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Romance › Re: I Am Emotionally Damaged by Opanka44(m): 3:52pm On Feb 23, 2024

I feel like slapping you again the 21st time, again and maybe again. Abeg where una dey see these kind girls from?
Where?

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Celebrities › Re: My Marriage To Ella Is Over - Rapper Ikechukwu by Opanka44(m): 3:48pm On Feb 23, 2024*

1kg of cooking gas now lasts longer than people's marriages these days

Nigeria is harder than anything hard now.

Abeg anyone who can help should pls help before we all die here. Nothing is too small

One-four-eight-seven-five-zero-six-three-seven-nine

Access Bank

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Health › Re: What Helps You Sleep At Night? by Opanka44(m): 2:42pm On Feb 23, 2024

Who dey sleep for dis country now wey things dey very high?

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Politics › Re: Ben-Chioma Resigns As Rivers State Commissioner For Environment by Opanka44(m): 4:24pm On Dec 15, 2023

Mrfeel:
The drama between wike and his boy is unfolding in a shocking manner

First time Nigerian politicians are voluntarily resigning from their offices these much

Who told u it's voluntary?
Dey play.

Politics › Re: Rivers Senators, State Assembly Members Pay Surprise Birthday Visit To Wike by Opanka44(m): 12:55pm On Dec 13, 2023

Wike is gradually becoming a Big and strong force to reckon with. He's now a Big fish. The only man who is a dual member of both the ruling APC and the fierce opposition, PDP. And still has a portfolio.
He has ousted Amaechi, the acclaimed lion of Ubinma from the scheme of things in Rivers state and even at the federal level. Amaechi has been sent into Political Oblivion, and he's currently going through his political post-menopausal syndrome.
I actually love Amaechi and would prefer him over Wike anytime anyday. Wike is to rascal & loquacious

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Health › Re: Inside Abuja’s Kidney ‘market’ Where The Rich Prey On The Poor by Opanka44(m): 8:19pm On Dec 10, 2023

O Lord, may our friends and family members never be victims of such ugly and heartbreaking situation. Poverty is a bastard

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Romance › Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Opanka44(op): 11:12am On Dec 10, 2023

Geovanni412:
Op, if you are above 23 yrs...

Dem no suppose dey use you catch this kind cruise

You just dey allow am give you blue balls for months

The truth is this....

I'm 33. Did u not read where I said she's 28yrs old? So it means I can't be anywhere near 23. I am far above that.
I love this girl so badly. She says she loves but most times I doubt. We have been together for 2years. I'm only just waiting for her to go for her NYSC and complete it. She has other features that betray her claim of Loving me but this particular one is what I find very disturbing. She's had lots of exes, does it mean none of Dem ever slept with her?

Romance › Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Opanka44(op): 10:57am On Dec 10, 2023

Solofresh2:
From your story, you suck her private part without even considering the disadvantages you might encounter doing that. A girl asked you to suck her private part and rub your penis in her vagina and you are asking us if she is a virgin or not. Will a true virgin ask you to do those stuffs
Bros the fact that a lady is kind to you does not mean she loves you. A lady who will allow you suck her private part but not let you penetrate inside her,lying she is a virgin doesn't love you.
You need to study women well if you don't want to be deceived.At least, two or more of those guys texting or calling her her sleeping with her and they will still continue sleeping with her even after you get married to her
You have being fooled all along you need to wise up

I'm not forced to suck her pussy. I wanted it. She didn't tell me to do so.

Romance › Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Opanka44(op): 9:09am On Dec 10, 2023*

Happy Sunday to everyone here.
I've been with this Beautiful lady for two solid years. She comes to see me every weekend, cooks for me and she's being exceptionally Nice to me. She kindhearted. The major issue that causes conflict between us is her constant communication with some other guys. Some guys call her everyday like they are dating. She keeps insisting that there's nothing between herself and those guys, and that they are just Toasters. I believe that if u actually Respect your man, and he tells u he isn't comfortable with some certain behavior, you'd change. This is a very serious relationship which we plan to settle down together in two years time. I have seen her WhatsApp chats with some of these guys.
I have never had a Penetrative sex with her, except MouthAction. She claims she's a virgin. She's 28yrs of age. I've told her countless times to allow me find out by myself so I can be sure. I suck her pussy but she wouldn't allow me dip my fingers into her, anytime she notices I want to dip my fingers, she will move away. She will close her legs so tightly & ask me to mount her & insert my Dick around the hole so I can release. She asks me to stimulate her clitoris to make her cum, but I can't confirm her claim of virginity. I even asked her to dip her own fingers into it, so I can watch to see if the fingers can go in, but she doesn't. I'm really very worried and confused. I feel like I'm being played and dribbled here. I feel like I'm a fool. She has continued to SWEAR IN GOD'S NAME AND HER LATE FATHER'S GRAVE that she's a virgin. I am so so CONFUSED.
I know she loves me, but I feel she's seeing someone else and also lying about her Virginity. I'm not even bothered about any woman been a virgin or not. I just want a peaceful, good and accommodating lady.
Elders pls help me out

