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On the flip side of things, some ladies can be senseless. Let me share my experience with one.



So i met this damsel years back and i lust after her asap. Lust soon unfolded to like bla bla. Aunty didnt give me a boomerang of emotions as a fact, she can go months without checking up herself and days without replying test. With this aunty sabi post all this G-guys, hailing them and all on her statuses. I just allowed the sleeping dog lie. After a while, i saw aunty message, i replied an next thing is Oracle please i need your help are you home. Aunty come start dey cap how she collect loan from her school fees from app, those ones are already threatening her and making her loose it. She needed 57k urgently. I asked aunty if she could not ask those boys she posted, aunty be like they all want something in return. Cut the chase.... I allow God use me heal her pain and next thing, aunty went back to posting rhem odogwu and stopped the messages. I felt like a fool but las las i just did mine for God. Last time she messaged me i blocked her and aunty came crying for help. I just told her to go back to her bobos.



This days shes my side lady and a call away from good sex.

Demigod22:
OP, we should be able to differentiate between helping a friend and asking ladies for sex.

I have female friends, friends by virtue of schooling together, live in the same area, attend the same worship centre, working together and all that. We are practically friends. I can help such friends when the need arises and I have the means.

They are girls that we are not necessary friends but I find them quite attractive, I can ask them for sex on a random day. Not when they cry to me for help. If I can't help, I will just say so instead of asking for sex in return.

The double standard living of the society is disgusting. Men are morally shaming the ladies but still want to engage the ladies in an immoral activity, someone who is not your woman.

Where is the humanity in us? The world is just full of humans without humane.

As in, could you be more apt..... You spoke my mind hook, line and sinker. They will shame the ladies abd still message em for the transaction.

I wonder how people enjoy financial transactional sex. Its a big NO NO and total turn off for me

Yeah, it damages the shocks especially if you are aggressive

They rent the cloth in the first place.

Funny thing I made good money from Kala and Brad365 before it folded up.


How will he pay back even if you help him secure the loan?

They turned him to a baby again....... If born again is a person.

Trapnews:
May you and your generatoons yet unborn meet tragic death. May you.never find peace and when you evetually die, may you be eaten by dogs.

Stupid urchin. I won't loose a sleep if I run over you with a car. Animal

Trapnews:
Your generation is.hopeless, so you prefer i write that you and your household rest.in peace abi? so be it.

You are one bastard who deserves death.. I hope it visits one of your loved ones soon so your comment here can be edited to you.


You need to draw line between politics and been humane. I spit on your generations and seeds that will come from you with your level of reasoning.

Why will you even spend on a lady moreorless a stranger to you. My fiancee always called me transactional. Babe help me run for groceries.... I be like what do I get in return, kisses or hugs.

E better make I know than do am finish and start dey look like fool.


Next time dey try know if una dey same page.

Obi has a chance... But he won't make it there. National politics is quite tricky. Watch how on the election day alot of so called Atikulated and obidients will drop whatever dignity they have and resort to vote selling.

Ekiti election was an eye opener for me. We all thought segun Oni will make it. as a fact, Segun Oni is like Obi presently. Heavy fan base, the leader the People want and all. On the election day, the so called masses started selling their votes for bao at a low budget. I was touched to my bones and no be say collect money vote. Na vote make We see. Afterwards na Sell your PVC. I see same thing happening for this presidential race. at the end, the corrupt and hungry folks will overshadow the sane ones. And Tinubu will clear tables.

phemmyfour:
It's the duty of the landlord. The tenant isn't going to remove the machine when leaving the house.

Landlord is responsible for the facilities available to the tenants.

It's quite cheeky. That's why it's always okay to have a future agreement before paying for rent

It's abit complicated but it depends on the agreement between the tenants and landlord. My mum's place the tenants pay upfront for damages, utility and repairs. The last time there was an issue, the lawyer had to access what caused the issue with the generator serving the compound and it was detected it was mechanical and not anyone's fault so we fixed. Other times it could be different.

Efe42:
Congrats bro it wasn't easy I know but the fact that you'd date a Nigerian lady in the State I believe you sleep well with your eye's close unlike ours here with too much drama.


Has you stated early On this part off the world has made man deemed the provider.

I don too suffer for naija girls hand. E get one that year the only time she messages is if she needs financial help.

Another one believes as a boyfriend I should fuel her desires

Another toxic idiot was so bad she left me for a Yahoo boy after I told her No. At the end dude used and dropped her
I still see her status posting how men her scun of recent. I don too suffer.


For every guy out there planning to Japa or with big dreams, avoid naija based girl. Not all though but many of em. They will suck your funds, affecr your mental health come call you weakling. Take your time till you leave the shores. Trust me it's worth the wait. My last birthday gift from my naija babe was roll on and boxer. This days even on a normal day I get lunch suprise or I hear bills on me. Once again I'm in Canaan now ntin fit carry me go back Egypt

jeromestarks:
You're dating typical mumu Nigerian girl.


You can hardly fund any one better in Nigeria. That's how most of them are. They can't sustain any sensible and logical discussion but can spend years watching zeeworld and stupid videos.

