Normally, you dont just administer anaesthetics least spinal, to a patient who has eaten within 24 hrs or less, and had not had vitals checked, due to throwing up or vomitting in an unconscious state.

Mehn condolencess ooo. This bad

You gullible. Consider your own faults too.

My first phone

His 2 legs are on the same lenght, the rope is slim not strong enough for that body mass, they hiding murder. No b suicide b this.but then nigeria won't investigate

you should be high on meth to think everyone are like you, who are very quick to comment, badderdash..

kingphilip:

President, Manufacturer of Fake Stories in Nigeria, I hail you.

[last year ,it happened to a friend of mine, his landlord gave him quit notice to evacuate with
4 days on a remainder of 5 months rent available on the fact he wanted to renovate, and he lost his job, the landlord used padlock to relock his apartment and then used police to embarrass this struggling graduate, wel he took his stuffs sold most cheaply and started qiatting, to God who helped him within 6 month, he got a new govt job, rented a 3 bedroom,fully furnished and his living large.
the landlord died few weeks from Aids, and neevr renovated his apartment ]. in essence things might seem gloomy, sell some things gain cash, squat with a friend and I believe everything would eventually sort itself... Jah is your strength.

anyone with pdf file , pls

Karlifate:
Indeed! Life is like a mist.


Great thread, Zimri.

Appears for just a day, and disappear 2mrw

seanwilliam:
mehn this script sweet o

Nah its real life story, my mama would gladly tell you it tale

Hmmmm, this deep, m still single ,I don't know what to advice , but your story looks like my mum's aunts own.
My mama always gist me how smart the woman became, she always beg her husband to build even if its a 1 bedroom but he preferred building for his family siblings and all that in guise of family first then his, and say the siblings trained him ,& he was a big man, he would do all of his own at convenient,
When the woman got tired & knew her husband won't change, she started stealing his money and finding avenues to take from him without knowing/she took a dangerous leap and built her house (upstairs, & it was their children names that where in all the properties) without him knowing , it got to a point she said they should relocate to one of her houses she built ,(and she was working too then), & they lived in a big way, changed the children school and Lied on the school fees .she was taking house rent and extra from skol fees and other tenancy rate. Without even her own extended family knowing but she told her grown up kids, they knew how their dad settled his siblings & parents first, when he retired and was paid , he use almost 80% to tend to family and by the time the woman she found out, had to find a way to take the remaining 20%,

In conclusion when his family turned their backs on him and said they didn't send him message ooo, he went back to cry and he realised at old age nothing to be done, no work, well d wife confessed to him and surprisingly he was happy she dealt with him that way, he didn't take offence and even apologised to his wife and kids and her niece who suffered and endured his foolishness when he was agile.

In conclusion:- you alone knows what works for you, apply wisdom and pls pray to Jehovah God, as I said earlier it was a story i heard,and I never met her, she was my great aunt & men then in those days where mild at character,.. But reading your story reminded me of my childhood stories abt her and I smiled, #memories of an happy childhood

She is still pained,
& u talk like a jwit,

Most times ll this make.us distrust everuone with bad experiences ,don't blame her

emmnprince:



If our Maker, Jehovah God, is a human being, some of us will not receive "shingbai" from Him because we have offended Him in many ways. But He is who He is.


Because a thoughtless dude took advantage of your warm generosity and exhibited an ungrateful heart doesn't mean you should withhold your kindness from other guys in need. Kindly do away with that mindset. If you are in a position to help or to lift a guy's burden, and you have have the ability, please do. There's joy in doing good, especially when one is able and in a position to extend goodness to others.


A wise man says, "Whenever you possibly can, do not withhold good to those who need it when it is in the power of your hand to do it" (Proverb 3:27).

There is a 311, here in Lagos, don't conclude yet. And from first batch

Hypocrites..

Everywhere

Invested lolzzzz.

