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HCH3COO:
yea u answered with have i ever met a woman. but what does that have to do with . . . .
your excuse is she's insane, right?

Im not saying it is an excuse. It should be something that is tooken under consideration.

Shuppie you are not making sense. A real man won't look outside the marriage. A Hot little boy will.

That is what i thought, Rampant. But it seems that we women are doing the giving, and those so called men are doing the taking.

HCH3COO:
How does my meeting with an abused justify the killing?

That wasn't your question.

HCH3COO:
Leaving is a better alternative than staying. If she was seriously mistreated her best option would be to flee and report to authorities like I said. Cops have those spousal abuse protection facilities you know. Put her on watch, etc. Don't pretend she has no options. She just didn't want to use them.

This was your question and i answered it.

HCH3COO:
Keep ignoring what I wrote.

Didn't ignore. I answered.

shuppie:
what is there to doubt that am married, if u so much doubt it, then u can confirm from mukina,

all am saying is, if u want to keep your man to yourself alone,then u should do things that will make him look at u alone. that is even  beside the point, there is no way on earth a man who is well fed sexually would want to rape his own wife not to talk of eating from another woman's plate if u know what i mean, and that is even beside the point too.

Thank you so much shuppie. I use think that i was pretty naive, but you have proved me wrong. Oka listen. A wife is more than a sex medicine to her husband. If she is not in the mood, why should the guy and hook up with another?

eldee:
If everyone wanted to kill people that abused them, do you know the world's population would be halved?

What im saying is that it is not easy to leave. Most live the rest of their lives with their tamer. Crying every night. Living a life on thin glass. No friends. No family. No nothing. If they are lucky to leave, he might find them.

HCH3COO:
Leaving is a better alternative than staying.  If she was seriously mistreated her best option would be to flee and report to authorities like I said.  Cops have those spousal abuse protection facilities you know.  Put her on watch, etc.  Don't pretend she has no options.  She just didn't want to use them.

Have you ever met a woman who was being abused? guess not.

HCH3COO:
You can't leave?  You just lay there like a dead dog enjoying the punishment?  Use your senses.  Only a murderer would think death is the lone solution to an abusive relationship.  Sigh! Women are victims of their own minds.

Where will she go? Not her friends because her abuser stripped her of that. Not her family because he has pushed them away.

KarmaMod:
This is not Nigeria where women don't have any hope.

She could easily get a restraining order. They are plenty of things that can be done. Even mafia wives can escape.

It is not easy to get a restraining order an abusive person. I have seen women who have been beaten near death, most have to leave the state. But most can't because they don't have the money or because their abuser stripped them of their family and friends. And the only way you got of the mafia is through a body bag.

HCH3COO:
perfect time to slip out of the house and run away.  perfect time to time him to the bed and inflict your own abuse on him.  but perfect time for murder seems to make the most sense to you, right?

You guys don't understand. That is why it is called ABUSE. when you abuse someone, you strip them of their dignity. You terminate their self esteem. You cease their self worth. So you think after being robbed of all this, you can just leave? Oi dey.

shuppie:
why did she get married when she knew she wouldn't be fullfulling her marital duties to the husband, if she is not up to the task then she should not complain if the man is looking outside,

What the hell is this jive? So even when im not in the mood, you are basically saying i should force myself? Mba. child please.

eldee:
So sumone that killed people that were awake is insane
But a woman that killed a man in his sleep should escape?

Either way that woman was psycologicaly distored. She was abused and mentally ill.

dreeldee:
so people now lay claim to insanity to justify the untold pains they inflict on others

Im not saying that the dude who shot a guy in a store is not sane. Im talking about those people who committ such bizzare acts.

nubila:
And they attacked innocent people. This woman killed the man that was abusing her.

Yes she did attack her abuser. and those other attacked innocent people.

