₦airaland Forum

Good write up. Pride has so many aspects.

When we believe that our understanding can match God's . So when God says one thing, we say, follow or do another.

Claiming superiority to anyone in terms of wealth, education, family name, tribe/ clan, position.

Not been able to apologize or concede defeat just to let peace reign.

Good write up. A different perspective.

But consider Ogun state that has developed residential areas because of Lagos state but yet cannot provide infrastructure. ( the tax of people living at mowe ibafo , sango agbara goes to Ogun state).

Consider that these other states also get other federal allocations that they cannot account for.

Consider that these states are not interested in providing facilities that will attract their people back home.

Yes Lagos benefits from these people but it also spends on them heavily, more flyovers to reduce traffic jamb, more security.,more amenities

I actually prefer the coolness of other states to the rowdiness of Lagos and those states can build on that. Always follow up on how your state is been managed no matter where you are as no place is like home.

The strongest of mankind is he/ she who is slow to anger.

May God grant us restraint in times of anger.

The difference is Muslims do not insult theirs or others religious belief . They would rather discuss with you with proof.

There are two things:
1. The way God has asked to be worshipped, His approvals, His disapprovals.
2. What humans actually do in respect of 1.


Muslims take 1 seriously and know in their heart that no matter where they are at 2 their aim is still to achieve 1.

Now Christians take 1 as open to numerous interpretations and belief that 2 is actually more important than 1. And that no matter what happens in 2, God would have to accept it.


E.g on matters of religion:
I am God . One. Without Partner.

Muslims: Yes Sir.
Christian: Yes but where will we now put Jesus and holy Ghost. It's the three of them that will be One god. All this people tried for us . We will join them together and they will be three in One.

The village people caught them doing it? Or they caught them as he came to pick her up before school was over? Because if its the second it does not mean they are sleeping together.


Expelled for what? For leaving school early ? What happened to the men? Were they arrested?

If she is not under-aged for the men to be arrested, then she is not under-aged to be having sex and she should not be expelled.

Competition is sweet I tell you.

Econet's Kwese tv has come to Nigeria and has even bought the NPL rights.
Kwese tv will most likely have have a PAYG option instead of fixed and they are already trending all over Africa.

I see "smart" CEOs and I wonder. Most Kwese tv staff were formerly from Multichoice. Rumors of inadequate staff welfare and high use of contract staff at Multichoice (as most companies now do)

Now your staff are with your competitors and they know your secrets. They know how much you made from the NPL and made a far better offer.

The largest market in Africa and yet you can't give back to your customers. It's always about the profits, profits profits that still hardly gets into the hands of stockholders. Anyhooos its all business.

After reading comments , I learnt that:

1. If a girl lies , it means she is a cheat ( I thought it meant she was a liar)

2. A man can mistakenly impregnate a girl but a girl intentionally gets pregnant.

3. A girl in a club is a prostitute but a man in the club is just having fun.

4. Decades as a chaste lady does not count for much. A single lie means the lady has always been a prostitute in disguise.

5. The worst thing in the world is to malign a person's chastity, integrity or honour. Yet you can go ahead and do this without proof.?


Apparently the lie is the significant factor here, so if you have never lied in a relationship it means you've never cheated before. Or vice versa.

Eyaaaaaaah. And he resembles his mom.

Is that not Queen's consort?

Take tea with friends =engagement. And he gets paid for it.

@ OP read your post, go and wash your eyes and read your post again.

You met her chaste. You don't have credible evidence for cheating. She went to have fun at a club(were u thinking she would sleep with all four men). You've been tracking her calls and messages.

No wonder she is scared to tell you the truth. You are the type of person who owns a wife's life, movement, friends (monitoring spirit..... A control freak).

Do you know how I save names on my phone, by the places I met them . So u will see- Tope Unilag near moremi.

But you had no right to monitor her calls and be calling her friends. Now you are claiming she got pregnant ( it takes two). My advice to her is not to marry you. She should drop the baby for you and leave. As I don't think it can get better.


So someone like me that has never been to the club before and I see four friends to bodyguard me, I no go go. I will go and give my eye food. Yes i will drink Fanta. And will not dance but I've always wanted to know what the hype is all about that will not make someone sleep in his own house.

Pretty sure its not bias just an error. Her name and person can never be forgotten. If they can put Tuface and dangote- wetin dem go say do them.

Celebrating Lagos is the celebration of everyone who has done good in and for Lagos.

Even the write up no follow logic

Seems creating conflict is selling market for nairaland.

Is that the Sun newspaper or ThisDay.



