₦airaland Forum

Ladyhippolyta88:
Don't try to bring gender into this you seem to be implying that women don't reason well. And by the way your experience can never be her experience so we understand differently.

I have brought it into this already and that's because it's relevant here. Women as I know them seek men that knows what they are doing when it comes to operations as is conducted in the oza room. Men do too but when it comes to matters of virgins, we draw an exception... There is a sense of achievement that goes with marking a random female and when she's your for better for worse, you cannot imagine what it feels like.

It doesn't look like you're taking your biology classes seriously. Lol. Happy married life in advance!

XhosaNostra:
OK. Good for you. Thank God not everybody reasons the way you do.

You're female. You are excused for seeing things the way you do. You are not expected to understand!

XhosaNostra:
OK. Good for you. Thank God not everybody reasons the way you do.

You're female. You are excused for seeing things the way you do. You cannot understand!

XhosaNostra:
To each their own. Men marry non-virgins all the time because sexuality is not the only thing that measures good character, determination etc in a person. Only if you're narrow minded & backward, would you use her virginity status as a determining factor to her character. Who wants a man like that anyway? To hell with him. Personally, I don't care what men like that find attractive in a woman. My type of guy will find me attractive regardless of whom I've slept with before him.

You are deciphering my message wrongly. What I'm saying is that meeting a woman as a virgin is nothing but a clear message to the man that she is resilient and able to stay true to her moral compass. That her personal resolve to go unscathed in a world so toothed and jagged is unfeigned and if that isn't attractive to you, it is to me!

XhosaNostra:
Good for you. Pray that he'll be faithful to you afterwards. Being a virgin doesn't = to preferential treatment or immunity. You'll still face the same marital struggles that a whòre does.

Keeping the virginity comes with a message that means 'No other man has been here before, I'm not loose, I'm a woman of standard moral principles and virtues'. Whoever is keeping her virginity for her husband is not doing him any favour, she's just showing the man how principled and determined she could be, and that's attractive!

Preshy561:
calling ops girlfriend a bittch.

Have you eaten?

Preshy561:


does your own woman know how to prepare a jaw dropping meal.

abeg,shift.

I don't see the relevance of this rant with the matter on ground though . Can you pls sound off like you got a pair?

Bitch wants you to go down on your knees and say the S word, DON'T!

prechbills1:
and as for your security crap... who doesn't want security? men also want security .I believe you're a kid.

Let me come and be going before this one bites me oh

prechbills1:
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You have anger issues oh. Go get help ASAP!

prechbills1:
After they will argue what a girl actually have to offer. 

Waste education that most don't need, after fornicating all through nysc then sit back and search for a rich guy to marry.. 

Why don't u work...? 
Poor girls always have big things to say and dream.

before I use to argue or insult parents who say; sending a girl to school is a waste of resources,

but as time goes on I've come to realize that the statement is 100%true .

most Nigerian ladies have nothing to offer, 70% of ladies going to school in Nigeria are doing it because their friends are going to school too or have acquired a certificate.

it is only in Nigeria that ladies of 22years will start dreaming about marriage as if their lives revolves around marriage which they don't even have anything to contribute to.

why go to school when;
after NYSC you sit home and start looking for a husband that will feed you?

I really don't blame most Nigerian ladies for being lazy, I blame Nigerian men.
Nigerian guys/men are the most sex starved guys/men in the world.

people who can't stay without sex,
it is only in Nigeria that you hear statements like; a relationship without money is this and that .


one thing about Nigerian men, they keep complaining about dependent ladies yet there are many independent ones around but they don't go for them because they're not too classy as if they're going to eat big yansh, most independent ladies don't have time for showing off, being classy etc, they don't force their bumbum to shake while walking, but the average Nigerian lady that is poor would want to dress as if she's a billionaire when she doesn't have kobo yet.


if you're rich can't you go for a rich lady yourself?


I've seen Nigerian ladies say that many of them were born into poverty you can't expect them to stay like that,
so without a husband you can't make it in life?



four dreams/priorities of most Nigerian ladies;

1.Finish Secondary School
2.Get a University or polytechnic certificate
3.NYSC
4. Get a husband who can take care of their needs.



some days ago I read a post where a middle class lady that is working in a multional company said; I just work for nothing because I can't spend the money on myself, I save the cash and my future husband will provide everything I want and pay me extra salary, these days when I see such posts I don't reply I only take them as evidence that sending most Nigerian ladies to school is really a waste of resources.


it is only in Nigeria that I see ladies telling their fellow unmarried ladies to go and marry that without a man she's not complete, how many times have you heard such from people, like telling a guy that without a woman he isn't complete? simply because most Nigerian women have nothing to offer.

