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Lalas247:
But how can a lady prevent that ? Explain
The bolded tho

Lalas247, This might sound stupid to you but its true. A woman/lady thinks with her head and heart but a man thinks with his "weenie". A married woman or a woman in a committed relationship can admire, like, appreciate other people but "flirting" haha, her "danger" alert will start ringing unless she chooses to ignore or just doesn't care, its in their dna as well, most especially african ladies/women brought up by an african woman.

Lalas247:
But how can a lady prevent that ? Explain
The bolded tho

Lalas247, This might sound stupid to you but its true. A woman/lady thinks with her head and heart but a man thinks with his "weenie". A married woman or a woman in a committed relationship can admire, like, appreciate other people but "flirting" haha, her "danger" alert will start ringing unless she chooses to ignore or just doesn't care, its in their dna as well, most especially african ladies/women brought up by an african woman.

Benita27:
Nigerian men and the Messiah complex. Sorry dear, I'm not my mum. I and my mum obviously have minds that run differently. That "it's in our DNA" is something weaklings say themselves as means to justify their cheating traits...let me burst your bubble; cheating isn't in your DNA, it's a choice to; there are men like you who have been in marriages for years but never looked twice on another lady. A cheating partner doesn't love his/her spouse 'cause if you did, nothing would make you cheat. No other woman/man would matter to you but your spouse. No woman/man would look prettier/cutter than your spouse. So dear, stop making excuses for "Dogs".

Lastly, no man is indispensable. Keep that Messiah complex in check.

There is "expectation" or expected behaviour and there is reality. Yes i agree some men are dogs and they will cheat with whoever, whenever, but most men are part time cheaters. Yes, i agree, you are not your mother and the paradigm is changing and that is the reason why you have divorces all over the place and our mothers stayed married and looking back, you will see they were happier and actually raised good responsible kids as compared to all these feminine power and all the shoes on my feet i bought it house i live in i bought it mentality... Again, yes, men should not cheat, yes men should not hurt their women, i agree absolutely, but again i say its in our DNA cos all the enabling environment around and about makes it mostly inevitable. Culturally, a man is in-charge and expectations of him is that he be responsible for his household period. For a woman, take care of the household and Never ever,ever,ever, (cant stress it enough) cheat on your husband. When men go to seminars, functions, meetings etc, for a whole week for example, the next logical (i repeat LOGICAL) thing to do after these events is to "catch fun" In Fact the organisers of these events ensures those enables are sourced and available. Most men that don't indulge and are responsible, give them extra income, again, increase that extra income, so he has enough money to make his wife/girlfriend really really happy and lots of extra cash as left over, he will start seeing all the beauties around him, then he will begin to appreciate them. Again, its not true that a cheating partner doesn't love his or her spouse, that is so so untrue. Conclusively Benita27, you're nigerian female before anything else, we nigerian men are responsible, awesome, excellent dads, awesome husbands and we take care of our responsibilities and yes we sometimes (very few times) cheat, and yes we have the alpha male Messiah complex, you are part of a culture, you gotta live by it so you better get in line, or start looking for an oyinbo husband, or Hope, i repeat, hope to be with the very, very very few Naija men that will be "all that".

Cladez:
Mr asslicker will you shut up your mouth.........you are indirectly calling women sexual objects.You made no sense other than highlighting what he would lose from her body.

Well, sorry if that was all you got from it. What we can comment on is what we can see. We dont know the details of the relationship right? Its not all about her "body" for me personally but again, for society, that is the main thing, ok. Go look at all the beauty products out there, all the plastic surgeries and all the enlargements and augmentations you will know that for the most part, its all about looks and the focus is on all the desirable body parts.

Benita27:
By the time he spends money to fix that car, cheating in a relationship will never cross his mind. For pete's sake, if you're tired of your gf walk away, not all women could stand a cheating spouse.

Sweeri, I'm about closing. Let me focus joor!.