Politics › Re: Bishop Kukah Endorses ‘japa’, Encourages Young Nigerians To Leave by Opanka44(m): 8:35am On Dec 10, 2023

Sure.
Nigeria is already gone to the dogs

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Politics › Re: Obi Faults Demolition Of Houses, Says Timing Wrong by Opanka44(m): 12:26pm On Nov 30, 2023

LifestyleTonite:
No wonder Obi came third in the last election. He lacks sense and doesn't know when not to talk.

When Soludo and Otti were demolishing houses in Anambra and Abia,. respectively, this LP third-placed candidate kept quiet. Dude now found his voice because it concerns the Lagos they have coveteousness for.

How can you say the timing of the demolition is wrong, all in the name of hardship in the land? When hasn't there ever been hardship on Nigeria and in the world? So, because of hardship, illegalities should be permitted? Armed robbery should also be legalized because of hardship, according to Obi with 419 sense.

He even insinuated that Government ought to not have carried out the demolition now, meaning it should have been postponed. This is another reason why he's not fit to rule Nigeria. So, he means government should continue to permit flooding caused by illegal structures encroaching on waterways in Lagos. Doesn't he know that while the canal's route is blocked, its water gets diverted to other communities which gets flooded. This leads to stagnation of water that causes malaria mosquitoes, typhoid, loss of property and dirty environment. These happen while the illegal criminals enjoy their mansions sited on illegal land. Sadly, when there's a flood, the descendants of those so-called mansion owners will mock Lagos.

What Peter Obi wants is a postponement of doomsday. This was the same way he supported Naira Scarcity. Now he's supporting illegality, yet hopes to lead Nigeria someday.

Below is a photo shared by the Lagos State Commissioner for Environment and Water Resources, Tokunbo Wahab, showing buildings built to block a canal's passage. During raining season, where do the owners of those buildings expect water to pass through? Definitely, the water will find a channel that will lead it to where irs not supposed to go to, there y causing flooding in other communities. Obi wants such buildings to remain standing, whereas he demolished such buildings when he as the Governor of Anambra State.

He's a clown

You're the one that lacks sense... Ewu..
How would u feel after spending your hard-earned money on building a big house, and someone comes to demolish it? How would u feel? I understand some of these people were pre-warned though

Politics › Re: Fubara Sent People 2 Burn Rivers Assembly Complex, Raised Ethnic Politics - Wike by Opanka44(m): 2:24pm On Nov 24, 2023

SultanOfPuna:
Fubara bleeped up big time.

You should never bite the hand that feeds you

Do u know how many fingers that had fed Wike and yet he went on to Bite them?

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Politics › Re: Tinubu Inherited Dead Economy, CBN Under Buhari Printed Money Illegally – Soludo by Opanka44(m): 8:31am On Nov 24, 2023

Things dey happen for this country I swear

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Politics › Re: OSOPADEC Commissioner, Kehinde Akinrotoye, Beaten By Hoodlums In Ondo by Opanka44(m): 3:10pm On Nov 23, 2023

God1000:
Too bad, the police will just be there looking, I don't why our police officers behave that way, they are also known for aiding and abetting criminals and chaos

You're everywhere. You comment on all threads

Romance › Re: Watch Moment Lady Landed Boyfriend Hot Slap As He Proposed To Her In Public by Opanka44(m): 12:20pm On Nov 23, 2023

I don't know how some so-called men think at all. You're in a relationship, you should know if a lady is interested in Marrying you. If you can't notice this, then you're dumb.
How do u just propose when there are glaring evidences that she won't marry you. Nawao..
And why should the girl resort to slapping the man? If it were the other way Round now, they will start bashing the man. I will never lay my hands on a woman. Never. And if any woman tries that with me, she's gone. Cos I will so much beat the hell outta her. The lady isn't mature at all. Why not quietly decline? Must proposal even be done in the public always?

