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RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 1:28am On Sep 03, 2017
joeeee240:
[s]

WHAT IS YOUR POINT. THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT EAT SHÎT SO I SHOULD JOIN THEM AT EAT IT. THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT GIVE MouthAction to hookers so I should join them. Swerve jare embarassed/s]\
Lol grin grin
Wrong analogy. "Shit eating" as nothing to do with this.
OrdercityWeb:
[b]What do you call the "hate" he has for them and this same "hate" that a lot of young men can relate to if not guilt?
Answer this question. In relation to his comment.
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 1:20am On Sep 03, 2017
OrdercityWeb:
And condoms are 100% safe. They don't fail?
Why do you have to use a condom? It shows you're avoiding the responsibility and consequences that comes with your actions. Isn't it?
I await your answer to my other mention. grin
Joeeee240 I'm waiting for answer to these questions. Thanks! grin
Joeeee240 i await your answers here. grin
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 1:19am On Sep 03, 2017
EMMAUGOH:
happened to me twice, i stop attaching sex to relationship.. cant be hating people i should be loving.

some girls think am a mumu by doing so
Thanks for being honest. Joeeee240 shey you see this guy now. grin
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 1:18am On Sep 03, 2017
Effiezynews:
What on God's green earth are you saying?
Lol. I wasn't talking to you. I was reffering to someone else. I only used your comment as an anchor. Maybe you should follow the thread you'd get where I'm coming from.
And yes my posts are self explanatory.
Abstaining from sex before marriage saves you a lot of headache and stress grin
OrdercityWeb:
[b]What do you call the "hate" he has for them and this same "hate" that a lot of young men can relate to if not guilt?
Joeeee240 you successfully avoided this question also grin
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 1:12am On Sep 03, 2017
Effiezynews:
Selfish creature...If you can't hold a conversation, have no erection..
Lol! grin
Joeeee240 and his gang of "testing" girls to determine "sexual compatibility " as if that's the most important factor. Sexual compatibility can change anytime so what would you now do?
So you'd keep sleeping with every girl you meet until you prove who is "sexually compatible". grin
Lol!!
You say you use condom that is not 100%safe and you could contact STIs or she could get pregnant and yet you would not want to bear the consequence or responsibility of that action. So aren't you been irresponsible by avoiding the responsibility of your action?
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It's girsl i should advice to shun all these "testing" guys like joeeee240 so they don't "dump" you after checking "sexual compatibility". cheesy
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 1:02am On Sep 03, 2017
joeeee240:
CHAI MAY GOD HELP YOUR BRAIN SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS WHAT YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE BECAUSE IT'S EXTREMELY IMPORTANT. SO BECAUSE OF THOSE PROBLEMS, YOU SHOULD NOW AVOID IT. THE PROBLEM WITH THIS IS THAT YOU DON'T SEE IT AS IMPORTANT AND YOUR POINTS TO PROVE IT ARE FALLACIOUS. LET ME TEACH YOU HOW TO BE SMART.

YOU: YOU'RE MAKING A PROPORTION THAT MARRIAGE IS THE BEST TIME FOR SEX. NOW THIS IS WHERE YOU BRING THE STD ARGUMENT WHICH I WIL STILL DEBUNK i never mentioned only std, i mentioned unwanted pregnancies, then you mentioned condoms.
Isn't that funny? Comdoms are not 100% safe and you opting for condoms show you are avoiding the comsequence and responsibility of your choice and action. Right?


ME: I'M MAKING A PROPOSITION THAT SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS IMPORTANT BEFORE MARRIAGE FOR VARIOUS REASONS. You said it can be "coped" with. That makes it not as important as oxygen that means its not the most important deciding factor for getting married. Because it could change. Get?

