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ivolt:
You don't have to write an autobiography in response to my simple post,
all I see is your desperation to claim who you are not.

You might have traded cryptos or "graduate" as an architect but that doesn't stop you from
being a failed blogger.

I know this because toxic parochial views are highly correlated with personal failures
or inferiority complex or both.

Victornezzar:
I hate arguing with people that have no directives in life
Even hopeless people are talking
I can't converse with u cos u av nothing upstairs
Failed blogger

Are you done talking?
Failed Blogger? Y'all just keep amazing me. I am a graduate Architect. I work online as a freelance Architect, i earn i $$. I trade cryptocurrency. I don't even have time for blogging. I just kept it up so the money for domain and hosting doesn't waste.
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Lol...you really think this is my first moniker on Nairaland Honestly you're a fool. I'm done with you.
You have nothing else left to say. By the way if you want to build your house I'm available.
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Or if you're interested in earning $$$ trading online. I could help your life.
Before i go this should be the last time you should ever go into someone's personal life who you know nothing about. You really don't know me. It's an advice whatever makes you happy

CaptainGOOD:
Ur comment here shows u are dumb upstairs.
"Our women keep saying yes".. is that not stupid yoeuba me that goes to them. In the first place?

joeeee240:
SO TEMITOPE TOLU MOYEWA SHARON TEWA SHOLA TOLU 2 ABIGAIL BUKOLA ETC WEY ME AND MY GUYS DON NACK NACK DOGGY party DUMP AND REUSE, BANG AND KICK OUT USE HOPELESSLY, DEM NO GREE ATINK! CARRY YOUR BRAIN GO REPAIR ABEG

ivolt:
I guess typing in bold black font gives you orgasm,
no wonder you are failed blogger.
Educated illiterate.

Victornezzar:
den tell ur women 2 leave our men for heavens sake

Is this one okay?
Infact you're not okay.
How many Yoruba women do you see marrying Igbo men.
It's the greedy Igbo women who keeps on saying yes to Yoruba men upon how they claim their men to be "caring and successful ".
Yoruba women are well cultured. They always say No!
Tell your greedy sisters to say No!!

christopher123:
To be honest...Yoruba ladies are pretty and have wonderful shape that it where it stops...if their men don't appreciate their women ,why should other tribe appreciate it

Charity begins at home. The hausa will always marry ahusa
The Igbo will always marry Igbo or their closest cousins in niger Delta...but Yoruba...they will flaunt other tribes and downplay their own


Well, I don't know if yo say this is a complex...mind you if an Igbo girl will marry outside her tribe...she will marry a well place non Igbo man...so that she believes if you want to 3wt frog...eat the fattest one.


The Yoruba must find a way to preserve their culture otherwise in few decades time we will have half Yoruba kids and half Igbo kids running things and you know the affinity between mum and kids are greater than a father


They might call this a tribalistic statement but truth is harsh.


But why do Yoruba detest their ladies...I see that daily . You can hardly see Igbo man flaunting other women

deedeedee1:
This is why i luv Yoruba women. The average Yoruba woman will always say no to Igbo. They dont find their men attractive. An average Yoruba girl has been trained to repect and love her culture. I just dont know why ebowls they dont train their stinking women to stay on their lane.
Fucckking Biafrans!

deedeedee1:
Exactly! They claim their men are the most caring, lovely. Yet, they still chase men from other tribes.

joeeee240:
YOUR BRAIN DEY FOR SAMBISA. WE GO BANG ALL AFONJA WOMEN SCATTER.

joeeee240:
MADAM GO ONE PLACE. YOUR MATES DEY DO BETTER PROGRAMMERS NA "YORUBA WOMEN MUST MARRY " YOU WAN DO. NONSENSE

Customer80:
Our ladies are the one engaging yoruba men? really got to know that ladies in nigeria now woo men and engage the for marriage

CaptainGOOD:
Hahahhahahaha yoruba women turn us igbi down... see hiw u people turn table around.
Let me tell u the truth.
NO IGBO GUY PREFAR MARRYING YORUBA WOMAN TO IGBO WOMAN ASK ANYBODY.
EVEN NON IGBOS AND NON YORUBAS KNOW THAT IT IS DIFFICULT FOR IGBO MAN TO MARRY OUTSIDE IGBO LAND.

so pls stp the crap.

joeeee240:
IF I CALL YOU IMBECILÊ, YOU GO DEY VEX

Are you okay?
Is everything well at home?
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Don't ever in your life jump on my mentions of you don't have anything intelligent to say.
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Sweve!

