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If u even have sense,u should know that it's more than twice....what a cheap harlot...better no marry olosho.

franchasng:
Yes! Pharmacy is overrated! They are just like Chemical Engineering in engineering field.

A lab scientist has more chances of securing a job in Nigeria and abroad faster than a pharmacist, quote me anywhere, I speak with authority on this

Lol that's so wrong

posstimo:
Will give it 110k
It's new, just about 3 weeks used

Can it go for 90k

Bro..they like u, some think u are a snub,some are scared to walk up to u cos of ur looks, most of them think u have a gf already so...

skyhighweb:
value game lol lol

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starring:
Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.

My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

U better dnt be stupid ok?? ASK URSELF ONE QUESTION. IF SHE WASNT CAUGHT,WILL SHE BE SORRY?

Look at me..Hepatitis C cures on it's own without any drug or symptoms. HEpatitis B is d real disease. U DON'T NEED ANY DRUG!!DOCTOR WAN USE U CHOP.

The 100k point is not possible..dont be gullible.

shiki:
You mean the BRT Lane?

Yes bro..d road was Ok with no holdups..why did they have to mess it up?will the holdup stops after that completion?

Lagos abeokuta expressway [iyanaipaja to ikejaalong]...funny enough,that route was just 20minutes [now 2,3hours] until Ambode started doing that stupid road for reasons I dont knw. PLS CAN ANYONE TELL ME WHAT AMBODE is TRYING TO DO ON THAT ROAD?

Haha..that's where I work. I'm ur pharmacist.

MotorGuru:
If possible, yes please stay away from Nigerian used cars.
If you insist, the Corolla is a better choice.

Thanks alot. What about Honda 08,09 Nigerian used for 1m..is that a good deal or too good to be true?cos I've seen various neat ones..

MotorGuru.. I'm thinking of getting a nigerian used Honda accord 2006 or Toyota Corolla 05,06 ..which is better?..or should I stay away from nigerian used cars?

QUICK QUESTION..WHEN IS THE FIRST NYSC BATCH IN aN ELECTION YEAR..I HEARD NO MARCH BATCH,TILL AFTER THE ELECTION..HOW TRUE IS IT?

University of Ibadan confirmed its leadership position by ranking as the topmost university in the country in the January edition of the 2018 Webometrics.
It, however, ranks 1099 in the world (still the only Nigerian university in the top 1000 bracket in the world).
The University of Ibadan is trailed in the second position by the Covenant University, Ota, Ogun State (the only private university in the top 46 bracket) and the Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife, Osun State, in the third position.
Despite being held down by protracted and debilitating industrial crisis last year, the Ladoke Akintola University of Technology, Ogbomoso, still got rated as the best state university in the current Webometric ranking, 14th in the country and 3680th in the world.
Bayero University, Kano (15th, 3760th); Lagos State University (16th, 3807th); University of Uyo (17th, 3823rd ); University of Calabar (18th,4153rd); Nnamdi Azikiwe University (19th, 4277th) and the University of Jos (20th, 4323rd) complete the top 20 on the list).
The next best performing private university after Covenant (which is ranked second best university in Nigeria) is the Afe Babalola University, Ado-Ekiti, on the 21st position and 4329th in the world.
The University of Maiduguri, Olabisi Onabanjo University, Ago-Iwoye, Ogun State; American University of Nigeria, Yola, Adamawa State and Federal University of Oye-Ekiti are ranked 22nd, 23rd, 24th and 25th respectively in Nigeria.
The highest ranked Polytechnic is the Auchi Polytechnic 48th in Nigeria and 8623rd institution in the world; followed by the Yaba College of Technology (65th Nigeria, 10,911th world) and The Polytechnic, Ibadan (77th Nigeria, 12,202nd world).

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2018/2/university-of-ibadan-tops-latest-ranking-of-universities-in-nigeria.html

Good morning, my people. If i want to buy a used car from the north and i live in the south. Is it possible for the dealer to bring the car over to the south even though i would bear the cost? Because i cannot go up there to get the car.. Thanks.

Guy.. look at me.. they are fvcking ur wife.

retards many for this country... see haters.. so all the almost 2million students that write jamb today should apply for limited spaces in public unis how many students do public students admit Don't knw why public students are always attackin privates..maybe cos they feel inferior cos of the money ish... imagine someone saying "having degree of some worth" IN D NIGERIA OF TODAY leave worthless degree for private school graduates na.. worth or no worth, their parents go "fix them" somewhere afther they graduate..U go carry ur most worthy degree trek for sun tire... If i study Pharmacy for private uni and i get moneu set up when i finish.,no be to blow remain?? worthy degre kor... because life is madly hard for public unis doesnt mean dats d normal way a uni shud be.. don't be jealous n run ur race.

