₦airaland Forum

Reading all this, you will notice we Nigerians are scammers. We are the most religious and the most dishonest. No wonder our Country is messed up. We deserve the useless leaders we have for we ourselves, our waka no straight.

anthonyuncle:
when I was doing my I.T, a pair of sneakers for sale caught my attention. I asked for da price and the price was quite high. I priced dz sneakers for one month (coz I do pass through that shop almost everyday while returning from work) and da seller insisted on that same price (no reduction).

I finally bought dz sneakers, put da pair in my box to launch at school.

da day I finally wore dz sneakers (at school),I realised it was a fake one.

my love for it dropped drastically.

I couldn't give it out (coz I know it is fake), and I couldn't throw it away (coz of da price and it was still new).

las las,I begin wear am dey go for jogging and exercises

How we can help ourselves is to ensure no one goes through that experience. If the shop is still around, and selling fake things, take a pix and post on Social media to run the guy out of business. We need to look out for ourselves.

Imagine oh. This is a man that was governor for 8 years and his daughter was sick and flown abroad for treatment. She died and her corpse was flown back to Nigeria in a Chartered flight to be buried in Nigeria. He too is talking now.

If one day, an IG of police or even Lagos governor closes down the computer village, all the flat headed mofos will start screaming up and down that Buhari wants to donate it to fulani. However, one thing is certain, that place deals in more fraudulent business than legitimate business as far as i am concerned.

Activist001:
Real niggas like me don't date whores talkless of marriage.

Talk is cheap, later folks like you will cry, weap and beg to be married to one.

RaptObserver:
I see. It looks like a madam and her apprentice to me. No responsible mother will dress in that manner to go and reprimand her daughter who is in an unholy place. That location could be Ibadan or somewhere in Ogun state.

All this mofos commenting stupidly. So, she must tie wrapper because she is a mother? abi what is wrong with her dressing?

Activist001:
Meat wey don done don done. No amount of beating unfuck her because she has been fu.cked.

At least it will stop. Who knows maybe she will be your future wife and the mother is helping you out.

Happyguy201:
father Christmas . continue paying .

Poor man, continue complaining about food.

Demaestro09:
You must be very stupid for typing this trash here

Who are the people you date You piece of shit? You know nothing bro, how much does an average Nigerian date cost, at most 5k. Most guys here can afford it, just that we can stand imbeciles like you making us to feel like it's our duty to foot the entire bill just because we asked her out. In a civilised society everyone pays for their thing, that's more reasonable and rational.

In the US for instance its the norm for everyone to foot his/her bill, that's how things are done in most civilise countries. And no it doesn't equate brokenness as fools like you reason it, far from it.

It's only here in Nigeria that foolish men like you think spending money on a lady on a first date means you love her or something.

I repeat, it those not equal brokenness, more like one footing their bill s but you are seemingly too stupid to get this

My point is : it doesn't takes away from me if I choose to pay for everything on a date, that's just out of my own freewill and volition. Its not a duty or a responsibility. You are making it seem like the lady is entitled for her bills to be paid be me , which makes no sense

Bros, first of all, i live in the USA so you cannot tell me what obtains here. I have taken ladies out on dates, Nigerian, Mexican, Caucasian, Brazilian, Asian, you name it. Also, i have colleagues i work with that request to go to Nigerian restaurants just to try out naija food. So i know exactly what i am talking about. Anywhere in the world, if you invite a lady out on a date, be prepared to pay for everything. You are the one taking her out, again, you are poor and wretched if youre complaining about paying for the lady's food. Even those that asked to go to Naija restaurant, it's not even about dating, i insist on paying even though they will argue with me that they requested this and all, but i insist saying i am now their host since they want to try our naija food, I am Nigerian, i am generous like that when it comes to food and that was how i was raised. Even my male friends, we are always fighting over who will pay when we go out cos its FOOD and feeding someone is a blessing. I repeat, it is not an issue for me. Cultures are different, you might be from a culture where you have to say thank you for Food, which is a taboo, where i am from, I will be the one to thank you for giving me blessing by eating with me or allowing me to buy you food. So, conclusively, bros, nobi quarrel, if i take a lady out 20 times, i will pay for her food 20 times. God has blessed me enough that i cannot, i repeat, i cannot have a problem or issue with paying for a ladies food. One advice bros, from today, try this simple test, if you take a lady out, pls and pls pay for her food, do not have an issue with it, just pay it as a MAN, capable, responsible and in authority, and most importantly, PLEASE DO NOT expect anything in return. Just pay and hope that God will reward you handsomely, my broda, it will change you and you will be a much better person. Also, remember to extend the same to male friends as well. Shalom.

