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Ezenwa11:
Oops! 90% of those who have guns for protection don't even know what protection is all about, in fact they don't even wear sit belt when they are driving in a highway. They are the most careless people on earth. How can a man keep a gun for protection but he doesn't know how to hide it from outreach of his children. I believe those children have been playing with the gun but that day was their unlucky day. SO SAD

Why did u call me?

Mznaett:
All I can say is "Catch me if you can"

Oya tell me how to catch u!!!

cruxty:
A change in character, then the cheating partner tend to be more suspicious and always suspecting the spouse of cheating

So when someone is always suspecting his spouse to be cheating that invariably mean that person is cheating

Let me understand this biko!!!

davspog2:
Simple signs like When a girl that visits you before no matter what starts giving you flimsy excuse for not visiting or picking your calls again! Is enough to tell a sensible brother to move on to the next good thing!

Hmmmmm....

dabexy:
It's not an easy one... esp d case u are referring to (long distance r/shp).
It'll show gradually in the person's character (in rare cases tho)

Mehn, I don't think u can easily tell

So one just keep up believing the partner isn't cheat whereas in actual sense there is 60% possibility that he or she is

Heard statistics revealed 80% of spouse cheat on each other!!

Hian!!!

kerygalerie:
why is it that partners do not trust themselves... I won't be thinking of my partner cheating cos I trust him...

Trust your spouse, I know it's not easy but that's the best thing to do..


On the issue of him cheating, once I notice he is portraying some funny characters, I begin to do my underground research.... Snooping around...

If found guilty, I take a walk subtly ... Don't have that time to be wailing over spilled milk.

What funny character What if its a distant relationship where u ain't there to notice funny characters

kerygalerie:
It's simple act like you are cheating too, then you will see how he will react....

I dont understand... How will he/she react how will the reaction show he or she is cheating??


Lalasticlala .... Help us get more views from people!!

In this dispensation were cheating is now the order of the day, how can one tell when the partner is cheating
Especially in distant relationship!!!

blackpanda:
People are just hypocrites!
Is it not d same pple that said NA shld not approve the loan? Now they want magic road

Smh! Ndiara!

Shut up your mouth

that loan shouldn't have been approved because Its a waste as its not gonna be used for the state....
Oshiomole's second tenure was a waste and a slap on Edo peoples face... He did nothing but siphoned the state's treasury

Gherrokid:
Has anyone got feedback from the test?
@rhymz any update for Abuja candidates?

Nothing yet oh

babyfaceafrica:
There is no reason or excuse to cheat

There are reasons but no excuse....

rawpadgin:
Stop justifying infidelity

God is watching u

Read my post well.... am not justifying infidelity or immorality... am only stating a cause and effect.... If you had read through you will see where i said Infidelity is Bad.... but ofcourse you are a lazy student who would rather fall into conclusions than read and make arguable remarks for the benefit of knowledge.


learn not to fall into conclusions so one day you dont end up breaking your neck!!!

nnachukz:
it is open to any interpretation of your choice. A man can marry two women or more at the same time if he so chooses according to our tradition, but for women that is not allowed. So it is a fundamental issue and women should not think about it as an excuse to cheat. Because if your husband cheats and you catch him and make too much trouble about it, you will be the one to go likewise if he catches you cheating.

Yes!! traditions agree that a man can marry more women!!! but that is MARRY in quote, but licence to cheat is a No No...
Now, the era when men cheat and go freely is passing away!!! the era when we feel we are the lord and savior of the woman and can flaunt it in the open and they have nothing to do about it. Those era is gradually fading. Now when you do stuffs, there are consequences for your actions and (or) inaction. Women are lot more wiser and can sue... Which man wants a divided home with scattered children which man wants his kids to be raised by another man which man wants to have a marital scar?? there are some consequences as men we try to avoid and its encouraging that women have started living up to expectations... They have started leaving the era of being toys

ibe9ja:
I think it's a curse on women. They MUST cheat at least, with a fellow woman.

Huh!!!
That's actually ridiculous....
Do you have proof of this

ladyF:
Some women will cheat no matter the level of faithfulness they get from their man, same thing goes for some men. Its an individual thing.

