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OrdercityWeb:
Can i share something with you?
There is something i have grown to observe in interacting with humans, when someone becomes so confrontational and vicious when presented with facts that unveil a 'weak' part of him/her. It is most likely they are hurt by the fact.
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And most times they leave the issue and fail to address or prove these facts wrong but become defensive and furious.

Dillusionist:
yes I said that!!you created a meaningless thread to bash ladies when you have a big stone yet to be removed in your eyes..I won't take you serious [/b]cos you are still [b]wallowing in delusions. .better wake up

Dillusionist:
yes I said that!!

Dillusionist:
didn't waste my time reading all these shiit..cos you all are damn hypocrites

pocohantas:
This was my answer. If you call that excuses/deviation, then you're the one that should put your emotions in check.

I can understand if it's not what you wanna read, but quit the delusion of persecution and emotional blackmail. My thoughts doesn't always have to align with yours. There are a 1001 reasons ladies act the way they do. That it isn't the reason you wanna hear doesn't make it excuses or deviation. Okay?

IamZod:
baba d tin nor tire u. I believe its their nature. Its said that women think more like in lines of grids. That's why a lady can wake up in the morning and decide to pursue several projects at once. And might at d end of d day end up confused. Unlike men who would always have one focus and just set to achieve it. Nevertheless, its their nature and that's what makes dem women and offcourse adorable.

pocohantas:
[s]Trash...quit your delusion of persecution, I haven't even mentioned men here. But if at all I say more than 80% of men are sex starved, I am sure you'll wanna know how I arrived at that statistics. That's logic, not gender war. Wake up... [/s]

Lalas247:
Lol what are u typing seff

So you like a girl u give her your number
But maybe u find out she got a dude living with her .. so u will still be trying ur luck Are you not confused

I said any sign of foolery!!! If there is no foolery we ride on
So what is contradicting about that .. look look if u the type to meet a girl and when she starts cheating or demanding money or whatever foolery u guys don't like .. will u stay there ?? The and to that and your comment



. it's like saying getting a divorce is a contradiction of marriage

pocohantas:
It's just not okay to be the best in maths, but to know how fallacious some statistics could be. Especially when speaking for such number of women.

So, I ask again..you mean every 8 out of 10 women [comprising billions of women] do not know what they want in a partner?

Or are you men ignorant of the fact that you could like a man but certain circumstances won't make it favourable in the long run.
...as a lady grows older, it's also normal she desires less superficial trait in a man. She seeks more of stability and commitment, not good looks.

IamKashyBaby:


We ladies are indecisive sha...

And most of the times we talk to ourselves to discuss whether or whether not were going on a date

supersystemsng:
k..EOD

supersystemsng:
No, for the sake of the future they can't say NO outrightly

supersystemsng:
Okay Okay..Well, below 25, 80% of ladies act confused, there's a crisis of not knowing what they want...allow me quote the stats again, 80% of ladies below 25, from 24, maturity begins to build up, the case is worsen when they're 23, chai at 23, the confusion in their heads is huge...

supersystemsng:
If she says NO and you become a megastar tomorrow, you think she won't be pained? So partial NO means i can change my mind...that's why i said its an investor's mindset

supersystemsng:
No, read what i commented about earlier on..She doesn't want to say an outright NO because it will close the doors permanently, which is best left ajar...Okay, let me make a guesstimate why i feel she said NO...

Its simply because, (from my own bias o ) she doesn't see you as someone that can offer her stability on the long run, i.e. financial stability... to be able to get a YES from ladies as they tend to mature, even if the cash isn't there, you can do it with your attributes, your work-dexterity and your skills, flash a bit here and there and you'll see the difference...I hope others can shed more light on this...

supersystemsng:
She meant NO, but it isn't an absolute NO, she wants to see some things and may say YES later....after prophets na woman. She's not seeing something you need to show....bro, work on it......

supersystemsng:
I'm sorry bro.. The moment a later shrugs off, it's a NO, even if they don't say it o...


She's not at fault here...a lady many times will after a while show you the direction of the relationship..It's your job to either accept or try to change her mind...you should be asking how to change her mind and not why she didn't say NO...she said NO obviously because of some obvious reasons i think i can speculate about which can be fixed, and if you want her, you can go back for her...


Also she didn't say NO, because she was opening the door of possibility that if you changed she'll say yes, if she said an outright NO, and you measure up later she would lose, so she's been practical here...She's an investor that doesn't want to lose out on what could be a deal breaker in the future but isn't ripe for the moment..You dig?

Lalas247:
I can't speak for every lady but dear
My NO is a NO
N my Yes is a YES

Who said I wasn't interested ... The interest instantly left as soon as he played kindergarten games
Money to be made no time for confused dudes ...
look getting the number in the first place na green light .. depending on how the situationship is

Look I can give number but any sign of a single foolery instant friend zone or no zone

supersystemsng:
I feel for you, i'm sorry on her behalf, if she did this, it's not because she's confused...but wants to save you the heart break from hearing an outright NO, for this i hail the lady, she didn't feel you as relationship material..

pocohantas:
What did you get in mathematics?
Over 80%? More than 8 out of every 10 women... not forgetting we have billions of women in the world, do not know what they want?

Wake up...

FemiEddy:
My brother, its just a ladies nature[b], see my mom, sis, babe, infact all female I know, there is always that touch of confusion. [/b]Its natural jare, don't mind them

supersystemsng:
Men, just find a girlfriend and try to follow on... the female gender confuses me...

FemiEddy:
Ladies are naturally confused

Lalas247:
Guys do not know what they want either

Trust me every lady knows what she wants .. they choose to disclosed or not
[b]From when u say hi .. uve already been put in a zonal region .

It's like a guy harassing u for number
U give him number .. he flash u U call back he doesn't pick like wtf u dey ok sha complicated things

Please guys are in the same level ...... it's everyday they creating topic saying I love her but she takes my money but I love
MDF what do u want dump or move on nonsense mtcheew[/b]

so it's 50 -50 lately swaying to 60-40

supersystemsng:
Yes they do not...It's after losing it, they find out the preciousness of what they lost.. As my buddies would say, ladies make the wrong choice by default...it happens to be the scenario with over 80% of them...

Believefirst:
80% of them still behave as kids

hahn:
Tell that to Ibo boys who never went to university and are millionaires

konoplyanka:
I want to trade online.