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highqueen:
what kind of frustrated future generation are we breeding,you can imagine a 22year old boy

wyzoe:
Hey it's you again. Hope you're good.

I often see NL people (shamefully, even some females) talk about flat breasts and saying the bridge has fallen. I'm tempted to ask the guys if they've ever seen (and or felt a breast before).

Any endowed girl will naturally feel the effect of gravity on her chest. There's absolutely nothing wrong in that and most of them are beautiful.

The ones that don't look so good are the ones who perhaps for genetic reasons don't get to store much fat in their breasts therefore giving it a flabby look.

There's nothing wrong if a girl has big breasts and they hang. It's simply nature.

BrainnewsNg:
Who is that? Bro

XhosaNostra:
LMAOOO. Chisos! There's more trash to come & the noise will not stop either because I'm the boss of me

XhosaNostra:
Btw, I "liked" that just so you know

You have to understand that people are different. Not everyone processes information, thoughts & emotions exactly like you do. We're not clones of each other on this earth.

Personally, I see it as self-centeredness when someone gets too emotionally involved with something that has nothing to do with them. I just wanna say, "It's not about you & how you feel, get over yourself!". But I don't say it because I believe that everyone is entitled to their feelings & thoughts. So I'll be damned if I let someone else question the way I think or feel, when I allow them the opportunity to express themselves the way they deem necessary. I don't have an earthly master. I'm an independent thinker & if my way of thinking is offensive to the masses in any way, OH WELL.

XhosaNostra:
Up to you. I don't care.

XhosaNostra:
Ok well, that's still his choice.

Personally, I'm able to take my own feelings aside & look at a situation realistically with no emotions involved. I already gave reasons to why I believe he did the right thing by not leaving those children orphans, susceptible to abuse & other harsh realities of the world.

XhosaNostra:
Sigh. I don't know what else to say lol. I also don't know why you're being emotional about this. Did you know that in some western countries you can be assisted with your own suicide if dying is your choice? This man made his decision, I'm not God, so I can't judge him. I can only accept what is. I'm OK with his decision. End of.

XhosaNostra:
The courts decide that. Like I clearly stated, in most cases, the mother is given sole custody even when she is an unfit mother as the mother in this story.

Depression is a bìtch. And most people are pretentious. Put someone in a vulnerable position & watch how many people will use that to their advantage. I understand human nature & I have no sentiments or lack of understanding for those that decide to take their lives for whatever reason. I don't live their daily struggles, therefore, don't believe I have the right to be sanctimonious about shìt where it concerns them & their lives. That is my stance.

XhosaNostra:
Lol, I'm not saying I'm immune to charm. I'm human. But there's a way to go about it, in order not to rouse suspicion. I really don't like "immoral" people. I'm very self-righteous & I will jump on my high horse in a second, especially when there's no feeling there

XhosaNostra:
"In MY head", I think I'm satisfied with that

Enjoy your rest

XhosaNostra:
Lol, so you want me to be loose & be used? I don't think so!

Just relaxing at home. It's a public holiday today. Happy Human's Rights Day to you

What's up with you?

XhosaNostra:
Lol, no thanks. I cannot have meaningless sex. I need feelingssssss.

XhosaNostra:
Example, I met this other guy at a convenience store not too far from my house. He was standing behind me in the queue, so as I moved away after paying for my stuff, he stepped at the back of my shoe & the strap broke. He was kind enough to offer me a lift home since I couldn't walk with one shoe. Anyway, on the way we started having a conversation. I knew he was Nigerian before he even told me, the accent gave it away. He asked if I have a boyfriend etc. And then he told me about another girl he is dating, but she moved away because of work. They're still in a relationship though. Mind you, it is clear that we're both in a relationship at this point, but then this guy asks for my number, telling me that he has a big "thing", he's sure I've heard about Nigerian men before blah blah blah.

See, for me, two things are a no-no. 1) A guy that has admitted he has a girlfriend, but still expects you to be in a relationship with him 2) A guy that knows you have a boyfriend, but is OK with being "the other guy". Nothing screams "whimp" or user more than someone like that, because I believe a guy with sense wouldn't wanna be an option.

Anyway, there's been a lot of similar experiences with different guys. They'll be telling you about how much money they will be spending on you, how big their côcks are & the fact that they don't seem to mind being a side squeeze. None of that is attractive TO ME.