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I'm tired of been in silence. I am on the brink of losing it. I don't intend questioning God almighty, but I'm now compelled to ask some fundamental questions. Why Did God create us without our conscents, brings us here and see us suffer all forms of hardships and pains as if we chose all that?
I lost my dad when I was 9 years old. Myself & four siblings were shared out to our uncles and aunts after his burial. We stayed and helped out as housemaids in their respective houses. My own experience was extremely tough as I vowed that I will never in this life give my child to another person to help take care when I get married. People can be so cruel. Immediately I got into my Anty's house, I become a houseboy. I would mop, wash the plates, go to the market, fetch water from far-away deep wells, wash pit toilets and go to sch every morning without food to eat. I was still being constantly insulted by my aunt and her children. I wouldn't be allowed to sit or go near where my aunt and her children were sitted. This woman never paid my fee for once, but I was doing all these for her. My mum would cry anytime she heard all the treatment meted out to me as she couldn't save the situation at that time. She even asked me to return to the village and be schooling, but I objected since there were no good schools in the village. I decided to suffer and get the education I wanted. My fee was just #500 at the time, so every holiday, I would go to wood deport and trash wood dust with a wheel barrow and get paid. I would save in a mini Saving box until I get my complete fee. Some times, my aunt would ask me to lend her money and I dare not say No.
Psychologically, I got really affected. I felt hated by the world. I questioned God, but no answers came. My confidence in sch was lacking as I couldn't talk in class or relate freely with my peers. I was so shy and had inferiority complex. But I was brilliant.
After my WAEC, I already had ulcer. I vowed never to school further again cos I had no helper. I had great waec result and was moved to go further when I saw my mates gaining admissions into higher institutions of learning. I left my aunt's house and traveled to Kano to go Hussle. I hussled for five years and saved then wrote jamb, got admission and went to sch. Today I am a graduate by God's grace.
After all these travails, I thought God would bless me for my perseverance at least, but why am I still struggling this badly? Struggling so terribly. I can't feed, no good job except teaching in a private sch and been paid 30k here in Abuja. From this 30k, I pay rent, help my siblings and Mum. How can I survive?
Where is God?
The debts on my head is too much, I have faced lots of financial embarrassements due to debts. Sometime ago, loan sharks embarrassed me online. Now, people I owe foodstuffs money are coming for my head. The embarrassment is unbearable.
I brought this here because I can no longer stomach it. I am tired.

benuejosh:
JED - Jos Electricity Distribution needs to improve on their company. We experience the worst of their service/light supply in Makurdi.

Makurdi has never enjoyed good power supply even in the last two decades. Some interior villages in Benue enjoy better power supply than Makurdi it's capital

We bless God for everything.

I have no food to eat. Teacher's Salary is yet to be paid and I plead with you to in the spirit of love and humanity, help me.
Thanks

AyobamiOluwole:
Leave this NOSIMP of a thing. I didn't do it based on whether I'm forming Red pill or not. Anger and frustration is a bad thing. Bleep Futures trading and Crypto. Damn. All this wouldn't have happened.

Same will be done to your sister. I'm not capping, it's the truth. When u were giving her money, were u doing so cos u wanted something in return? Is she ur girlfriend in the first place? If u needed a cuddle, why didn't u call ur babe or an Olosho? U bleeped up big time. What if she was killed, kidnapped or raped at the time u threw her out?

SoNature:
God forgive me, but I don't like Burna Boy one bit! Sometimes, I wonder what he sings that makes people go gaga over him! To cap it all, he's a stingy, egoistic person like WizKid.

On the flip side, may God bless Davido, a giver from a privileged family who doesn't allow his background affect the way he relates with people!

I thought I was the only one that doesn't like him. Truly, I find nothing special in him that is worth all these Hype. I don't enjoy his music either

3kay945:
So to you now, the cause of death is the students' Greed abi

The way some people reason sha.. haba!.

Keep your opinion to yourself and allow me do same. I didn't make this comment on your Head, it's my space.

Kwaramustgoodag:
see ur life outside. If u can name tinubu primary school, till university he attended and the school was OK, send u aza

Can I send my aza for 3k pls?
Thanks

Hunger Bad.
See how these young, lively, beautiful ladies with promising futures ended their Lives just because of a few cups of Rice. Is it worth it? See what Nigeria has been reduced to? It's so shameful as parents of the deceased students to tell someone the cause of their children's death. When people ask them, should they now say the children died cos they were hungry and struggling to get palliatives ?

I can tell u that these girls weren't actually hungry, it was just out of greed that they went to struggle to get those stuffs. They have parents and lots of boyfriends who they bill. They use expensive phones

God1000:
This is wonderful


Have you boarded such a train before, tell us about your experience

You made a post and still be the first to comment

Only a foolish guy will take nija girls serious

Watianoengineer:
Glo remains the best Nigeria. Their berekete bonus is massive and their airtime bonus calls all networks. I have been using Glo for 20years and I have no regrets.

But can't send texts

Too much sense will not kill them I swear. This is just the Best

Kobojunkie:
Who paid for the DNA test that was carried out?

Try dey read na, oga. Haba!

This is fiction. Why didn't she personally use her phone to call her mum ? Why? It wasn't like she was weak or had already been operated upon. No sensible guy would even donate his kidneys to a girlfriend. What nonsense!
You're not married yet

Jennyclay:
There are some things I can’t perceive.

