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RomanceRe: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by ourchoice(m): 6:46am On Apr 19, 2016
SapeleWater:
Ha! God sef no go forgive me if I forgive her.
My brother I tell u o....imagine a girl who isn't my sister, not my mother, didn't contribute a dime to making me who I am now threatening to poison me, ah ah....she will spend the rest of her broke ass in jail! angry

I won't even take it lightly, I will ensure she writes an undertaken that will cover my life from even mosquito bite.

The guy should also be watchful cos this type of ladies are also diabolical; they can go diabolical.

I don't think I can forgive anybody who threatens to kill me or who tries to kill me....its a no-go area for me.

What is she contributing to the man's life aside ordinary sex which the man can get in quantum number from younger, hotter, prettier, sensible ladieshuh

I pity men spending so much to get sex, they are half-mad angry

Sex is cheap nowadays! Don't spend much on any girl that isn't your wife no matter how rich u are cos she will definitely have another useless younger guy somewhere she will be using your hard-earned money to train and sponsor while u go around forming Mr Lover, nonsense, I don't blame this lady and her type, I blame some useless men who spend fortune to please their broke ass anyway cry
RomanceRe: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by ourchoice(m): 6:36am On Apr 19, 2016
This kind of girl(s) are the main patronize(rs) of Babalawo,Dibia,juju,jazz and love spell.

Forgive everything but don't play with your life.

Many ladies poison their spouse, it's happening everyday....so the man in question shouldn't even think of forgiving her at all...he should be writing a long petition to commissioner of police to invite the girl to sign an undertaken because she can hire assassins to kill the guy.


People talking about love here are joking; every woman loves a financially loaded man na...and any financially loaded man that thinks a lady he met when he's financially made loves him must be a mad man!

She's there for your money...if she was rich or from rich family, then u can assume that maybe she loves u but since she's broke, u are the one paying her rent and helping her financially....that shows she dating u just because of the money and financial help she's getting from u.

If u are a guy reading this, pls listen: if u are financially okay or rich and u don't have a girlfriend that stayed with u & showed u love right from when u were broke, pls forget about love....no girl will love u truly....all of them are forming l love u becos of your little or big money, just forget love and assume that u are buying company or companion, don't ever believe she loves u cos she doesn't except she is rich herself or from very rich family, if not, she is after your money!

Don't dare listen to those usual ladies' crap words of: girls are not the same, they are all the same when it comes to loving a man for money, guys open your eyes wide!!
BusinessRe: Is N500,000 Enough To Start A Small Scale Restaurant? by ourchoice(m): 10:18am On Apr 18, 2016
darmochy1:
Hello fellow nairalanders,

I'm currently working on starting a restaurant in Ibadan. I'm planning to start on a small scale before expanding it. The cash on ground right now is 500,000 naira.

I'll love to know if that amount is enough to start something reasonable. I'll love to learn from your wealth of knowledge in terms of the logistics involved amongst others.

Looking forward to your tips. Thanks.
More than enough; the most important thing is keeping it neat, and cooking tasty food
WebmastersRe: Top Ten(10) Ways To Increase Your Ctr by ourchoice(m): 7:13am On Apr 18, 2016
sapientia1:
Doesn't matter. People, especially Nigerians still do not visit sites that are not reputable.
Here is the problem wink
BusinessRe: How To Make At Least $350 Monthly With Youtube by ourchoice(op): 7:03am On Apr 18, 2016
ajsans:
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BusinessRe: 10 Hot Profitable Business Ideas You Can Start From Home With ₦20,000 by ourchoice(op): 2:57pm On Apr 17, 2016
chiefboomite204:
well done
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BusinessRe: In What Business Can I Invest #1,000,000 And Get A Profit Of #4,000 Daily? by ourchoice(m): 2:54pm On Apr 17, 2016
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RomanceRe: Lady Who Refused To Forgive Ex-boyfriend Till He Died 'cos Of Pride Shares Story by ourchoice(m): 2:24pm On Apr 17, 2016
esosa993:
that's nice you have a good heart, I want be like you
Its easy, just expect less from people generally....don't expect too much from people ; be it your boyfriend, sibling, relation, friends, colleagues or husband....and u will never be surprised or disappointed by anybody.
RomanceRe: Lady Who Refused To Forgive Ex-boyfriend Till He Died 'cos Of Pride Shares Story by ourchoice(m): 10:26am On Apr 17, 2016
esosa993:
one question is would you ever forgive your gf if she slept with your best friend
Yes I will forgive her but we won't be lovers again....to me, a woman cheating is no big deal because I have witnessed lots about women....I have seen women seen as wonderful ladies cheat on their wonderful boyfriends, fiancees and husbands with guys very close to me....so I can't be surprised to hear or catch a woman I am dating cheating.