You no b male version of olosho ni

taylor89:


Sure I'm getting a wife material by January I must marry next year but I'm just scared na only Oloshos I dey see for Lagos

my dear, Calm down, people, family and parents will always talk, it's normal in this African setting to compare,
let me tell you, m been compared everyday that it's become a hearsay and a motivation to what I want to be.. at the long run they will be proud of your sanding against all talks and odds. You are You, pls be you...

iaamxavier:
I'm writing this post with a heavy heart

So I'm 21 and I finished secondary school at age 17 (2015) and to be honest I just got admission this year to study pharmacy while my mates are in their final year and it hurts alot because my mum keeps telling me that my cousin is in final year and is about serving next year and I'm just gaining admission to a university, she even uses her friend's child as an example and it made me go into a Little depression, I actually felt sad because for the first time a comparison actually hit me...

She claims they (my parents)are supposed to be resting and not paying school fee. That I'm stressing them and ever since I was a teenager I always vowed that I wanted to leave my father house before 25yrs of age

Now I'm studying a 5 years course (7 years to become a full graduate) and by then I'll be 28 I actually feel ashamed because this isn't what I wanted since I left secondary school
I wanted to finish on time and remove the burden from them

I've never failed jamb, my least Score was 245 but circumstances kept dragging me back

I finished my ND program in 2017 (Distinction in SLT Yabatech)

So it feels more like I'm parambulating up and down and don't know what I want for my self but I actually do!!

I need an advice or something to make me feel better or confident about my self

thats a kingdom hall wedding.
His wife is a bit okay, not old
everything isnt passport, what do u get from slandering..
get ur facts pls

Dozie32:
Benin alone, the name every demonic spirit dey always bown.

whose this. , hope no issues

OlawaleBammie:
Truly ur mum might b good to u BUT if u re nt careful might lead u to early grave.. how?? by her choice of partner for u.

Oga ur mama is bad joo, let call a spade a spade jare, all i see in her is self centeredness, selfishness, me and me alone, ITK, and a domineering nature.

A woman who wouldnt listen to anybody, how is dat a...... make i shut up there. BUT I THINK UR DAD IS WEAK SHA.

if truly she's supportive as u claimed, she shouldn't hav problem with ur choice of partner rather she should b showering u with blessing in ur new adventure.

See, i cant say u should continue oo cus i wouldn't want to b disrespectful to my mum as well, maybe u should consider singleness til 37, by den she will b forced to let u hav ur way.

u spoke my mind at d last sentence.

years or days.

PTSD? when his in his good mood talk calmly with him to see a doctor

goodgirl2409:
My :-Xhusband has really changed. He is so unemotional and revengeful.
I will cook for him severally and he won’t eat. I will serve him food and he won’t eat. I will ask him what I have done and he won’t respond. Every time he gives me the silent treatment.

I feel so pained because I expected more from this marriage but barely 1 year after, he doesn’t seem to love me anymore. Sometimes 1 month will pass, no sex. He would go out and won’t bother to tell me where he is going.



He would come back very late and would just ignore me like I don’t exist.
Although he drops money for me to run the house and communicates strictly with me, it make no sense to me.
I am tired. Is this how marriage is? Is this how men are or am I just suffering?

I don’t have anyone to beg to talk to him,and I was told reporting him to any of his family members is not good. things are getting worse everyday. People who have married for many years and are succeeding please help me. What am I not doing right?

UPDATE.
I want to add that it is not sexual incompatibility.
When he is in his happy mood, I would even be tired of his endless gist. S-x will be very great. He is kind and caring. Such a wonderful man. In fact an angel. He would even wash my underwear’s and clothes.