THE PROBLEM YOUR MAKING IS BY BRINGING STD TO THE ARGUMENT. I SEE SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY AS VERY IMPORTANT WHICH YOU DON'T. THE BENEFITS I GET FROM SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY OUT WAY THE RISK PLUS THE RISK HAS BEEN GREATLY REDUCED. YOU ON THE OTHER HAND FEEL THAT SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS NOT IMPORTANT. AND YOUR REASONS ARE BECAUSE OF THOSE SAME RISKS I FEEL ARE NOT IMPORTANT. SO THE BEST WAY FOR YOU TO HELP YOUR CASE IS EITHER YOU ARGUE WHY I SHOULD PUT MORE IMPORTANCE TO THE RISK OR YOU TELL ME WHY SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS NOT SO IMPORTANT WITHOUT USING THE RISKS( This is a lie, i never said sexual compatibility is not important. You said it can be "coped " with. Right? So this means its not the most important factor in a marriage. Right?
And i asked a question, do you have to keep sleeping with everyone you meet to prove sexual compatibility? Does that not increase the chances of contacting STDs, and resulting in unwanted pregnacies?
LET ME EXPLAIN MY LAST LINE. [s]IF I WANT TO BECOME A DOCTOR AND THE RISKS INVOLVED TO BECOME A DOCTOR INVOLVES ME JUMPING OF A PLANE, IF YOU AGAINST THE DOCTOR THING IT WILL BE STUPID MAKING YOUR ARGUMENTS BY SAYING YOU'LL HAVE TO JUMP OF A PLANE AND THEREFORE YOU SHOULDN'T BE A DOCTOR BECAUSE IN MY MIND THAT RISK WHICH IS VERY VALUABLE TO YOU IS NOT AS VALUABLE TO ME. YOUR ARGUMENT SHOULD BE ONCE YOU BECOME A DOCTOR, HOW IMPORTANT IS IT? WHAT ARE THE CHALLENGES? WILL YOU GET EMPLOYMENT? ETC. SO IN THIS CONTEXT WHAT YOU SHOULD BE ASKING IS, ONCE I HAVE ALL THE SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY I'M LOOKING FOR HOW WILL IT HELP IN MY RELATIONSHIP? NOT ALL THESE STUPID QUESTIONS YOU'RE ASKING [/s]Becoming a doctor doesn't involve jumping on a plane. Stop formulating scenarios to butress your point. Use logical scenarios. So therefore this doesn't hold. Answer my questions at the bolded above. Thanks!undecided
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 12:38am On Sep 03, 2017
joeeee240:
undecided[s] A SMART PERSON WOULD HAVE GOTTEN THE ANSWER. I USED YOUR WORDS AND STUPID QUESTION TO KNOW YOUR PERSON. YOU ARE DAFT. IT'S QUITE SIMPLE[/s]
I'll just ignore this and await your answer to my other mentions. Lol grin
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb:
joeeee240:
IT'S EITHER YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ENGLISH OR YOU'RE NOT A SMART PERSON. GUILT AND CONSCIENCE ARE NOT SEPERABLE. THE ISSUE IS THAT HE DOES NOT FEEL GUILT. IS THIS HARD TO UNDERSTAND? undecided THERE'S NO ELEMENT OF WRONG DOING EITHER CONSCIOUSLY OR SUBCONSCIOUSLY. THIS IS THE EASIEST TO UNDERSTAND BUT AGAIN YOU'RE NOT SMART. THERE ARE OTHER PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECTS WHICH YOU CANNOT FULLY DETERMINE WITHOUT ENOUGH EVIDENCE

I READ THROUGH YOUR PROFILE AND YOU CALLED YOURSELF A RESEARHER AND THAT YOU ASK DEEP QUESTIONS LOL.. . I COULDN'T STOP LAUGHING. I DON'T THINK YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT RESEARCH IS. NOW MY TAKE IS 4 OR 5 PERSONS BECAUSE YOU CANNOT SAY 4.6 OR 4.8 PERSONS SO I HAD TO ROUND IT UP. YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY ALL THESE QUACK RESEARCHERS DECEIVING THEMSELVES BECAUSE EVERYTHING WITH SCIENCE IS EITHER ROUNDED UP OR GIVEN A RANGE EXAMPLE AGE GROUPS OR TH VALUE OF PI. THIS 4 OR 5 IS A REPLICA. SO ONE DOESN'T SAY 4.6 PERSONS


