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MADrator:
You lied here... I've met several girls that'd rather not have sex with a man if protection is involved. The fact is, they always have that line "so you feel like I have disease or something"? What annoys me most is that I usually end up doing it unprotected with them after wasting my expensive condom (N166 out of 3 pieces that sells for N500). Imagine if I have saved all that money, now I'd have used it to buy some skyrocketed food stuffs or probably have become a millionaire.

In as much as all the girls I've had unprotected sex with (apart from one of them) either advocated for it or were cool with it, I still don't allow my semèn get into their system. There is a reason why withdrawal method is classified as a birth control technique and it is usually effective to those who know how to use it.

Although in all I've said, I'm not trying to justify the guy's actions. He messed up big time and I wish curses do work so that he ends up feeling the pain he inflicted on the girl in multiple folds. Tho I believe that the girl shouldn't have spoken of it, cuz she should have allowed nature take it's full course.

My elder sister has been in her shoes before. Her's was for about 7-8yrs. The useless man forming Yankee and the best thing to happen to the world, was even married in the US but my sis didn't know. He took so much money from my mum on several occassions (my mum being a gullible woman wanted my sister's marriage with the fraud star to work by all means to the point that she started threatening my sister). All the money he fraudulently took from my mum, including the one he claimed he would use to help work a visa for me were in millions. By the way, my mum never told us that the fraudstar was taking money from her until the idiotic mofo disappointed my sister. He later wanted my sister to start having babies for him under my mum's roof and even though he was just only engaged to my sister. That was when my sister said she's had enough. The man was like well she can go if she likes, as for him, he can decide to impregnate any girl he sees in the streets of US.

My sister left him and is presently married (married last year at the age of 35 to a younger and more reasonable human being- 37 or 38 years of age- unlike the other foolish fraud star that is about 10 years older than her). As for the fraud star, news got to us that the idiotic imbecilè was arrested for raping a girl in his cab (he was a cab driver in the US before the rape case). What happened to him if not karma and I believe my sister didn't even need to swear for him before nature took its course.

Since I've seen such a thing happen to my sister, I've avoided such situations very well. I once dated this girl (back when I was so damn broke) that loved me so much and was willing to give up all her life savings for me. She loved me to the point that even after 2 years of breakup, she's still keeping in touch (don't know if the love was as a result of the marathon sex I gave her ). I knew that leading a girl on for several years and later dumping her could be very much painful so, throughout my relationship with her (for about 4 - 5 months) I didn't ask her for money and never took a dime from her (by the way, I don't take things, especially money, from women) even though she was managing her dad's business as at then and was seeing money. She was even the one that made me get so used to unprotected sex, to the point that I now can't have sex if protected. I broke up with her within just a few months into the relationship because I knew she was not just the woman for me and I couldn't play along just because of the sex I was getting from her.

Wowzer:
Ourchoice. All your assumptions on my post= False. Most Nigerians believe in cursing. If that is the way curses work, then I guess most Nigerians are walking around with curses.

Because most people have been used and dumped in different ways both male and female. And according to what I have read here, most Nairalanders would have cursed their offenders.

Most Nairalanders may be carrying curses from ex bf and gf they have used and dumped at one time or the other. And I'm sure they have also cursed their ex bf and gf as well just like the lady.

As for me...Cursing is disgusting. People who do that have diabolic tendencies.
The moment something is not going well for the other person they ascribe it to the curse, forgetting that sometimes things may not go well in their own life as well.

TonyeBarcanista:
Bros, with due respect to the guy, his excuse is lame. Perhaps he sees her as old and he needed a fresh meat. He kept talking of attraction and intimacy and not character and companionship.

Why do we marry? is it just for sex? What about character, loyalty, support, care and all? I see no wrong in breaking up with a partner with character issues or whatever, but betraying the emotional investment of a loyal and helpful girl is outright wickedness.



Though placing curse is absurd and invalid

sweetcocoa:
My friend keep quiet, is there ever a time you'll talk like someone with small sense? Ofcourse the aborted baby will hunt her too(if there's such a thing)but why should this guy be let loose?

