₦airaland Forum

Illuminatiship:
Don't be in a hurry to amputate the leg I have seen something like this before where the man involved later walked..

Bruno531:
What of those who haven't done there physical verification and yet to redeploy. Any hope for them

Franklerry:
Thank your star, me wet dry earn 10k

lifenija:
ungrateful is wat u are, teacher dey earn 15k monthly u dey form biggy, cold war ko avengers civil war ni

whytediamond:
Your mindset bro.

Work on it.

I was in a similar scenario November 2014. Sacked from a 60k monthly outsourced bank job.

I didn't start business with any form of capital. Not even a dime.

Today, I pay myself 300k minimum monthly.

I am my own Boss. I intend to triple my income starting from December.

I changed my mindset. You too can.

c0de007:
Hi,

Thank you for making out time to view my thread. I'm hoping I can get an advice from you.

I'm a 26 Years. I work in a company that pays me 85K NGN monthly.

The salary isn't paying my bills in any way, the company isn't productive, I feel stuck and limited each time I go to work. Also, the environment is toxic with gossips, cold wars, etc.

I've been applying for jobs elsewhere but I keep getting rejected. I've adjusted my CV several times but still the same.

I'm considering resigning even though I don't have another job offer yet but I fear my debts. I have some side hustles I use to support my monthly earnings but I fear it may not be enough to pay my debts monthly and fend for myself, siblings, and family generally.

The whole thing is making me lack motivation but I still try to be up for my family.

I want to travel out of the country and search for better opportunities but my resources are limited at the moment.

I have some skillsets, I'm considering venturing into entrepreneurship but I don't have the required capital to get started

I don't know what to do.

Kindly advise me on what to do. I'd appreciate it.

LaSenior:


So people go still chop this thing

I hate snake and I do justice to it anywhere I see it

Dangerous creeping thing

UyaiIncomparabl:
God can do a miracle.

younglleo:
Chelsa go do 2.5 but not sure bout 3.5

UyaiIncomparabl:
Chelsea, over 3.5, please. My 5000N is at stake.

isioma010:
Thinking about Buhari matter alone can cause a lot of depression to someone life

ruggedtimi:
Civil engineering, architecture and interior decor very lucrative. My friend that is into interior decor. I was with him last week and I notice his acct balance while he was making a transfer. The balance was 8m last week wed. Today Monday I saw 18m. Funds meant for projects and definitely he will get like 1m extra for his personal use because na hausa boy with Igbo sense. He is handling like 4 separate projects in pH and one in Owerri. About 5 in Abuja. He has done jobs for garba shehu, buhari's aide. Omo me wey read petroleum nothing to show for...last last skill is the ultimate

SensualMan1:
Fiction! You must be a good writer. Your motivational books should be a best seller to some lazy azz MFr's. Trash the idea of hating cos some of us earn a whole damn lot but we don't come to a site like NL to show off.

potbelly:
If Pep was manager, I can bet that Maguire, Linderlof,McFred no go smell 1st 11...

adioolayi:
Don't even try to bring that....the club with the biggest fan base in Nigeria is Real Madrid...massive support in every state of the North.

I am a Yoruba boy, before you start thinking I am from the North.

So, El-Classico , even in Nigeria , if I am to go by your statement...today, will command more viewership than any EPL match. It's a fact

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

Idamond:
Please Help Nairalanders



Have been putting on nose mask before going out now.

lalasticlala

SilvanusII:
It makes sense after all. If the state governors don't have a say on who becomes their commissioners and stuff, why does the state have to pay the compensation? In my opinion, Lagos state is paying guilt money

brainpulse:
After one year, Lekki lies, no masaka, mascara, masala, Massac or massacre.

PDP NBA brothers of Peter Obi tu lie

Tomahawk99:
So a screenshot of a comment on nairaland is what you present as evidence?
Sad thing is a irredeemable fool like you will likely have children and continue a lineage of fools. You should be castrated.

Tomahawk99:
So a screenshot of a comment on nairaland is what you present as evidence?
Sad thing is a irredeemable fool like you will likely have children and continue a lineage of fools. You should be castrated.