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Obi has a chance... But he won't make it there. National politics is quite tricky. Watch how on the election day alot of so called Atikulated and obidients will drop whatever dignity they have and resort to vote selling.

Ekiti election was an eye opener for me. We all thought segun Oni will make it. as a fact, Segun Oni is like Obi presently. Heavy fan base, the leader the People want and all. On the election day, the so called masses started selling their votes for bao at a low budget. I was touched to my bones and no be say collect money vote. Na vote make We see. Afterwards na Sell your PVC. I see same thing happening for this presidential race. at the end, the corrupt and hungry folks will overshadow the sane ones. And Tinubu will clear tables.

phemmyfour:
It's the duty of the landlord. The tenant isn't going to remove the machine when leaving the house.

Landlord is responsible for the facilities available to the tenants.

It's quite cheeky. That's why it's always okay to have a future agreement before paying for rent

It's abit complicated but it depends on the agreement between the tenants and landlord. My mum's place the tenants pay upfront for damages, utility and repairs. The last time there was an issue, the lawyer had to access what caused the issue with the generator serving the compound and it was detected it was mechanical and not anyone's fault so we fixed. Other times it could be different.

Efe42:
Congrats bro it wasn't easy I know but the fact that you'd date a Nigerian lady in the State I believe you sleep well with your eye's close unlike ours here with too much drama.


Has you stated early On this part off the world has made man deemed the provider.

I don too suffer for naija girls hand. E get one that year the only time she messages is if she needs financial help.

Another one believes as a boyfriend I should fuel her desires

Another toxic idiot was so bad she left me for a Yahoo boy after I told her No. At the end dude used and dropped her
I still see her status posting how men her scun of recent. I don too suffer.


For every guy out there planning to Japa or with big dreams, avoid naija based girl. Not all though but many of em. They will suck your funds, affecr your mental health come call you weakling. Take your time till you leave the shores. Trust me it's worth the wait. My last birthday gift from my naija babe was roll on and boxer. This days even on a normal day I get lunch suprise or I hear bills on me. Once again I'm in Canaan now ntin fit carry me go back Egypt

jeromestarks:
You're dating typical mumu Nigerian girl.


You can hardly fund any one better in Nigeria. That's how most of them are. They can't sustain any sensible and logical discussion but can spend years watching zeeworld and stupid videos.

Just keep fvcking her. When you want to marry, find a virgin and have peace of mind till your old age. Do others wise and regret ever getting married.

Date white girls are see the difference.

Seriously.... I think the environment and the fact that a man is deemed the provider in this part of the world has made most nigerian lady so relaxed and unproductive. I'm dating a Nigerian lady based in the states and mehn, I'm in Canaan now can't go back to Egypt. The margin is clear. Like so clear.

I'm not saying all Nigerian ladies have the system mentality, maybe the exposed ones but very few.


I'm in Canaan I can't go back to Egypt

Efe42:
I so much love her, and I won't dump her Ass simply because she's not productive now.

She has been my side all the time including my worst time .

You already made up your mind. Love is not always enough though.

Then dump her ass if she isn't productive.


Bitter truth you can't change a grown ass. And if you guys end up it's almost certain your kids will believe those are the right thing with that stupid mentality.

I got something bothering me, and it's not just a Nigeria thing.

Folks perhaps elderly citizens between 60-80 years are unemployable due to what we call decline in mental state / skills mismatch, even the folks among them in the so called civil service are put to retirement. Yet, they are exclusively running the country in both local and federal level.


Tell me if this is not highest level of sarcasm..

You can opt for abortion. It's not too late.

Kobojunkie:
1. Therapy for her or therapy for him?

2. Did therapy work for your friend who is no longer good looking?

Therapy for him not the wife. But the wife will orchestrate it as a mad man won't know he his mad but those around him.


Therapy did worked for my friend, he didn't stop once but along the line he stopped after a while. He his picking his life back together and it's not an over night thing. Last time we spoke, he his doing better and instead of gambling, he his making long time investments.

Unyimekelvin:
Good morning..

Eversince i stopped gambling ND masturbation ..i have been doing fine nd living a comfortable life with they little i have.

A very big shout out to those who adviced me ND also prayed for me...i appreciate you all I'm a free Man now...

But these particular one set in... imagine,i have been drinking peak milk (tin) every day by day; ...
Please what is the side effects of consuming too much milk everyday...


..

Lol. Sounds good. I also struggled with masturbation for a while courtesy boarding school. To tell you how productive I am now is an undertone.


Oya, spice your new addiction up with something cute, like watermelon mixed in between or blended pineapple allow it chill, add many other fruits to it and see how your addiction will turn gold.

You might need to put the marriage on hold till you have that figured out.

all4zionlover:
Honestly I'm going through so much here. I'm losing it. I feel depressed, so much fear, unhappy and lonely. My husband's gambling habit has removed love and affection from our home.
He quickly finishes any money that comes to him. Either salary and anything in bet nija and concentrate on asking me for money. I'm have no job, I'm buy little things and resell. My capital is not even stable because all the financial expenses is on me. Yet he doesn't care. He keeps malice with me for not giving him money and not coming home to meet food.
This year, I have decided not to keep food for him so long as he can not bring money for feeding, for the children he claim he love and upkeep.
I've endure for too long and I'm getting fade up.

All my actions and his behaviour really makes me sad.
I have no love, respect for him.
I excessively worry for upkeep, school fees, bills, things we don't have at home. Everything is on me.
I'm so stressed and lonely. I feel I need a shoulder to rest on maybe to cry.
I'm so sad because our two sons are too attached to their father and I'm scared of their feelings if I decided to divorce their father

My first son wouldn't even go to bed until his father return back from work.

