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I wonder why people don't see chubby as beautiful...

Tony elumelu ko tomisin ni.



Abeg first three.

PrimadonnaO:
You're the one who's not a good person for holding grudges against your sister.

What did she do to you?

Her husband is her head.. her own family comes first.

Am not a good person... And you don't even know me or what I am talking about. Well enjoy your holidays.

unzend:
What you need to deliver

ARCHITECTURAL DRAWINGS
1. Site location plan
2 site plan
3 floor plans ( ground, first second etc)
4 roof plan
5 sections (2)
6 elevations ( front, sides , rear)
7 windows & doors schedules

STRUCTURAL
1 Foundation layouts & details
2 suspended floor layouts & details
3 colum details
4 beam details + roof beams
5 stairs details
6 calculations sheet

Post it here and I send you the balance after review.

You are the scammer cos you are rushing me to pay without delivering satisfactorily.

Has the guy delivered the job? What was your agreement before now.


I don't know your religion, but if he has delivered what you ask of him even tell prophet said pay the labourer his wages before his sweat dries up.

cana882:
These are actions that we can forgive but can’t forget. My sister used her money to travel to Dubai instead of assisting me. Asin she didn’t even encourage me or comment on my travel plans. Like I created a WhatsApp group for us and shared my idea but they didn’t even comment. Instead, they went discussing how bad the idea was in my absence. 3 months after getting to Dubai, she went back to Nigeria with NOTHING!! This is same person I’ve been helping her business and even planning on bringing her over.
The worst thing a person would do is to undermine someone’s tomorrow for your today’s pleasure. I’ve learnt this a long time ago and have benefited from assisting others.
She should keep following this generation-Z’s e-warriors.

That's the word,. Forgive not forget

Sweetvie:
That's the thing... Nothing goes for nothing. she should never have moved to her parents place

Even at that,. She should about tried helping her bro. My fiancee is the first and am always proud of her when I see how she loves and can give everything for her siblings.

cana882:
Don’t know why people don’t understand family relationships. At the end, family is everything. When I was about travelling, my siblings all ignored me. Even when my mum sold her land to add to my savings, they all got angry that she’s wasting funds. Now, I’m the one sending all of them hundreds of thousands and even trying to bring them over.
Let her keep underrating her brother. 5yrs from now, he’ll remind her about this stupid act and I hope her foodstuff business will grow so big that she won’t need any help.

Already told her. Let's hope 18 years from now her daughter won't be here to rant about her rich uncle who is useless to her. My sis also made me cry because of 300k. I needed 1.3 to sort some stuffs then, and I had 1m. This same sister of mine I paid for during masters even out of the little but I put family first. Her turn came she was complaining that her hubby wanted changing her car and they need money for some project. I even asked her to lend me not give. Mehnn I cried like real hot tears. Say in my car for like an hour crying just parked somewhere. At the end, a total stranger I once did business with was who helped out. Am doing great now but mehn I always rememeber like yesterday.

Sweetvie:
Then she should keep her money and start her business

She should also pack out of her parents house or pay rent. No one is entitled to ntin

tollyboy5:
I shake my head for stvpid people on this forum.
Ladies are very funny, if the first born was a guy and the second born was a lady people will accuse the guy of not helping his younger sis.
But now it's a lady , nothing concern her with her younger brother lol.

Life isn't fair to men. My fiancee is the first and she told me point blank when we met that she's the first and if we settle she still need to help her other siblings pull through. Entitlement mentality has nothing to do with family like have been saying. We are bound to help each other.

Kdsml:
Thank you so much you says it all my daughter should come first i cannot put a grown up man before her , i haven't touched the 300k yet the money i have used to buy xmas clothes and wrapper was given to me by my daughter god mother. I have given the wrapper to my aunty she is grateful

I just hope 18yrs from now the girl won't be writing and cursing her rich uncle who doesn't give a hoot about her. It starts from days like this. Wisdom is profitable to direct I hope God gives you the wisdom you need at this time.

Lemme ask, if the guy couldn't get the money and it ended up affecting him, what will happen next?