JIMMY1393:
op never said the reason for his going out to watch the game...maybe its subscription, maybe its to watch and hangout with friends, maybe its that there's only 1 tv in the house and the father would rather watch something else

That's very true. More possibilities. I was referring to that guy that mentioned something to that effect. however, youre on point sir.

Acidosis:
Thanks for the recommendation but I'm not interested. The fact that you gave your parents a hard time doesn't mean we all did. I didn't join any bad gang growing up, I don't stay out late. Never been flogged by my parents either.

At 18, I was listening to myself more, sorry. No mistakes, no regrets.

Good for you, we are talking about how things work in real life. Not all kids will turn up like you, so what happens to those that needs extra support, constant reminders and more attention? You want society to throw them away? How do you know how your own kids will turn out? Do not make the mistake we make in Nigeria. Taribo West, Amunike, and so many Ajegunle boys would've ended up as armed robbers if not for encouragement, support and patience of so many people. Etim Esin is a brilliant gift to Nigeria, but we could not curtail him and use him to his full potential. We blame and look down on kids cos they are not following the right mr principled man example, but at the end you will end up working for those that challenged authority, refused to follow laid down rules, dared to explore and even develop the same cell phone and computer and internet we are currently using to chat now. By the way, when my mum was not feeling well, i sent her to India for treatment, i sent her on vacation to Dubai and i sent her to Hajj, Alhamdulillah, Glory be to God. Also, i brought her to America on a visit and she had a car and driver until she returned back to God. Thank God i did all that for my mum who i knew did what her parents did to her growing up. I know that is wrong and i will not do it to my own kids, period. I will rather discipline my kids till age 12 and after that, i will only correct them. You can follow your own path. To each his own.

Demaestro09:
It's a thing of the mind, totally has nothing to do with brokenness. You do realize mark zuckerberg being a billonaire may choose to tell his spouse miss Priscilla chan to foot her bill on a date, its perfectly normal because she works and earns her money. Ya know, you can judge how mature/ reasonable a person is from these little acts but you are too stupid to understand this. Or you richer than zuckerberg? ( poverty stricken goat )

Quote me again and you will be whipped mercilessly

Spouse/wife/significant other/ is not what is referenced here. The gist is about someone you take out on a date. Mumu read and comprehend. Again, it is you that lacks maturity bros, just stick with the akara sellers and the cleaners and waiters you date. You cannot, i repeat you cannot date the people i date. You are too poor mentally to start with.

Acidosis:
If at 26, your priority in life is to drag subscription or remote control with your father or wander at night like a thief or cultist, then you should be ready to accept whatever befalls you. I'm not responsible for your irresponsibility.

And btw, I don't have issues with staying out or going wherever to watch whatever. Just don't go against the principles of your caretaker, parents or guardian.

If you come to my house at 11pm because it's your priority to watch a match at night, be rest assured you would sleep at the gate. Principle is principle.

You obviously do not have kids or have no clue about parenting. Imagine your statement, you are trying to keep a child safe and you say he will sleep at the gate for coming home late? Bros, stop all that stupid mentality our parents did when we were young. I went to a party in secondary school and my mum locked the door and i had to sleep in the parked car outside. She herself couldn't sleep throughout the night and i got emboldened. Now i have a place to sleep, so what do i do? i started going to parties like my friends and i will not bother to come back home cos i imagined the door will be locked. When, kids turn 18, they listen to their friends more and you are helpless at that time, you have to use wisdom and not that stupid "principle is principle", your child will just join bad gang that will give him accommodation and if its your daughter, you will lose her, period. Go and watch the Yoruba movie, "OLEKU", you will learn a lot.