If I slightly perceive the odour of fuel I throw instantly and I will be sick for like 3 hours.

Biko, always wear nose mask, we inhale too much nonsense in this country that could cause damages in our body system

I'm glad u didn't insult Men in your comment today

superintendents:
Oga your own better oo..
make i tell you the complete story

Na loan app I go borrowed yesterday and they transfer to my first bank, I don't even know that network has issues, to withdraw na wahala.. I try USSD like 1000 times yesterday not working..
Omo na so as I wake 4:30am up when am about to start eating for the fasting, I then give it a try luckily it work out..

Bro is not easy, to pay back this loan now na hot cake because we are in the middle of the month and na week loan I collect..

Omorrrr... It's well bro. I feel you. I do.
I have tried and tried so much that my Phones battery can no longer withstand it. Every seconds

Shikena:
You sure?

Very sure

superintendents:
if you are using first bank it definitely work because it work for me too using first bank *894# transfer to my Opay, I saw your post yesterday but couldn't say anything because am on your shoe by that time, am desperately wanting to send money too that yesterday..
Feel sorry for you though..

I feel like I'm no longer alive now. The frustration is too much

Oga, nobody is scared of death. Nigeria is already hell for the financially-disadvantaged ones and no form of Death can ever be Greater than been alive here

superintendents:
if you are honest and desperate.. Wait by night and do your transaction using USSD code..

I did it by 4:30 and is working using the same bank as yours..

I keep doing this almost every 30mins of the day but it's still same thing. I'm Just frustrated. Though I haven't tried it at the time u mentioned. Did u use USSD?

Happy Sunday Nairaland.

I use First Bank, it's Savings account.
My first bank ATM card expired a few years ago and I never bothered about getting a new one since I have other accounts whose ATM cards haven't expired and can easily use my torchlight phone to do USSD transfer to such accounts and then withdraw.

The issue now is, USSD transfer isn't working, I don't have mobile App.
What do I do? Since Tuesday, I have been without money to do anything. I am just depressed. How do I get this money from my account?

Good evening to you all. Since Tuesday, I've been trying to get some money from my account but no way. I use first bank . But the ATM card is expired, so if I need money I would use the USSD code to make transfers to my Opay account since I have the ATM card, then withdraw from it. But since on Tuesday night, it's been network issues. I don't have anybody to call for help. I have already learnt a lot about life these few days. I learnt that I'm all alone in this world and if anything happens to me, nobody is going to take responsibility. I'm like a cow without a tail to drive away flies. No elder ones, no parents.
I pray that God touches anyone to help me, cos the Hunger right now is unbearable. Anything will go a long way.
God bless you for at least reading this and bless u more for helping.
Amen

Twoclans:
Thank you very much .I no get energy to explain.

🤣🤣🤣

jamesversion:
I'd just drive down to spar and get another one. Shouldn't take me an hour.

Big man Spotted

Twoclans:
Hmmm if I have been a good girlfriend it will take akeeng a few minutes to replace my phone ,but if I have been doing coconut head things I will never see any replacement.That guy is a low key redpill member

Biko nobody should ask me why I can't replace the phone myself ? That information is personal.

Funny you. I wanted to ask you a question, but since u said nobody should ask, lemme mind my business

labake1:
I am not careless

Infact the more careful you are,the more likely you're going to lose your phone

Considering the Economic issues bedeviling the country at this point in time when having what to eat is a Miracle, if your phone gets lost, How Long do you think it will take you to get a new one for yourself? I think at such time, many people tend to know how rich or poor a person is.
I mean replacing the phone with the exact one that was lost or even a bigger one, not a smaller one Please.
I can tell you that, more than 50%, if not more of the phones ladies have today were gifted them by their boyfriends and Husbands. When a man's phone gets lost, he buys a replacement for himself, when a woman's phone gets lost, the husband or boyfriend buys her a new one.

Considering the Economic issues bedeviling the country at this point in time when having what to eat is a Miracle, if your phone gets lost, How Long do you think it will take you to get a new one for yourself? I think at such time, many people tend to know how rich or poor a person is.
I mean replacing the phone with the exact one that was lost or even a bigger one, not a smaller one Please.
I can tell you that, more than 50%, if not more of the phones ladies have today were gifted them by their boyfriends and Husbands. When a man's phone gets lost, he buys a replacement for himself, when a woman's phone gets lost, the husband or boyfriend buys her a new one.

I pray God touches someone's heart

Deogratiasfx:
All these epistle is because of 1k?

Baba I need it bro. I'm totally stranded. How do I go to work tomorrow after missing today's work?
What do I tell my boss.

Since yesterday evening, I've been unable to do USSD transfer. I almost couldn't go to work today cos of transport fare. I have fidelity and First bank account but their ATM cards are all expired. I have been too busy to go to the Bank since I am always very busy during week days and weekends. What I do when I need money is to use USSD and transfer to my Opay account, then withdraw. My Opay account is a new one and it's card isn't expired.
Yesterday after making okro soup with 3k, I had money to buy even two cups of garri to make Eba. I didn't know the Bank Network was going to have issues, else I would have kept aside garri money from the 3k spent on soup. I had to go to bed on an Empty stomach after licking some of the soup without eba. It's really very frustrating to say the least.
Anyone who can in God's name, help me with 1k to use tommorow to work will be highly appreciate pls.

I don't have Bank App on my phone else I would have tried using the app to make transfers. It's painful having money but can't use it when u need it.
Pls help !