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[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=38130.msg2632540#msg2632540 date=1218294662]Turn the frown upsode down  
I said that!!
You're 17, too young to be thinking about foot sex, ankle sex, finger sex, tongue sex, hair sex or any sex at all [/quote]LOL!!! ankle sex, foot sex. what world we live in.

beninman:
@unit

even if you are working 6 days and 23 hrs a week, he is him! You still need to apply all 19 guides! Why are they very important? 1. You are telling your husband to love you and treats you the same way. 2. You will build a very happy home by applying all.

A good house wife will not ask question why these guides need to be applied in her home.

UTTER RUBBISH!!!

@Ruby na agaba

kedu ka i mere?

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=158475.msg2630227#msg2630227 date=1218232840]I can NOT believe this!
We have to live with the fact that men are serial cheaters?
What rubbish?
I am not going to live with it if my man keeps giving out his d**k to every Kemi, Ngozi and Amina that comes his way. In fact, he'll get my fangs stuck in his neck and regret it every single day of his life IF I can not walk out of the relationship easily. I said potential! The guy is just so *sigh*[/quote]Don't mind this mu mu boy. He will be the same one to cry his lungs out when his woman cheats on him.

Chrisbenogor:
I think we should help the sisters understand us a bit, some say it is coded in the gene of a man and they are correct just as giraffes grew long necks so they could eat from tall trees so did the early men cheat with other women to ensure the survival of their offspring. A man can NEVER know,without a paternity test if a child is HIS. But a woman always knows if a child is HERS.That is why throughout all cultures, a cheating wife has always meant
harsher sentences than a cheating husband has. In most other areas, the sentencing for women for other crimes was similar to men’s, if not the same.So the argument that women were judged for harshly because they were women does not seem to be true. It’s only true when it comes to marriage fidelity, and now we know why.

So sisters try and show some love its the way we were created if men were to carry babies I am sure the rate at which they cheat would reduce till then , you girls have to live with it!

What the hell is this bull? You are basically saying that we women should accept that a man cheats? Boy you must be out of your mind.

Im just saying that men, are notorious cheaters. It runs in their veins like their best friends, Ego and Pride.

Men cheat because:

They are bored in the relationship
For stupid recognition from their friends
Because they are not satisfied to their degree of sex
Just for the hell of it
Just for the challenge
etc.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=158475.msg2629990#msg2629990 date=1218229899]u  just love to attack that to discuss, i was responding to j-girl's post oh, stop attacking and just have fun[/quote]Of course im having fun reading all your post. It just proves my point.

Poison Ivy:
@J-girl, How are you honey?


@topic
All y'all goats opps, boys.opps males should shut y'all mouths.  Women can NEVER cheat like men.  The thing that is so freakum deplorable is that y'all CANNOT cheat. For someone who brags so damn much about being "smart", the many clues and hints y'all leave makes even a retard looks like a genius,  

Hahaha. Very true. Detecting a cheating man is so easy. He doesn't even attempt to hide it correctly. He will keep the text messages. He will keep the phone numbers in his pocket. He will make up lame excuses like "I had to work late" knowing good and well he was at some woman's house smelling like her perfume. I mean if you are going to cheat, put some thought and effort into it. Oi dey.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=158475.msg2629969#msg2629969 date=1218229591]and you don't think that men do cheat for all the stated reasons as well, please note that i am not saying cheating is aiight oh, but i think that men do cheat for those reasons as well,  still blov that when a man is getting it really good at home, whenever he wants, chance of him cheating is low, but when u marry a woman and all of a sudden all the good style she use to give you is no more and she doesnt dress as sexy as before and all of a sudden, she can't kneel to give u 'doggy' and she is always tired to give u some, a man will go out there and do what he has to do.[/quote]Rhino, you are showing your true colors. Thank you for pointing it out for all the woman. Oka so your post was just all about sex. If my woman don't give it to me good, i will cheat. If she refuses to hit from the back, i will cheat. If she don't dress to my standards of sexy, i will cheat. If my woman is too tired to give me some love drug, i will cheat. UTTER NONSENSE.

topup:
[color=#cc0066]I like![/color]

Thanks.