Hello nairalanders, i just wanted to know if paying tithe as an unrepentant sinner is useful or if God would bless me regardless of my sins because i pay tithe.

selflessmaya:
when ppl say never hit your wife, they mean never become the aggressor. what is happening to to you is domestic violence and your wife is abusing you emotionally and physically. you need to leave that woman fast. she's poison! don't try to change her, don't blame yourself for anything, just, cut her loose!

EDIT: so I just read the old article you included in the link, i change my mind. with more insight to this:
OP, I dont mean this in an insensitive way, your wife has some deep issues and must have suffered some intense psychological trauma to cause her to feel a lot of bitterness and act out in sadism when angry, the knife, the fork, hitting you with a shoe on your head and not stopping when you didnt even react!! this last one is a huge red light, something is really wrong with your wife, she loves to inflict pain and if her personality is as contrast as u say, that everyone thinks she's this sweet girl, then whatever is wrong with her runs really deep, it's not normal at all to keep hitting a person with a shoe on the head when they're not fighting back, she wants to hurt you, she wants u to feel pain.

I'm honestly convinced your wife has suffered sexual assault at an early age that led to a break in psyche, she's mastered suppressing her feelings, her nice girl act is not an 'act', she's actually that nice. but when she's angry, all the bitterness buried beneath the surface emerges and she finally deals with all the buried emotion in its magnitude, it overwhelms her and she wants to act out to hit something or punch a wall etc. when she's alone and unhappy, even when she lived with her parents, u really dont want to see/imagine what your wife does to and says to herself, this anger she shows you, she's lived with it for a long time, she's been her own victim till now when she made u her victim. there is nothing she has done to you that she hasn't done to herself times hundred.

if you choose to for better for worse it, find a psychiatrist or psychologist and go with your wife for counselling, your wife, with or without you will never change till she finally begins to work on whatever buried bitterness she's had to live with for years. try to get help together as a family or get a divorce if u would rather not go through it. it's really that simple, your wife will live with whatever has happened for the rest of her life but how she manages the accompanying emotions, her anger and abandonment issues can all be taken care of with a good psychologist and emotional support on your part. educate yourself on the topic of sexual assault and learn the necessary sensitivity training and triggers. counselling will teach you all this.

no, i'm not thinking too far, your wife ticks a lot of boxes:
-extra charming cos of distorted/low self image and need to be accepted
-her over-religiousness is for closure that she needs and like u said her prayers are always for her god to attack ppl for her. even her relationship with god isnt healthy, it's a coping mechanism. the idea of a protector that will attack on her behalf.
-she talks from 12am to 4am alone when you're asleep, OP, your wife is full of a lot of buried emotion, she really wants to talk to someone about something.
-despite being a nice girl, before you married her, she had no friends
-she's very quiet, hardly finishes her words (withdrawn personality, mastered suppresion)

you should never have raised your hands to hit this woman, when she froze for 5 minutes, it's not that she was thinking she overstepped her boundaries, she was actually coming back to her senses, when your wife gets angry, she loses her mind and forgets who she's dealing with. even worse when the person who angered her is male, she reacts with more venom cos subconsciously he represents her aggressor and she wants to hurt him to make him feel pain. she probably has conversations with herself and imagines herself confronting her abuser and being able to hurt him back and make him regret his actions and cries alone cos it's only in her imagination that she can deal with him. when a man makes her defensive in her personal space, she attacks. till u actually hit her, u just represented something that she has bad blood with and now you've added yourself to the list of men that have ruined her.
she has stopped hitting u cos she has buried the incident of the slaps too but OP, the same place it's buried is the same place her demons she's battling are buried, she wont touch you but when her bitterness surfaces when she's alone, this time you're one of her enemies. the resentment is growing and when she sees u, she's filled with such bitterness she shoves u. if u do not intend to fix this marriage OP, walk away NOW. a lot of bitterness is brewing in this woman and if you add yourself to the list, we will read about u in the news the day this woman snaps. the same way u never saw her eyes so red the day she yelled, u will never believe she has it in her to go the extent she'll go, your wife will surprise you.

