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The same Governor spoke against Orton. Now he's as handicapped as ortom

AllBlack:
Look at this fool trying so hard to seem smart and be the bigger person after getting called out.
Nairaland community? so that means you should leave the topic and attack others?
WHAT SILLY THINGS DO YOU DO? You have your own rotten skeletons but you are here talking down on someone who was bold and honest enough to speak out and own up to his/her silly deeds.
Maybe this is your own silly thing, being stupid on public platforms. Thanks for showing everyone.

You are not even making sense, just throwing tantrums and crying more than the bereaved. You can keep qualifying your folks with what best suites them. It's just your perspective.

nairalanda1:
Well, at the end, there are probably a lot of similar people walking around in rwanda, sierra leone, liberia, etc etc.

People that commited brutal murders , who all got rehabilitated because, the alternative is continuning anarchy

Back in 2009, such people were lined up and shot dead by soldiers.

And the whole thing was on camera.

And guess who used the video for recriutment purposes....it was Shekau. With the added story that it was christians killing muslims. Can be very provoking...like the shootings at the Niger bridge in 2016 led to many people joining ESN and shooting back.

IN cases like this, you try rehab...or you risk the army fighting a forever war. It may work, it may not.





Remember that many Boko members are still on trial, and many hardcore members are still in jail. NO rehab for those.

This your assumption is utmostly wrong. It will only make sense to weaklings and if I'm to follow it, I will argue that's why terrorism will never be eradicated in the country as the reward is a pat on the back and heroic welcome. All it does for troops is weaking the morale and make them seriously put their patriotic choices on the line. What will the family of folks like Lt CT Avong think. Young men who died before 28 without leaving a child behind to the grieving mum. And we have over million Avongs. Act of terrorism is a federal offense, and it should never be supported either passively or actively. Historical books on the civil war gave me a hint that muritala tactics as a successful commander happen as he will announce is coming to the Biafrans and play a mind game on them. Alabi-isama in his book the tragedy of victory made it known that one of the blunders the 3 marine commando made was giving amnesty to Biafrans POW. And some of this same folks crippled captain Garage 2IC to utuk, were caught trying to poison the water source for the soldiers and successfully killed Isaac Adaka Boro. I will end with a quote from the former secretary of defence in the United States. James Mattis. Forgiving a terrorist is left to God but fixing their appointment with God is left to us.


Constructive criticism please.

Mom007:
Is it your disgustingness? Why are you people like this? Yes it's a bit quirky, but if its something he likes to do, how's that your ticket to insult him like this? See why truth has become a scarce commodity and everyone would rather tell lies and form what they are not? That you are quirky in a different way doesn't give you the right to insult someone else.

He related is perspective, I related mine and now you're expressing yours. That's why it's called nairaland community. Have a productive day ahead.

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Wintergreen:
Good evening, everyone. Please, I need advice on what to do in my current relationship.


I have a lady I've been dating for about a year now and things had been going well so far. However, we've been having a lot of disputes and disagreements so far which has left me wondering if this is how relationships are.


Nowadays, I experience emotional discomfort due to the series of arguments we have been having this past few weeks. So, we work in the same place (kind of like a business organization) and we have access to people every day (network marketing business).


Let me jump to the major thing that happened recently. We work during the nights as well so each time we come to the office, there is a particular guy she likes to associate with. Sometimes, when she comes, she would stroll out with the guy and she would tell me they went to get something.


I've made her know countless times without number that I don't really like that and she should stop. But, any time she apologizes for her actions, she still does it again. That's just one thing. She is also fond of using l
sensual words like "babe", "dear", "love" whenever she chats other guys (which I'm not comfortable with) and I've confronted her about this. Her response will always be to apologize and say it doesn't mean anything as long as she's not dating them.


So, yesterday she did the same thing by following that guy out when she got to work at night again even not minding my presence and I was so livid with anger so I changed my mood towards her. When she got home this morning, she questioned me why I changed and I shut her off because I'm tired of always complaining about the same issue each time.


This morning, one of our bosses/leaders came to address us on an important issue and asked if she would be free tomorrow, which is a Saturday (mind you, this boss already knows we are dating and I already know it was foolish of him to ask), and she said she's free. He then said she should come with two other ladies to his place tomorrow so they can celebrate the festive Saturday together. She said okay.



My babe oooo.


So, I told her and messaged her about this afternoon that if she goes to his place tomorrow even with the two other ladies or not, she should consider our relationship off and over. I'm already tired and emotionally drained. This is affecting my mental health seriously and I'm ready to call it quits this time around if she disobeys what I say.


Am I too possessive and controlling by telling her what I don't like and she should stop doing it? Is my own too much? Should I give her the space to do as she wishes? I'm emotionally stressed!!! I feel like she's insensitive and she's doing all these on purpose because she always apologizes each time.


Since morning, I've been reading about post breakup treatment and what to do after a break up because my mind is already shifting from this relationship.


What do I do, please? Help me. I'm still young and in my 20s to be getting crazy due to a relationship


Cc. @dominique, @farano, @Rocktation

This is called microcheating and it's also a form of cheating. I once used compliments like charming for a waitress and my lady told me those words directed to her are what makes her special and distinct to other women as my woman.

She might be oblivious of her actions, but for the sake of your sanity, you can call it quit of she's not ready to conform.

helinues:
Una favourite news.

Where is the party at?

Your family home.

Helinues will soon tell y'all it's a fake news.