The no1. thing on most Nigerian ladies minds is having a husband who will take care of their every needs, after school, they don't even want to work. They get that certificate just because some people are getting it too.


all said and concluded; Sending some ladies to school is a waste of resources.

why not just wait for the rich guy that will take care of you at home instead of going to school and still do the same thing?



nb; my post isn't misogynistic it's just the pure fact, and I'm not generalizing it,



SENDING SOME LADIES TO SCHOOL IS A REALLY A WASTE OF RESOURCES BECAUSE EVEN WHEN THE SAID LADIES ARE IN SCHOOL ALL THEY DREAM ABOUT IS HOW TO CATCH A RICH GUY, JUST DON'T GO TO SCHOOL BECAUSE IT'S OF NO USE BECAUSE GOING TO SCHOOL INITIALLY MEANT YOU WANNA WORK IN A PARTICULAR FIELD.




Some people will come here now and start shouting I'm broke because I had time to compose this write up, lol I'm not broke. Billionaires trump, elon musk, George soros, Robert koch and bill gates also compose lengthy posts but Nigerians think anybody who create lengthy posts is broke or jobless,.

BTW correct any blunders by yourself

This your mentality is not okay oh. The coded message you're unable to decipher in the body language of the womanhood is that yearn to feel a sense of SECURITY when around their men. It is not just about the paper even though it's an integral part of the deal. Money is used for emphasis cos that's what menfolk think women are all about. Whereas, what they are truly about is the beautiful memories you are able to magically actualize with the magical wand called cash and You don't have to be super rich or be the answer to her every needs to create that sense of security. It's all about the attitude!

Niggas ain't shìt no more. When did guys become story tellers?

Whatever they do, they met us at the forefront. In Nigeria, I heard of a tribe that has a tradition of gifting their wives out for the night if you come through as an august visitor. Isn't that just incredible?

Pre nuptial what? When my market is still selling? So, I'm an experimental specimen abi? Nonsense something coded in big English!

How someone would just wake up and start vomiting lies still beats me! What kind of disease is that one?

Readonee35L:
First of all thats bot a nigerian Man.
Picture was not taking in nigeria.
And no nigerian commercial bus has that type of interior.

Fuckíng liars will post anything just to trend on that twitter. Believe anything at your own peril.

Not everyone is living inside a cave tucked away somewhere at Ajaokuta with free wifi like you nah

SOFTENGR:
The guy might not even know

That's right. Pray he was not going job hunting though

MissRaine69:
That only happens if a man is aroused repeatedly but does not get to release anything . This causes temporary fluid congestion to build up in the testicles accompanied by testicular pain. The proper name is vasocongestion.

All these grammar just to describe blue balls to me? Well, I don't think that's the case here. If it were it shouldn't be of any concern to him!

That bracelet you were gushing over on Noldstrom yesterday? It's inside my boxers

Why should I bother my head? If she like , make she cheat. It's her pusee getting screwed, isn't it? Per adventure I don't know she's a public toilet, she's the public toilet, not me!

I sleep better in the morning and I'm more active at night. Nocturnal!

Lol
Let me give a brief summary of mine

Age 5-10; Girls much older than me always want to peck and call me my husband... Sign of handsomeness

13-17 ; Indifferent. Nobody complimented on my looks. I was bones and skin, height spur tho

18-21; spots, acne on my face, evidence of school stress and all

21 and above; Manly features ( started working on muscles etal), spots started fading out..

I don't think it does oh... This one wey your balls dey pain you though

MetroBaba1:
Lol, I'm A Free Person oo.

No Issues

That's right. You're welcome sah

MetroBaba1:
I Wan Be Your Friend

Just like that?

MetroBaba1:
No Bro. I'm Not That 'Type'. She Reside In PH, I Reside In PH. Just Wanna Hookup. Na Confirm Introvert I Be oo

Issokay, Kontinu sah

[quote author=MetroBaba1 post=66300532][/quote]Any girl wey bring her relationship problem to your side no go go with only advice oh... Chai! I know your type

MetroBaba1:
You're Welcome. If You Care, Kindly Reply My PM

My niggah!

You set no wan dull yourself on top this lepa!

BrideOfDracula:

What don't you understand there now?

DrinkLimca:
Bro i can't waste my money on something that is 50/50% chance of survival..

JESUS is the only 100% chance he has..
by the way,
The economy is hard, no spending anyhow.

If u don't have the cash to spare, why not just keep shut and face front?

So, how much did the doctors say the surgery will cost?