Just keep fvcking her. When you want to marry, find a virgin and have peace of mind till your old age. Do others wise and regret ever getting married.

Date white girls are see the difference.

Seriously.... I think the environment and the fact that a man is deemed the provider in this part of the world has made most nigerian lady so relaxed and unproductive. I'm dating a Nigerian lady based in the states and mehn, I'm in Canaan now can't go back to Egypt. The margin is clear. Like so clear.

I'm not saying all Nigerian ladies have the system mentality, maybe the exposed ones but very few.


I'm in Canaan I can't go back to Egypt

Efe42:
I so much love her, and I won't dump her Ass simply because she's not productive now.

She has been my side all the time including my worst time .

You already made up your mind. Love is not always enough though.

Then dump her ass if she isn't productive.


Bitter truth you can't change a grown ass. And if you guys end up it's almost certain your kids will believe those are the right thing with that stupid mentality.

I got something bothering me, and it's not just a Nigeria thing.

Folks perhaps elderly citizens between 60-80 years are unemployable due to what we call decline in mental state / skills mismatch, even the folks among them in the so called civil service are put to retirement. Yet, they are exclusively running the country in both local and federal level.


Tell me if this is not highest level of sarcasm..

You can opt for abortion. It's not too late.

Kobojunkie:
1. Therapy for her or therapy for him?

2. Did therapy work for your friend who is no longer good looking?

Therapy for him not the wife. But the wife will orchestrate it as a mad man won't know he his mad but those around him.


Therapy did worked for my friend, he didn't stop once but along the line he stopped after a while. He his picking his life back together and it's not an over night thing. Last time we spoke, he his doing better and instead of gambling, he his making long time investments.

Unyimekelvin:
Good morning..

Eversince i stopped gambling ND masturbation ..i have been doing fine nd living a comfortable life with they little i have.

A very big shout out to those who adviced me ND also prayed for me...i appreciate you all I'm a free Man now...

But these particular one set in... imagine,i have been drinking peak milk (tin) every day by day; ...
Please what is the side effects of consuming too much milk everyday...


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Lol. Sounds good. I also struggled with masturbation for a while courtesy boarding school. To tell you how productive I am now is an undertone.


Oya, spice your new addiction up with something cute, like watermelon mixed in between or blended pineapple allow it chill, add many other fruits to it and see how your addiction will turn gold.

You might need to put the marriage on hold till you have that figured out.

all4zionlover:
Honestly I'm going through so much here. I'm losing it. I feel depressed, so much fear, unhappy and lonely. My husband's gambling habit has removed love and affection from our home.
He quickly finishes any money that comes to him. Either salary and anything in bet nija and concentrate on asking me for money. I'm have no job, I'm buy little things and resell. My capital is not even stable because all the financial expenses is on me. Yet he doesn't care. He keeps malice with me for not giving him money and not coming home to meet food.
This year, I have decided not to keep food for him so long as he can not bring money for feeding, for the children he claim he love and upkeep.
I've endure for too long and I'm getting fade up.

All my actions and his behaviour really makes me sad.
I have no love, respect for him.
I excessively worry for upkeep, school fees, bills, things we don't have at home. Everything is on me.
I'm so stressed and lonely. I feel I need a shoulder to rest on maybe to cry.
I'm so sad because our two sons are too attached to their father and I'm scared of their feelings if I decided to divorce their father

My first son wouldn't even go to bed until his father return back from work.

Have you been in this kind of situation?
What did you do? How do people survive this kind of situations?

Why not try therapy? Truth is gambling is a big issue most folks even abroad do battle with. It's pretty hard to come out of it because the more he tries, the deeper he might fall into it. I think therapy is the best way out, and it works. I do have a friend who was so deep into gambling that a once upon a time good looking dude is now reduced to a miscreant.


For those saying this is Nigeria and therapy isn't feasible, get off it. Alot of folks have gone through it and it works.

Wiseandtrue:
Will you provide him with the machine Abi you provide am, him no use am

Or do you suggest he sits around waiting for a machine

So who is mentally lazy now

Don't mind the dude, one of those folks who wanna act wise but do sound foolish

SLAP44:
For me, it's the number of youthful voters that makes me smile. 48 million youths cannot be voting for old, senile, weak, frail, expired and analogue candidates to lead them to the past.

Vote for someone who understands your generation.

E go shock you

Pipe dream. Won't hold water.

Johnthejohn:
That serves him right.
I hate Gays and Lesbians with passion

Even the God you serve won't judge this easily.

m4una:
Your family matter

Wisdom will not kill you

after4:
Will you give this advice to your brother or son?

You dey mind that bastard?


Fuckers like that go their Papa house you no go fit chop there and Las Las dem go come online dey find guy wey go buy them iPhone and all. Awon omo oju o ro lari.


I spit on her

All this from an over used engine


You better keep her at Bay.
After one for that matter. She wise like that na hin she after one.




I wonder where guys meet ladies like this

2dice01:
Red flag all the way

She want you to be subbing for her
She want expensive date
She want expensive lifestyle
All on your head


She is for G-boys and Sugar daddies

She's for the street.