nigeria does not have a good support system for ppl who have had to deal with the trauma of sexual assault, society takes it lightly too but this is 2017, ppl should educate themselves on this, when we read here everyday '6 yr old girl raped in lagos by 43 yr old man', that girl is someone's future wife and she will NOT just be like everybody else, the scars of her trauma will show one way or another and she'll need extra sensitivity cos she's a "special" case. your wife is not a naturally aggressive person, that i can tell u and it's sad that another human being created this monster in her. OP, this is really not your battle, it's not you she wants to fight, you did not give her all the bitterness she's carrying, so let the slaps u gave her be the last, you wife is a very very bitter scorned woman whose hurt has taken years and years to germinate, the person who hurt her isnt dealing with it, u are. if u add to her bitterness and it gets too much, the person who created 99% of this mess will not be the scapegoat, again it will be u. i haven't dealt with sexual assault personally or with a family member but i have met closely with some of the victims and the effects of sexual assault are too underestimated. ppl should be killed for damaging another human like that.

if u do choose to save your marriage:
apologize profusely for hitting her and become super sweet, if u choose to undo this mess, u have to be ready, sensitive, patient, very educated about this issue and strong for the both of u. if u choose to walk this path, u will watch her fall apart and u have to be ready to help her reassemble.
don't let her hit you, hold her hands and keep holding it and talking to her till she calms down. your wife is actually a very sweet person, the person you knew her to be when u married her exists, just buried under layers of bitterness. i dont blame u at all for hitting her, there's nothing illogical in hitting someone who came at u with a knife, i can understand why u snapped but let it be the last time. your wife wants to talk to you, listen to her, she talks when you sleep, when you leave she follows you, it's annoying but it's her subconscious, she really wants to reach out. listen to your wife! make out time and let her rant, she will talk about so many things, no matter how messed up it sounds, keep listening. then talk back about whatever and if she interrupts and tries to talk, let her talk, just listen. u can stop the midnight talks by changing it to day time. stop sleeping in your sitting room, move back to your bed.

when you're ready to make the move, try pulling it out of her, on top of your new sweetness, be extra extra sweet to her for the whole week like her sh!t dont stink, on a friday(so if she spills, you'll both have the weekend to grieve), make sure she's in a nice awww darling mood and when you're holding her, just brush by a conversation u heard at the office that made u really sick "about a dude that assaulted some teenage girl and how mad it makes you that men like that are still walking around breathing and if they ever dared it with someone u care about, u'll deal with them and how no matter what she was wearing or where she was, no one has the right on another person's body without consent and the worst part is there are girls out there who have experienced this and told no one and the animal didnt get caught"
stay on the topic of sexual assault and follow body language, dont change the topic, be gentle, when she cracks, try to get her to talk, say what u have to "she can tell u anything, u wont judge, u love her from here to japan, if it affects her it affects you, u are both one and she can confide in u etc" when she talks, encourage her to keep talking, show that you're listening, console her all you can, cry with her even if u have to force the tears though i doubt you'll have to force them, make her see that whatever sunken place she's in, you've somehow gotten there too but dont cry more than her haba. tell her that both of u will go for counselling together, find a good therapist and go with her till she makes progress to go alone. make sure u find a therapist before u try to get her to talk about this and once she talks, the upcoming monday, begin therapy. and dont expect to work this out in 2 days, give yourself time like 4-6wks to build the emotional environment of trust and zero judgement to be able to access her when the time comes. note: she has to open up to you before you can go for therapy.

-u can expect her to go into depression for a while, she might need anti-depressants, sleeping pills too, she will be dealing with a lot of emotion once she finally lets someone in.
-NEVER EVER make a joke about her incident or say something mean to her about it... NEVER EVER!!! NEVER EVER!!! I MEAN IT OP.
-if u want to divorce her and not work through this, which is honestly the easy way out for you, then pls dont bring up anything i just told u here, dont taunt her over this, dont ask her about abuse or anything, just let the marriage end and pretend u didnt even read this. she will still live with herself so she has it heavy already.

