₦airaland Forum

XhosaNostra:
Bolded part number one: You sound like a game player. I can't believe you're blaming him for something you started. You not answering his calls is a cause for distrust! Finish. Your BF is indeed patient. I wouldn't be surprised if he is slowly losing interest in you too, because of the mind games you're playing. He should!

Bolded part number two: Is he a mind reader? Did you tell him this, so he doesn't jump to conclusions as a result of #1?

Bolded part number three: You must be fucking kidding! It should be the other way around. You're the one playing games & this is making YOU lose interest in HIM? Something is honestly not right with you. He should dump you asap. You cannot communicate effectively, but when someone cannot "read between the lines", you take it as an offence. Trust doesn't come straight out of a tap. If you wanna be trusted, make sure that you don't send mixed signals or act like an entitled c*nt when someone doesn't have the psychic powers you expect them to have.

All this is coming from someone with severe trust issues & I'm telling you that your behavior is the problem. It sets off alarm bells. Very shady. Even if someone doesn't normally have trust issues, I'm sure they'd grow suspicious when dating someone who ignores calls, is bad at communication & is gambling with her relationship without even having the decency to inform the other party about what is actually going on, so they wouldn't get the wrong idea. You're behaving very juvenile for your age. It's all your fault!

PREACH!

lagdmark:
When will Nigerians find peace , some continue to travel and hustle all over world untill they turn 70 years without any achievement .
Some Nigerians have been on transit since 20 years.
They travelled to Uk Spain Italy and Germany not good they moved to USA bad, Australia too far. Canada too Cold. Which other country is gud for Nigerians Biko?

Nigeria, I guess.

MarieSucre:
Thank you for the advice to the women. So what do you have to say about men who do this?

I've already shoot my shot on that.

All these asylum claimants sef can lie oh. They want to be getting salary for free...The woman claiming "they kidnap", how much she get for dem to kidnap am, who she be? Let them send all of them wey no get permit back! Lazy thieves!!

MarieSucre:
The man is actually the most stupid. Let us stop glorifying evil by blaming the victim. This is why looters and ritualist are emboldened in our society.

She said she had been chatting with the guy and she had met him once before. They were not completely strangers, read again.

The 'safety first' wisdom is not a play word. Had something bad happened to her, would you be here telling us who is more stupid than who? Madam, sit down.

lenghtinny:
I guess they met on Facebook, Instagram, badoo or one of those social apps.

Girls that end up in this kinda situation are the ones that takes social media ( virtual) relationships to heart.

You only met him once but because you've been talking on the phone and he's been giving you vibes (attention) on whatsapp, you think you know him well enough to want to sleep over at his place in the dead of the night.
Sums up the risky adventures most girls takes nowadays.

Better luck next time around

I agree with this. The new generation of ladies and throwing caution to the winds like 5&6... Very stupid and naive
and living life as if it's one scripted movie... That's why those money ritualists even find if easy to entrap them like broiler wey no know watsup

The Seyi guy is a good definition of dumbfukc. This babe woulda fukced him later if it didn't happen that night had he been patient. Olodo!

Life is doing them aka Aye n she won

LivingFree:
My ex used to use sex as a weapon, he had low self-esteem and being good at sex was all he had so he would stop medway and complain about fictitious pain and then the session would be over... My pride never let me tell him or let him suspect my disappointment but I cheated on him like it was a joke. Sick relationship ended it after 2 years.

How far with the mileage now?

Martin0:
we are all entitled to our opinion, so am fine you clearly stated yours

Ok

Dear randy men, as you can see, Kenya is the Greenwich village to your New York, the pepper soup to your Legend. Go there and unleash your weirdness. Leave Nigeria the heck alone

[quote author=Martin0 post=67126207]hahahah lost sheep ur mouth dangerous oo[/ lol. Is it not true?]

Oga Martin, na Ashana you self wan marry before? Abi what's the meaning of these pictures you sef dey use represent ladies? These ones are lost sheep nah!

It's good for the lungs.

It's always like that until you meet that one who comes with a bargain far more interesting than sex. Till then, Just kwantinu! and if ya religious, REPENT!

A callused palm is a NO!