In all of this, i have a question? There is this guy Righteousness89, that has a very stupid immature opinion and position and i can see some folks respecting the mumu guy and not coming out outrightly to call him out on his Buhari + Jonathan brain. Pls who is he for God's sake? is he a Mod or something?

Acidosis:
If you were my child, I'll also whoop your arse until you cry like a baby. Don't take stup!d risks in another man's home. It is very very unfair.

If you were in my area last night, you'll probably be cooling off in SARS or DSS cell this minute. Some cult boys decided to count scores last night and SARS ensured they cleared the entire neighborhood. Of course, innocent ones like you who went to "watch match late in the night" were arrested.

Don't put your parents and guidance through unecessary fear. If anything happens to you, the world will blame your father.

Keep quiet, why is the dad not providing TV and subscription in the house? Nonsense. It is not people with your mindset he needs advice from. You yourself need a 20 year old to advise you so please keep quiet when men are talking.

midehill:
Just ignore d guy Mr righteousness...

What are you talking about. @Mindlog is way more brilliant and on point than that your Righteousness89. You should tell Mindlog to ignore Righteousness89, because Righteousness89 does not come close to Mindlog intellectually speaking.

Kamdil:
Pastor Chris marriage was never about adultery, and no where did Anita mention adultery as her reason for divorce. She only said 'unreasonable behaviour' and not adultery.

What is the punishment for those lying to protect their pastor? Instead of you to carry your own cross, youre defending Oyakhilome that was busy sleeping with church members. That is why we are not moving forward in Nigeria, Buhari is useless, we cannot remove him, thieves steal and go scott free. We never start.

Demaestro09:
Shut up your mouth you fukking bastard Stop typing rubbish

I repeat what stops her footing her bill? Fools like you have done a terrible job by normalising this simp behavior, too bad.

And stop disgracing your ancestors by thinking being economical and reasonable equals broken ness, the joke joke is on you mate. You don't know who is who on the internet, some people here can feed you and your inherently destitute and miserable lineage for god knows how long ( guy don't take this personal, just that you are literally the biggest asshole I've encountered today, and it ain't funny )

Bros, now let me break it down for you. You are poor and wretched. You are requesting for a babe to foot her bill and making a fuss about it and talking about who is who on the internet? You complaining about babe paying for herself is talking about feeding someone? Nope youre not capable of it. Where i am from, we do not regard feeding people as being better than them, its just mercy from God that you have and you share. Conclusively, bros, do not take it personal, to each his own, you are poor and consider paying for food as a lady milking or cheating you, i don't. I pay for food for people i don't even know. Food is gift from God, it's not something to boast about or flex about. Its poor, hungry, bitter people like your wretched self that do that.

Demaestro09:
Shut up! You materialistic fool . What stops her from paying with her own money? The fact they went on a date doesn't mean he should foot all the bill. And stop shouting "double your hustle" as if you are totally unaware of Nigeria current harsh economic realities

Poverty has bastardized you so much youre calling paying for food, materialism, i mean "FOOD"..... Na wah oh. Why should you invite a babe out if you are too poor to take your own self out? Bros, its not by force to flex and blame the babe. Why should a babe pay for her own food when youre the one asking her out and asking her out on a date? Remove your poverty ridden mentality from my mention. Good advice, keep your broke economic reality harsh condition in your father's house or in your wretched apartment. Nobi by force to trip babe then blame babe that she did not pay, or she use too much toilet roll at your house, or asked for plantain with jollof rice or that she did not leave her takeaway for you to use for lunch the next day. Poverty deadhead.

DZTech:
How can food be the primary focus of a new outing/dating?

How can you get to know someone better when hunger is your main focus?
Times are hard, but life goes on; so, it's high time we used our common sense.
The entitlement mentality must stop.

Ladies, gents - if you're going on a date, eat at home and go out for drinks in a bar.
how many cans of malt can you drink in 2 hours?
las las, 1,500 don cover am.
enough of the nonsense.

What d'you think?