All relationships must not lead to marriage but if you've been dating someone for six years, planning a future together, promising heaven and earth, then you must have seen that future in your head and it was what you wanted which made you stay, now, how do you explain how all of a sudden, no reason at all, you just no longer want that future? Just how is this possible? You do know what it means to genuinely love someone, right?

I excuse what I may consider stupidity on this girl's part and as I can't tell anyone how to be moral, but on every scale as regards love, this dude never loved this girl.

tanidabi:
Even without opening her mouth,this guy is cursed already.
Most Naija guys will do the same,after 4 abortions her fertility is compromised already and I bet ur 22yr old is a virgin
Girls pls watch your back,pls do,all this guy's u help financially rarely marry you except of cos u want to me the bread winner all d days of your life and that your pastor is a liar

Be wise please

Wowzer:
Reminds me of a lady who cursed me in all possible ways because we broke up. I didn't even say a word. Because I know it's back to sender. . Few months later she called and begged me, if she had offended me I should forgive her. I told her there was nothing on my mind against her and moreover I had moved on.

Few weeks later I received another call from her pleading for forgiveness. Had to ask her what was going on, That was when she opened up telling me how she saw me in her dream in a scary look pursuing her and wanting to knock off her teeth. More like she was fighting for her life.

She had the nightmare twice and she was worried ,waking up in fear, shaking and trembling I just laughed over it and told her that couldn't be me. She was like I attacked her spiritually. Was just laughing because it was strange to me being accused of such.

I hate people who curse and people with such tendencies disgust me. I can see plenty of them on Nairaland. Nigerians and their curses

Rather than cursing someone, Let things take its natural course. Because that curse might come back hunting you.

ourchoice:
Honestly, it's so sad and disheartening how Christian countries will overlook and even help non-Christian countries to bully and attack Christian countries.

Muslim countries can never do that!

Imagine if Christian countries unite, who born any other country in the world to challenge them

Imagine United States, Britain, France, Germany, Denmark, Belgium, Netherland, Canada, Scotland, Australia, Israel, etc uniting to fight any other country; it's gonna be a total defeat, but hell no...Christian countries keep preaching peace even when they know that peace can never prevail in the world.

I only pity Igbo and Niger Delta people still living comfortably in Kano, Katsina, Borno, Yobe, Taraba, Jigawa, Gombe, Adamawa and all those muslim-dominated norther states.

Our Igbo brothers have refused to learn from history; stop going to the core northern states to live permanently and comfortably. If u must live in the north, pls don't build any permanent structure there...rent and live like white people. invest your income in the south or outside Nigeria because Northern Nigeria is a devil's den.

High rate of illiteracy, poverty, unemployment, lack of creativity and the Islam doctrines made core northern Nigeria an unfavorable region for any Igbo or Niger Delta person to go and live comfortably.

Resist the urge to relocate to the north no matter how attractive the offer is...reject it! don't bring up your children in the north! If by any means work takes u to the north as an Igbo man, plz don't go with your family and don't ever build any house there, Igbos learn!!

An Israeli man can never build a house in Saudi Arabia no matter how rich he is!

Israelis learnt from history but we Igbos refuse to learn!

It's unfortunate that Igbos and Hausa/Fulanis are still answering one country, but since there's nothing Igbos can do for now about it, be patient and use your wisdom by avoiding to go live in the north.

Dangote doesn't own any house or company in Imo, Anambra, etc....Igbos pls learn!

Hausa/Fulanis have proven over the years that they don't like Igbos, Igbos do same and use your wisdom; avoid going to the north to live...so if any crises erupts which must definitely happen, Igbos won't be so wounded in the north like in the 1966 pogrom.

Remember what's happening now was exactly what happened in 1966; the moment Hausa/Fulani/Middle-Belt counter coup to murder the then Igbo born Nigeria's head of state, Gen. Aguiyi Ironsi succeeded, Middle-Belt/Hausa/Fulani led a heartbreaking genocide to wipe out all Igbos from the north which was called- the 1966 pogrom!