YOUR QUESTION ABOUT CHANCES OF UNWANTED PREGNANCY IS ONE OF THE MOST STUPID QUESTIONS I'VE EVER HEARD(AND THERE'S A POPULAR SAYING THAT THERE'S NO FOOLISH QUESTION) LOL IF YOU THINK THIS IS ASKING DEEP QUESTIONS CHAI YOU HAVE BEEN DECEIVING YOURSELF. YOU KEEP MAKING FALLACIES undecided DO YOU KNOW THAT EACH TIME YOU DRIVE OUT OR LEAVE YOUR HOUSE, THE CHANCES OF YOU GETTING AN ACCIDENT IS HIGHER THAN IF YOU STAYED BACK AT HOME? (JUST SEE HOW STUPID THAT SOUNDED) THE AIM IS TO BE CAREFUL AND WEAR A FÛCKING CONDOMN. INFACT FOR YOU TO BRING THIS UP SHOWS YOUR NOT SMART AT ALL.

A PHYSICALLY DAMAGED PERSON CAN COPE BUT THIS ISSUE COMES UP WHEN THE BEST IS PHYSICALLY DAMAGED. DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT SCIENCE AND RESEARCH IS. MOST LAWS AND RESEARCH WORKS ALWAYS AND ALWAYS HAVE AN "ERROR IN GRAPH" . BEANS IS GOOD FOR BODY GROWTH BUT SOME PEOPLE ARE ALLERGIC TO IT, SO YOU'LL NOW OPEN THAT YOUR MOUTH BECAUSE THERE ARE CHANCES OF PEOPLE BEING ALLERGIC TO BEANS THAT PEOPLE SHOULD NOT EAT BEANS undecided ABEG RECEIVE SENSE! THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE IS NOT EVERYONE. I HAVE SPECIFIED THE NUMBER ALREADY
And condoms are 100% safe. They don't fail?
Why do you have to use a condom? It shows you're avoiding the responsibility and consequences that comes with your actions. Isn't it?
I await your answer to my other mention. grin
Joeeee240 I'm waiting for answer to these questions. Thanks! grin
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 12:31am On Sep 03, 2017
joeeee240:
I[s]T'S EITHER YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ENGLISH OR YOU'RE NOT A SMART PERSON. GUILT AND CONSCIENCE ARE NOT SEPERABLE. THE ISSUE IS THAT HE DOES NOT FEEL GUILT. IS THIS HARD TO UNDERSTAND? undecided THERE'S NO ELEMENT OF WRONG DOING EITHER CONSCIOUSLY OR SUBCONSCIOUSLY. THIS IS THE EASIEST TO UNDERSTAND BUT AGAIN YOU'RE NOT SMART. THERE ARE OTHER PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECTS WHICH YOU CANNOT FULLY DETERMINE WITHOUT ENOUGH EVIDENCE [/s]

I READ THROUGH YOUR PROFILE AND YOU CALLED YOURSELF A RESEARHER AND THAT YOU ASK DEEP QUESTIONS LOL.. . I COULDN'T STOP LAUGHING. I DON'T THINK YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT RESEARCH IS.

NOW MY TAKE IS 4 OR 5 PERSONS BECAUSE YOU CANNOT SAY 4.6 OR 4.8 PERSONS SO I HAD TO ROUND IT UP. YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY ALL THESE QUACK RESEARCHERS DECEIVING THEMSELVES BECAUSE EVERYTHING WITH SCIENCE IS EITHER ROUNDED UP OR GIVEN A RANGE EXAMPLE AGE GROUPS OR TH VALUE OF PI. THIS 4 OR 5 IS A REPLICA. SO ONE DOESN'T SAY 4.6 PERSONS