For where!! nobi naija man again? He will just up his game. He was stupid to get caught. He shouldn't have played close to or in the city where his girl resides. Sorry Benita27 and lalas247, its in our DNA, your focus should be him not bringing you any yamayama disease or having a "love child", also, there is nothing like two can play the game oh, even ordinary flirting with the opposite sex, you're out. Argue from today till tomorrow, yes, its unfair, but, it is what it is. Its African tradition, your mothers will tell you. Will most probably change in the future, hopefully when it takes two incomes to maintain a home and other factors.

cr7lomo:
She herself is scary...only bi.tches act that way...she will kill him one day definitely..so 4k her up first b4 she does...they are some certain men that she gonna date and wudnt try this shi.t...only when a woman sees u as a cici, that's when she gonna act this way...but if she knows what's gonna happen to her if she tries this shi.t , she will hv a rethink and walk away from the relationship...so I reiterate, if she tries this shi.t with me,I will return the favor on her face

Ol boy keep kwayeti. Na poor guys dey talk this kind nonsense. You dey compare material things to emotions and hurt wey you cause somebody? Most times na babe wey dey craze for you wey you hurt go do this kind thing. Wetin be moto or windshield? Stop putting too much importance on all these material things. You blind? you no see say that babe set? check out that bakasi alone and the double attack, imagine, and the mumu guy leave all that goodness go dey misbehave and to worsen the mata, he got caught. Mee i go follow wooz the mumu. Weather him casava small sef and the babe dey help am manage am, then him come carry the small casava wey neva reach the babe chop go outside again, imagine, insult plus injury, then mumu no sabi play game dem come catch him fuckin ass. If i dey there na that babe number i go target straight, that mumu guy with him smally casava no deserve that babe.

ESDKING:
Every desperate group is struggling to use Ipob to be relevant.

Whenever I read anything like "cockroach and ant group" rejects Biafra, I do nothing but to laugh out loud.

I have also once read that one tiny group of charlatans in Abia and Anambra state rejected Biafra on Nairaland here. Lolz.

If you want to be noticed, just form a ground and attack Nnamdi and Ipob, my dear, your popularity is guaranteed.


I wonder if these people are ghost........,.........

There is no group that "LIES" even to themselves like the igbos. Your lies caused you to lose the civil war. Yet you keep lying... continue.

DocHMD:
Even the Afonjas will come out to catch a glimpse of Ohamadike I the courageous tormentor of their Arewa lords.

Hahaha Keep dreaming bros. Make yourself believe arewa is your enemy. No wonder God place them over you to rule over you.

Integrityfarms:
Have you had your hydraulic ewedu soup today? Is there anyone in your region that have half the bravery of Nnamdi Kanu?

nnamdi kanu, brave!! hahaha i laugh in swahili, Ojukwu that was even a soldier, a Colonel RAN away to Cote D'ivoire. Boasting and running away is in your blood..... dont worry we will soon arrest him and massacre all the jobless flat headed fools surrounding him, and you know what you will say next, we were having a peaceful protest and hausa soldiers started killing us... you nogo remember all this boast and empty chest beating, shege dan banzaa kowai.

BUHARItesticles:
Very shameful, I pity the young man maybe under the influence of village spirit or low self-esteem

Nonsense, no influence, he is a child molester period.

This is a welcome development. It it is in eastern Nigeria now, they will complain that the guy is innocent and that it is victimization.

Benita27:


Na Aboki na.

Benita27 you fall my hand. You are one of the few civil people here. Why you dey make reference to where he's from? Also, you'all might be wrong coz plane belts go around the waist. Although i've not been in a private plane before so unsure if they're designed differently.

I have come to declare Ebonyi a Biafra state and when next I come, I will shut down the state for three days”........ This is what this guy is saying in a Federal Republic, a sovereign country, and his miscreants and fools are saying "Correct" "carry on", now if soldiers go to arrest him, they will say he is law abiding, he did nothing wrong, if soldiers give order to those surrounding him to leave, they will of course refuse and try to protect him. Kanu is looking for trouble and others are following him, just be ready when the soldiers come and they will come soon, and heads will roll, then complains and "we didn't do anything, hausa people just like to kill us etc......

cococandy:
You're a dude trying to perpetuate the female gold digger stereotype

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You will soon be sending kola nuts and apologies.