The Middle-Belt/Hausa/Fulani soldiers even joined them to kill Igbos, including Igbo soldiers at Lagos Dordan Barracks to pave way for the murder of Aguiyi Ironsi....Buhari, Muritala Mohammed, Abacha, IBB were all amongst the soldiers that slaughtered their fellow Igbo soldiers at night while they were asleep....they used knife, ropes, etc to avoid raising alarm that will alert other Igbo soldiers.

They did same in Kaduna....and then proceeded to joining the civilians to massacre all Igbos, including Igbo children, pregnant women, boys, girls and men living in the north and Middle Belt and Gowon did nothing as the head of state then, which made Ojukwu to declare for the sovereign state of Biafra to free Igbos/Niger Delta from Middle-Belt/Hausa/Fulani oppression, which led to the civil war.

Now Hausa/Fulanis want to replicate what happened in 1966....because to them, they have overthrown the Igbo-born president, former president Goodluck Jonathan and therefore it's time for them to cleanse Nigeria of Igbos and Niger Deltas like they did in 1966.

Buhari and northern political elites are wicked and evil, they are not happy with the south (Igbo and Niger Delta mostly) because they feel Goodluck intentionally allowed Boko Haram to destroy the north whereas it was them that used accusation and attack on Goodluck's effort to wipe out Boko Haram initially to frustrate Goodluck's war against Boko Haram.

Anyway, my joy is...Karma is real...lets watch and see.

Britain should please stay clear this time and let the strongest region win on their own, let's see how far, nonsense!

And to all Niger Deltans shouting we are not Igbo, we are not Igbo! In case u don't know, to Hausa/Fulani people, whether u are from Akwa Ibom, Delta State, Rivers State, Cross River State or Bayelsa State, to them, you are inyamiri....you are Igbo! You are Biafra!

They see Goodluck Jonathan as Igbo man, they see Tompolo, Asari Dokubo, Alison Diezani, Emefiele, etc as Igbos! There's nothing u can do about it!

And let me inform u Niger Deltans, you are safer with Igbos than with any other tribe in Nigeria; take it or leave it! Forget what some fools say online, to an average Igbo man, Rivers man na Igbo...Ijaw man na him brother...and as for your crude oil, seriously, Igbos don't care much about it and if at all u get Biafra together with Igbos, Biafra will not be like Nigeria...Biafra will be run as a United Regions with each region controlling their resourcse...and trust Igbos, they are too creative and resourceful to depend on crude oil.

So fear not, your crude oil belongs to u forever! Igbos just love u as their closest brother who they can trust their lives and properties with not because of your crude oil.

Remember too, Igbos have crude oil too...plus the ones yet to be explored in Imo (Nekede, FUTO side, etc), Igbos love and trust Niger Delta because they share similar religion, culture and even language

B2mario:
But Nigerians have forgotten that Biafrans won the war. And they are treating Biafrans as vanguished.

I hope Russians, Americans and British can see what has and still happening to Biafrans since 1970. And God will punish all the countries that helped Nigeria to conquer Biafra more especially the Christian countries, they put Biafrans into perpetual suffering and intimidation.

But God will help us, Amen.

kellyboo:
Can we discuss on watsapp...08102445996

oduastates:
Government does not create jobs.
Citizens do.
Just create an environment which will allow the creativity and knowledge of your citizens to shine.
You cannot make an entrepreneurs, inventors, manufacturers out of those who are not.
All government need to do is the the above, security,education( emphasis on technical education), health and infrastructure.
Yes, government spending can result in Job creation.
However those jobs are created in the process of tackling the problems above.

ourchoice:
Behind every successful woman are (not is) plenty more successful men helping her in exchange for some unmentionable things

Pity her main boyfriend or husband

To all guys reading: before you marry a successful lady, prepare to become more successful than her or write your obituary ahead