YOUR QUESTION ABOUT CHANCES OF UNWANTED PREGNANCY IS ONE OF THE MOST STUPID QUESTIONS I'VE EVER HEARD(AND THERE'S A POPULAR SAYING THAT THERE'S NO FOOLISH QUESTION) LOL IF YOU THINK THIS IS ASKING DEEP QUESTIONS CHAI YOU HAVE BEEN DECEIVING YOURSELF. YOU KEEP MAKING FALLACIES undecided [s] DO YOU KNOW THAT EACH TIME YOU DRIVE OUT OR LEAVE YOUR HOUSE, THE CHANCES OF YOU GETTING AN ACCIDENT IS HIGHER THAN IF YOU STAYED BACK AT HOME?[/s] (JUST SEE HOW STUPID THAT SOUNDED) THE AIM IS TO BE CAREFUL AND WEAR A FÛCKING CONDOMN. INFACT FOR YOU TO BRING THIS UP SHOWS YOUR NOT SMART AT ALL.

A PHYSICALLY DAMAGED PERSON CAN COPE BUT THIS ISSUE COMES UP WHEN THE BEST IS PHYSICALLY DAMAGED. DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT SCIENCE AND RESEARCH IS. MOST LAWS AND RESEARCH WORKS ALWAYS AND ALWAYS HAVE AN "ERROR IN GRAPH" . BEANS IS GOOD FOR BODY GROWTH BUT SOME PEOPLE ARE ALLERGIC TO IT, SO YOU'LL NOW OPEN THAT YOUR MOUTH BECAUSE THERE ARE CHANCES OF PEOPLE BEING ALLERGIC TO BEANS THAT PEOPLE SHOULD NOT EAT BEANS undecided ABEG RECEIVE SENSE! THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE IS NOT EVERYONE. I HAVE SPECIFIED THE NUMBER ALREADY
Lol! You didn't betray my expectations of you at all. I repeat for the last time, stop directing words at my personality and face the issue here. All what you wrote in bolded is unecessary and I'll do like i didn't see it. The first paragraph is out of our discuss.
For the third time please answer the questions @the bolded below. Thanks!

Lol! You successfully evaded my questions again and cherry picked on a non-issue (conscience and guilt ) which you and i know they are in separable.
I repeat please answer these questions directly @the bloded portions.
You didn't want to give a probability? Lol
Probability comes in Mr when you're making predictions or speculations. So there is a possibility of you sleeping with more than 10 people just to find out "sexual compatibility" which can still be according to your words "COPE" with in the event of a disability in marriage.
You have successfully admitted it is not very important like oxygen that cannot be done without.
Lol! grin Fallacious? Why can't we look at things been "unequal", because there is a possibility of that right? i will appreciate it if you stop being evasive and answer the questions. Don't let's derail the discuss. Stick to the questions and the point I've raised. Thanks
I have more questions but let me stop here and let you attend to the bolded portions that you succesfully evaded. cheesy
OrdercityWeb:
What do you call the "hate" he has for them and this same "hate" that a lot of young men can relate to if not guilt?
You don't necessarily have to know you've done something wrong to feel "guilt"?
It's innate, it's called the conscience. It's like the cops of humanity. It's just like when we don't help someone in need our conscience ( the inner police) gets to us.
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Now you say sexual compatibility is important. Okay fine. I want to guess sexual compatibility is not the only important thing in a marriage. Right?
Now you say "MAYBE" this means your figures are under probability and it could be more than that.
The result of this, is an increase in your chances of contacting STD's or she having an unwanted pregnancy. Right?
Also in the event of a disability after marriage that damages the sexual prowess of the couple wouldn't they cope?
Are the no options for that? Do you have to sleep with everyone to prove "sexual compatibility"?
I await your answers.
Ps: If you're going to answer PLEASE ANSWER THE QUESTIONS DIRECTLY. DON'T BE EVASIVE. THANKS![/b]
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 12:05am On Sep 03, 2017
joeeee240:
CHAI. I JUST KNEW IT. YOU ARE NOT SMART. NOBODY IS REMOVING CONSCIENCE AND GUILT HERE. ONE THING WE CAN ALL AGREE ON IS THAT GUILT INVOLVES WRONG DOING. NOW WHAT I'M SAYING IS THAT, THERE'S NO WRONG DOING THAT HE FEELS HAS BEEN DONE. THE POINT IS THAT IT IS NOT WRONG DOING. HIS CASE IS A PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT AND NOT THAT OF GUILT.
YOU OBVIOUSLY ARE NOT EVEN SMART FOR THIS OTHER ONE ON PROBABILITY. SO I SHOULD SAY YOU MUST HAVE AT LEAST 4.6 OR 4.7 PARTNERS undecided THAT'S I JUST SAID 4 OR 5

