should have left the road like that until when you are fully ready to do the task.. at least it was motor-able before...just imagine the agony we have to go through to get to our house after working very hard for the day...it is only a wicked soul that will turn his eyes to the other side while his people are suffering because of his actions.