Hmmmm...

Alleged rumored suspected. How to avoid a lawsuit 101.

People will just sit near computer and be forming story and be attaching pictures anyhow.

So lol.
Inspiration.

I have decades of experience in spending money.

I am more concerned with the person that prepared your payslip. How salary go be N1m and PAYE go be 90k. How e go lump all money into N1m.

Transparency is the only cure for corruption.

Ah plenty times. If you sleep you go dream now. You go reach plenty places where you never go before.

Ah plenty plenty astral projectings.
But now because of nairaland, na snake I just de see.

Astral projection- you are either imagining places or you are high or weed.

Looks like an organized meeting.

Always on the brink. For the past 50 years.
Just get on with it.

Cos with nuclear, no one wins, everyone loses.

All I can say is

" Bro Reno , please who broke your heart"

All this for bae?

Who is bae?

I remember Obasanjo furnished some federal hospitals in his day. Those for the North (kidney dialysis machines) were kept like museum. Probably waiting till an Hausa man graduates to take over that unit.

I went to Luth recently and Luth that used to be filled to the brim with all forms of doctors treating patients even while standing but now Luth is a shadow of itself. The halls are empty, they claim no bed space, reports of someone dying in the car park. (some claim no minister to monitor them)

I remember what Fashola did to the state clinics , the provision of ambulances (emergency services) and training of doctors and nurses. Etc. Yet this clinics still get some issues.

Really I don't know who or what is doing us. Can the national hospital abuja not treat the president. What do we lack specifically.

It really is pathetic seeing people malign each other in the fashion we do online. Attacking people's persons, their religion, tribe or nationality reeks of immaturity and cowardice.

You hide behind your anonymity and peddle lies or twist information to suit your purposes.

As you have the freedom of expression. Remember that others too have the right to Dignity.

I was expecting a debate on the death penalty, what constitutes blasphemy or acts of apostacy, unwillingness to abide by a country's laws. But all we end up with tribalism, name calling (limited intellect edition)




In a bid to do unto others as we want to be done unto:
Its time for all crime topics to include the religion and tribe of the perps.

I'm not sure if we are against the death penalty, the crime or the Saudis based on all the posts.

There are Christians, Jews etc in Arabia living peacefully and quietly. The main executions by Saudis are of foreigners who have committed murder or trafficked drugs. Most blasphemy cases serve out their term in prison.

Some say Africans are been stigmatized in Arabia, Africans are been stigmatized all over the world for stealing, drug trafficking, prostituting, begging and generally being nuisances.

Fact: Islam has from the onset abolished slavery and put all mankind on equal footing whether black white red poor rich. (Muhammad Ali). We all bow together to worship God.

Thou shall not call the Lord's name in vain. Is that blasphemy? Here is a country that enforces religious rules why can't sensible people abide by it.

Nairaland no remember say today na Workers Day.

Shout out to all the workers Dem.

Shout down to all the companies wey no gree workers rest today and yet Dem no pay them.

I had to read on TMAU and can assure you. You are not alone. Unfortunately stress makes it worse.

Do your best, avoid foods that make it worse, see a doctor, use perfumed soaps and deodorant. Natural foods and fruits. Cloves ginger.

You also need to see a psychologist as nobody can smell you from outside your car with your AC. That's just paranoia.

Many of us get wetin we de hide for under wrapper, but seeking help from qualified people is half the success.
Stop stressing, be thankful for all the people in your life and in truth they can't all be lying.

Men have family planning methods too. Why must a woman take risks with her life after giving birth for you.

No blame yourself o. Continue de blame the woman. If she abort now they will say she was pregnant for a younger boyfriend.

Later he will say the kids made him poor.

There are no stats attached to these colourful drawings.

Please include nations with:
1. Highest rates of drug use, sales and production.
2. Highest rate of pornography nudity prostitution.
3. Highest rates of gun deaths, including serial killings and children deaths from guns and molesters, school rampages. Gang wars
4. Highest production of nuclear weapons , guns artillery. Where are these weapons and who do they sell them to.


For African countries that have no confirmed statistics its funny to see that they have higher rape cases than the US.

Someone is deceiving someone with this statistics. Define women physical security?

Maybe its best our 'Leaders' just keep quiet.

No one has the right to refuse declaring their assets. They must be compelled to do so. It is not for their benefit , it is for our benefit.

You cannot just be corruption free, you must be seen as corruption free.

Lol wahala.

All we want is peace. Peace from tribalism, religious bigotry, the killings , the insults, the fighting over land and money etc.


Lets just have PEACE.