i really do sympathize with you, u have found yourself in a very unfortunate position and no decision u make will be easy. sadly enough, i feel sorry for your wife too, she's really lived her hell and she's putting you through it. both of u dont deserve this. i also applaud you for all the grace you've shown, it's very hard to break the cycle of abuse, abused ppl mostly pass it on to others, maybe not in the form they received it but they leave their mark, so i can imagine how strong a person u were to endure all the emotional & physical abuse. and no, slapping her back was not abuse, u defended yourself full stop! dont feel sorry for yourself, just do what u have to do: stay & do the work to mend this if u can or leave if u cant.
u have to accept that your wife has issues that cause aggression when it flares. in time, u will also notice she's protective of children or animals or things she pictures as defenseless, it'll show in her mothering, not wanting your kid to go out, being too clingy to the child, convinced the big bad world is out to get her child, all that u will both work through in due time. once you can get your wife to show you the dark place she's in, it'll not be her safe place anymore, she can't hide there anymore, whatever comes to surface will be dealt with by both of you and u will finally live with the smiling smiling girl u married. good luck OP

oshi oro lo n sor... oshi balau!

she can't suddently av turned this bad without avin d attitude b4...she fooled u because she wanted marriage.. now shes gotten what she wanted.. .If u see tinz cnt change for d better, get a divorce.

didn't include a rise in d blood pressure..

This afternoon, Nollywood actress Tonto Dikeh called out her ex-husband, Olakunle Churchill saying he made her friend's brother (Michael Ozigbo) go to jail for a fraud he committed in Switzerland. She also revealed that Olakunle Churchill has a daughter, Bimbo, who he isn't taking care of.
In response, Michael, the man who reportedly went to jail took to his Instagram page to call the actress a liar, saying, 'Stop dragging reputable people's names into your matter; Nobody and I repeat Nobody went to jail for fraud because of Mr Churchill'.
Read his piece below, ' With due respect Tonto; The whole world knows you have no shame but do not drag people's names into your marital issues; Enough is Enough. I organized your Ex-Husband's events here in Switzerland and I am his only contact here when my brother introduced us, my brother is a friend to many celebrities not only you,no one here has been jailed for any fraud and what you're talking about it is false. I handled all the event transactions and all the funds sent by Mr churchill there was no issue,You have lied endlessly about your husband to the world. If he has kept quiet and you have tried very hard to maintain the lies and impression of painting him a black to the world.Where is your evidences ? I live here and everyone knows me here as well, Stop dragging reputable people's names into your matter; Nobody and I repeat Nobody went to jail for fraud because of Mr churchill. I'm a musician by the name NazB and don't mess up with my family name Ozigbo .Don't involve us in your marital issues! My name is Michael Ozigbo'.
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2017/10/dear-tonto-dikeh-the-world-knows-you-have-no-shame-i-never-went-to-jail-because-of-your-husband-michael-ozigbo-opens-up.html

Eminent businessman and former governor of Abia State ,Dr Orji Uzor Kalu has said the Indegenous People of Biafra ,IPOB holds false opinion about him and has advised the separatist movement not to forget their lines so soon.
Kalu was responding to the different statements emanating from the Publicity Secretary of the IPOB , Emma Powerful and lawyer to the IPOB leader, Ifeanyi Ejiofor on their reaction to an interview he allegedly granted on Sunday.
He was quoted to have said in the interview that he got intelligence from Nnamdi Kanu's relative that he has travelled abroad following his questionable whereabout since the Nigerian army's alleged invasion of kanu's home.
In a statement signed by the former governor's Special Assistant, Peter Eze on Tuesday, Kalu said he cannot be worried about false narratives of IPOB spokesman about him when there are so many other things to be concerned about.
He said this is not the first time he was being misunderstood, " I believe everyone has right priorities and knows what really matters.For instance, our Igbo brothers are safe in the North and our minds are settled over their property, and that's what matters. Dancing to the beats of a popular drum isn't top of my list. These boys hurling abuses and insults on everyone that stands against division are simply ignorant.I forgive them." Kalu stated
He said his statement on Nnamdi Kanu's whereabout was an offshoot of an interview he granted to a reporter. He referred to it as pathetic that most Nigerians are interested in sensational headlines and care less about details.
He added that Biafra agitation is an issue that concerns a lot of people and keeping silent in the face of its dangerous consequence would amount to wickedness and disregard for safety of lives of the Igbo people .
The former governor acccused the group of running the interest of some politcians and despising good counsel . He described it as laughable when people try to link his actions with corruption charges levelled against him since 2007.
He said Nigerians knew him before the charges and the genesis of the allegations and how it was targeted to destroy him politically. He however said the case being in a court of competent jurisdiction, he prefers not making further statements on it.
He said he had wished the IPOB was more civil to monitor their utterances, arguing that attacking his personality and leaving the issue he raised makes them look irresponsible .
He said the group's activities should be carried out with civility and respect adding that the lives of Igbo people are priority to him.
He chided the IPOB for forgetting their lines so quick and disclosed that through his intervention, many detained IPOB members have been bailed.
" I wonder how IPOB easily forgot their lines. They have had many of their detained members bailed through my intervention.
"Would it be appropriate for even somebody like Emma Powerful to heap unprintable insults and accusations on me? I bailed him out when he was detained and was left to rot in prison.
"When Nnamdi was in prison, I was the first to visit him thus opening doors for others to do same.I did that because he is my brother. Although he showed a lot of appreciations during the visit but he still maintained his ground on Biafra. For the sake of posterity , I have made my stand clear. In a restructured Nigeria, Igbo people would be better off .We got it wrong in 1967 and we need to get it right now, else we get it wrong again." Kalu warned in the statement.
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2017/10/your-false-opinions-about-me-does-not-matter-kalu-replies-ipob.html