NwaAmaikpe:


BBC is a shame to professional journalism!

What's Olajumoke's merit?
What's her story?
What's her future?
I bet BBC doesn't even know the name of the boy who graduated with a 5.0 CGPA.

How is she an inspiration?
Olajumoke is simply a product of sentiments and corporate prostituting.

She has never caught my attention, empathy or respect, she never will.
She has been constantly shoved down our throats by the harlotry cabal that all of a sudden, she's now someone to reckon with.

God forbid!

A generation and nation which celebrates nobodies out of sentiments, fad and ethnicity has no future.

Bros, dem don yab you wella, so make i re-arrange your brainless brain. Olajumoke is beautiful, has good looks as an African, a Nigerian. She was born into a typical Nigerian home with no advantages, no opportunities and no way to explore herself and tap into her God given potentials. She had a chance meeting with a photographer and they saw the potential in her. They tapped into it and she is growing more and more into the modelling career that she has the finesse, physique and looks to excel in. You can hate her and insult her all you want, but she is all over the world now and BBC are joining the queue to interview her, but you, rif rafs and agberos like me are abusing you and trying to reset your brain on nairaland. Bros, why your life come bend like this

drnoel:
Talking from ur anus again right? My son, if only u knew Rochas personally u won't be saying this.

Bros, if you compare Rochas to Peter Obi, El-Rufai, Fashola etc eheen , no wahala i know Rochas is not supposed to be a leader, he is just like most Nigerian politicians an opportunistic politician, but, FFK is a mad drug addict looking for relevance everywhere anywhere. He is ewu-nama, Do not ever compare him to Rochas. Rochas is not the best but one Rochas is better than 100 FFKs.

drnoel:
Rochas see person way mad pass am go fight am

You and Warship i no sabi the person wey mumu pass. You compare FFK to Rochas, chai, see insult, a whole Rochas, being compared to a mad man. Anyways, you dont know any beta.

benedictnsi:
If I hear.....
People weh carry out this statistics obviously didn't visit Nigeria....with this kind money weh our leaders d loot upandan......

Abeg Make we no d happy for wetin we no merit

For the past 10 years we dey there, dem dey correct now we no dey again and you want to challenge it

Thank God, small, small, like play like play excellence, sincerity and good governance don begin come back small small.

Prophets that their prophesies does not come to pass should be prosecuted.

FakoMaybach1:
Oga what is electric cable made of? is it not rubber?
cane is made of wood and wood is harder than rubber. Stop calling it electric cable as if it was plugged in and she was electrocuted haba!!
Make una fear God na. I have never seen anyone beaten to death with rubber, i know what wood can do to a body especially if hit to the back of the head.
The child watched Porn ho ha and evil spirit enter im body. that spirit has to be cast out old school style and things like koboko, belt 501 and iron hanger were used on us back then. so this child had it good make una stop this useless westernization that wont take us anywhere. every sin get lever, the flogging u give a child that steals meat from pot is different from the flogging u give a child that u caught molesting your goat

When i read comments like yours, i understand how people get mind to join bokoharam, become evans and kidnap others, rape girs and say "she dey "form" wetin carry am come my house, etc, i can see how and why, they have your mentality...

Nigerians are the problems of Nigeria. Imagine a 7 year old, a child a girl child, brutally abused with cuts, marks, lacerations and all the comment here is about 7yr old and porn, etc, no one is talking about the mental, physical and psychological damage to this "girl-child". Its a shame. This is child abuse, the perpetrators need to be prosecuted. The child should be taken away from them. This is not discipline but pure abuse of the highest order.

very Beautiful in the natural before make up pix.

Where is the "N" from the picture??

Ngozi123:
The history records show that Gowon was a warmonger who sought to ruin a nation whose only offence was to strive for their own self-determination. Nigeria was an evil nation then just as it is now. This sinkhole that you call your country is not a place where any benevolent leader should want his people to live in.

Btw, why are you crossing out my comment about you being a well established anti-Igbo tribalist? Is it not the truth?

Quel dommage!