Shut up poor man. Only a poor shameless man complain about buying food for a lady he is wooing. Double your hustle and change that stupid poor wretched mentality.

nototribalist:
He's useless in music, he will fade away soon, and you Dumbo know that.

I remember Jon that year is hundred times talented than LayCorn. No cap. But as usual he should enjoy his few months fame and disappear like others before him.

He should also give up that his evil ring he brought in to the Big Brother Naija house.

He will go down history as a man that first brought juju to big brother.

You can qoute me anywhere, but be rest assured I don't read mentions on Nairaland. Never

As I said, I don't read Nairaland mention, NEVER!!

And I mean what I said bitches, now CRY!!

You are the one crying really. Also, so he brought an evil ring to the house and he won? Hmm, stop calling that ring evil oh. Those without evil rings he defeated them all and he is a winner, live with it bro.

Newman20:
Dat one na husband?

She bought a housemaid or should I say a houseman and called him a husband.


Mumu woman

Did you listen to the part where she said she wash his boxers as well? Also, are you in their marriage? How do you know what ur'e saying is not wrong?

One4me:
On the contrary, there is nothing wrong in recording (willfuly) a sex video between you and your girlfriend, even husband and wife, it all depends on how mature, responsible and respectful each of you are.
I have video of at least two of my girlfriends onmy very old phones (they are now married ladies and l am a married man) but will they share it or willl share it or show it to their husbands? God Forbid.
Infact, when l see one with her husband, if anyone says we have made love before, he will doubt it because it is all about respecting him and her new family. She has my confidence and word that it will NEVER be shown to another person.

I have been thinking of formating the phone but still having trouble copying some other important stuffs off it, though it is encrypted and prying eyes wont ever get into it.

There is a level a romantic relationship will get to, that eithe of you will be so free with each other and taping such video is one of the result.
Not all relationship will end in marriage but trying to be vengeful by destoying the new relationship of the person is just not worth it.
Though, some relationship, where one party cheats or take advantage of the other might make the cheated partner to think of revenge.
For example: You took his money, he paid for you through higher education, bought books, paid for accomodation ...while working as a Welder but when you graduated, you suddenly realised that his is not on your level as a welder!
Even God will applaud him if he does that to you, a day before your wedding to your newly found "Graduate lover".
We should all be considerate with one another and not"use and dump" humans, jus because we can.

Bros, Shut the f..up. and stop the foolishness and stupidity. Delete those stupid videos and act like the married man you are. Imagine, naked videos of your Ex that is married....hmmm and you get mind to talk about it..... most people with mental illness are not aware of it.

One4me:
Jail time for what exactly?
Moral speaking, he is wrong but the Law is not about Morality, it is about Legality.

And Legally speaking: He took part in a Video and he shared that Video with his friends.
Aside any imputation of morality, what law has he broken?
Is there a law prohibiting Sex Video making? No
Did he rape her? No! (Video would have shown that the sex was consensual)
Is there a Law prohibiting the sharing of a Real (as agains fake) video? No!
Did he force the Lady to make a Sex Video with him? No! (If it was so, she would have reported him to the Police, since the 2017 when the Video was made.)

Does he have the right to share his own Video, where he acted nudely? Absolute Yes!, it is his right. (If l took a Video at a party, with other people in the background or in the Video and l share it, have l committed any offense? If it was an offense then most people on Facebook, Tweeter, WhatsApp and other SM platform will be in jail by now ).

Does the Groom (or even the Bride) have the rigth to withdraw from a wedding s/he is not or no longer comfortable with? Absolute Yes, it is her/his Decision to make.

So, le tus remove the "emotions" from it. All he needs is a good Lawyer (Unfortunately, those Ilsamic Fanatics will not allow Justice to prevail in a law Court) who will prove that he has not broken any known law.
The Lady should blame herself, the fact that she did not level truthfully with her fiance, that she has made a nude video in the past and it is possible he might see it in future, is what caused the breakdown of her proposed marriage. If you tell your better half the truth and s/he still loves you, then nothing can surprise him or her or come between the two of you. Trust! Trust!! Trust!!
Maybe she is one of those ladies who have been forming "I am a Virgin" to the Groom, now the groom eyes just open when he saw his Virgin doing Donkey Style in Video and shouting "Scatter that place like it is the end of the world today".