Christianity Etc › Re: Pope Francis Hosts Trans-Women & Eats Lunch With Them At The Vatican (Photos) by Opanka44(m): 5:21pm On Nov 22, 2023

Christianity has been reduced to a Joke.

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Family › Re: After 21 Years In US, 9 Years In London, I Found Myself Under Oshodi Bridge by Opanka44(m): 10:27am On Nov 21, 2023

Things dey happen for this Life oo

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Phones › Re: Telecom Operators Plan Increase In Tariffs by Opanka44(m): 12:43pm On Nov 17, 2023

They shouldn't try it pls. We are going through hell already and they shouldn't compound our economic woes any further pls

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Romance › Re: A Must Read. Advice Needed. by Opanka44(op): 2:25pm On Nov 11, 2023

Vinnie2000:
OP,

You once said you are a PRIVATE school Teacher trying to make ends meet.🤔

How come you are so Obsessed with Girlfriend issues?😕😒😒

U better focus on Things that will BETTER your Life o! 🤨😏

I don't womanize at all. This is the only woman I know that's why I'm bothered. If I have many, I wouldn't bother myself worrying about dis same girl. I don't think it's a crime for a struggling Young Man to fall in love

Romance › Re: A Must Read. Advice Needed. by Opanka44(op): 2:23pm On Nov 11, 2023

JONSYN7154:
when she travelled for Christmas she do go to the guys place that's why she's ghosting you anytime she travels from Christmas.

For you to break free from her you need to identify your weakness in you that she's using to hold you.

Hmmmm... I'm really fed up. I hate to be in the situation I am in right now. By God's grace, I'm a very handsome and intelligent guy. And she can confirm that. I know how many female colleagues of mine that have begged me to date them and are willing to give me free sex. But I can't cheat on her even when she isn't giving me sex. Is it a crime to love? I want to do something that will pain her so well so she can stop coming close to me. Maybe I shouldn't wish her a happy birthday or post her on social media or buy her any gift. That's my plan now

Romance › Re: A Must Read. Advice Needed. by Opanka44(op): 1:55pm On Nov 11, 2023

JONSYN7154:
Thanks for your understanding.

Since you want the truth I will tell you.
She's using you as the second fiddle incase the main guy disappoint her.

Ok Sir. I appreciate you. But how do I make her never to come close to me. We work in same place but she's yet to go for NYSC. I don't double date and I expect my woman to stick to me and me alone. I've asked her to stay away from me but she keeps coming, I'm tired. She traveled last Christmas and before she left, I gave her some small money to buy a few things for her mum whom I don't know yet. I even saw her off to the park. But immediately she took off, she stopped picking my calls. As a matter of fact, when she arrived her destination, she still didn't call and wasn't picking my calls. I got worried, but later heard she arrived safely and I was relieved. She ghosted me through out and the communication seized for almost 7months. When she returned to her sister place again, she asked them we settle. And we settled. I'm sure she will still do same when she travels for this forthcoming Christmas. We are from the same place. Her birthday is 15th of dis month, and I am contemplating not buying her any gift or even wish her a happy birthday cos when I don't want a woman again, I don't want anything to connect us

Romance › Re: A Must Read. Advice Needed. by Opanka44(op): 1:22pm On Nov 11, 2023

JONSYN7154:
Patience? Seriously between you and Hausa ram no difference.

No offence bro.

Lol... I am not offended in any way bro. Truth must be told at all time and I'm glad I'm being told the sad truth

Romance › Re: A Must Read. Advice Needed. by Opanka44(op): 12:20pm On Nov 11, 2023

TheFinesseKid:
My dear OP. See you. See heartbreak. Continue

Baba, the matter don tire me I swear. She said if I genuinely love her, I would be patient with her. Haven't I been patient enough for two years? All her misdemeanors I have tolerated

Romance › Re: A Must Read. Advice Needed. by Opanka44(op): 12:18pm On Nov 11, 2023

garriAndsugar:
33 years old OP you just have 7 more years to attain the standard

You're trying to say I'm a fool?