Have you been in this kind of situation?
What did you do? How do people survive this kind of situations?

Why not try therapy? Truth is gambling is a big issue most folks even abroad do battle with. It's pretty hard to come out of it because the more he tries, the deeper he might fall into it. I think therapy is the best way out, and it works. I do have a friend who was so deep into gambling that a once upon a time good looking dude is now reduced to a miscreant.


For those saying this is Nigeria and therapy isn't feasible, get off it. Alot of folks have gone through it and it works.

Wiseandtrue:
Will you provide him with the machine Abi you provide am, him no use am

Or do you suggest he sits around waiting for a machine

So who is mentally lazy now

Don't mind the dude, one of those folks who wanna act wise but do sound foolish

SLAP44:
For me, it's the number of youthful voters that makes me smile. 48 million youths cannot be voting for old, senile, weak, frail, expired and analogue candidates to lead them to the past.

Vote for someone who understands your generation.

E go shock you

Pipe dream. Won't hold water.

Johnthejohn:
That serves him right.
I hate Gays and Lesbians with passion

Even the God you serve won't judge this easily.

m4una:
Your family matter

Wisdom will not kill you

after4:
Will you give this advice to your brother or son?

You dey mind that bastard?


Fuckers like that go their Papa house you no go fit chop there and Las Las dem go come online dey find guy wey go buy them iPhone and all. Awon omo oju o ro lari.


I spit on her

All this from an over used engine


You better keep her at Bay.
After one for that matter. She wise like that na hin she after one.




I wonder where guys meet ladies like this

2dice01:
Red flag all the way

She want you to be subbing for her
She want expensive date
She want expensive lifestyle
All on your head


She is for G-boys and Sugar daddies

She's for the street.

I wonder why people don't see chubby as beautiful...

Tony elumelu ko tomisin ni.



Abeg first three.

PrimadonnaO:
You're the one who's not a good person for holding grudges against your sister.

What did she do to you?

Her husband is her head.. her own family comes first.

Am not a good person... And you don't even know me or what I am talking about. Well enjoy your holidays.

unzend:
What you need to deliver

ARCHITECTURAL DRAWINGS
1. Site location plan
2 site plan
3 floor plans ( ground, first second etc)
4 roof plan
5 sections (2)
6 elevations ( front, sides , rear)
7 windows & doors schedules

STRUCTURAL
1 Foundation layouts & details
2 suspended floor layouts & details
3 colum details
4 beam details + roof beams
5 stairs details
6 calculations sheet

Post it here and I send you the balance after review.

You are the scammer cos you are rushing me to pay without delivering satisfactorily.

Has the guy delivered the job? What was your agreement before now.


I don't know your religion, but if he has delivered what you ask of him even tell prophet said pay the labourer his wages before his sweat dries up.

cana882:
These are actions that we can forgive but can’t forget. My sister used her money to travel to Dubai instead of assisting me. Asin she didn’t even encourage me or comment on my travel plans. Like I created a WhatsApp group for us and shared my idea but they didn’t even comment. Instead, they went discussing how bad the idea was in my absence. 3 months after getting to Dubai, she went back to Nigeria with NOTHING!! This is same person I’ve been helping her business and even planning on bringing her over.
The worst thing a person would do is to undermine someone’s tomorrow for your today’s pleasure. I’ve learnt this a long time ago and have benefited from assisting others.
She should keep following this generation-Z’s e-warriors.

That's the word,. Forgive not forget

Sweetvie:
That's the thing... Nothing goes for nothing. she should never have moved to her parents place

Even at that,. She should about tried helping her bro. My fiancee is the first and am always proud of her when I see how she loves and can give everything for her siblings.

cana882:
Don’t know why people don’t understand family relationships. At the end, family is everything. When I was about travelling, my siblings all ignored me. Even when my mum sold her land to add to my savings, they all got angry that she’s wasting funds. Now, I’m the one sending all of them hundreds of thousands and even trying to bring them over.
Let her keep underrating her brother. 5yrs from now, he’ll remind her about this stupid act and I hope her foodstuff business will grow so big that she won’t need any help.

Already told her. Let's hope 18 years from now her daughter won't be here to rant about her rich uncle who is useless to her. My sis also made me cry because of 300k. I needed 1.3 to sort some stuffs then, and I had 1m. This same sister of mine I paid for during masters even out of the little but I put family first. Her turn came she was complaining that her hubby wanted changing her car and they need money for some project. I even asked her to lend me not give. Mehnn I cried like real hot tears. Say in my car for like an hour crying just parked somewhere. At the end, a total stranger I once did business with was who helped out. Am doing great now but mehn I always rememeber like yesterday.

Sweetvie:
Then she should keep her money and start her business

She should also pack out of her parents house or pay rent. No one is entitled to ntin

tollyboy5:
I shake my head for stvpid people on this forum.
Ladies are very funny, if the first born was a guy and the second born was a lady people will accuse the guy of not helping his younger sis.
But now it's a lady , nothing concern her with her younger brother lol.

Life isn't fair to men. My fiancee is the first and she told me point blank when we met that she's the first and if we settle she still need to help her other siblings pull through. Entitlement mentality has nothing to do with family like have been saying. We are bound to help each other.

Kdsml:
Thank you so much you says it all my daughter should come first i cannot put a grown up man before her , i haven't touched the 300k yet the money i have used to buy xmas clothes and wrapper was given to me by my daughter god mother. I have given the wrapper to my aunty she is grateful

I just hope 18yrs from now the girl won't be writing and cursing her rich uncle who doesn't give a hoot about her. It starts from days like this. Wisdom is profitable to direct I hope God gives you the wisdom you need at this time.

Lemme ask, if the guy couldn't get the money and it ended up affecting him, what will happen next?