Abeg, free the guy please. What will be, will be.

You're wrong bro. I am not a lawyer, but i know you cannot invade someone's privacy by releasing a naked picture of them to another person. Even if i send my nude to you lets assume you be babe, if you share it with someone else without my permission, i can sue you for invading my privacy.

sinkhole:
This is Nigerian used, I no wan buy! Make una no try convince me.
Had it being London used, I for buy am

Unpatriotic Nigerian. You see as you dey dis- Grace ya country? Small thing now you go say London people dey insult us anyhow.

Charleys:
Na like this wey things don bad reach?

Make Govt see something buy christmas rice naaa.

OROSUNBOLB:
Stop blabbing kiddo, you ain't making any sense !Which " government and corrupt police and all other agencies" are you going to hold accountable in Nigeria ? How do you hold them accountable ? Does it have to do with mischief or you're just being stupid deliberately ? Hypocrite ! Tell us how you've been holding the corrupt police and other security agencies accountable for the numerous unresolved criminal cases in your locality ? I guess you have none of such in your area,right ?

Lol ! You even talked about education ! You must be kidding yourself man as there is nothing in the craps you called comments,your comments, to suggest that it came from an educated mind. Do you even think any of your half baked teachers will be proud of your disjointed sentences that you laboured so hard to put together in a futile attempt to sound intelligent ?

And please,the "we" stuff you kept repeating in your so called comments, where did it emanate from ? I have nothing in common with you and your miserable life so,stop that nonsense "we". How is it my business if you intend to suffer till eternity ?

Why am I even honouring an apparent cretinous dullard like you with my responses ? You'll keep seeing the small pictures 'cause what you have is a small screen !

To be fair, your comment, this time, is actually better than the last two. However, your hate, stupidity and hopelessness is still on display. I can excuse the hopelessness because of the way our country is. Now, listen and listen good. The path you are on will only encourage the idiots ruling us to keep us divided and continue to unleash bad governance on us and we will continue killing and hurting ourselves.

I and you and so many Nigerians cannot come together and agree on the same things. We are blinded by our hate, anger, bigotry, selfishness and stupidity. Now look at the case of this woman, she is dead, i mean dead and she is not coming back again, now if you get up and call for a demonstration against fulanis, saying they killed this woman, i will not join you cos i know you may be wrong. However, if you say lets march to the police station and that they must investigate this proper and produce the killer of this woman, I, and so many Nigerians will join you. But we dont want to do that, we want to hate, point finger and pass judgement.

I know Nicholas Ofodile, the owner of Chuks Supermarket lokoja. I used to shop at that supermarket. I was pained when i heard he was killed. Below is a comment from one of the haters. Now, guess what, it was later found that it was one of the boys at his Chuks Supermarket that got assassins to eliminate him. Google his name, you will see what im saying. Lets keep arguing and disassociate yourself from Nigeria all you want. At the end of the day, you will come to terms that the way forward is "Our Unity", our unbiased fight for "Truth and Justice for all.

An Ibo thief is a thief, a fulani terrorist is a terrorist, Igbos selling guns to terrorist are all terrorist, yoruba stealing our common wealth is a thief. Hausa man stealing is a thief. Until we all agree on that basic principle and come together and understand that we all needed to sack GEJ in 2015, because GEJ was useless, that we all needed to sack Buhari in 2019 because he was also useless like GEJ, maybe now we would've progressed somewhat. Now, as we currently stand, all these useless people are still in our politics and we are still arguing about them and meanwhile, a woman just died, we have no clue who killed her, a whole life is gone, in a gruesome manner. Our mumu never do us. Lets keep abusing each other, soon it will get to our turn to massacre each other. Our mumu never doo us.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o6GJgkYIp6c

Hedonisco:
He was not assassinated.

This is classic opportunistic, senseless and needlessly brutal Fulani highway kidnapping modus operandi. These Fulani idiots just position themselves in the middle of the highway and open fire on unfortunate oncoming vehicles in the bid to force them to a halt. Anyone who dies in the process is ignored, while survivors are kodnapped.