You're right tho.... that why this article is just looking at a perspective... one possible reason why they will cheat amongst others

Women are terrible beings you know... [...

nnachukz:
Most of our traditions here do not give women such luxury of tasting any other Dickson Thomas apart from their husband's sugar cane. They have no excuse whatsoever to cheat once they are married. They should get that into their head and stop competing with us.

So most of our tradition gives you as a man the luxury to cheat i don't gerrit?

Women Cheating in a relationship/marriage can be for many reason.... Money, peer pressure, lust, mistake, etc, but i wish to discuss one reason which I've come to understand from years of study. Women are wonderful beings and naturally are made to be help mate to a man. Men are made to be the head, so it is and so it will continually be. Forget gender inequality, there has to be a head.
Now, there is a law in physics which says "To every action there is an equal and opposite Reaction"
what do i mean by this?
Women are most likely to cheat in MEN that CHEATS...
Need explanations? okk.
Nature has laws, call it karma, or any name you like. Even the bible agrees with certain natural laws that what goes around, comes around...
Some men feel they can cheat, but as far as they are not caught they are free.... Natural laws don't work like that. Natural laws depicts that when you do something, whether you are caught or not, it shall be done to you.
Bible says: As far as the earth remains, seed time and harvest shall not seize. simple; what you sow you reap...
Now as a head, what you do naturally influences your subordinates, whether done secretly or openly. This is natural. If you are a boss that steals/forge in the office, even if its secretly, expect your people to steal. If you as a head come late to work, there is this natural energy that will cause your workers to be potentially late comers. Its natural. So it is with cheating.
Most men cry fowl when their wives cheat but they are actually the cause in one way or another by past or present actions...
This is only just one reason and it is contestable...

THIS IS NOT TO ENCOURAGE CHEATING AS WHAT IS BAD IS BAD, BUT TO TELL OUR HEAD OF FAMILIES AND POTENTIAL HEADS THAT 'IF YOU WANT A HAPPY HOME, CREATE HAPPINESS... IF YOU WANT A HONEST WOMAN, BE HONEST TO HER... IF YOU WANT A FAITHFUL WOMAN, BE FAITHFUL TO HER

This may/maynot apply to every woman

cybug:
Exactly what I wanted to ask... According to the message on the fone

'i just had sex with my cousin bro.... ' and the response was

"guy, it is well..." meaning he's responding to a guy

I guess i was the one he was referring to at the end of the conversation as bro...

More like... I just ate that banana bros...

rephrased; Bros, i just ate that banana...

re-read the statement and you'll get the true meaning

kesikeller:
@op is he gay? Read in between the lines or you tell us where the story was culled from.

He ain't gay bro... He is just a normal dude that likes pleasure but certainly not gay

idolda:
Op, are you on another planet? The date on your phone Says Friday August 21,2015.

I changed the time becos of candy crush soda

slap1:
You don't even have enough airtime to reply the text message.

Slap1 transfer card for me make i take reply abeg!!! u be boss na

yeye

My close pal just sent me this text... Says they've been having some romance before now but this was the first time they had sex! he asked if he was possessed. I was just dumbfounded!!!

lies

lies

OP please which school are you attending You are a disgrace to education in Nigeria...

bukkyche:
The exam was sth else. Never knew it would be that tough and I ddnt prepare. Well, I did mine yesterday and I got 70%. Got 49 out of 70 questions

bros same with me oh!!! didn't know it will be this tough. its been long i wrote test as if na mechanical engineering science!!! got 49 too. its well

technix:
64%

You try na..., u're d highest so far!!!

technix:
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I am sorry to ask, where was 70% indicated as cut-off, cos I just did it too but didnt see anything as such

how was it what was ur score?

Schipolkky2211:
They don't have a branch in ph?

After you're deemed successful they can post you to any of their project sites not just in Lagos but around the country depending.... so u finish the interview/assessment first

lexychuks:
Thanks. Just finished the test. It was as you mentioned. Good luck to everyone

How was it u finish work abi