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I like that idea working out on the job. Not only that you can tell the interviewer wether a man or woman to take the job and shove it. I plan to do that some time.

To:Omoge:

There is nothing wrong being a health professional. She was studying business at first. Because of low self esteem or what ever she decides to switch to health profession.  When I asked her about it she said every one she knows is in health profession. I was once interested in health profession but my work didn't pay off so I was like Bleep it.  Didn't want to have anything to do with it. I gave her two options. As you know there are many fish in the ocean. I told her to change her study from health profession to business or the relationship is over. She concluded that she will do business with emphasis on health but that if things didn't work out she will do health profession. The point is she didn't change her study, she was doing the same thing. She wanted to play a game, unfortunately, she was playing with the wrong person. So the relationship ended.

To:Beebop or what ever that mean:

Listen up, I hope you are ready to finish what you are about to start. So don't get me started stupid bitch.

If she is respectful, my plan comes first before her plan. She can secretly visit them but I am not going to be part of it. I got to go to work and deal with  stupid supervisors and customers. Peace out.

To Davidylan:
What do you mean by family clan? I don't really care about the ladies parents or relations because I plan to stay far away from them. Maybe only visit them once a year or something. Just take their daughter and run.

To:Davidylan:
The ladies relations may play a role. I will probably have her speak english when ever she is on the phone. In a way it doesn't matter what she chose to speak while on the phone or talking with her friends. But I am sure that her language with her people is a good point to consider. That may be a minus.I Speak and write very little spanish and I can sense when something is up.

To:Ruby:
You stated is ideal to marry from the same race, because? I need to know reasons. Like my parents always say marry your own people. Yes but why?

When I found the right lady. I will tell her that I don't like any of her friends, the ones I know and the ones I don't know.

Like they always say, all your bad deeds will come to haunt you some day. Enjoy.

She is not all that.

Living abroad is nice but you may get bad treatments from people that don't like you just for being you. Living in Africa feels like home but the environment and safety is not good in most places. So, there are good and bad. The choice is up to you. Let no one make that choice for you.

The older generation of African men living abroad, most of them used White women for personal gains and went home to marry, heartless thing to do?yes and no. To be able to answer that you have to weigh what White people did to them and their people. The new generation, most of them don't want to date or marry African ladies.


Here is the deal, not every Black guy that date or marry White ladies are unfaithful. Those that are unfaithful are maybe using the White lady for papers or something or maybe is just in their nature to engage in acts like that.

In my hood, most African guys are dating and thinking of marrying White ladies, European, Asians, Hispanics, etc. My conclusion to this trend is because most Black guys the younger ones want to explore a lady that’s different from them. Black ladies have the same color with them so they need something different. For the older Black guys, they want peace. They feel like most Black ladies are full of shit meaning wahala or you can say they got a lot of drama or if you still don’t get it you can say they got issues or got bitchy attitude. African ladies note, especially if you live abroad, if you want to attract an African guy, you need to have your shit together and act like a lady. Always keep it cool and don’t be a bitch. Otherwise the White ladies are here to take over every African guy living abroad. Don’t say I didn’t tell you. In that case if you still insist of marrying African, you have to take your ass back home to African to pick out a timid uncivilized guy and bring him here and tame him to be fit to take the challenge that awaits him abroad. If you are African lady and you are worried that White ladies are taking your African guys. No worry, actually you should worry, but not too much. There are a lot of qualified civilized African guys back home if they are not already taken. Is time to get your act together. So, just don't do it, do it fast.

For me, for African ladies, most of them are cool but I just can’t seem to find the right lady with all the expensive qualities. There was this African lady I met, she met all this qualities other than she wants to be a nurse, I told her that I am not interested in any one in the health profession, outlined the reasons for her. She thought I was joking, the relationship ended because she doesn’t seem to listen and take instructions. For Asians, I don’t feel them any more. Most of them are mean bitches. For Black American ladies, most of them got bitchy attitude that’s beyond my liking. European or European American ladies, I am not in the right mind of meeting a parent who might be a KKK[as I am writing this I have a 30 day eviction notice from a racist manager to get the Bleep out of the place am living, I told him to go to hell, that I am not going any where without a war], there is a chance of meeting such parents but I don’t want to risk it, so I live that option out. Some of their ladies are pretty but the load is much heavier than the benefit. Hispanic ladies, this is a hard one. I still think that African ladies are the most beautiful ladies in the world but some times Hispanic ladies make me wonder that. I hope you got the point. Some times I wonder what can an African lady give me that a Hispanic lady can’t. Not culture because is old fashioned. Not food, I don’t even eat African food anymore, never like it anyways. So I don’t know. If you are an African lady back home or maybe you live abroad give me a reason or reasons why African guys should marry African ladies. My parents emphasize marrying African ladies. But I don’t have any reason to do so when compared to Hispanic ladies. Because we are not of the same race doesn’t mean anything. I have had lady friends that are Hispanic and their parents especially their mom are just like African women. But I know that there are some racist Hispanic parents out there. That maybe a minus for them.

