₦airaland Forum

ultron12345:
Amarabae my friend, long time. How are u doing?

So you think they should be allowed to go without paying for the services they received. If we should have pity on all cute and innocent babies born in our hospitals and send them off without collecting payment for services rendered, how will d hospital get funds to get equipment and consumables to cater for the next set of cute and innocent babies that will be born in the hospital.

Pls, services were rendered, and they should be paid for. This is the reason many hospitals refuse to commence treatment without an initial deposit.

The solution to this is health insurance, but putting into consideration how the typical Nigerian mind functions, I doubt it can operate successfully in this country. Nigerian will call it "what-if" money, they'll be like " I haven't fallen sick in the past 4 years, why should I be paying money monthly/annually for sickness I will not have, I rather use that money sew aso-ebi for mama bisola's daughters wedding". When u tell some about it, they'll be like " I reject sickness in Jesus name, why should I plan Incase of sickness when Jesus will protect me against it". Others will say "when the need arises, God will provide "

And by the way, if they can't afford their bill, how will they afford to feed that child, how will they afford school fees. Is it by force to born. I wont be surprised if that couple has about 5 children at home. Nigerians!!!!!!

GavelSlam:
Miyetti Allah Kautal Hore.

GavelSlam:
If you call him an APC chieftain, can you tell us what exco position he holds or what his isposition in the board of trustees?

Thank you.

buhariguy:
yes 8yrs.
You don't even know,
This is fayose second and last term.

Which is 8yrs in office.

buhariguy:
Will kwakwaso vote,
How will he persuade the good of ekiti to someone that don't have a single infrastructure to boast of for 8yrs.

ImaIma1:
And she should not hold back anything...even her anus*

ImaIma1:
Did i at any point say i want to learn?

handsomeyinka:
HIs the third mourinho....Arsene wenger was the second mourinho.

ImaIma1:
No long stories.

I hope you will tell her to give everything and specifically tell her to sleep with them too because marriage is not special that she has to wait to be a wife then.

ImaIma1:
When you have a daughter that sees you as her hero and you see as your princess and angel forever...when she is of a dating age and you can tell her to give her all in all(holding nothing back)to every guy she dates, then only then will we say you have won this argument.

ImaIma1:
I don't want to learn...i want to correct your interpretations of the Bible that you seem to model to suit your argument

ImaIma1:
Since there is no teacher or student but just 2 people coming together for a bible study, one has picked the time, the other should pick the venue

ImaIma1:
Just like yours

ImaIma1:
Sweetie i still stand on my word that no woman should become a wife in a relationship.

ImaIma1:
Time is 7pm. You name the venue.

ImaIma1:
Your long epistle and various "quotings" still ball down to the same thing.

ImaIma1:
At the bolded, how many people do the right thing? You are looking at an ideal situation and not a real life situation.

ImaIma1:
A relationship is that and a marriage is that. Both roles should not be intertwined. You pass through a relationship to get to a marriage...you said that. It doesn't mean you have to make the relationship a marriage.

ImaIma1:
Is it only guys that help financially? Ladies do too. Even friends help each other. So that does not count.

ImaIma1:
No i cannot be a wife for all the guys i date. That would be the height of foolishness. Same guys on Nairaland will start the talk of "body count" yet they don't see anything wrong with this lady's attitude. But just wait for a lady here to say the same and the word "olosho" finds its way out.

ImaIma1:
There is absolutely nothing you would say for me to accept your points even if you write 3 pagesand quote every letter.

ImaIma1:
Are you married? Did you marry the first girl you "wife relationshiped"? Please don't deceive ladies that it is ok to assume responsibilities of a wife when they are dating. If they do it, let it be their decision and cross

ImaIma1:
Let's meet and have Bible study then

ImaIma1:
Dating someone and assuming the role of the wife is it not cheating?

ImaIma1:
So you think when you go into a relationship you already know all about the person and what you are getting into. Didn't you say it is a risk?

ImaIma1:
Heartbreak is relative to different people. I never left a relationship with the mind of hating men.

ImaIma1:
And my hubby didn't insist i have to spend nights at his house, wash his clothes, cook, clean to prove that i loved him. It doesn't mean i do not do all that now.

ImaIma1:
But many people want their paradise now before they reach heaven by all means.

ImaIma1:
You want to use God sending His son to justify your points?

ImaIma1:
Like since God sent His son to die for us without any criteria, we should be allowed full access to each other's bodies even if we are not married?

ImaIma1:
Or since God sent His son to die for us, a woman can leave her parents' house and go and live with her boyfriend because she loves him as God loved us enough to send His son...
Come on!!! Use another argument please and stop trying to blasphem.

ImaIma1:
The fact that i need a job doesn't mean i will cheat in the interview just to make sure i get it by all means.

ImaIma1:
Everything is a risk but we as humans that have the brains to reason and make decisions that invlove our lives and future should know where to put discretion, where to pull back and where to draw a line

ImaIma1:
You cannot dive in head first and tell me it is because you are in love. Ask people with experience, they will tell you.

ImaIma1:
But the thing is, you might never see it or accept it till you experience it.

austyn0:
Nicely thought....

The only problem sensible ladies are having with relationship is being too conscious of heartbreaks,, forgetting that your excess consciousness of it is eventually going to make the dude lose interest someday after seeing someone better.

ImaIma1:
Let us drop this unending argument. We cannot agree because we share different views.

You believe a dating couple should be completely exclusive and i believe otherwise.

I would never advise anyone close to me to give her all in all to a boyfriend. A wise person will thread with caution and not fall like hupmty dumpty.

ImaIma1:
No.

So you think God will accept you sleeping with your girlfriend because he sent His son to die for us unconditionally?

Or what is your point?