LASTLY STOP MAKING FALLACIES, THE ISSUE OF COPING COMES INTO PLAY IN TERMS OF PHYSICAL DISADVANTAGES AND AS YOU CAN CLEARLY SEE ALL THINGS ARE NOT EQUAL.
STICK WITH THE ISSUE NA undecided IT'S LIKE SAYING HUMANS HAVE 2 EARS AND BECAUSE YOU WATCH A MEDICAL CHANNEL WHERE A BABY IS BORN WITH 3, YOU NOW BRING THAT INTO THE ARGUMENT undecided
Lol! You successfully evaded my questions again and cherry picked on a non-issue (conscience and guilt ) which you and i know they are in separable.
I repeat please answer these questions directly @the bloded portions.
You didn't want to give a probability? Lol
Probability comes in Mr when you're making predictions or speculations. So there is a possibility of you sleeping with more than 10 people just to find out "sexual compatibility" which can still be according to your words "COPE" with in the event of a disability in marriage.
You have successfully admitted it is not very important like oxygen that cannot be done without.
Lol! grin Fallacious? Why can't we look at things been "unequal", because there is a possibility of that right? i will appreciate it if you stop being evasive and answer the questions. Don't let's derail the discuss. Stick to the questions and the point I've raised. Thanks
I have more questions but let me stop here and let you attend to the bolded portions that you succesfully evaded. cheesy
OrdercityWeb:
What do you call the "hate" he has for them and this same "hate" that a lot of young men can relate to if not guilt?
You don't necessarily have to know you've done something wrong to feel "guilt"?
It's innate, it's called the conscience. It's like the cops of humanity. It's just like when we don't help someone in need our conscience ( the inner police) gets to us.
..
Now you say sexual compatibility is important. Okay fine. I want to guess sexual compatibility is not the only important thing in a marriage. Right?
Now you say "MAYBE" this means your figures are under probability and it could be more than that.
The result of this, is an increase in your chances of contacting STD's or she having an unwanted pregnancy. Right?
Also in the event of a disability after marriage that damages the sexual prowess of the couple wouldn't they cope?
Are the no options for that? Do you have to sleep with everyone to prove "sexual compatibility"?
I await your answers.
Ps: If you're going to answer PLEASE ANSWER THE QUESTIONS DIRECTLY. DON'T BE EVASIVE. THANKS![/b]
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 11:51pm On Sep 02, 2017
geunik:
The African mentality believe that girls must abstain from sex before marriage. Guys that feel that way consider girls to be loose once they had her and feel hatred for her. This hatred increase if it was just too easy.
Sex is for the married. Sex comes with responsibility.

OrdercityWeb:
Honestly you save yourself alot of stress when you abstain from sex b4 marriage.
Things like:
Guilt
Unwanted pregnancies
STDs
Lack of commitment
Possibility of cheating when married.
And many more. Youths learn to stay away from sex b4 marriage.
I have said my own
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 11:50pm On Sep 02, 2017
kelzgie:
that's for you to know that sex ain't for the unmarried.. couples love each other more after sex... the reverse is the case for pimps
Exactly!!
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 11:44pm On Sep 02, 2017
joeeee240:
YOU ARE MISSING THE POINT ON GUILT. YOU ARE NOW TALKING ABOUT CONSCIENCE AND THE SUBCONSCIOUS. THAT IS NOT MY POINT. IT'S NOT GUILT BECAUSE THERE'S NO SENSE OF "WRONG DOING" .THAT IS HE HAS SUBCONSCIOUSLY AND CONSCIOUSLY ACCEPTED THAT THERE'S NO ELEMENT OF WRONG DOING. ANOTHER POINT I WANT TO CORRECT YOU ON, OUR INNATE AND NATURAL DESIRES ARE OF A SEXUAL NATURE. IT IS HOWEVER "THE SOCIETY" INCLUDING RELIGION THAT HAS TRIED TO MAKE IT LOOK WRONG.


SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS STILL IMPORTANT .I SAID 4 OR 5 BECAUSE I DIDN'T WANT TO GIVE A PROBABILITY OF 4.6 OR 4.7 IN LIGHT OF ALL THOSE PROBLEMS, HAPPENING DURING MARRIAGE, THEY'LL HAVE TO COPE. BUT THIS YOUR ARGUMENT HAS TURNED FALLACIOUS BECAUSE WE ARE LOOKING AT ALL THINGS BEING EQUAL
Lol you're a funny person. You successfully avoided my questions @the bolded portions. Lol can you remove the place of the conscience in the subject of guilt? Lol i see you don't want to go there. grin
You didn't want to give a probability? Lol
Probability comes in Mr when you're making predictions or speculations. So there is a possibility of you sleeping with more than 10 people just to find out "sexual compatibility" which can still be according to your words "COPE" with in the event of a disability in marriage.
You have successfully admitted it is not very important like oxygen that cannot be done without.
Lol! grin Fallacious? Why can't we look at things been "unequal", because there is a possibility of that right? grin
I have more questions but let me stop here and let you attend to the bolded portions that you succesfully evaded. grin
OrdercityWeb:
What do you call the "hate" he has for them and this same "hate" that a lot of young men can relate to if not guilt?
You don't necessarily have to know you've done something wrong to feel "guilt"?
It's innate, it's called the conscience. It's like the cops of humanity. It's just like when we don't help someone in need our conscience ( the inner police) gets to us.
..
Now you say sexual compatibility is important. Okay fine. I want to guess sexual compatibility is not the only important thing in a marriage. Right?
Now you say "MAYBE" this means your figures are under probability and it could be more than that.
The result of this, is an increase in your chances of contacting STD's or she having an unwanted pregnancy. Right?
Also in the event of a disability after marriage that damages the sexual prowess of the couple wouldn't they cope?
Are the no options for that? Do you have to sleep with everyone to prove "sexual compatibility"?
I await your answers.
Ps: If you're going to answer PLEASE ANSWER THE QUESTIONS DIRECTLY. DON'T BE EVASIVE. THANKS![/b]
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 11:30pm On Sep 02, 2017
joeeee240:
YOU MUST BE AN UNCIRCUMCISED IDÍOT TO THINK WHAT YOU WROTE HAS A SHRED OF RESEMBLANCE TO FACT AND REALITY undecided
Lol! Well that's a subjective opinion. But you're still yet to prove the points wrong. Haven't you?
I await your answers on my other mention. grin
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 11:27pm On Sep 02, 2017
joeeee240:
GUILT IS WHEN YOU FEEL YOU'VE DONE SOMETHING WRONG. AND YOU DON'T HAVE ENOUGH EVIDENCE TO PROVE GUILT. BUT FROM HIS STATEMENT IT'S NOT GUILT.

SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT. YOU MUST NOT HAVE SEX WITH MANY PARTNERS, MAYBE 4 OR 5
[b]What do you call the "hate" he has for them and this same "hate" that a lot of young men can relate to if not guilt?
You don't necessarily have to know you've done something wrong to feel "guilt"?
It's innate, it's called the conscience. It's like the cops of humanity. It's just like when we don't help someone in need our conscience ( the inner police) gets to us.
..
Now you say sexual compatibility is important. Okay fine. I want to guess sexual compatibility is not the only important thing in a marriage. Right?
Now you say "MAYBE" this means your figures are under probability and it could be more than that.
The result of this, is an increase in your chances of contacting STD's or she having an unwanted pregnancy. Right?
Also in the event of a disability after marriage that damages the sexual prowess of the couple wouldn't they cope?
Are the no options for that? Do you have to sleep with everyone to prove "sexual compatibility"?
I await your answers.
Ps: If you're going to answer PLEASE ANSWER THE QUESTIONS DIRECTLY. DON'T BE EVASIVE. THANKS![/b]
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 11:14pm On Sep 02, 2017
joeeee240:
I DON'T HAVE INTELLIGENT CONVERSATIONS WITH APES grin
Yes you can't. Its quite obvious you lack the mental wherewithal to engage an "Ape".
I'll give you one last chance to dispute all i wrote below. I should let you know i don't have high expectations as i can guess what your reply will be already. It's what happens when you're faced with fact and reality.


OrdercityWeb:
Honestly you save yourself alot of stress when you abstain from sex b4 marriage.
Things like:
Guilt
Unwanted pregnancies
STDs
Lack of commitment
Possibility of cheating when married.
And many more. Youths learn to stay away from sex b4 marriage.
I have said my own
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 11:11pm On Sep 02, 2017
joeeee240:
ITS NOT GUILT
Lol!
I see you have a problem with that word. But still whatever you choose to call it, he is feeling uneasy with himself and this translates to "hate" for the woman. So i think you should give me a definition of what that is? I await your definition.
...
Anyway avoiding sex b4 marriage would save you lots of stress like this and many more.
How many people are you going to have sex with before you know your right spouse because i see alot of you mention "compatibility"?
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 11:08pm On Sep 02, 2017
AreaFada2:
Spirit wives ko, masquerade/egungun wives ni. grin grin cheesy shocked

It is not at all unusual to feel such hate.

In fact it is one of the reasons some guys womanize a lot. Thinking they have now definitely found the girl they love. But same happens after sex.

Once you have "conquered" her, your hunter instinct is to get a "fresh" one.

Fact is that you have not really fallen in love with a girl. Not even the latest you are "planning future reference with", whatever that means.

I feared same feeling so much that I turned down two/three girls who were all over me. One as a teenager, and another was a work colleague years later. I confided in a female friend about the work colleague. That she was really pretty and most guys at work toast her but she refused them.
That as shapely & pretty she was, I had no feelings for her. Though because we were so close, everyone called us bf & gf. But we were NOT.
The female friend advised me not to date her or be intimate with her. That she'd could trap me with pregnancy.

I called her one day and told her the truth. That I had no feelings for her. She'd not even speak to me after that. She looked sick for a few weeks.
The second work colleague seemed like "donatus" in that she had two other guys, gleaned from talking to her. Maybe even more. She liked me but was not in love with me.

She had the most curvy shape you could find. And tall. ALL work colleagues toasted her. ALL. And she told me so. And asked why I never toasted her. Really, people yearn for something seemingly out of reach. It took the Grace of God not to bang her one day. Very close. Before I regained my composure. She was gagging for it and her disappointment was obvious on her face.

A few months later, I left the job. Thank God. Working with her had become very difficult.

@OP,
In essence, you can feel "dirty" after sleeping with a girl you should not have slept with. The hate you suddenly feel may be partly due to your own guilt. We all have conscience, no matter how hard we try to suppress it.
OrdercityWeb:
Honestly you save yourself alot of stress when you abstain from sex b4 marriage.
Things like:
Guilt
Unwanted pregnancies
STDs
Lack of commitment
Possibility of cheating when married.
And many more. Youths learn to stay away from sex b4 marriage.
I have said my own
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 11:05pm On Sep 02, 2017
joeeee240:
AND YOUR OWN HAPPENS TO BE TRASH
Lol!
It seems i struck a nerve right?