The only thing I can find difficult to forgive is someone that attempts to kill me...every other thing is forgivable by me smiley
RomanceRe: Lady Who Refused To Forgive Ex-boyfriend Till He Died 'cos Of Pride Shares Story by ourchoice(m): 5:26pm On Apr 16, 2016
Ibiyomee:
There are sins you can never forgive even if you tell the person ' I forgive you'.
For God to forgive some of us our sins, it is because he is not human.
It is easy to forgive for some people but very hard to forget, so tell me what is the essence of FORGIVENESS when you cannot FORGET.
May God help us!
Women and their stone-hearts, if u check all the big big sin or offense ladies are carrying about against their men, it can't be more than: he cheated on me with my best friend, he cheated on me, nothing more....and it is too big for ladies to forgive, hmmm...but men will forgive a lady that eats their money and refuse to date or marry them to date one useless guy they feel is more handsome, yet men forgive, ladies really need to pray harder than just attending church service on sundays.

The only thing I can't forgive is someone that tries to take away my life, that will require God's grace for me to forgive/forget, aside that, I can forgive any other thing; though I will forgive a cheating wife, but we can't be spouse again.

So sis, learn to forgive o
RomanceRe: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by ourchoice(m): 8:37pm On Apr 14, 2016
ourchoice:
Op, with all due respect, all you typed are nonsense!!!

Below are some of the major reasons guys don't marry their girlfriends:

1. Financial delay - when it takes ages for a guy to meet up with his financial needs, his girlfriend will become older and can't wait anymore...at this point, he has no option than to free her to go for a younger girl while working hard to make it financially.

2. When a lady lacks respect - 99% or more of men hate a disrespectful lady!

3. If the girlfriend is so materialistic and demanding!

4. If the girlfriend is idle, unemployed, not employable and doesn't have a skill, only waiting for the guy to marry her and solve all her needs and that of her family; many guys will not marry a girl like this on clear eyes

5. If the girl rejects his faith/religion

6. Tribe

7. If the girl lack manners, don't do domestic chores, complains a lot and nag always - no reasonable man with his head straight will marry such a girl

8. Financial lack - many guys can't marry a girl that has no job, not from a financially buoyant/okay family, don't have a business or skill....so no matter how good the girl maybe, many guys today won't marry her even after dating her for ages, sadly cry

So ladies, try and work to have a means of earning money and be financially productive no matter how small...many guys now don't want to marry an unemployed or broke lady
RomanceRe: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by ourchoice(m): 8:26pm On Apr 14, 2016
Op, with all due respect, all you typed are nonsense!!!

Below are some of the major reasons guys don't marry their girlfriends:

1. Financial delay - when it takes ages for a guy to meet up with his financial needs, his girlfriend will become older and can't wait anymore...at this point, he has no option than to free her to go for a younger girl while working hard to make it financially.