Victornezzar:
den tell ur women 2 leave our men for heavens sake

Are you okay?
What is this one saying?
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How many Yoruba women do you see marrying Igbo men? Very rare. That's because they turn down Igbo men.

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But it's these greedy Igbo women who will say yes to a Yoruba man despite all what they claim their men to be.
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Greedy things stay the fvck with your "successful" men and leave ours alone. They didn't force you to say yes leave them alone.

Rorachy:
Truth is, its your men that keep marrying our women, our men hardly marry your women, I personally can't marry a Yoruba guy , so I don't know why you sound so pained.

Don't cry more than the bereaved.

ivolt:
People with primitive caveman mindset like you are fast becoming extinct.
It is unfortunate that your education was a waste.

deedeedee1:
Most of these guys are influenced by religion. I am certain 95 percent of them are christains

christopher123:
The Igbo will gain....don't be surprised in no distance time...an Igbo blood will be the ooni . The kids will have loyalty to their mum and take whatever money they make in Yoruba land to Igbo land....we know kids love mum more


The Igbo will gain ..the Igbo are making cultural headways in Yoruba land apart from the economy...look at Akure set up


They should salvage what is loosing in their culture or they will have a generation of half Igbo kids losing it over


The Igbo are smart here

Rorachy:
Tribalistic bigot.

thoth:
Both St Paul and St Augustine wrote decisively on the autonomy of the will, as such the most crucial point is that if the freewill and how others of stronger will might influence the will of others, though they delicately tried to fit this within th3 Christian cosmology one can say that Paul's conversion was a result of a stronger will being imposed on his, not necessary God's but that of the Evangelists of the time. If one can do away with the fantastism of Biblical events such events as Paul's conversion and that of others are can just be reduced to a stronger will on the side of the Evangelist and effects of results from the actions of others, think Butterfly Effect(Fallout).
So Paul's conversion to Christianity is no different than you wearing a cardigan on a cold harmattan, it's just a result of a stronger effect(will) imposed on yours and your Sapient capacity to adapt hence protecting your person with the cardigan.
Extremists might want to extend this scenario to the choice of color of the cardigan you wore, for that i think it will suffice to say that picking one particular cardigan out about twelve in your wardrobe is just a result of you employing your freewill, after contemplating what color or thickness best matches your private intention for the said event. hence all is a result of our freewill or adapting to the results of others actions which also arises from their own freewill.
The concept of destiny was further shattered from the events on the Garden of Eden, if Destiny is by God then why did Adam and Eve disobey God ? does it mean that God 's creation is imperfect hence an imperfect God ? If God had fixed the destiny of Adam,Eve,David etc then why get angry at them when they erred ? Such must be a confusing God which i know our God is not. taking this concept of destiny further then one can say their is nothing like evil men since God that created them set forth such destiny for them and thus they are destined to go to hell, now you can see that this is quite contrary to God's purpose for man.

Unedith:
Is it possible that your type of person had been determined before you were born... that your actions are determined by the type of person you are...or in other words, your actions are determined by who you are...and your actions determine your outcome in life? Is it right then to say your destiny had been determined, before your birth, since your type of person had been determined and so, would always act as expected to create whatever that had been predestined?

mascottboy:
Pls for does of u dat need book pls read T.D Jakes book title "Destiny". He wrote it 2015, ur eyes will open nd u will tnk me later. Dat book open my eyes dis yr as i bought it. Bible said dat Esau will serve Jacob(destiny), isreal will be in captivity for yrs(destiny). God is a giver of destiny, but u hav a role to play. Tnks.

Tosinex:
OK let's look at it like this..

