₦airaland Forum

helinues:
The writer just described his own self

You are getting bitter about someone who probably knew nothing about your existence

Helibobo..... How far now.

Putindbutt:
Now we know the handiwork of the midget in ADC who wiretaps and leak security info to his bandit friends.

Better tell him to talk to his friends in the forest to release innocent people.

As usual blaming everyone but your saviours incompetence. Your close kins might be next I hope.

Tinubu the most powerful president ever.


There was a country.

Most powerful leader Nigeria has ever produced?
Powerful in what sense?
If by powerful you mean politically strategic, deeply connected, and highly influential within party structures but deeply disconnected with people he governs. then yes, that argument can be made. Bola Ahmed Tinubu is undeniably a master politician.
But if power is measured by effective control of the state, security of lives, and stability of the nation then the reality on ground tells a different story. With persistent killings, kidnappings, and widespread insecurity, it’s difficult to equate political dominance with national control.
There’s a difference between being politically sound and being administratively effective.
Tinubu may be a great political strategist. But leadership is not just about winning elections or controlling party machinery; it’s about translating power into order, safety, and measurable progress.
Sometimes the skill that gets you to the top isn’t the same skill required to govern from the top. Perhaps he would have been more suited to remaining what he excels at party structuring and political engineering rather than executive leadership.

In short, he's a great politician but bad leader.

The fact US is now tightening immigration, talking about denaturalisation, revocations and deportations. Whether still in planning or already in motion, one thing is obvious the West is no longer a guaranteed escape route.
Maybe this is the uncomfortable reset we need.
For decades, Nigeria has been bleeding its brightest minds to the diaspora. Doctors, engineers, tech experts, academics all gone. And from abroad, many have turned into social media analysts of a country they no longer directly endure. It’s easy to criticise Nigerians from a place where electricity is stable and security is guaranteed.

Now imagine a scenario where stricter immigration policies push a significant number of Nigerians back home.
What happens?
Do we collapse further or does it force a civic awakening?
Because here’s the hard truth: Nigeria’s biggest problem is not lack of talent. It’s lack of collective confrontation of bad governance. If even a fraction of globally exposed Nigerians return with structure, capital, and systems thinking, that could either disrupt the status quo or clash violently with it.
Of course, returning alone doesn’t magically fix institutional decay. Corruption is systemic. Power is entrenched. But pressure changes equations.
The diaspora has long been Nigeria’s safety valve. If that valve tightens, the pressure stays inside.
That pressure will either explode destructively… or reshape the country.
It will either make or mar Nigeria. Perhaps Africa.

Toolegit123:
They wanna make it look like Nigeria is the worst place to live in.

Nigeria seems to be in a state where it has become a present-day example of hardship. Nigeria could be used to terrify people more like, “If you don’t sit up, we will send you to Nigeria.” Or others in court could be sentenced to serve their term living in Nigeria.
I.e., “This is my judgment: 30 years in Nigeria,”

OriOko88:
So wat later happened?

We lived happily ever after.

Recently, I reconnected with a lady I used to be close to years ago, someone I genuinely cared about and felt protective over. When I saw her again, she had changed in the best way. She seemed more confident, more appealing, and I felt it might finally be the right time to explore what we never did back then.
I invited her over, and she came. The vibe felt familiar. the laughter, the ease, the chemistry. It almost felt like time hadn’t passed. Naturally, I made an advance, but she turned me down. I tried again gently, but she remained firm.
I’m not someone who believes in persuading or pressuring a woman once she has said no, so I pulled back immediately. To me, consent is simple, if it’s not given freely, it’s not worth negotiating.
Later, she approached me and asked why I didn’t question her reaction. I told her honestly that she didn’t owe me an explanation. It was her choice, and I respected it. She then asked if I was angry. I wasn’t. Disappointed maybe, but not angry.
That’s when she opened up about 2021. She reminded me that back then, she had once asked me for a kiss, and I declined. She said that rejection affected her deeply at the time, even mentally. And now, in a way, she wanted to “even the score.” She admitted she wanted me to feel what she felt and that a part of her still resented me.
Hearing that made me realize this wasn’t really about the present moment. It was about unresolved emotions from the past.
It made me reflect on how differently people process rejection. What may have been a simple boundary for me back then carried a heavier emotional weight for her. And now, what seemed like chemistry in the present was layered with old hurt that had never fully healed.

Jayhome24:
Your cry just started you go cry till 2099 as God live. Iseeh!!!

Over and over again... THRASH

Jayhome24:
Mr Metusellah the ancient of days Mr Old man fact always unappealing though... so your validation not needed its null and void.

Thanks..

Again, thrash. Not surprised though.

This could be Helinues, muyico, salewa97, Burop, yarimo or so. Anyone among this folks who didn't comment today is obviously the one. Their reasoning is all thesame.

Jayhome24:
E pain you ba?

Get sense first before posting anything, ok

Boy, I wasn't the one you quoted, your post was just so unappealing I needed to let you know.

Jayhome24:
And someone paid for you WAEC with this brain you get?

Pls how does nominating ambassador translated into fear is ambassador in far away US or In NewZealand the one to vote in Nigeria?

So because of election ambassador should not be nominated or the governance has to stop?

Wait, how did you get to Nairaland in the first place?

