Odabo123:



He made the decision. I just don’t agree

MEANING YOU ALREADY KNOW THE PROBLEM?

Odabo123:
I am posting this for advice. I met the man of my dreams in Aug 2018. He is from Nigeria, he had only lived in America for 5 months when I met him. I am an American citizen but not by birth I am originally from the Caribbean. I don’t know Nigerian customs other than what he has taught me. We are both currently enrolled in university obtaining our professional degrees he is in finance sector I am in medical field. He is 34 and I am 32 neither of us are previously married or have children. It has been a wonderful romance but we have had our hiccups along the way as most couples do. My family fear he is not genuine but I do not feel this way. He has had some women as friends that I did not approve of. Nonetheless we are working through that. I have met his brother and spoken to his sisters and nieces. I love his family. They remind me of my own very solid and loving. He has only met my sister but agrees that my family seems like his. Both of our parents have been married over 50 years. The have no outside children neither of us were raised that way. We both come from Christian households and attend church together when we are not working. A month ago after we had been dating 7 months I asked him a hypothetical question. “if I could not get pregnant would this be a deal breaker?” His answer was yes it would be and further to this he informed that he would either file for divorce or get a woman outside of our marriage pregnant because kids are mandatory for him. This surprised me, I am high risk for pregnancy (he was told from the start) the plan was I would plan with my doctor and get off any medications that might hurt the baby, this did not mean I cannot get pregnant we may just need to try longer, or it might be complicated, but as with all women there is never a guarantee. I asked him for assurance that he would not step outside our relationship, if we had this issue and I would in return assure him that we would try to have as many children as he wanted. He could not give me this assurance . I asked him to let us try to get pregnant now so we could know and If I got pregnant we could get married he says he cannot get me pregnant outside of marriage.
Now he wants to end the relationship.
Is this how any Nigerian man would react or is it more likely that he is looking for an excuse to move on?

I THINK THE PROBLEM IS CLEAR, YOU ARE PUSHING HIM TOO FAST WITH YOUR DECISIONS, FIRST HE IS A MAN, ALLOW HE TO MAKE THE CHOICE, THEN YOU CHOSE FRIM IT.

sherylbakky:
You have to understand that we value children so much in African marriage ma'am.

To answer your question ; Not all Nigerian men will act that way but the truth is, majority will act like that.

My opinion ; Dont try getting married to him since you have issue. Look for a man that would understand your situation and who will love you for who you are.

Stay cool.

I THINK THE PROBLEM IS CLEAR, YOU ARE PUSHING HIM TOO FAST WITH YOUR DECISIONS,
FIRST HE IS A MAN ALLOW HE TO MAKE THE CHOICE, THEN YOU CHOSE FROM IT.

Texman21:
me i even thought is the normal meat pie that they use to sell

I SWEAR

adaksbullet:
his that while u are haved too replyed me 4 time?

THERE WAS TYPING ERROR IN MY FIRST THREE (3) REPLIED. SO I TRIED TO CORRECT THEM.

adaksbullet:
Am just alway thanked mine god mine father that am haved small williwilli


Their his no different if am on eretion or flasid

. OH BOY, MY OWN MR THOMAS, NA DIE, I HAVE TO CHANNEL MY THOUGHT TO SOMETHING ELSE, LIKE SAD EVENT, IT WILL GO DOWN NATURAL LY, BECAUSE THAT THING TOO BIG, I PRAY IT SHOULD NOT DISGRACE ME IN PUBLIC ONE DAY.

adaksbullet:
Am just alway thanked mine god mine father that am haved small williwilli


Their his no different if am on eretion or flasid

. OH BOY, MY OWN MR THOMAS, NA DIE, I HAVE TO CHANNEL MY THOUGHT TO SOMETHING ELSE, LIKE SAD EVENT, IT WILL GO DOWN NATURAL LY, BECAUSE THAT THING TOO BIG, I PRAY IT SHOULD NOT DISGRACE ME IN PUBLIC ONE.

adaksbullet:
Am just alway thanked mine god mine father that am haved small williwilli


Their his no different if am on eretion or flasid

. OH BOY, MY OWN MR THOMAS, NA DIE, I HAVE TO CHANNEL MY THOUGHT TO SOMETHING ELSE, LIKE SAD EVENT, IT WILL GO DOWN NATURAL LY, BECAUSE THAT THING TOO BIG, I PRAY IT SHOULD DISGRACE ME IN PUBLIC ONE.

adaksbullet:
Am just alway thanked mine god mine father that am haved small williwilli


Their his no different if am on eretion or flasid

. OH BOY, MY OWN MR THOMAS, NA DIE, I HAVE TO CHANNEL MY THOUGHT TO SOMETHING ELSE, LIKE SAD EVENT, IT WILL GO DOWN NATURAL LY, BECAUSE THAT TOO BIG, I PRAY IT SHOULD DISGRACE ME IN PUBLIC ONE.