You can't dispute with what I've written and its obvious you have no logical rebuttal for it so you simply opted for the easy way out.
So intelligent of you. Lol
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 11:01pm On Sep 02, 2017
tosyne2much:
If you don't kill this feeling, you might hate your wife after making love to her
I doubt that. Alot of young, sexually active, unmarried men can actually relate to what he's saying. What he's experiencing is guilt.
It's nature's way of telling you what you're doing is wrong, but later on some young men have learnt to supress this feeling.
So the best thing for young people is to stay away from sex before marriage.

OrdercityWeb:
Honestly you save yourself alot of stress when you abstain from sex b4 marriage.
Things like:
Guilt
Unwanted pregnancies
STDs
Lack of commitment
Possibility of cheating when married.
And many more. Youths learn to stay away from sex b4 marriage.
I have said my own
RomanceRe: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 10:59pm On Sep 02, 2017
Honestly you save yourself alot of stress when you abstain from sex b4 marriage.
Things like:
Guilt
Unwanted pregnancies
STDs
Lack of commitment
Possibility of cheating when married.
And many more. Youths learn to stay away from sex b4 marriage.
I have said my own
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What happened?
Did they win something? undecided
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WhoDeyThere:
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Emmafranciss:
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Emmafranciss:
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What do you think you're doing?
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Keneking:
So i should fry grinded tomatoes undecided
The past tense of "grind" is ground.

Don't mention.
SportsRe: Olanrewaju Kayode And His Wife, Ezinne Dora Kayode & Kids (Photos) by OrdercityWeb: 9:41pm On Sep 01, 2017
lefulefu:
always igbo vs yoruba tantrums on nl..but then the highest inter tribal marriage in naija is igbo vs yoruba
Our mission is stop that. undecided
PoliticsRe: Sallah; Buruji Kashamu Hosts Large Crowd Of Constituents In His Mansion. Photos by OrdercityWeb: 9:33pm On Sep 01, 2017
Mrchippychappy:
CHAI RICHEST TRIBE IN NIGERIA INDEED! I DEY LAFF O!

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There is always that one person who decides to disgrace himself. What a pity sad
RomanceRe: Is It True That Ladies Do Not Know What They Want? by OrdercityWeb(op): 7:46pm On Sep 01, 2017
Dillusionist:
guys are the confused being here;

[s]1)he will tell you to maintain your slim nature that he loves you slim,but he will still cheat on you with a fat lady

2)he will tell you that he got attracted to you because of your fair colour but still cheat on you if he sees a dark skinned lady.


3)they will say that they love it when there woman is outspoken but still feel intimidated about it and complain that you are becoming disrespectful

4)they say they love well behaved women but can't stop cheating with the wild ones..[/s]
so many errors being committed by the male folks but later they will open their mouth to bash ladies...
only few of them (2%)know what they want..and it's not making sense atall
All the trash you claim you put together there didn't prove anything. All you were just hampering on was "CHEATING". You have no point.
You're stating the excuses men give to cheat?
You have not successfully proven that men are indecisive.
And yes again bye! undecided
RomanceRe: Is It True That Ladies Do Not Know What They Want? by OrdercityWeb(op): 7:34pm On Sep 01, 2017
Dillusionist:
which meaningless fact? oh you think I will waste my time reading those crap of yours? ?when you interact with about 2 or 3 ladies your freaky mind would tell you to generalize ,,wake up to reality, ,you guys do the worst!! you don't know what you want..you can read my first comment here and I still stand to be corrected..
You just succeded in proving me right.

OrdercityWeb:
Can i share something with you?
There is something i have grown to observe in interacting with humans, when someone becomes so confrontational and vicious when presented with facts that unveil a 'weak' part of him/her. It is most likely they are hurt by the fact.
..
And most times they leave the issue and fail to address or prove these facts wrong but become defensive and furious.
Read this again maybe you'd get it the second trial.
And bye too! undecided
FamilyRe: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by OrdercityWeb(op): 7:29pm On Sep 01, 2017
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Y'all don't fail to amaze me.
Goodluck on your campaign. Please let me know when you reach a progress of 50%.
If you ever do. Lol undecided

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