A man was asked to go to his father's house in the village which is in Anambra state, from Lagos. So it's destiny is to go to meet his father, and his destination is the village in Anambra. At the middle of the road, he met thieves and they robbed him of his money, their destiny is to rob and he got in their way, so they fulfill their purpose on him. He's left with nothing to continue to his destination, should he turn back? If he did he would have failed his destiny, he decided to continue to his destination. Along the journey, he met a good man that gave him more than the money he took from home, he was very happy and was glad that he can continue the journey with ease. Few hours to the village, in the mood of ecstasy, he went to a hotel, and he met a prostitute coming out with a man, her destiny is to kill any man she sleeps with. He was tempted to have her, and he went in with her not knowing her mission, while they were about to start having fun, she felt a banging on her head and she dropped dead. She was expected to kill 50 men through her mission, and the guy she came out with just gave up the ghost in the accident scene that just took place in the city center, unknowning to her, he's the 50th person, and since she's completed her mission, she too has to die. The man was arrested and thrown behind bars, his people and the whole village heard about it, he was so ashamed of himself, and after a week, he was released. But should he go back to Lagos without seeing his father in the village, he decided to go back to Lagos, he felt ashamed of the whole issue and doesn't want to bring more shame to himself. As he was going back, he met a man on the road who was coming from that village and the man narrated how he met an elderly man who has transformed his life, the description of this elderly man reflects that of his father, in a twinkle of an eye he decided to return back, on getting to the village he was well received, his father welcomed him and made a great feast for him, and he said to him, my son, you have gone away from me since childhood into Lagos, but today you are here, and I will tell you something that will shock you, he took him to the Kings palace and said, I tell you today my son that I'm not your father but your father is the king who has just departed to meet our ancestors, you've been away from him since you were born, and I was taking care of you till I sent you to Lagos, but thank God that you are here today, the Oracle demands such to happen in order for you to be crown and thank God you made it here today, we have been waiting for you for the past 2years since the king fell ill until he departed yesterday, if you had not come after his demise within the next two weeks, we would have crown someone else. And so the man was crown a King after his Father.

In a nutshell, everyone has a destiny, a happy ending. And you must find out what yours is, having find out, you must strive and be determined to fulfill it, because there are going to be distractions, setbacks, depression, but only your firm resolve will make you fulfill your destiny, Gracias.

thoth:
Destiny is the most stupidest thing ever invented by religionists. most philosophers that i have read including St Paul described it as a load of trash.

Nipeks:
Yes. The cycle continues infinitely. No one knows where it started.
Some people say it's the big bang, some say it's God, some believe it's in the future.
Many theories but we don't really know.
I don't know. What I understand is that the future can only be altered from outside the universe.

Nipeks:
If the future is influenced by the things we do or don't do and the things we do or don't do in influenced by the situation we found ourselves, then we are not really the ones in control.

hedonistic:
The idea that our destiny is in our own hands is quite romantic and appealing. But it is only half the story.

The problem with people is that many of us give ourselves too much credit when something goes in our favour... Oh, I worked hard; that's why I'm successful. What about others who worked even harder, but failed?

Unfortunately, the notion of cause and effect does not fully explain the human condition. Human agency is not as straightforward as it seems.

The sheer fact that you are able to find motivation to work hard, to take action, to be proactive.. is in itself a function of destiny. It is beyond you. Besides, the fact that your action yields the desired results is also a function of destiny, as numerous factors could have conspired to produce a different outcome.

vaxx:
as an africanist. destiny is real ori apeere. the destiny. ori ni meja lawo. ori mi gbe mi.(my destiny make a path for me)


This is what odu IFA says. (oracle womb) At the moment of conception, in the domain of Ajala Mopin (Ori), certain irreversible decisions are made.

The are made in two areas: the physical and the spiritual. The physical area with which we are obviously familiar includes gender, sexual orientation, race,color, and the Host of physical senses such as sight, smell, hearing and touch.

All of these will be, in some sense; dependent upon the choices we made inour physical self.

The spiritual side of Ori is also chosen, but it is divided into two areas.

The first, Apari-inu represents character; Ori-Apere represents destiny.

Destiny itself is divided into three areas: Akunleyan, Akunlegba, and Ayanmo. Akunleyan is the request youmake at Ajale's domain- what you would like in specifics during this lifetimes.

The number of years you wish to live, the kinds of success you hope to achieve, the relationships you desire, the wisdom you seek to accumulate. Akunlegba are those things given to you to help you achieve these things. Both Akunleyan and Akunlegba can be modified or enhanced by sacrifice and ritual throughout our lives.Ayanmo is that part of our destiny which cannot be changed: our gender, race, sexuality etc.
The famous Yoruba wisdom: "It is easier to change a man's destiny than his character" any question?

haske7:
It is d theory of fools.

mykh01:
Hmmn nice poser, but this sort of debate are philosophical debate, you cant just take a position full headed. Both side of the argument are quite right we av seen cases where destiny prevail. Likewise there have been instances where a bad lot is overturned with the aid of hard work and persistence.