[quote author=Cazzim post=119422129][/quote]They will continue ill advising her. The other lady talking about entitlement mentality has forgotten there are exception to that stuff entitlement. Families are meant to be there no matter what betide. That's why it's called family not relative.

1Sharon:
You're contradicting yourself. You said family is so and so, but you made money come between yourself and your sister.


If you're a grown adult, you aren't owed anything, so you sound kind of entitled to bear grudged towards your sister because she didn't give you 300k.

Did you and your sister have an agreement that told help each other out financially?

Did you pay part of her Masters out of your own freewill or because she asked?

Make life better you in what way? Can you be more specific, in what you wanted the 300k for because it doesn't seem like you needed it because you were sick and helpless or destitute.

Am not here to trade banters with you. I just aired my opinion. Have fun and merry xmas

Sweetvie:
I feel you bruh
You know how mom can be... She will never return the money. The lady clearly need the money for her own family... Not that she did not care about her mom or brother but she av her own family too. What is she suppose to do if it don't work out? Crying to the mom? In that same house the little brother that she gave that money may be the one to shut her up later.
@bolded
You got to let go
You can't expect her to choose you instead of her husband lol you will do dsame too

One lesson,. Whatever you give family don't expect it back.

1Sharon:
The boy is 24 years not under 18. He's an age where he's old enough to cater for himself. He needed the money for school fees, he wasn't sick and helpless in a hospital.

What do you mean your sister chose her husband before you?

Did you want your sister to throw her husband away and marry you instead?


If your sister has kids, the family she has created are now a priority over the family she left behind.

You sound like a selfish and self-centered person.

Selfish? Lol. You might be 60 years and be successful but one way or another you might still need help somedays. Pick her husband before me.... The earliest you learn your spouse is your only family who is not your relative the better for you. Divorce is quite rampart this days, your spouse can choose to leave, your partner can leave at a time of distress but family is where one runs too at the end.


About the sister thing, I needed some help at some point that could have made life better for me. I had like a million saved needed just 300k. My sister point blank told me her husband wanted changing his car and other family stuffs. I cried deeply as I also paid part of her masters fee before marriage even when it was not convenient. I ended up letting go and when the small god go, the bigger ones come. A complete stranger ended up helping. Am good now but it really laid a kibosh on our relationship.

Most of the folks here are telling you not to mind your mum. Watch how you create if not an everlasting enemity between yourself and your brother. Even your mum won't be able to bridge the gap. Family is everything. Your brother might be desperate for the money. If you are to get an house rent won't you path with close to the amount and this is your blood brother we are talking about here. My sister once choosed her husband before me years ago and till today I still carry the grudge. Don't create an enemity, cut your budget cost for the business and help your brother even if not everything. Las Las that your hubby might loose guard you,. The 300k might finish or get stolen but the people you have are everything.

Very shameless bastard.


I hate dancing folks not to even talk of a dancing theif

been dramatic can be annoying though. But this is way extreme. The deceased could have been dramatic but the killer was extreme.

kingreign:
Last year I bought two tyres brand new. 3 months down the line, one developed a huge bulge, the other started vibrating only to discover it was bent. My true pressure was 30PSI always. My crime was driving from Uyo to Calabar and back then these tyre went bad.

But Tokumbo tyres I use never had such nastiness.

I have been using tokunbo tyres on my car now for three years. Funny I bought the tyres then due to financial constraints. The new tyres I bought for my other car after wards is gone, but this tokunbo ones light truck abi wetin Dem call am still dey very good state.

Worldwyde:
Sold it,besides that one blew a long time ago. Check jiji for gs 2jzge engine,igbo are crooks. The will remove the injector mouth and sell it seperate. I've not driven more than 2 weeks,got drunk and parked inside a mini gutter at home. So I abandoned it and travelled home.. when I'm back,heads will roll.

Talking of head. You mean your neighbours?

To whom the gods want to destroy. They first make mad.

Uptheante:
But would you ever agree to give your fellow guy 10k from your 'church mind'?
Also, do you use your aclaimed church mind to give financially help your mum & sisters?
The point is, this bitch disrespected & used you & u still dashed her money from your church mind.
The only thing u may gain from her is the sex, so if you don't want sex from her, then let her work for whatever money you want to give her or she'll see u as a fool & laugh at you with her friends behind your back.