Do you even hear any word from Tinubuu or shows any concern about all these your noise? The man nor send oo go and ask his inner circle dem go tell you, Tinubu nor send wallahi wetin he wan do he knows it. He is always ahead, he is a mysteerous man take it or leave it. Let me burst your bubble again, Tinubu nor dey hear all these at all that is a fact the online noise nor dey reach him at all

You're so like everything you posted. Thrash.

Who can understand a woman?


They are thesame everywhere. Colour, tribe and size doesn't matter. Same confusion, same thinking and speaking from two sides of their cheeks.

AdUlAM:
E be like say I know this ur village man but make I just lock up.

Do well to lock up.

That's the irony of life. I went visiting a once very influential man while he was still in service last month. He's my village man so I paid a courtesy visit to him in is hotel as I was home. Where are the escorts, sycophants, patchers, even kinsmen trying to get favours..... All gone. Before then when he's home and you go near is house or hotel, you can count numerous Hilux. Even on his mother's burial while he was still in service, high ranking officers shamelessly turned to waiters just to please the senior man but now........ It's all gone. Just his uniformed Driver and a attached guard due to the rank he retired with. No more all those falmbouyancy. compound was almost empty I doubt the community was even aware their once favourite son is around. Mehnnnnn life.


I also remember when Sambo was vice president. If you're going to Kasua from karji, you will notice a blockage immediately after the bridge. It was blocked as no irregular passage is allowed around is house even when he's in Abuja or far from Kaduna. Go there today, Na Gateman you go see Dey buy jeda from street hawkers.

Ventura1:
Very common with Honda.
Eight out of 10 incidence are Honda. Witnessed a guy Honda accord experienced such incidence on saturday at Yabatech, the guy was just laughing.

Keep saying rubbish 8 out if 10 Hondassss. Lol




How many have your used talk of Honda and what's your maintenance culture? I have used all series of Honda. presently, a 2016 and not once have I experienced this.

The permanent solution to kidnaping is the northern elites abolishing the Almajiri system. It's a breeding ground for future terrorists.

Burob:
Go & use your money to fix it, who is holding u back?

The most sensible guy on nairaland as spoken again. Alongside muyico, salewa97 helinues yarimo. Jokes on who birthed y'all.

brain54:
Have you confirmed the lady didn't keep snakes...


Or the lunatic doesn't know what she is talking about?


Are you the doctor that confirmed her lunatic?

Don't waste your time quoting that moniker, they're always unwilling to learn but ever willing to criticize

DaveSolarSoluti:
Marriage counsellor

Not even motivational speaker...... Very true though. Won't be surprised if his marriage is even a fallacy.

Pastor Okonkwo is and will never be a pastor. He's just a motivational speaker. I think the problem is the title pastor as been so dragged in the mud that every dick n Harry now uses it.
Mr okonkwo is and will never be a pastor so also many supposed men of God. I think the leadership the Christian body needs to checkmate the title.

Nigeria..... The only place a man without wristwatch will check to see if the wristwatch you're wearing is fake.

Burob yarimo helinues salewa97 muyico



They all left the group chat.

NNAMDIII:
you get mind dey tell senior officer say him like striking, and his problem is massage, hmmmm


@captainstephen, e good as you no even reply am

You don't know me. If captain Stephen is a personnel and he's of the rank on his moniker, then it's not assumption.

Thought they said it's AI

Him tool for don run inside. That thing Na genuine coward. He wanted sex, now he can always get it unhindered even twice on a Sunday. Us wey no gree give girl belle we be full ba. Body go tell am.

It's really heartbreaking seeing smaller afriican nations who couldn't hold a torch for Nigeria now far ahead of us. That Namibia diss comes to mind and the ishowspeed portrayal of Nigeria in a raw and unfiltered form

festacman:
No more Monday sit-at-home in Anambra State.

Punch can report whatever they want.

You Siddon for festac dey hustle your pay per comment, Joke of an entity.

Wike realising he's got no place in APC and also falling out in the marriage of convenience between himself and BAT needs a soft landing as he might be out of power soon.


You destroyed PDP since it favours you and wants a reconciliation knowing full well the place you had in mind already gave you the middle finger.

From my experience in life, I believe juju exists, but not in the exaggerated way many people imagine. Its strongest effect works through fear, belief, and coincidence.
Many times, when things go wrong, people already know the real human causes but still prefer a spiritual explanation. Businesses fail due to poor management, bad partners, debt, family pressure, stress, or bad timing but once juju is mentioned, all those factors get ignored.
Take the case of a husband who later confesses that he destroyed his wife’s business. In reality, the same husband may have been unsupportive, jealous, leaking business information, draining money, discouraging her, or causing emotional stress. By the time the business collapses, a “spiritual confession” becomes the easiest explanation.
Fear then finishes the job. Once the woman believes she has been spiritually attacked, her confidence drops, she second-guesses decisions, avoids opportunities, and every small setback feels like confirmation. Coincidences that would normally be ignored now look like evidence.
Humans are also wired to connect events emotionally. If someone threatens you spiritually and something bad happens months later, the mind links the two even when there’s no clear connection.
That doesn’t mean nothing spiritual exists, but it means not everything is spiritual. Sometimes it’s human behavior, psychology, timing, and pressure wearing a spiritual mask.