The brain behind murder of a former winner of Guilder Ultimate Search, Hector Jobarteh, has said he only got N7,000 for the job. The 49-year-old suspect, Ismaila Adeyemi, who is in police custody with five other accomplices, said they originally set out to rob Jobarteh, not to kill him.
According to him, he only took the victim’s mobile phone and sold it at N7000, through his brother, Usman Adeyemi, who has also been arrested. The suspect said he gave his brother N2000 out of the money while he took N5000.
On September 3, 2017, Jobarteh, 38, was shot dead after the assailants trailed him to his house on Olufowora Close, New Oko-Oba, Agege, from the Murtala Muhammed International Airport, Ikeja. It was gathered that the deceased had gone to pick his younger brother at the airport. Four other suspects, apart from Ismaila and Usman, are also in police custody in connection to the incident.
According to Pulse News, the suspects include an Uber driver, who took the gang to the victim’s house, and the buyers of the stolen phone. The Lagos State Police Command headquarters in Ikeja, paraded Ismaila on Monday, October 1. Narrating the incident to journalists, the suspect identified some of his gang members who took part in the robbery as Nonso and KK.
The suspect, Ismaila Adeyemi
He said a lady, who is still at large, led them to the deceased’s residence. He said, “I knew KK through Nonso, whom I worked with in a filling station in Apapa some years back. I met Nonso about five months ago and I gave him the address of where I live in Sango, Ogun State. KK just came back from abroad that time.
“I did not know who the man was before the operation. On that day, we parked at a filling station around his house and a lady came to meet KK. After a while, he received a call from the lady and we saw the man (Jobarteh) drove into the close.
“We followed him, but did not know where he entered. KK approached a woman and lied to her that the man’s car hit his and he sped off. He begged her to direct us to where the man entered and she did. When we got into the building, we saw the car and met another lady on the premises. “KK asked the lady to lead us to the man’s apartment, but she declined. It was when he pointed a gun at the woman that she complied and took KK upstairs. He called us to come upstairs, but by the time we got to a living room upstairs, he had shot the man’s father in the hand.
He added that the gunshot prompted Jobarteh to come out from a room to the living room, where KK immediately shot him dead. “I did not shoot at all, although I was holding a gun too. I quarrelled with KK for shooting them, because our plan was just to rob. He threatened to shoot me and I kept quiet. It was a pair of shoes and flowers that were in the bag we collected from him. We didn’t find money there.
“I took away only his white handset while KK went with the bag. I gave the phone to my brother, Usman, to help me sell it. He said he sold it for N7,000. I collected N5,000 and gave him N2,000.”
But the Lagos Police Commissioner, Edgar Imohimi, insisted that Ismaila shot the GUS winner.
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MrBigiman:
Thanks. So far I have managed to save 800k. I told the lady we should try and budget 500k, so we still have some change but she claim I don't value her and says I should step it up to 1.4m. She also say I must buy a ride, DAT she can't be married and trekking.

500k is enough.. Besides, if ur wife of tomoro is sayin this.. Guy, mark my words.. U r marrying d wrong girl.. U r in trouble.

Ionno.. Mayb jz luck or u jilted sum1 b4 n e cursed
u

Actually he does.

For the fact dat u see her face so glaringly.. It may not be her.. Sumbody else is using her appearance..cos evil pple dnt show u themselves easily.. Sumbody is usin her appearance.

Go and buy this drug.. minoxidil.. It regresses baldness n improve hair growth like madt.. Bt its fuckin xpensive