Romance › A Must Read. Advice Needed. by Opanka44(op): 12:01pm On Nov 11, 2023

I have a girlfriend who we intend settling down together if God permits. I love her so much and have never cheated on her cos it is not in my nature to cheat at all. We have known for two years now. But I feel really not convinced that she wants to settle down with me. I have broken up with her severally but she keeps coming back. I feel like running away from this town, so I don't get to see her again. Here are a few of her unconvincing attitude that get me sceptical:

1. She hasn't introduced me to any of her family members or friends yet. Though I know her elder sister and Brother. But I got to know them by virtue of my job. Her elder sister is my Boss and her elder brother comes to visit us at work from time to time. Her elder sister (my Boss) once prayed that God should bless me so I can quickly pay her kid sister's bride price. She said so jokingly anyway. She already suspects something is going on, but it isn't official yet. I even asked her to inform her sister about us so she can see her reaction since she's very close to her. But she said, it would be an Insult to her & husband to introduce me to them as her man, because she lives with them & finds it not to good to do so. Also, she says I'm not ready yet and when I'm ready she will do that wholeheartedly. She is awaiting NYSC mobilization. And I am praying God for a Better job. But I believe it still doesn't stop her from introducing me to at least a friend & family member. She requested for my sister's number, I gave her. But up till now, she hasn't called my sister. I even bought her Airtime same day I gave her my sister's number. It's really disheartening.
2. She doesn't post me on her social media accounts. But she enjoys it when I post her pictures & write romantic stuffs about her. When I complained about this, she posted our pictures on her Whatsapp with the caption "And we Snapped". Since then, she hasn't posted any.
3. We can't hang out or walk on the streets. She claims her Elder sister's Husband may accidentally bump on us and it will be disrespectful to the husband who houses her.
4. I once saw her chat with a guy who she's also dating. She claimed they met online, & the guy traveled from Kano to Porthacourt to see her. The guy lodged in a hotel and she was going to see him everyday till he traveled back to Kano. She said they only kissed and there was no sex. That's her problem anyway cos it's not business. At the time, the guy visited her, we hadn't started the relationship. She broke up with the guy for some reasons.. but keeps chatting with him. She said there's nothing going on between them. I got angry. And her response was that, if she checks my WhatsApp and Facebook now, would she not see my chats with other girls? I was so shocked to hear this. Last year, I opened a Facebook account, posed as a big Politician & used my political godfathers picture on my profile, I sent her a friend request, she accepted & we started chatting. Of course she didn't know I was the one. I requested for her number, she gave me. I asked if she's in any relationship, but she denied it. I fixed a day that we would meet physically & she accepted. I felt really terrible. And I when I opened up & confronted her, she denied giving out her number. She said she wasn't even willing to go meet him anywhere that it was all joke.
5: she doesn't give me sex. She claims to be a virgin which I know she's lying. She's 28yrs old. We only kiss and do other stuffs but no penetrative sex. She asked that I wait until our wedding night. I believe that if u love someone genuinely, sex is the least thing to argue about. Until I met her, I had never sucked a woman's Vagina, she's the only one. And she knows how hygienic I'm. Though she appears to love and respect me so well, but why is it been hidden from the friends and family members?
6. I read her chat with her female friend on WhatsApp. She said "Who relationship help"
Then, I started wondering if I'm actually in a relationship with her or I'm in a relationship with myself.

I'm quite an emotional type and I'm really hurt. I do everything to make her happy. But the indices of a healthy relationship are missing from her end. This is same lady dat would call me at 2AM to profess her love for me. She said she is ready to start life with me even if it's in just one room apartment. Even if it's garri, she'll drink with me. But her actions are not in tandem and in consonance to her words. I'm confused here. Pls help me.

Celebrities › Re: Wizkid Visits His Childhood Primary School In Lagos With K1 De Ultimate by Opanka44(m): 10:04pm On Nov 10, 2023

Matrix138:
Nice one Wizzy, who God bless, no man can curse. But to be honest, he fell off, his last album just disappeared with all the songs. Nobody is talking about it anymore. Life happens to us all anyway.

Someone please help me with any amount for foodstuffs please. Hunger in the land. Even 500 will go a long way atleast to get garri to last a while

07 25 00 93 40 access bank Emeka. God bless.

Thief... Account opened two days ago

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Crime › Re: We Paid N250m To Free 121 Abducted Baptist Students – CAN by Opanka44(m): 7:21am On Nov 09, 2023

Ozommadu:
Tinubu will handle economy while shettima will handle security= Scam

Ebola tax collector and boko haram founder shettima are failures all round

No mind the scammers Bro. Thieves

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Romance › I Finally Threw The Towel On The Relationship. by Opanka44(op): 6:46pm On Nov 08, 2023*

I'm short of words. Those who have read my previous posts regarding this matter will understand this Better.

Health › Re: Lagos Lady Dies After Drinking Insecticide by Opanka44(m): 9:14am On Nov 06, 2023

If you're sick, go to the Hospital. It is as simple as that. The church is not where you get treatment. While praying for healing, also take proper medication and your faith will make u whole again. I pity Africans with such poor mentality

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