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=158475.msg2629922#msg2629922 date=1218228979]Onyinye, I like that!  Along the line of that argument, no woman should ever again cry here about husbands having forceful sex with their wives; 'cus guess what, ;  according to Onyinye, "no one can make you do anything".[/quote]Spoken like a true man. A round of applause goes to Negro. Typical of you to twist my words to your own meaning. That is the same code a man does when he cheats. Tries to put the blame on the woman so that he can justify himself. Utter nonsense.

I think the excuses guys come up with because they cheat is just plain stupid. If you are going to cheat, don't blame it on temptation, blame it on you not being able to control yourself. Faithful men are so rare these days.oi dey.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=158475.msg2629910#msg2629910 date=1218228822]I'm saying they cheat for different reasons. Not that I'm supporting ladies that cheat. I just feel sorry for them because guys do it for the fun of it.[/quote]It is like they don't care. They know they are going to get caught but they do it anyways.

Hannibal:
Of course, women are the greatest cheats. . . .
They are so good and discreet about it they rarely get caught.

How many times have u heard of women pushing someone else's pregnancy on their oblivious husbands.
How many of Abiola's 150 children were really his?? After the DNA tests were carried out, only 60 belonged to him.
Others were bastards.

Numbers wise, men are the greatest cheats. Skill wise. . . goes to the ladies. A cheating man is easier detected then finding a red feather mixed with a bunch of white ones.

Negro, no one can make you do anything. For you to claim that women drive a man to do sinful acts, then you my friend are clearly in denial.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=158475.msg2629856#msg2629856 date=1218228169]Dont give up. besides, ladies do cheats too.[/quote]Clearly not as much as men.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=158475.msg2629848#msg2629848 date=1218228068]Lol! I doubt it jare . In fact, i'm beginning to[b] think it is natural for a guy to cheat[/b].[/quote]It runs through his blood like his Ego.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=158475.msg2629852#msg2629852 date=1218228147]I almost agree but ALMOST every guy I know seems to cheat so it's kind of crazy for me to believe there are that many of them.[/quote]You just can't find faithful men these days. Better off finding oil in your back yard.

syren:
Not for long my friend, afterall she is not your prisoner and there are so many influences like your microwave/tv set. 

Will she be educated? You'll want a wife who you and your family can interact with on an intellectual level too won't you?

Of course not Syren. He doesn't want a wife that is too smart because she might threaten his best friend, EGO. She will be smart enough to have sex and cook and take care of the kids. As for anything else, Cease to Exist.

Love is as mysterious as the water. And as ancient as the sand. It is the one thing in this world, no human can possibly control. Love controls us. Love drives us to do wonderful things. It also tricks us into doing wicked things. With love, there is no reason no guidelines no rules. We love because we love.

@post
I doubt a tv show like Cheaters: Naija Edition, will help anything. I mean how many shows have they had on the fraud and scams that go on in Naija, yet it continues to happen. So it will only be there for entertainment, but as a solution, FORGET IT.

I don't really such much in meeting my guy's friends. I mean i might mean that he sees something in me that he might want to show off or show to his friends. beats me. When a guy introduces me to his family, now that means he is serious about you.

HCH3COO:
He shouldn't try to console you. You know what happens when he does that .

Oka that was one time. And that was a very very rare case. But on the regular, if something is wrong, the guy shouldn't wait untill i deny him sex to ask what is up.

HCH3COO:
Some women prefer to be left alone when under stress.

Hmmm. . . . that is true. I rather sit on my porch, listen to Gerald Albright, and sip my ice tea. But doesn't mean the man shouldn't attempt to console me.

I feel your mate is a reflection on you. If you WAY up there and they are WAY down there. well use your senses.

dadon G:
don't think there's any big deal in this.if all guy agree to relax pretendin that theres no big deal in sex
there will be a time girls will be beggin 4 it  trust

Truly Questionable.

ibkaye:
QUESTION
If you were raped by your spouse, will you call out for a divorce? would you forgive him/her? basically what would you do?

This question is for both the ladies and the men (yes, it is actually possible for a man to get raped, want to give both sexes the chance to answer the question )

Well if my husband ever in his mortal life raped me, So Help Him God. He better sleep with one eye open and constantly look over your shoulders when im using kitchen utensils. . .