Mcowubaba:
My brother, I taya
...... I'm not that financially buoyant, but most girls I have come across are Brookes broker brokest, sometimes I ask my friends were the rich independent ladies are
Seriously most of the girls I have mingled with are not Independent financially...

tosyne2much:
Bros you nailed it... Many of them are fascinated by the imaginary movies they watch on Movie Magic.. Smh

bismarck:
Thank you my brother for these comments. You really understand the situation which most people, surprisingly tend to overlook.
In truth, only an independent Igbo country will bring total solution to repeated Fulani aggression on Igbo communities. Why do I hold this view? People come on-line and rant about how youths in affected areas are cowardly, how SE governors are docile (yes they are!), how security agencies are not helping, blahblahblah, but no one is asking questions about the very-biased structuring and attitude of national security forces, namely, in their dominance by Fulani elements themselves. In all cases where these atrocities are committed, any intelligent person should decipher a worrying pattern: movement during wee hours, of dangerously-armed Fulani herdsmen, police and military failing to nip these moves even when fed with intel reports, then the marauders unleash havoc, and if vigilante/youth try attempt to fight back, they are hounded, arrested, and at times, even killed by security personnel.
These are really trying times for the Igbo in Nigeria, and any true son or daughter of this great ethnicity must start to realize that their identity as a race is in real danger, should they remain in this useless Federation. If Igbos have their own country, what is happening now, will not even arise as their armed forces will be truly nationalistic in securing Enugu borderlands, and even launch raids to destroy militia bases in the North. Please, how can you expect Nigeria's security forces to protect the lives of Ndigbo when Fulani interests are what matters? This is a wake-up call to fight for the actualization of an independent Igbo country, so that in situations like this, they become trans-national conflict, which when garnished with appropriate diplomacy, can lead to imposition of economic and political sanctions on Usman Danfodio's people..

samsam2019:
you took all this time to put put this gibberish?



Ok I get it. Your people are the most successful in Nigeria? No wonder you leave your successful land to waste your prime years slaving in Yorubaland.



And the civil war rendered your people poor? Hahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahaha





You can lie to yourself but not people with common sense. How many of your people had money kn the bank then? I mean how big were banks then to stash your money to the point where you all starved to death?



Keep fooling yourself eh



The most successful tribe people that comes to Ibadan to sell gala or push drugs?



The most successful people that when I got to Ghana and visited their prison and they were so many in Ghanaian prison so much I had to drop money for them



Keep fooling yourself oo

ivyT:
lyk seriously,do u xpect us to all of this..

samsam2019:
Talking about hardworking and making money



In Nigeria of today, Yorubas still have more billionaires than igbos.


So you can't compare the money traders make to businessmen

LadyJul:
Hello landers... Over the years I've come to love igbo guys because of some unique features I've found in most of them. .. It's not like am being tribalistic or anything.. .but I just admire them a lot although am not really an igbo gal... .Most igbo guys are...
HANDSOME: most igbo guys are very handsome.. . It's like being handsome is just part of dem.. U hardly see an ugly igbo guy and dey have height too...

HARDWORKING: I rarely see a lazy igbo guy... Almost all igbo guys are very hard working... It's true dey love money a lot dats y u see dem hustle around 247 to make money...

GREAT COOKS: igbo guys can cook for Africa... U hardly see an igbo guy dat can't cook... most of dem don't like the idea of eating outside so dey prefer cooking their own food and dey love eating like mad.. . My igbo brothers can confirm dat

WISE: Nna igbo niggas get sense ooo... U can hardly dupe dem... dey have business ideas and dey use their wisdom to create more wealth.. . Dey hardly spend unnecessarily... Instead dey spend on wat will bring more money and other things will follow...

FAMILY ORIENTED: Dey value their family eh... they like being close to their love ones including their extended families... that's y most of dem always travel to their villa during the holidays... Dey don't joke with that..

I have many other reasons why I love igbo guys but am too lazy to continue typing... you're free to add yours.. . Haters are also welcome to contribute