Hi Ngozi, During the war, Igbos and their leaders boasted and believed absolutely that Chukwu Okike Abiama has given them victory and that they will win the war. Now tell me why did God Almighty give Victory to Nigeria and not to Biafra? There is a reason for that, Nigeria represent TRUTh and sincerity and Biafra was built on lies and falsehood. That is why they lost and Ojukwu that boasted that he will be the last man standing ran away, go watch utube video of gowon during the surrender, he said and i quote, Ojukwu ran away after what he has done to the ibos, Biafra, the children all, he said may his conscience "Judge him". Weather I and you argue from now till tomorrow, the fact remains that Ojukwu ran away and had to be forgiven by Shagari and granted pardon to return and he is a coward in the STANDARDS and PRINCIPLES of the ARMY. Gowon on the other hand and Nigeria and OBJ and Buhari all were victorious and we are one Nigeria. Now, if you want to talk about how they said OK, no victor no vanquished and that we will all start on a fresh slate, yet, they (The North) does not trust Ndigbo and silently marginalized them in some things, YES, i agree, is that fair, of course not, again when they were indoctrinated into Nigeria from Biafra was the treatment fair, No it was not, that is wrong, Should it be corrected, Of Course YES, absolutely. That is a fight that any well meaning Nigeria will join and agitate for.

ESDKING:
Nwanyi oma.

Children must watch the Biafra war videos and know who their enemies and how wicked they are.
You can't bury the truth. Thank God for social media.

God bless the land of rising sun.
God bless Nnamdi Kanu .

Hahaha... Keep thinking northerners are your enemies, Nzeogwu was trusted and respected but like most ibo traitors, he thought he is being cheated and murdered Sardauna, ibos poured onto the streets and celebrated, mocking the northerners, meat sellers started attacking the ibos, ojukwu declared biafra and challenged nigeria to a war. God gave victory to Nigeria and the ibos lost. So how is Nigeria your enemy?, we should've folded our hands and allow you to do what you liked under a federal republic? Now, nnamdi kanu is making the same selfish and hopeless mistake because a northerner is president you are not calling him out on his deceitful and rogue ways. He is breaking the law and has violated all his bail terms u turn your eyes the other way, now if we decide to come for him, you will try urself and try to block the law, police and armed forces, guess what will happen, we will just say "open fire" and deal with you very very well, danboraoba shege, then you will start shouting upandown that northerners are killing you. We did same to shite in Zaria, and to folks in Zaki Biam and Udi, so keep disobeying law enforcement, we will soon unleash on you and nnamdi kanu like ojukwu will run away and beg for pardon later.

Goldfaze1:
My question is one, in all the region in Nigeria why is it only the north that is afraid of break up and restructuring, sorry I know the answer bcs if any of these happen they will become slaves to other region of the country. I aslo know why this agitation pains the north it bcs their is a writing on the wall the kingdom will soon be taking away from them. I never see mallams so pained like this, KANU done hook them for BLOKKUS, lastly mr Sheriff it not only the Igbos that are supporting Biafra other region are too just listen very well. we are tired of northerners ruling us give us Biafra or restructure the country in all ways north still lose and I love it.

Bros, why is the North "ruling" over you? Because you are not trustworthy. God gave them power because you cannot be trusted with Power. Let me tell you now, now. Akwa-ibom, Cross-River, Rivers, Delta, etc, they will rather go with the North than with Igbos. If you like lie about it, hide it, its the truth, Nobody trust the igbos and that is why they are not ruling naija now. Keep the lies and propaganda and nnamdi kanu followership going, God will always give power and victory to the "Sincere"

iLoveConductor:
You don't trust a man who left his comfortable abode in London to come and stay in a smelling Nigerian prison for 2 years. Came down from his car and walked like a boss past Army troops that blocked the road? He didn't sit in the back of his "JEEP" like 99% of Nigerian politicians would do and ask his bodyguards to speak with the officers, instead he put his life and comfort at risk for the greatness of his people.

Who will you trust? Abacha, OBJ or your Senator that sent his kids, parents and grandparents to safety in a developed country while you languish in poverty? Tell me who you trust? Tinubu who has sold more than half of Lagos properties to himself as a state governor? Buhari who said there will be no foreign healthcare for elected office holders yet has spent close to 3 months in London with his +80 people entourage balling on Niger Delta oil money?