Admin401:
Lol, I just searched and found it again in ******. Can't post link though, incase there are peeps here struggling to quit ***, It will just make harder for them. Goodluck.

Found it too. Video wasn't an exactly scenic one tho; olympus has fallen but yes, she is one damn good horse as she gallops gallantly and bounces with the ping-pong precision and virtuousness

TheUpsetGirl1:
funny thing is.. the lady isn't even bothered

posting pics anyhow on fb and telling her fans that if they're done talking about the pics they should tell her.. imagine

That's it. It was planned!

TheUpsetGirl1:
yeah he did.. a court ordered the lady to pay back the money or face possible arrest.. I think the lady is delaying

The guy borrowed her the money to start business.

he's an Ugandan billionaire.

Oh I see now! This case is justified then; Na the thing wey she sabi chop Belle full am... I think I can now sit back and start seeing the leaked video as some Publicity stunts to create awareness on the lady's make up bizness so as to fast track debt payment... Rich people dont do things without considering every conceivable economic factor. This was well staged!

You can start bugging her with marriage once she turns 18. That's about the only sensible and lawful option you have to keep her locked down.

TheUpsetGirl1:
you're right..
why should a married man ask for his wife's nudes?

what is there he hasn't seen already?

never make that mistake.. whether husband or not

It's in fact about the nudes getting in the wrong hands which is itself easy peasy. Safety first!

TheUpsetGirl1:
A court ordered the lady to pay Jack pembe the $350,000 he lent to her November last year or face possible arrest.. I think she hasn't paid that's why the guy leaked the video.

You mean he lent 350k USD to her and his name is not on Forbes list? ..

Whoritude na hin dey slay now

Money and social media fame rules the world now

Shame is an obsolete and denigrating virtue

Aint we living in a joke time?

Celebrating Honey Suleiman and Jack Pemba!

DeadRat:



Impossible! Your Brain Wont Multi Task.


Try Eating Gala When Getting A Mouth Action, its Either Your Dick Loses interest and You Enjoy Your gala or You dont enjoy The Gala but Your Dick Is Active

. Fat lie!

When next you guys go raw and flesh is so yummy it overshadows the will power to withdraw before you spit, tell her to immediately pull it out and at the same rate, get her the gadem postinor2. This is 2018 for christ sakes! Issues regarding unwanted preggy shouldn't be one of our concerns!!

What happened to having sex and eating at the same damn time? Positions like "The boys on the side" affording one the free hand to down bottles of yoghurt.

evexx1:
I hope she regains herself.

Desperation without dedication and hard work can lead to destruction!

��... Noff said!

My first time of buying a condom pack was unevetful. I no even send nobody cos my hormones were raging at the time; The girl was ready for penetration inside...These days, I just order the shop keeper to throw two packs up cos I live on the third floor.

Breast lift for perky boobs... When you decide to reject a simple and silent call of nature, it amplifies its call and when it does, it's to the greater beyond. Lesson; let it fall!

Hin go just shock some people when den brother bring one olosho come house say na hin he wan wife cos that one don dey preggy for am. #sayNOtooloshoism!

dasparrow:
Don't be upset about it. Just go and hook up with your fellow man or stay single and stop bitching on Nairaland.

There is no rule that says you must be with a woman. Men and women are like cats and dogs. They don't really like each other anyway yet have a hard time staying away from each other because most men cannot live without vagina except the homosexual ones.

Secondly, men have no wombs so they cannot bear children without the help of a woman. Whereas women can get semen easily from semen banks and have their kids easily without dealing with stress from men.

When you need sex, just get your Vaseline and empty your semen-filled scrotum that way. You will be doing a lot of women a favour if you stay away from them. Nigerian men are liabities who turn women into glorified house maids and breeding incubators. Women risk their lives to bring forth children. What do men offer in relationships other than STD and stress?

Most Nigerian men are poverty stricken and cannot afford to provide for their families anyway that is why Nigeria is a 3rd world country ran by failures who have nothing going for them but an STD infested dick and a fragile ego the size of an air balloon.

Stay single!

stfu!
We are here for one another. What level of misandry are you to profess these half truths and unfounded claims so confidently and boisterously? Or are these your personal observations from your home front?

She can have all of that if I can have her time and loyalty!