If I would pick between African lady and Hispanic lady, I would pick the one that got her shit together with all the expensive qualities.

Most Black ladies got bitchy attitude beyond anything. Who needs that?

Nothing is wrong with it just have to play it cool

I don't see anything wrong with it as long as you can deal with it

What’s Up Poster? I guess you deserve what you got. That’s what you get when you deal with bitches, they will trash and walk over you and not even remember your existence. More badly when she is older than you, she will kick your punk weak ass. As the guy, you need to let her know who the man is. If you play along with what ever she say or do, then she is the captain. Now you have learned your lessons, don’t even bother taking her back. First you need to realize that she dumped your punk weak ass for some one else, how insulting can that be especially if people you know knew about it. Some bitches are stronger than some men, that’s only if you let them.

Don’t revenge your anger toward ladies. There are good ladies and there are bitches. You just have to watch before you leap.

What's Up Poster:To the topic:Just be yourself what's yours will come back to you and what's not will not come regardless of what you do. Even if it do come back it will not last which is the same to say it didn't come back. But remember natural selection have some roles to play. I have noticed that good ladies that got their shit together get married quicker than ladies that flirt or sleep around. Most guys need a lady in the house not a flirt.

What's Up Poster? I think you are doing too much. You need to chill. If your so called husband or boyfriend I don't which one is which any more appreciates you, he will not complain. Believe it or not, if he do, he will be the one bringing in all the recipes. He may have a hidden agenda. These Nigerians you can never trust them. Have you seen his permanent resident card. Not to scare you, he may be using you. Also these Nigerian men can do anything to get their resident card, getting married is just a small thing compared to what they can do.

There are those that call upon God all the time but they are great sinners.

1]After she fall what happend inside the basement

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6VjIg1p9yDo&NR=1

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=agdfB1PF6c8

2] http://www.kgw.com/news-local/stories/kgw_053008_lifestyle_fall_viral_video.43ba4aec.html

Next time watch before you walk

If you think that the poster started this as a joke, you must be dumb.

Bad guy + good lady without faith= Divorce

To:Tngtech:

To be able to maintain the bad guy status, you want to limit asking or wanting something from her. Act like if she doesn't give in, you can find it some where else.

How To Be A Bad Guy In Any Relationship With Ladies 101

1] Know your self, don't take any shit from her, talk to her like a father to a kid
2] Tell her things she should be doing, if she wears something that doesn't match your taste, instruct her to go and change her dress
3] Don't answer her every questions, you may add why are you asking all this stupid questions
4] When you go to her place to pick her up for what ever, don't walk in to see her parents, stay outside and honk until she comes out, also let her open her own door, opening the door for her makes you look weak
5] Try to talk to a lot of ladies in her presence but without disrespecting her, that way she will be trying hard not to let those no good ladies take you away from her.
6] Don’t laugh at everything, you are not a clown
7] Burn money like paper once in a while and tell [not ask] her to pay the bills at times like movie theaters, restaurants, etc. If she says she doesn’t have money, tell her how could she do something stupid going out without any money
Etc:

Post More Ideas: Some Guys Will Need It:

I am guessing because they like drama. Is not because Hillary can not lead this country. She can maybe better or worse than the current president. Most people want this drama to continue, so that they can see another round of punches between Obama and Mccain. The race issue haven’t really come in to play. There are a lot of racists right now that are only voting for Obama not Clinton. Why, they would like to see a Black man go into the ring again for another punches. When every thing is set between Obama and Mccain, guess who this racists are going to vote for? Mccain off curse are you out of your mind.

The day this boring primary started thats when she should have called it quits, I don't know if she misunderstood that this was going to be a long fight with a lot of punches. Obama won Oregon primary yesterday. I was going to vote for him before just because he is my bro. if you know what I mean. Basically every good Black person is my bro. or sis. if you are Black and not a good person it doesn't apply. Then I began to think about it, I decided who ever is going to put money in my pocket is who I am going to vote for regardless of what ever. Obama and Clinton have failed to put money in my pocket. There is a saying think of what the society can do for you not what you can do for them. So the two candidates didn't give me any penny so I decided that it wasn't worth my time going out there to vote. Don't get it twisted, when this boring election started, I donated money to Obama on his site, my info. was sent to NAACP, which is another turn off, NAACP sent me info. requesting more money for their organization. This money is going out of my visa card instead of coming in. I have also invited people to vote for Obama. But I just couldn't vote without getting money. During slavery times, Blacks were prohibited from voting, so a lot of Blacks didn't vote for decades. So, I guess is in their dna, so that's why some Blacks don't give a Bleep about voting.

Assuming the poster is the lady in question. You are trying to make it like you are not the one, but what ever. You need to pick love or money. Which ever one you pick, then you should be able to know who to kick to the curb. If you pick money, if the shell guy get fired, you are always welcome to money hunt.

To:Celestar:
Your description of love is dumb, that's how some one in primary school would describe it

If you are man enough to hook up with a lady then man up to deal with it