Continue. I'm sure it's people like you that told Herod to crucify Christ and free Barnabas the notorious rapist.

Tell me who you trust. Sometimes, I stay awake in the night and wonder if unity beggars (especially those of you who claim you come from the south) actually have sense. SMH.

Mumu raise to power infinity. Let me reset your bleeped up brain. Leaving abroad is very tough, you have to keep paying bills, Kanu was jobless and penniless until uwazurike gave him money to start radio Biafra. So he is not comfortable in London, You have to "WORK" to earn a living, those that are comfortable are those that stole naija money and bought houses in london and are balling examples are deziani, ibori, dasuki, most naija politicians. He came out of the jeep yeah right, he is now making a living with all the jobless miscreants and most politicians (pdp) donating money to him and he is now a leader of all the miscreants in igboland and he has a voice now so yes he will misbehave. Let me tell you, this guy said nothing in all the years of GEJ's misrule, he is now an opportunist like, IBB, Oshiomole, oritsejafor, andy uba, etc. Keep deceiving urself, nnamdi kanu is a rogue, a thief and capitalizing on the failure of our politicians to lead people astray. Our problem is all the fools stealing us blind while we remain divided. The way out is a united force for only one purpose and agenda, chase out all these thieves stealing us blind, and they are igbos, hausas, yorubas, ibibios, kwales, all tribes, and all religions.

NwaAmaikpe:



So at his age he doesn't know the location of the heart?


Why stab the ribs?

You should've kept your peace and not comment at all. At least people will believe you have a brain, now you opened your mouth and the whole world knows that you are an "slowpoke".

Lightening:
Oga get lost. You are so trashy and incoherent.

Ayam incoherent, ok let me make it clear for you bros,.

1. Do not start a fight, fight the fight, make everyone believe God has chosen you against the other, God has promised you victory over your (Nigerian) enemy, God has promised you freedom from the oppression of your enemy (Nigeria), then lose the fight, then blame your opponent of beating you fair and square.
2. Do not follow roque, opportunist, nnamdi Kanu's lies, call naija zoo, distrust and abuse all those in power, hope on hopeless hope, then later accuse Nigeria of marginalizing you.

3. Most importantly, do not fight and agitate for biafra, then fraudulently try to contest for presidency in Nigeria, then accuse others of not trusting you with power.


Read it slowly and remember and understand that Igbos are the major problems of ndigbooooo..

ESDKING:
KANU is really hitting their skulls hence the frustration.
Look at how this fool is vibrating, lolzzz.

I knew they were expecting Kanu to compromise like Uwazurike so that issue of Ipob will die, it's not possible.
See how @bokis and skull miners worship Uwazurike today because of his inconsistency and how he comprised during his own time of struggle.

On the issue of the agitation, this f00l should know that Ipob agitation didn't start today, it started during Jonathan's era, that's why Nnamdi Kanu urged Igbos to boycott 2015 election,some did while some did not because ,Jonathan refused to give him attention hence his unpopularity before 2015 general election. That's why majority of Igbos ignored Kanu including myself( I must confess)
But immediately the vegetable came in to power after 2015 election, he shot him on the leg by arresting KANU and some were happy celebrating bubu for a job well done.
Now, the benefit of his incarceration has started manifesting, you are getting frustrated and eating yourselves up.
Sorry, it's too late, because the only person majority of Igbos love is Nnamdi Kanu and no one else.
We must keep supporting him because he's the only igbo leader alive.

Children of God must win.
God bless the land of rising Sun
God bless NNAMDI KANU
God bless his own people.

Chai, 150 likes, when will Ibos evr evr learn? This was how they scream children of God, upandan, and chukwu okike abiama, they they will blame nigerian northern muslims of genocide and killings during the civil war, i dont get it, you are children of God, so others are what? maybe Children of satan, right? hmm, then, God gave power and Victory to children of Satan to defeat Children of God, hmm, and to rule over Children of God?? doesnt make sense, lets reverse it, then it will become clearer.