2. When a lady lacks respect - 99% or more of men hate a disrespectful lady!

3. If the girlfriend is so materialistic and demanding!

4. If the girlfriend is idle, unemployed, not employable and doesn't have a skill, only waiting for the guy to marry her and solve all her needs and that of her family; many guys will not marry a girl like this on clear eyes

5. If the girl rejects his faith/religion

6. Tribe

7. If the girl lack manners, don't do domestic chores, complains a lot and nag always - no reasonable man with his head straight will marry such a girl

8. Financial lack - many guys can't marry a girl that has no job, not from a financially buoyant/okay family, don't have a business or skill....so no matter how good the girl maybe, many guys today won't marry her even after dating her for ages, sadly cry

So ladies, try and work to have a means of earning money and be financially productive no matter how small...many guys now don't want to marry an unemployed or broke lady
CrimeRe: Man's Phone Snatched Infront Of A Bank In Gbagada by ourchoice(m): 3:08pm On Apr 14, 2016
Hmmm
RomanceRe: 10 Signs A Lady Will Definitely Become A Runs Girl by ourchoice(m): 10:24pm On Apr 13, 2016
kennygee:
That multiple piercing part is a Big Fat Ugly Lie.

You want to tell me majority of runs girls have multiple piercings?

In the north where I'm from, its very common to see ladies with multiple piercings and it has nothing to do with being a runs girl.

That's how y'all will be stereotyping anyhow.

I have multiple piercings in my ear and I don't mean to blow my trumpet but I'm one of the most decent women you'll ever find.

Enough of all these bull crap about women with multiple piercings pls.
My sister, life generally is based on generalization/stereotype....people judge you first from your looks even before you say a word....so always do your best to look decent it is better for you than looking suspicious and claiming that u are good inside....not everybody have time to come close to you to know if you are good inside or not...they will just pass judgment on you and kill you self before u defend yourself.

For instance, if there is a crime in an environment, and the Police arrive the crime scene, believe it or not, Police will first arrest any guy with dreadlocks and putting on tattoo before they take a glance at a guy on low cut with no tattoo even though the guy on tattoo may be innocent while the other is guilty...but that's life.

We judge people first by their physical appearance before we even hear them talk.

Many ladies have lost their true love and husband because of how they look and dress....putting on tattoo.....piercing their ears in multiple places, putting on belly ring, nose ring, etc...these things make a lady look wayward to the whole world...take it or leave it...they aren't good for you as a lady....if you are pretty, you don't need to pierce your nose and wear nose ring, leg chain, tattoo and multiple earrings for a guy to notice you....


No mother will be happy if his son brings a girl putting on tattoo....multiple earring, nose ring and leg chain home as wife to be...the mother will surely advice the son not to marry the girl.

And all guys, including celebrities u think love those things won't marry a girl wearing nose ring, etc....they will go for the decent looking girls...those bad and cunning guys will only hail you...call you fine girl, hot chick, sweetest girl, classy babe, babe weh know wasup, etc just to fool u and take advantage of u....when they are ready to marry, they go searching for those reserved girls who don't put on leg chain, nose ring, belly ring, tattoo, etc....check well.

It is more honorable for a lady to dress moderate and decent than to overdo things by copying culture she doesn't really know the implication.

Tattoo
Leg chain
Belly ring
Nose ring


are big turn offs to 99% of men all over the world....I mean real men, not men looking for sex and one night stand, go and figure it out
RomanceRe: 10 Signs A Lady Will Definitely Become A Runs Girl by ourchoice(m): 10:15pm On Apr 13, 2016
ireneony:
11.she attend all big parties in town even when she is not invited.

12.she demand money from men in exchange for nude pic.

13. She snap pics in different exotic places like hotels, nite club, e.t.c

14.she travel long distance to meet men even if it cost risking her life.

15. She is quick to post pics/videos of celebrities she has slept with e.g the scandal between davido and faith_nketsi.cheesy

16.she want to belong, like having the latest designers bag, clothes. ..; she is usually very broke but don't mind spending her last dime to get them.

17. She gate crash celebrities gathering e.g toke mokiwagrin

18.she twerk on instagram; these sets are usually called instagram models e.g amber rose and co.

19. She is a lover of tattoos; dont get me wrong i'm not trying to badmouth ladies with tattoos, we live in a society were tattoos are termed rugged. ...it's even more hard for a lady..so this automatically means the lady is starting to be a runs girl

20.she stalk guys; these sets are found here on nairaland. She become so obsessed with her crush ...she go as far as sending pms, quoting, create thread for tongue him e.t.c nairaland guys beware.

