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[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=155494.msg2619017#msg2619017 date=1218039781]make him feel like he is the king and that without him world will sieze, because that is what a man will do to you that will make u to forget your sorrow.[/quote]King ko, world ni. Well i have my ways of making a man feel like a so called "king". oka the second part of your statement is sort of questionable. you are going to have to elaborate.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2619011#msg2619011 date=1218039652]u just don't want to admit, but u know that na favour.[/quote]oka a favor is something you do occasionally. me cooking for my man is not a favor, but what i usually do. My man paying for dinner is not a favor, but what he should usually do.

define pampering?

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618974#msg2618974 date=1218039284]u aint doing me a fvour sis, we cld have stayed home and you cook, so i think i am the one that is doing u a fovur, take you out of the kitchen, and spend more time together.[/quote]How is it doing me a favor when i have to pay? doing me a favor is you staying home cooking for me.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=155494.msg2618963#msg2618963 date=1218039187]Any [b]human [/b]will go to where [b]she [/b]is adored and celebrated and not tolerated.[/quote]oka now pay attention to those two highlighted words. you said "human" then "she". is man not human too? doesn't man go to where he his adored and celebrated?

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618934#msg2618934 date=1218038904]Listen to yourself, when you pay, u doing me a favour, because you covering for me for that one night, and when i pay, it is a good gesture, i like your style.[/quote]But it is the truth, is it not? it is a favor because i could have easily reject the offer to go out, but i was sweet enough to cover for you.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618903#msg2618903 date=1218038605]How is it a favour, that we went on a date and you take care of the bill?
So if i pay, will u see me as doing u a fovur?[/quote]I would see it as a nice gesture. And it is sort of kind of a favor towards you because i am basically covering for you that night.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618879#msg2618879 date=1218038381]well, i will never agree with u on that one, there is nothing wrong in covering each other's unclothedness.[/quote]But im just saying if it is MY money, why shouldn't i pay? see it as a more of a favor.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618861#msg2618861 date=1218038104]You have a point and i have learn from your 50 cent[/quote]Ha ha i guess you pay attention well. because i dont believe in just putting in 2 cents. i just wish you would see my point on why i should pay when i go and date and the guy has no money.

[quote author=Brash! link=topic=157786.msg2618830#msg2618830 date=1218037811]rapist paedophiles are vile human beings!

no punishment is big enough for them, but God knows best[/quote]Amen!!!!!!!

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618801#msg2618801 date=1218037465]To me when you say you are sorry, u already begged him.
Crying and rolling on da floor and calling thunder and all that crap, i see it as acting.[/quote]Well to me, you have to apologize. or you come off as if you don't really care. It is not begging.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618761#msg2618761 date=1218037077]so how do u define begging then?[/quote]To me begging is crying dramatically, saying "Baby, please Im sorry"over and over again. saying " i need you". etc.

[quote author=onyeka_ng link=topic=157412.msg2618751#msg2618751 date=1218037003]Kai! na swear? He'll definitely get himself a job somehow or some source of income.[/quote]Abi o. got no time for slackers.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618723#msg2618723 date=1218036707]will u at any time tell him you are sorry?[/quote]Ummm. . . well yeah i will. It would probably be the opener for the conversation. If he doesn't accept it, begging aint going to make him accept it either.

icemann:
My dear am not a kid
i know its an expression , so is mine

Oka sure. I apologize for calling you youngsta. I was out of term.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618689#msg2618689 date=1218036488]so how do u show you are remorseful, by coming back and say ' here dude, i am back, what do u want, going to take me back or not"?[/quote]No that is not showing remorse. that is someone with an attitude. I would sincerely go to the guy, state my peace, and hope he understands. If he doesn't, what will begging do? His mind is made up. Begging won't change it.

onyinye2:
I don't beg for nothing. If i come to the dude, honest and remorseful and he still don't want me back, then GOODBYE. No need to beg. He don't you then he don't want you. Me beg to someone for something like this. . . utter disgrace.

Actually rampant, he came back begging to me not the other way around.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618652#msg2618652 date=1218036205]see u, u want to come here and make mouth, babes like u will beg for even tooth paste.[/quote]I don't beg for nothing. If i come to the dude, honest and remorseful and he still don't want me back, then GOODBYE. No need to beg. He don't you then he don't want you. Me beg to someone for something like this. . . utter disgrace.

Oh you is talking jive Rhino. Aint no sane person going to involve themselves in such activities. I would get married on a beach or on an island. But as for planes and boats, hell naw.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618630#msg2618630 date=1218035929]I feel you, but would be better to just beg, although, i will never take her back oh.[/quote]Beg to whom? i dont beg for no one for nothing. If you don't want me back, fine. have a nice life. but for me to beg. . . hell naw.

icemann:
Then u strike his pocket And get rich like John Rockefella
Girls and money!!! they are inseperable _{girls no fit let rich man go easily}

Oh quiet youngsta. It was an expression.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618580#msg2618580 date=1218035456]Just to cover his unclothedness[/quote]Oh so this all goes back to a man' ego. Oka if I have the money to pay then im going to be the one who takes up the bill. If he doesn't have the money to pay, not my fault.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157659.msg2618547#msg2618547 date=1218034945]I've always known say na mouth u get, chicken.[/quote]Oh so your brave self will do it abi? Shoot i love my life. I aint starting my marriage in the emergency room.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618535#msg2618535 date=1218034748]Ok good.
but come oh, what is the diference between this and you don't want to make your man hold money for the dinner, you would rather pay so that they will know say na u get money pass.[/quote]Hey if it is MY money then I will pay. why should i give the guy the money before hand? does it really make a difference?

I love the idea but i wouldn't be caught dead doing a stunt like that.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618524#msg2618524 date=1218034615]what bell oh, or u would u do something like that, make i quick go tell your man to waka off you oh[/quote]Me, doing something like dat that is so evil so cruel so . . .

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=157749.msg2618503#msg2618503 date=1218034463]I swear u be correct chicka.
she cld hire me to do the begging for her sha.
However, i see a woman like that with bad temper and will do anything to get even.[/quote]Hmm, rings a bell some how. . .

Yeah i know a lot of ladies that tell their partner to go and take an Hiv test and those mu mu boys will see it as the lady doesn't "trust" him or he is "dirty". Utter stupidity. Losing your life over something like this.

Im just saying if you are willing to have sex, then you are willing to take a Hiv test and every other test for STDs.

Finding a good man these days is like finding oil in your back yard.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=155494.msg2618360#msg2618360 date=1218032832]Suffering from
* lack of good love making
* too much 2 mins menish
* lack of point of no returnish.

You can't understand jare.[/quote]Oka now you are being upfront. Well a lady might be "suffering" from these things but i still HIGHLY HIGHLY doubt she will go out of the relationship to go find a person who can fulfill her so called "needs". What don't i understand?

sistawoman:
I sent the second set back to the shop.  Actually the first set were long stem red roses about $100.00.  The second set was an arrangement that cost $85.00 and the card said don't give these away, so i did just as he asked and sent them back.

I am not worried he is a coward and wont come forward for fear of me telling his wife next time she calls.  For crying out loud i am his administrative assistant so i put through his wifes calls all the time.

Shadang! 100 dollars, man i love me some roses but 100 dollars worth is out of the question. Any ways i don't care if the flower were imported tulips(my fav) they are going straight to the trash. If it aint from MY MAN then it aint for me.

@post
Just move on. Because i HIGHLY HIGHLY doubt the guy will take you back. I mean for you to just go and pack your stuff just because you bought it shows that you meant what you meant. So sweet heart, it is over. Learn from this experience and move on. No need beating yourself over something like this.