Can I give my fellow guy 10k,. Why not if not. Can I give my siblings or mum 10k,. Haba 10k. Dude I get your point and about the sex, I don't even see sex with her as reason, someone seems stranded the first intuition as human is to be of help if you can, the gender can go to blaze. What can I get from her after sex? Lemme ask you, all the ladies in your life you talk too and deal with, is it only in the bases of sexual favours?

Karlifate:
It's simply due to overinflated false sense of ego.

They want to take the credit of "I tamed, subdued & changed the bad boi."

You said it all.

Worldwyde:
Oga rest, you are toxic.

When it's evident you are the toxic one. You called gazzuzz a their because he told you he can't be of help, still shot yourself on the foot before that was dude decipher your words, now the next best thing after slice bread in your armoury is calling me toxic. You are really the clown gazzuzz likened you too.

Hope the car is waxing strong.

Uptheante:
Guy u are a donkey/fool, sorry if it's insulting but I just wanna say my mind & I wanna be real with you.

Like, how stuupid or dumb can you be to just dash a bitch your hard-earned N10,000 just like that

A girl that didn't give a fucck about you cos she was craving for a hard cock from some other nigga.
She contacted you only after the real nigga has banged her fuccking pussy to stupor & dumped her dirty ass.
At that moment, she remembered you as that nice & cool simp & decided to contact you not because she likes you but because you can be easily manipulated by her, & u didn't disappoint her at all.
You even went a step further in your simpish action by giving her 10k on a platter of gold. It's just like rewarding her for disrespecting you & treating you like shit.
I'm sure if that guy calls her again, she will ignore you again & go get banged by him then come back to you when he's done with her pussy & collect yet another 10k or more from you.
What you should have done when she initially came back to you is to either:
1. Invite her to your crib or wherever you fancy using smooth talk & empty promises, then drill her pussy ruthlessly & mercilessly to your satisfaction, then ghost her for good. When she contacts you to ask you why you ghost her, smooth talk your way again & pound her pussy again. Trust me, if she feels your bed skills, her pussy will be throbbing for you & she'll become addicted to your dick till you use your discretion to dump her ass into the trash if you get tired of her pussy.
Or
2. Ignore her completely like she doesn't exist.

Bro, you really messed up big time & that bitch will never respect you again

Whatever I have gave her was from my church mind. And the bang bang thing, I really don't share my body that much. It sounds disgusting sef me having sexual knowledge of a lady I know some guys who might be a carrier just used.

Jman06:
That is why I don't take women seriously when they want to claim victim with their "he used and dumped me" jargon. No woman fvcks a man she doesn't fancy! If doesn't fancy his looks, she'll fancy his pockets. In the real sense, they're the ones using men!

Meanwhile, I wonder why you gave that biatch your money after all the humiliation.

Didn't even see it as humiliation. If I pressed I could still have had my way with her and all even till now. But of what need is it when am sure she's still over one guy who doesn't give a hoot about her. Funny enough, she's damn so pretty and am sure she have a hell of admirers. I wonder why ladies get so attached to abuse and red flag in the name of I love him and he will change his mind.

Worldwyde:
How can it not be toks. Do they sell toks engine with injector mouth,for thatt exact type of engine. Pls
Go back home,shut ypur doors,windows ,telly,lights and sleep. You know nothing about tokunbo engine ,neither have u gone there physically to get yourself one..

Alright engine man

Some of this ladies will see the red flag but still dive head first. Serves them right. I met this corper girl of recent, pretty and all and we got talking. Was travelling to the east a while after and I even gave aunty the option of joining me. She refutted and was begging this guy to come see her and spend time with her. Dude kept telling her he his done but omo mehn see begging. Left that minute with the little pride I have left and a day or so after after dude came to pick her, used her and dumped her back home, aunty was callinga week after to ask if the offer still stand. Las Las I helped her with 10k for transport. I just keep thinking why the hell will a lady see obvious red flags and still continue waking the devil.

Dozieson:
which mean the one you bought is not toks?

Wisdom will not kill you.

Check your oil pump. It's either clogged or so. Your sensor might also be playing tricks on you and in that regards, scan for error codes.