Though I'm a lady I got to say the truth check my siggycheesy
You and the original poster are correct. Someone said multiple ear piercing doesn't mean a girl is bad...yes she maybe right but why pierce your eye twice?

This life is based on stereotype and generalization.....

Tattoo is number sign! Bleaching too is.....in fact you guys did a good job smiley
PoliticsRe: Abandoned OJUKWU Aircraft Seized By Nigerian Government Since 1969 by ourchoice(m): 12:03pm On Apr 13, 2016
habib55:
Oga ur post makes no sense,equating ur father s opinion with history....bros history is always right and it tells a different story 4rm d cabbage u posted above.Ojukwa ran away to ivory coast 2 escape being beaten 2 death(wot happened 2 gadafi comes 2 mind).history did not tell us dat ur father or oda top rebel officer beged Ojukwa 2 run.
If u followed the Libyan crises, some countries also offered Gadaffi asylum, he refused...they did same for Sadam, he refused and got killed yes...Nigeria offered to Charles Taylor, he accepted and later got arrested and transferred to ICC Hague by OBJ where he is serving jail term....so same with Ojukwu, he never ran away, he was coerced to leave for peace to reign...Biafra wasn't conquered entirely, Biafra surrendered, reason the civil war was declared: NO VICTOR, NO VANQUISH, read your history well my brother, stop arguing based on hatred and tribal sentiment, be objective in your argument and cite facts and figuressmiley
PoliticsRe: Abandoned OJUKWU Aircraft Seized By Nigerian Government Since 1969 by ourchoice(m): 11:53am On Apr 13, 2016
AntiWailer:
---and he did flee to Ivory coast. Isnt it ?

My father is not a soldier but i have read different account of Biafran War. including Ojukwu's "Because I am involved", read about all the operations by the Nigerian Force from start to "Operation Tail End". I have read "Biafra Civil War" by Tom Cooper

So spare me the single account you rely on.
Yes Ivory Coast offered him asylum as a peacekeeping deal mission...and Ivorian officials, Gabonese officials and Biafran top officers and women begged Ojukwu to accept the offer to leave Biafra and go to Ivory Coast for peace to reign, so my point is: stop painting it like Ojukwu just woke up one day and decided to abandon Biafrans out of fear and flee....Ojukwu right from secondary school was a fearless man!

He once slapped a white headmaster of his secondary school during colonial era simply because the whiteman flogged a female student on the buttocks.

Ojukwu hated white people, wanted to chair the liberation of black race from dependence on whiteman's technology. He started it, Biafra developed so many great technologies that were abandoned to die by Nigerian government out of tribal hatred for Igbos cos they don't Igbos to take credit of being the ones that liberated black man from technology backwardness. Black man is cursed, take it or leave it, there's a video I will send to u and after watching it, u will weep for black race cry

He is a born freedom fighter just like Nnamdi Kanu. People like him in the southwest are - Fela and Wole Soyinka
PoliticsRe: Abandoned OJUKWU Aircraft Seized By Nigerian Government Since 1969 by ourchoice(m): 11:44am On Apr 13, 2016
Dahkogrin007:
See talk ooo... Ojukwu never ran away but he sha left d country
if u want to know the truth about the Biafra-Nigeria civil war, don't read war history books written by an Igbo, Hausa, Yoruba, Calabar, Ijaw, etc, read the ones written by neutral foreign journalists and war historians.

I don't want to recommend any for u, go to ibook store, Barnes, scribb or google online. After reading any Nigeria/Biafra civil war book written by a foreign historian or journalist, u will start to respect the Igbo people.

Biafra surprised the world! They broke world record, don't ask me how, but plz find foreign books and read smiley
PoliticsRe: Abandoned OJUKWU Aircraft Seized By Nigerian Government Since 1969 by ourchoice(m): 11:39am On Apr 13, 2016
mykl01:
Fulani's coming with their cattle to live in Lagos grin grin grin grin
Kai this baba, you no go kill me o!
it's not funny my brother, the problem with youths of our generation is we trivialize everything till it hits us hard.