I hope it hits is household though.

Sharpsharp00123:
it's poverty

If he eats just 2 cups of rice, 2 eggs n one chicken he won't remember to lick plate cos many go still remain for plate but imagine where like 5 people share 3 cups of rice

The plate must suffer

This your perspective is hilarious and sympathetic at the same time. Maybe Ambivalence will be right for it.

Nijimog:
same to u

So what is wrong in licking plate after served a delicious meal/food.

It only shows the person that took time to prepare the food, that there effort is being recognized and appreciated

Dey there dey form

Lol this is hilarious. Funnily, I will loose my appetite for food if I ever experience someone doing such gruesome act.

Nijimog:
Me after eating, I like to lick the plate (like use my tongue and literally wash it neat), even my mom has talked about it saying and I quote "if you marry tomorrow and give birth, is it how you will be licking plate in front of your kids after eating"

I just smiled and said when that time comes, I will know what to do

But e get as e go be, I will still lick plate in front of my children (but I go hide lick am Sha)

You're a downright disgusting fellow.

Love800:
Chewing the bread before finally drinking the tea is bae. I love to feel how the bread actually taste like, before inviting the tea inside my mouth!

God bless you jare. This is so me.

Shey their girls are good in bed.

ObiPandora:
Even with his glaring failure across all sector

Helinues doesn't mind this. He's keen on his opinion counting regards of the results on the larger audience.

Humans...... You will provoke another to anger then record is reaction and manipulate folks against him.

I don't trust humans and one sided stories.

Jeezuzpick:
Guys just keep deceiving themselves.

The girl said yes because she was already interested or she felt she could benefit something from the guy.

A girl who is not going to say yes will not say yes.

Not ever.

And if she says yes later, it's because her friends have advised her to chop your money.

If love is not real, it's not real. This "good with words" or "spoil her with gifts" stuff is what causes paternity fraud.

Las-las, de babe go find who she like for real, dey dash am de kpekus wey you dey carry money buy.

I'm not saying they had love between them. It's all lies. Aunty said she get bf, dude said when I call, tell him it's your brother or uncle. That should show you how stupid they are.

Dude is good with words.

Never had a call from any of this banks. Perhaps they pick numbers randomly.

The man look younger on the recent picture than the old.

Azord:
I visited one of them in Ibadan 2017... He had only one leg and uses crushes. At the same time he was a begger. His house fine pass my house as at that time. Money dey talk inside his room... Pass me wey get two legs and I dey work. Beggers make money o. At the same time dey play ball.

Evidence of your lies or go to hell......


Anything for you mfs to thread. Hearsay

The northern elites should call their progenies to order.

When did this dude decamp from pro-tinubu camp. He aligned with Wike then.

4.6 for a used matrix? Wth

Seun:
Hello Guys,

I'm throwing this question to you because it's very important. Every time I ask, "how is Nairaland?" I'm told that it is fine. If I ask what are the challenges I'm told there are none.

So I need to talk to you guys directly about what you think is going on and what you want us to do. I have not had the confidence to make major changes on Nairaland. I have a little confidence now because of AI.

What are your complaints, your challenges, your issues. What are the things that can drive people away and need to be nipped?

Speak your mind, but don't be rude. Thanks.

Seun you've done a good job so far, but there is much room for improvement as nairaland as really depreciated in value unlike old times.

The tribalism nepotism and anomaly is broad way disgusting. You can't even open a thread without witnessing racial slurs and this things are destroying the mental health of the readers. Funnily even when you report or call out this tribalistic posters, nothing is done.ore like your mods are even into it or are downright uneducated about tribalism and its effects. NAIRALAND from the world naira which is a legal tender for NIGERIA is suppose to unite not overly destroy and divide. Alot of serious folks have left this forum and left it for the greater lowlifes due to this acts.

I suppose changing your circle of mods will be a good way to start.

That's a civet.


Watch natgeowld and other educative program you say Sarm, Na Africa magic Yoruba.

The real mother of fish. YEMOJA (Iya omo-eja)

The evil he supported happened to him.

With the ratio of what is true and what you guys do just to stay in limelight, I seriously refute this claim. The question is if we tell you to name this fellow, won't you start with stories and all.

rheaden:
This post explains the law well. It's surprising marital rape isn’t recognized in many states yet. For more clarity on legal process, especially proving key elements like consent, this guide on how do you prove rape is helpful.

Funnily, rape cases are the hardest to prove. The problem is the suspect affirming he had sexual contact with the victim. Most times when such Affirmations are made even during suspects statements before detention in police stations, then it can be a case. But outright denial is something else as the country is less advanced in place of DNA testing to see residues of spermatozoa etc.

If I may add, punishment for rape is different across each state of the country with each state approtionating punishments according to what suits them. I believe Ekiti tops the list of states with the biggest form of punishment for rapist and the north east ranks the least.

Can any linguist give me a term to describe Advanced Sarcasm.

More reason my chance of marriage gets fading day in day out. Fake love is also a time bomb, regardless of the investment, be sure it can all go to blaze in a jiffy when the financial rewards get fiddled out. And like my mum does say, wealth does have wings.

Obaaderemi2:
You've been busted, tribalistic ibo thing

Trying to prove my tribe to a lowlife tribalist like you is an adequate waste of time and concentration. So loving a ibo novelist is a crime because of Yoruba? I wonder how I coexist in the same space and clime with simpletons like y'all