Without any remorse for sounding bigoted, this is why I absolutely abhor these Fulani bastards. Southern criminals would at least have some sense and systematic modus operandi. Only these senseless abokki idiots would just open fire anyhow in the middle of the road without caring if a potentially valuable kidnap target dies in the process. If you need to force a vehicle to stop in order to kidnap its occupants, why not target the tires and so forth? Nope. These murderous fools always aim at the front windscreen and sides, shooting to kill the driver and other unfortunate occupants. That's how they killed Alex Badeh, the Fasoranti daughter, and many other high profile victims.

OROSUNBOLB:
You're the one that should shut up the dirty gworo chewing trap of yours ! Your futile attempt at absolving the notorious fulani herdsmen of involvement in any of the mindless killings and wanton destructions of people's properties in the east or any part of the country is quite laughable !

You must be a fulani or just a shameless apologist of those nomadic savages. Talking about division,how can Nigeria be united when a certain ethnic group feels that it owns Nigeria with a stupid "born to rule " mentality. Why don't you sit down your sorry ass and take time out to review my Buhari's appointments since he became President of Nigeria ? Did you see any unity therein ? Please take your sermons to him !

You can't blame anybody for pointing fingers at fulani herdsmen. People did not just wake up one day and start accusing them. Why are they not pointing fingers at Ijaws egbesu boys ,Yoruba's Opc or the Bakasi boys ? Why does everyone suspect the herdsmen whenever brutal and barbaric killings occur anywhere in the country ? The reason can't be far fetched; their reputation is responsible for it !

Now take a look at the video below and tell me that the young herdsman threatening that farmer on his farmland was an Igbo boy. It happened in the East and that farmer was only lucky to be alive because people were there. Your fulani friend would have killed him.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pE8T879qZkk

Its obvious ure stupid, foolish and uneducated. Bad combination. Go again and read my comments, this time slowly and comprehend. Hopefully, it will emancipate you from stupidity and finger pointing. All i am saying is that you don't go with dem say, dem say, hold the govt and corrupt police and all other agencies accountable. Case in point, who is responsible for this womans attack and death? You are here shouting fulani up and down and sending stupid videos and having hate, vile and anger in your heart... How does it help anybody? Only anger talk, finger pointing, your mumuism and rant on NL. Rubbish and nonsense that has kept us where we are. Right thing to do is get your stupid mumu self up, or advice the people in that community to get that lazy ass up and ensure there is thorough investigation into what happened to that woman and whoever is responsible should be held accountable. But guess what, you are too lazy to do what is right, it is easy to sit in your hut and shout and beat your chest up and down while doing nothing but believing lies and rumours. Meanwhile, a woman is dead. Also, if the woman is a muslim notherner killed by fulani, you don't care it is not your business, lazy bigot. Dont worry, when we suffer well, well, maybe our eye go clear.

OROSUNBOLB:
Please tell us what you know if you have any fact regarding this incident otherwise, you'll be regarded as another blood thirsty Fulani who is just trying to hide the criminal activities of his people.

Shut the f....up. That is how you keep spewing hate and division and walking around believing nonsense. How do you know they are fulani herdsmen? Stay neutral and stop believing or hating just from "dem say". Look in the news, there are so many instances where people in the east kill each other and blame it on fulani herdsmen. This is what is fueling hate, division and animosity. There are so many instances where innocent fulanis are killed, murdered cos someone just sees them and just immediately suspects them and use violence against them, and they inturen do the same on others and before you know it, people will die from all sides and everyone will be pointing fingers and abusing the other. What to do? The Govt, Police, intelligence agencies, media, court systems all are responsible and we need to hold them accountable. In sane climes, the person that posted this, how do you know its fulani? investigate, whoever is responsible, hold them accountable and punish them with the right penalty for their crimes, those responsible for lying and pushing hate and manipulating the media narratives, hold them accountable and fine them or imprison them with the right penalty.

goodmorning40:
The boy take style ugly shaa

People get mind oh. You look God creation call am "ugly" Do you have idea how your own Children will look?