Syrians never believed they would fight a 6yr deadly civil war....Nigeria is not quarter developed like Syria.

If u study the trend of things currently, Fulani herdsmen if not stopped now, may fuel a very complex civil war or civil unrest in Nigeria.

Nigeria is gradually heating up....Nigeria is also becoming more divided along ethnic and religious lines. These are the things that caused the Rwandan genocide...if u think a whole tribe will sit and watch themselves being humiliated and killed in cold blood, then u are kidding and don't know history.

What causes war are the things currently happening in Nigeria now. No matter how educated u are, sometimes only war can bring peace and respect among people
PoliticsRe: Abandoned OJUKWU Aircraft Seized By Nigerian Government Since 1969 by ourchoice(m):
AntiWailer:
Don't mind IPODs.


They scream as if Ojukwu fought until the 'earth' swallowed him alive.

Meanwhile , he left the hungry Biafrans behind, dressed like a woman to evade arrest and ran to Ivory Coast at the border before he was pardoned.
Ojukwu never ran away, stop talking about what u don't know. My father was among the top officers with Ojukwu then....Ojukwu was begged to leave by other Biafran soldiers to allow Philip Efiong surrender Biafra because Britain, Egypt and Russian support for Nigeria became too much and Biafra had little or no support and couldn't hold the war anymore as there were food shortage (after Awolowo war policy), military arm shortage and British/Russian/Egyptian organized air raids was becoming so unbearable in Biafra....top officers had to plead with Ojukwu to leave and let Efiong surrender.

Ojukwu is a hero, Biafrans are heroes, if not for Britain, Russia and Egypt support to Nigerian side, Nigeria would have withdrew and allowed Biafra to secede, but Britain swore never to live and see one of their largest British colony (Nigeria) disintegrate just after 6yrs of independence.

So get your facts right...Danjuma, OBJ, Buhari, IBB, etc that fought the Biafran-Nigerian civil war know the truth, reason they are always scared of Igbos cos they know Igbos are very strong-willed people

OBJ was a commanding officer then that led Nigerian military batalion to attack Onitsha, OBJ escaped death but got badly wounded and was withdrawn back to Lagos...same with. Babangida, Muritala Mohammed, etc
PoliticsRe: Abandoned OJUKWU Aircraft Seized By Nigerian Government Since 1969 by ourchoice(m): 11:19am On Apr 13, 2016
Nigeria will fight another civil war, but this time, it's going to be very deadly and brutal, and it will be a complex civil war like the American Civil war....it won't be between Igbo and other Nigerian tribes, no....it will be complex: Igbo fighting for freedom, Middle Belt fighting for freedom, Niger Delta fighting for freedom, maybe Yorubas fighting for freedom (I doubt though), and maybe Hausa fighting to break free from Fulani, only time will time cry
PoliticsRe: Photo Of Army's Fuel Station In Minna by ourchoice(m): 4:08pm On Apr 11, 2016
OgbeifunErom:
IPOBS will still complain

It is not in Onitsha
ipad youths cheesy
PoliticsRe: Photo Of Army's Fuel Station In Minna by ourchoice(m): 4:03pm On Apr 11, 2016
Why start in the sparsely populated north first and not from Nigeria's commercial centre; Lagoshuh Hmm