But when his mood start which is his mood most of the time, he won’t talk to you, he won’t eat. I will finish cooking, he will go outside and buy another food and come and cook. He won’t come back on time. I will ask him what is it, he would not respond. He always feels everything I do to annoy him, i do it on purpose. I am a peace loving person. Everyone around that knows the story
always say that he has a problem.

she hasn't learned, cause she believe what the pastor said about her been charmed, when she gets to understand she is the cause of all these actions then she gets to learn from her mistakes, for me, she is yet to learn.

greatme2good:
Your mum is the cause of her problems and she learnt her lesson the hard way. If you have your way, start a business and not depend on your mum. Still keep encouraging her before she will become depressed, since you are in school always keep in touch with her.

this exactly how my brother is now, his was detected late, cause he loved playing in school
so we thought it was sheer laziness. pls take him to a neuro-psychatric hospital for check up, the doctors there are good, they will do a widely scan to see what's happening, as for my brother it was detected rather late, his on drugs to calm his nerves and daydreaming life, and in all we wait on Jehovah God to heal him, cause in his MRI scan they found untreated jaundice. madam all is well,

jess2019:
My son will be 9 in October but his behaviour bothers me so much. He acts like a day dreamer. He has turned me into a shouting and miserable mum as I had to beat him after I've exhausted other punishment options. To make this short, I'm going to summarise his behaviour.

He still cannot get himself ready for school in the morning. Either he doesnt cream his body or forgets to comb his hair or doesnt brush his teeth. He forgets to brush his teeth almost everyday. This made me to make a list of step by step sticker. I sticked this on their bathroom mirror and on his bedroom wall. Yet I have to keep reminding him everyday. For example, last week on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday he forgot to brush his teeth and hair. I have to constantly be reminding him every morning. He is the only one that brushes teeth after getting ready. I trained them to brush teeth first before shower but he keeps forgetting.

I have to remind him to do his homework, and put it back in his school bag to return to school on Mondays. The book will still not make it to the school even after constant reminder. We've lost countless of lunch bags. One ended up on school roof. If you give him any form to submit back to his teacher. He will forget in his bag so I now give it to his sister to give to his teacher.

He removes his clothes, shoes, pants, belts etc and leave them on the floor, I bought two laundry baskets for him. One in his room, another in their bathroom, yet all his belongings end up on the floor that you can hardly find a space to put a foot. I dont expect him to be perfect but atleast to try so that his 70% clothes make it to the basket or shoes to their racks. He also has a book shelf and desk yet they also end up on the floor.

He plays so much that sometimes he leaves shops with items in his hands. So I have to always watch out for him. Living in a western country where black boys are stereotyped I fear for him. He can stare at the ceiling for hrs when getting ready for school or spend long time in the shower yet not using soap on his body. This usually makes us late unless I step in to help or keep shouting.

If you ask him to do any house chores, he will not do it instead waiting for us to forget so he can get away with it. When grounded not to watch TV, he will still do it once he knows am inside my room or busy with a baby.

Yesterday we revised all his lesson assignments (5 work books). I specifically asked him to put them in his lesson bag. I pointed at the bag. Now I drop him at the lesson only for him to say oh I think I came with old lesson books. I dont know how he ended up with old books in his bag. It could be he planned it as a way to avoid the lesson. If not I wonder how he will remember it himself as soon as I drop him and his sister as this is unlike him.

I've taken him to a doctor incase there is any diagnosis so I can give him all the help he needs but they said it's just his behaviour because according to the doctor he is smart academically. He is 18months ahead of his year level. So they ruled ADHD out.

Abi na hin father linda baby

WORST
September ,few weeks to my weddin, MIL disagreed adter buying clothes, paying for caterers & putting everything on arrangement, to ease me when i come back from my nysc 3 weeks orientation camp, the dude was so wrapped up in his mum embrace, they didn't give me & my family any cogent reason.
Well it may be the most embarrassing moments then but we(my family) survived it, i thank Jah i dodged a bullet & i believe so strongly that God wil pay me in multiple fold.
All iz well

Because she told you

I went for the 3 weeks nysc camp, & got back & a woman in my kh told everyone she saw me in an abortion room & was f**king a doctor, who i stayed with for 3weeks. & m like!! Mehn the stares & glares

Brides got a big tummy, shapper/slimmer belt showing..