[quote author=papa_dims link=topic=157897.msg2620742#msg2620742 date=1218064670]if the guy wants it he should do something special for wife so can feel special and be in the mood for it. how can the husband just jump on the wife just like that but when he will to do it with his GF he would take her out and do some crazy stuff. if you want to enjoy you must work hard for it.[/quote]That could work. but i guess platonic love dies when you get married.

KarmaMod:
Unfortunately for you, not every woman finds porn offensive. She's probably even provide the chips and lube for you.

rampant:
we all have feelings,even as a woman,there r some days u become d agressor (wanting it every freaking day) so also them men

when one is not fulfilled sexually ,then he/she will be too naked emotionally(this is nature ,u can't cheat it) and might fall into one of them devourers out there.

sex is one thing i know that can tear a man and woman apart and then recreate them again,so onyinye its very important

but my own is for one whole month,sthg is wrong naaa

You guys are not hearing me out. I KNOW it is very important. it is something you share between yal no one else. That moment that the two of you become one. So i know how important it is. BUT im just saying that it is not EVERYTHING. And oka yeah holding out for your man for a month is cruel even for me. A week wont hurt though.

michelin89:
Me sef nor say jump on her!   sex nor be fight now. Na peaceful meeting where we peacefully pinch scratch and squeeze our partners.  

You can say that again? Wetin e nor be food? Education na food? People still live without one. Nairaland na food? People are still addicted to it. Success na food? Your beauty na food? Your clothes na food? Your shoes na food?

No need to play shadow. Let me break it down. I understand that sex is very important in a marriage. But is it the only thing, no. If i don't give my man sex for like a week, will he die? no. I would never deny my husband sex for a month. that is evening cruel for me.

michelin89:
When you are hungry you eat.
When you are thirsty you drink.
When you are cold you get into your house.
When you are Hot you fu-ck.

So what, must it be a vital need before it's considered important? Tell me why do you need love from your husband/boyfriend/friend? You go die if you nor get am?

Im just saying that they way some of these guys are willing to divorce their wife over not receiving enough sex, makes it sound like something more than what it is. Of course is see it as important, but if im not giving it to you for like a few days, no need no to be upset. maybe im tired, stressed, not in the mood, upset.

michelin89:
Abeg e. Onyinye stop this hypocrisy. Your wife is not your sex medicine but your husband is abi?

Why can't they expect the same things we demand from them?

Tell me, if your husband denies you sex for a week,will you be here saying: "he is not my sex machine so everything goes".

A spouse has duties and sex is one. If you don't want such responsibility don't get married and don't get upset when he cheats on you.

Haba! Frigid women should stay off marriage.

Oka if my husband denies me sex, i will ask him why. i won't go out and start searching for another man to fix that problem. I have no problem satisfying my husband's need,GOT DANG i get tired too you know. There will be days that i just rather cuddle then be banged. SHEISH!!!! it is not like freaking food or water.

Im see why some women use sex as a bribe and as a punishment. This guy will divorce her just because of it.

HCH3COO:
biko! ogni?  sex is grounds for divorce abeg, you just don't understand.  who said constantly in the mood?  i said a woman who deprives her husband of sex.  that's a cruel woman.  you women say men are dogs, but even if we are we don't demand it 24/7.

Is it FOOD, WATER,NOR SHELTER?? nope. But if you are in addicting need of it and your wife won't give it to you, ASK her why. don't get all upset.

HCH3COO:
okay so basically you're both saying anytime my wife says no when i want to hit it, i should ask her why she's angry, because there has to be something wrong?  husbands are not certified psychologists you know.  


by the way, i don't' support marital rape. would never do something like that.  i would rather divorce my wife over such.

Divorce your wife over sex? Water boy, you are showing your true colors. Your wife is not your SEX MEDICINE. she has things to do throughout the day. And God forbid the woman is tired at the end of the day and just wants to freaking sleep. Must she be constantly in the mood? I mean shadang, give her a break. Just because she won't let you "hit it" doesn't mean she is angry just tired. Gawd how sometimes i just don't just don't understand what sex has a hold on you men.

HCH3COO:
what the Bleep does fixing problems have to do with keeping the pussy shut?  if something's bugging you, open your mouth like a grown ass woman, tell your man and attempt to work it out with him.  don't just keep quiet locking the pussy because you're angry.

You are so insensitive that it is literally scary. You could care less about what is going on with your wife as long as she is there as your sex medicine. is it food, water, or shelter? no.