Wasted resources because Fulani people prefer trekking with their cow to using vehicle cheesy and this is also a modern tech which is Haram in d north lipsrsealed
BusinessRe: 10 Hot Profitable Business Ideas You Can Start From Home With ₦20,000 by ourchoice(op): 11:23am On Apr 11, 2016
yusufadebayo02:
I will like that of hair dressing stuff, most especially the weaving stuff. Pls can u guide me how to go about it @op.
yusufadebayo83@gmail.com
If you are in Lagos....I will suggest you find a place to learn it first.....like Ikeja under bridge....or depending on your location....learn it first, then you can ask for the next step. It requires you know how to do it first, that's the first step to take Yusuf.
BusinessRe: Fmcg Distributorship by ourchoice(m): 8:00am On Apr 11, 2016
Belexy95:
Thanks greatly for the info, i ll check out for their website to get their phc address.
You are welcome
BusinessRe: Fmcg Distributorship by ourchoice(m): 10:22pm On Apr 10, 2016
Belexy95:
Please more responses will be highly appreciated.
With that amount, you can also be a sub of PZ Cussons products....visit a nearby PZ Cussons plant...if u are in Lagos...try to visit their Ilupeju or Isolo factory.
BusinessRe: Need Affordable Advert And Publicity Fo My Biz by ourchoice(m): 10:17pm On Apr 10, 2016
deepwaterdrill:
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PoliticsRe: Fulani Herdsmen Invade Falae’s Farm Again, Kill OPC Security Guard by ourchoice(m): 10:58pm On Apr 09, 2016
OPCNAIRALAND:
With such remarks people like you add to the myth that fulani is ruthless and invincible and must be feared. The attribites you wrote above is present in every tribe so stop highlithing it as a fulani owned attribute. The problem with Southerners is we have shackled our militias and defanged them...in fact YorubaGoverners were the ones who disempowered OPC because we want to be viewed as protectors of human rights and promoters of diversity. At every opportunity we act as champions and spokesperson for the constitutional rights of people who have no respect for other people's rights.

OPC's charter is simple...the defense of people of Oduduwa race and their land! Before our Governors took away their power and influence when you enter Mile 12 and shout O-P-C.......Hausas and Fulanis abandoned their wares and fall over each other looking for escape route. This is no brag, their ruthlessness got so deep that even Police don't show up when OPC is conducting operations. UNCHR had to get involved at one point because it was labeled acts of terror against humanity.

No Northern Governor or ACF has yet condemned these barbaric attacks by Fulani, because it is a militancy that shores up their demand for domination on the political landscape and accelerate their desperation to own parcels of privileged land in every region of Nigeria in the guise of grazing corridor.

Yoruba Elders and Governors need to take the shackle off OPC and allow them to repeat to Fulani what was done few years ago when OPC attacked and annihilated every living Fulani, man, woman, child, in a village in Kwara, and then to top it off, herded their cattle back through the forest and all the way to Ibadan as spoils.

So my brother, drop this fantasy and grandiose praise of Fulani prowess. They are no match for OPC in a face off.

Same thing our Governors did to OPC in West, Governors in East did to Bakassi boys.

Southerners should unleash their militias in same fashion Northerners have done theirs. Balance the assault and aggression and let's see if Fulani ever again think about crossing the river to South of Nigeria.

There is nothing as Fulani is ruthless, Fulani is revengeful, Fulani does not forget, Fulani will always look for revenge.....its all a myth, stop fanning it, unless you are planted here to spread fear of fulani with these propaganda!
Sincerely from my heart, I nod in agreement to all you have just written....well said. This is the solution....and mark my words, if the federal government refuses to address this issue of Fulani herdsmen invading Southern communities and killing armless villagers who refuse their cattle from grazing on their farms, I want to assure you that if it continues to occur in SouthEast, Bakassi will resurrect...something deadlier than Bakassi boys will be formed to fight Fulani herdsmen in southeast.

...Lastly, this Fulani herdsmen killings may bring another deadly civil war in Nigeria if not checked now.
FamilyRe: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by ourchoice(m): 10:51pm On Apr 09, 2016
Bookiemart01:
Please tell us how you came into conclusion that men were not created to mate only 1 woman till they die.

I think the problem with most Nigerian men is that you all have been raised with this wrong notion. It's only in Africa a man cheats on his wife and flaunts it in her face. As bad as the whites are, they respect thier partners. They don't cheat and show off with it.

What makes you think a woman can't decide to cheat on her husband? Why do you think nature created women to mate only 1 man till they die? kiss

So you think women don't sometimes look at men who are more handsome, hard working, richer, eloquent. ....than thier spouses? We only just decide not to cheat. We have self control.