Changes the keys and locks

edoman2016:
Hello nairalander,
I need advice on how to tell a friend to stop coming with his girlfriend to my apartment to have sex. This friend of mine, we went to the same university and know each other from there. He is based in Akwa Ibom and into palm oil business. When he comes to Lagos for supply to stores, he resides at his parents' house which is very close to where my apartment is.

However, when he wants to have sex with a girl in Lagos, he brings her to my apartment because he knows I am not yet married. Rather than sleeping with the girl in his parents house. I am tired of it and I don't like it but I don't know how to tell him so that it won't end our friendship. He is quite an intelligent and ambitious man.

What do you think I should do about it?

Thats what this forsaken religious persons do, when they blasphem and lie they arr God servants. Sadly to say, my ma took my twin and was doen this, when i got back from skol 2016. I asked for him,all she said was he was with a pastor for deliverance.over what, for pete sake , his one with spec ial ability if u cant accept him do u expect anyone to. I spoke to my dad (now late) and we stprmed there and picked him up with force (with used cutlass to chase the man) and my bro was almost to death ,due to starvation and strikened.he survived , chubby now but still yhe same and yet my mama srill hols me query for my brother salvation. I think this so called men uses hallucinations and charms for miracle seeking women. God help us. We are our very own harm. Such unfortuante scenerio . Rest on, and that pastor should be charged.

stane007:
Prophet Moses Urovbu of the God Revival Prayer Ministry, based in Ughelli, Delta state, has reportedly been arrested by officers attached to the Delta State Police Command, for reportedly chaining and beating a 30-year-old man, Monday Edjedjere, brought to his church in search of healing for his mental ailment, to death.

The deceased who was placed on seven days fast without food or water, was chained to a coconut tree at the back of the church during the duration of the dry fast and was constantly beaten with a holy water cane till he became too weak and died on April 2nd.

Confirming the arrest of the Prophet, the State Commissioner of Police, Mohammed Mustapha said on March 28th, the victim, Monday Edjedjere was taken to Prophet Urovbu for prayer and healing by his mother.

The Sun reported that the church General Overseer billed the troubled mother N24,000, out of which she was able to pay N8,000 and thereafter returned to her Awsha community home leaving her son in the care of Prophet Urovbu. He further added her return to the church three days after, precisely on March 30th the woman met her son chained to a coconut tree with injuries all over his body.

Speaking to newsmen, Prophet Moses Urovbu said;

''I am the General Overseer of God Revival Prayer Ministry. I started my ministry in 1989. I have a large congregation spread across four branches of my church in Warri, Ughelli, Ewu, and Bayelsa State. I do pray for all kinds of people who are sick in my church. It was the mother of the deceased that brought him to my church because he was suffering from madness. I admitted him for prayers and billed them N24, 000 and the mother paid just N8, 000. I put the deceased on seven days dry fast. He started proving stubborn and broke the church plastic chairs. As a result, my pastors joined me and we chained him to a tree at the back of the church. The injuries on his body were sustained while flogging him with holy water cane so that he can be healed. It was when the mother discovered the condition of her son was not improving that she said I should release him to them. I refused because I can handle the situation. Unfortunately, the boy fell down, collapsed and died. On that fateful day, I still discharged five people who had similar sickness and I healed them and they are right in their houses now.”

The suspect's arrest however came after the deceased's brother, Michael Edjedjere, reported the matter to the police immediately it was discovered that his brother had died.

''When my mother told me about the critical condition of my brother, Monday, I felt bad especially when I heard he was chained by Prophet Moses. I called Prophet Moses on phone and told him that he should release my brother to me to take him to the hospital. But the prophet refused, boasting that he will heal him. It was two days later, my mother called me that my brother is dead. I didn’t believe it. I quickly rushed to Ughelli Police Station to report the case and that was how he was arrested.”  Michael said


https://lailasnews.com/prophet-beats-sick-man-to-death-during-deliverance-in-delta/

Shyness doesnt mean saucy and repulsiveness, knowing fully well she's an actress.

Asowari:
am more interested in the way the little girl is looking at the man.

Said my thoughts