God help us from our enemies

After training and subsequent posting to an unconducive environment as a P.O before the postponement of the election this is what INEC as me to come and collect allowance. #4000. Pls someone should tell me what is happening.

dallex10:
In a school, they are 180 students in 100 level. 110 students offer courses in Aerospace engineering, 88 offers courses in cyber security and 65 offer courses in ICT. If 40 students offer courses in both aerospace engineering and cyber security, 38 offer courses in cyber security only. Find the number of students who offer:



A. All the three courses



B. ICT only



C. None of the 3 courses



D. At least one course



E. Either one or two of the three courses



Represent it with a Venn diagram



My able mathematicians, help a brother.

5k at stake before 4PM

My answer after trying D question, although I am not a mathematical.

A) 102

B) -8

C)10

D)70

E)8

I did nt watch what happen today, some pls summarize the event for me.

I did nt watch what.happen to, some pls summarize the event for me.

Oga, goan watch the video very well and understand what he meant. Yes he's rich, so what?? Can u work for God and still be poor? Yes can still work for and be poor, it depend on the purpose.

I THANK GOD THAT THEY WON, LET SEE HOW 2019 WILL UNFOLD, I AM EXPECTIND INCLUSIVE ELECTION OR A RE-RUN. IF YOU KNOW, YOU KNOW, IF YOU NO KNOW, YOU GO EVER KNOW.

Pls we need non biase and non partisan person to tell us the true situations of Ekiti State election. I mean a resident of that place. Thank you.

theEYe21:
No! A woman can’t do without a man socially, economically, spiritually and financially. Am I missing something?

No! A woman can’t do without a man socially, economically, spiritually and financially. Am I missing something? Yes, you are missing me.

NA WA OH

I thought she said the attorney general of the federation should be asked to extract her back to Nigeria? But refused.

Does that stand as a chance?

HELLO EVERYONE, I WANT TO KNOW THE MEANING OF THIS ENCOUNTER WITH MINE FRIEND WITH AN INSANE MAN. I AND MY FRIEND WERE DISCUSSING WHEN A YOUNG MAN INTERRUPTED US, WITHOUT ANY SIDE DISTRACTION HE FOCUSED ON MY FRIEND AS IF HE KNEW HIM BEFORE AND AS HIM TO ACCOMPANIED HIM TO FIRST BANK TO MAKE SOME WITHDRAWAL BUT MY FRIEND IMMEDIATELY REFUSED TO ACCOMPANIED HIM DUE TO SECURITY REASONS. AS WE WERE TALKING A NEIGHBOUR WAS PASSING BY, WE ASKED THE NEIGHBOUR IF HE KNEW THE YOUNG MAN? HE SAID YES, THAT THE YOUNG MAN WAS A MAD MAN LIVING CLOSE TO US. YOU CAN NOT TELL IF HE IS A MAD MAN ON THAT FATEFUL DAY BECAUSE HE WAS WELL DRESSED, EXCEPT FOR HIS DIRTY LOOKING FEET, ON A SHOES. PLEASE I KNOW THIS MEANS SOMETHING WHAT DOES IT MEAN, SINCE MY FRIEND DID NOT ACCOMPANIED, BECAUSE HE WAS UNKNOWN TO HIM. THANK YOU.

[quote author=Osuman post=64292506][/quote] pls, I need good reply for this post, not just viewing without commenting.

Johnpaul01:
Your first just morata(ed) his only opportunity to escape everlasting poverty

thanks but I don't get you.

Hello

CAN SOMEONE PLEASE ASSIST ME IN PUSHING THIS TOPIC TO THE MAIN FORUM, FOR FRONT PAGE THING AND MORE COMMENTS. THANK YOU.

[quote author=jdluv post=64292278]He should have gone at least with company of friends for security but madmen sees things he must have seen something that might benefit your friend[/quote. Thanks, for sure the young man was a mad man, I just want to know the meaning of a mad man asking someone to followed him to the bank, and since he refused to followed him what dose that mean again.

Hello, .

u.

At last he had made history.

HAHA, 2019 IS COMING EVERYBODY WANT TO EXPOSE JONATHAN, EVEN ME TOO I WILL EXPOSE JONATHAN VERY SOON. APC ARE AFRAID OF JONATHAN,

A gud one for naija, but come 2019 we will vote APC out.