You men throw caution to the wind in the name of "it's our nature to cheat".

If una push woman, woman go check and guess what, God created women to be crafty, a woman can cheat on you and you'll never know unless she wants to rub it on your face
Your question can best be answered by nature grin....and if women decides to become sexually wayward like men, then men will be even happier because it will be to their advantage and the world will be overpopulated in no less time.

Nature bestowed in women, the responsibility to keep the world sexually sane and averagely populated just as nature uses natural disasters, pestilence, war, epidemic, etc to control earth's population despite man's advancement in medicine, peacekeeping, human right, environmental protection, etc.

These things are beyond our human comprehension....we can't change some things....we can only live with it or die worrying ourselves....

As you grow up as a girl....naturally, you begin to develop breast, hips, etc and men start to admire you....make advances on you and as early as 10, most girls start to get boyfriend and even accept gifts and favors from the opposite sex while their male counterpart are neglected and only concentrate on their football and childsplay...the girl child already knows her sexuality...she already knows that brother Tunde likes her...she starts to feel like queen because she gets unnecessary attention and favor that her male age mates aren't getting....do the boys complain at those stagehuh NO! They accept their fate knowing is a stage in their life they have to pass through.

Now as years rolls by....the boys mature....they start to acquire the attributes the female gender admire - muscle, beard, expanded chest, material possession, money, popularity, academic wisdom, business success, smartness, etc, and ladies start to get attracted to them in numbers....their own time of life adventure begins while that of the girl child diminishes gradually....this thing is a natural course....

It is human's quest for equality that's making women to feel cheated....naturally, men are born polygamous...take it or leave it.

You mentioned white men....now let me tell you what you don't know.

White men are the same with black men in terms of polygamy and cheating...just that out of carelessness in the past decades, their forefathers made some laws out of sympathy to protect their daughters that makes them scared to cheat or practice polygamy in their country....fear of their law.


But once these white men step out of their country and enter a more liberal country with lesser law against cheating, etc....they become dogs.....watch all the white men in Nigeria....I speak because I once worked with them and was so close to top class white men working here in Nigeria...who have also worked in Africa for decades.....and guess whathuh

These white men have more than 1 wife; some have one in Nigeria, Ghana...SA, Senegal, etc.....coupled with their uncountable number of concubines plus the call girls they call at will when they need a new girl to have fun with.

So stop using white men as example of men that don't cheat....white men cheat more but fear of their law make them to pretend and hide it...and even travel outside their country to cheat.

I speak from personal encounter, not hearsay. smiley
BusinessRe: 10 Hot Profitable Business Ideas You Can Start From Home With ₦20,000 by ourchoice(op): 10:36pm On Apr 09, 2016
Ab025:
@op.....pls what's ur email add, I want to discuss with you on a business plan I have.

Thanks
frankywealth@outlook.com
FamilyRe: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by ourchoice(m): 7:45pm On Apr 09, 2016
Any man that tells you that he would forgive his wife if she cheats on him is a LIAR!!!

No Nigerian man can or will sincerely forgive a cheating wife!

Nigerian men can endure, forgive other things but when they catch you cheating, just go and pack your load yourself or if he still pretends to forgive, watch it!

Don't ask me if a woman should forgive a cheating husband, of course 90% or more than 90% of married men now are cheating and their wives sure know this (so it's left for the over 90% of Nigerian married women to walk away from their marriage now cos their husbands are cheating as we speak and they all know it)..its a natural curse on all men, mature/wiser women already know this and have accepted their fate, blame nature!

Men weren't created to be mating with one woman till they die, don't blame men, blame nature; that's the painful truth 21st century ladies abi women don't want to accept, but as they go into marriage, they realize how true it is that men are polygamous in nature cry

Mind u, your husband cheating on u doesn't mean he doesn't love u...a man will love/cherish his wife and still cheat cos to men, sex is a game of number while to women, sex goes with emotion...so b4 a woman cheats on her husband, she must have falling out of love with him, but not same with men.

You can argue it, but that's nature's making not me

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