KarmaMod:
and who says this sleeping wife is feeling pleasure?

why can't you people accept the fact that not all women are the same

Because they can't. all women act the same. feel the same sexual pleasure. utter rubbish.

eldee:
Now tell me the difference between this woman and the dude at Virginia Tech?
Or the kids in High School that go spraying people because of 'bullying'?

Oka now that kid from Virgina Tech was obviously not sane. If he lived to see his trial, they would have done the same thing they did to that Texas woman who drowned her kids. And that is send him to a secure facility. Same with the folks in Columbine, who went and killed i believe five-seven students. They were obviously not sane.

pc guru:
it's not bullshit, people accumulate their fears and traumatic experiences and when it goes over the bar, they let it out. if it was me i did probably kill the neighbors too, just for sake.   just kidding, but people have breaking point

Oka PCmugu, this is not a laughing kind of matter.

KarmaMod:
Are you defending the fact that she shot him oyinye?

It would have made more sense if she shot him DURING the abuse, but instead she waited til he was alseep?

That's garbage and can only work in the UK.

I don't support any type of killing. Im just saying that is obvious this women isn't sane. That mentally is very distorted. And that instead of ramming her into jail, they should have put in an area where she will be given professional help.

idupaul:
u will never know u willl never know, will u?

I'm going to plead the fifth.

KarmaMod:
is she not allowed to agreed to it before then?

I guess not.

dreeldee:
when you hit the spot after much grinding, i bet shez gonnaA respond, trust me

That is just sick. when a woman is being raped, i doubt she will feel any pleasure at all.

Sisikill:
Quick Question - How can a anyone enjoy sex if their partner is unresponsive? Abi am I Naive or something?

Ask all the men who are serial rapist and those who have raped.

Yall don't know how hard it is to walk out of an abusive relationship. You want to leave but you can't. He controls. From what you think about to what you do. You don't see yourself worthy of any man because your man killed your self esteem. There are nights you just dream that you will wake up in a different bed in a different world. But wake up to see your tamer lying right beside you. I can only imagine what that lady was thinking when she brought her heat and coped a bullet in his head.

HCH3COO:

yes

dreeldee:
https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/18.gif

Ahh come on now. i would never use sex as a bribe or punishment. . . . .

HCH3COO:
onyi,ibuk, what would you do if your husband doesn't sleep with you for a year  

wouldn't matter. he wouldn't be able to last. i give him a week and he will come crawling back.

HCH3COO:
gays! i mean, lesbians!

So sad to see what lack of sex can do to a man

HCH3COO:
not really.  only a criminal punishes with sex.  even the bible says don't do it.

Do i look like a woman who would do such a thing?

dreeldee:
he posed no threat, he was asleep

@post i think she deserves to be shot while in an unconscious state too

No, she should be sent to psychological help.

HCH3COO:
that makes you a waste of space .

that makes you a horn dog.

ibkaye:
I'm assuming when you guys talk of your wives depriving you of sex, you mean constantly and giving lame excuses too in order to prevent having sex with you, I'm sure you will allow her to refuse once in a while when she is sincerly tired or not in the mood etc

Nwam.

dreeldee:
naw you must do

the only thing i have to do is stay black, pay taxes, and die.

dreeldee:
don't tell me you're planning to be like that

hmmm . . . .

HCH3COO:
It's terrible.  Very very bad.  Cruel and unusual punishment.  Should be made illegal.

It is not food, water, nor shelter. if im not in the mood, im sorry but im not doing anything with you tonight.

I studied this when i was younger. When a women is stripped of her dignity, constantly beaten, self esteem lost, and every control of her life in given to her man, of course there is going to be some psychological side effects. So im surprised when i hear a story like this. i don't condone it but im not surprised. instead of sending her to jail or free, she should be sent to a professional doctor for help.

dreeldee:
it's worst when your wife refuses to give you sex when you want it too

oh suck it up. you get over it.

I think it is sad when you have to rape your wife just to get some sex.