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There was this White kid that wrote a book about how to get a girl or something like that. He was like less than 10yrs or a little above that. One of his main advice was avoid pretty ladies, they are nothing but problems. Well, his reasons, prety ladies spend too much time on physical appearance, that means prety much they will look for guys that got money or they will dump your broke ass. I don't really agree with that kid.

My thing is, avoid prety party ladies. If she is prety and she is one of those party goers. Simply walk away. If she smokes or drinks on top of it. Run.

Mr. poster, if you find the right lady, all this your requirements will fly out of the window. Believe that or not, it will happen.

Zero2 got a good point

What a Zap.?

I don't celebrate religious holidays. So what should I say? Same to you? I guess

The Ibo people do traditional wedding where the lady is auctioned off by her parents just like the Whites did Black slaves back in the day in the U.S. and Europe. I don't know Yoruba or Hausa traditions but I don't think is necessary to do traditional marriage and again do the Church wedding. I mean is the guy marrying two people or one person. Most Ibo parents are also greedy and selfish. During the auctioning of their daughter, they will demand money, clothes,food, and a whole lot of bullshit. Seriously think about it, if you hook up with some lady that doesn't have this rediculous tradition, it will save you headache and a whole lot of cash. People say oh the guy have to pay her birth right. Bullshit.[is that what slave masters have to pay to those slave catchers from Europe?].

One of my brothers is doing a traditinal wedding in a matter of hours from now with some Ibo lady with greedy parents. He is back home now in Imo. and he is complaining about money. I was like chill you got your self into this Poo. My other brother hooked up with a White lady and he is chilling, he is only having one wedding no traditional marriage c.r.a.p. Tell me, what the Zap is going on?

Ibo people or Nigerians in general need to wake up and realize that this is no longer ancient times, this is a new century.

So, do you think traditional wedding is bullshit? Yoruba and Hausa do y'all have this ancient custom of auctioning your daughter off like a slave?
I don won no wahala, if say you no got nothing to say, just sharap.

Nothing. Tell them everything. There is a high chance if you don't some one will. That will make matter worse married or not married. If you got nothing to fear, then you got nothing to hide.

That's bullshit

A woman must tell her husband everything but the husband don't have to because he is the head of the house[He Is The Man]. I know a lot of feminists will disagree with me.

To:tkb417:

Is that your car in that pic? Damn. That car is hot. Let me ask you this, do you know what BMW stands for? I know three things it stands for.
1]The old naija say
2]
3]
I will give you 24hrs to respond. After that I will post what it stands for

That page looks like nairaland page some how.

Poster you said you are desperate. Is sex food for you? If so why not hook up with prostitutes. There is really no major difference between
them and the ones that almost did it and then changed their mind. Or are you broke?

I think that the poster got a good point but maynot have been experienced enough. It seems like he is new in the dating game. You screw up first time, find some one else, life goes on. If a fiancee asked me for money for hair, I don't see anything wrong with it. She could be testing me. But this is the deal, let me help some of the inexperience guys out there, listen O, don't say I didn't warn you.

This are some characteristics of a good naija lady or prety much any lady:Narrowed it down to
1]They dress professional and simple[They don't dress like hookers] Ladies is okay to dress like hookers at home when you are alone with your partner.Outside the house is a no go area.
2]They understand and do their role as a female without being told
3]They are not materialistic[They don't demand gold and diamond jewelries]
4]They know their past, present and future

This are some characteristics of a bad naija lady[gold diggers] or prety much any lady:Narrowed down to 4:is prety much the opposite of the lists above:
1]They dress too hot:They are too hip:When they walk by you will hear all kinds of jewelries or got revealing clothers on:Their dressing is loud
2]They don't know when to shut the Zap. up. The house will be dirty and they will act like everything is fine. Dishes will be in the sink and they will be waiting for you to wash it. No good delicious food in the frig and they want to go dine out or go to the club and show the world their revealing booty or boobs.
3]Before you even propose, they have hinted to you that they want a diamond ring. Diamond is good but if bro. is broke, just let him put some copper coil around your finger. I had this cousin, naija lady, her boyfriend or fiance or what ever bought a diamond ring for her. From a distance I could see this thing sparkling. She said she doesn't like it. She want a better one. I thought to my self "Gold digger way to go." I am not saying she is a bad person, she is pretty and all that. Actually she fit most of the characteristics I list here as a gold digger. She is the most responsible out of all her brothers and sisters. The is not the oldest one. I compliment her at times but on the other hand she is a party person. So that part is dragging her back.
4]They don't know who they are, where they are and where they are going. They just want to have fun while is hot.

THIS LIST I MENTIONDED ABOVE ALSO APPLY TO GUYS TOO:LADIES TAKE NOTE:
4] I know this naija guy, he lives here in Portland, Oregon too. He came from naija maybe about 4 years ago. He fit the list of gold diggers. He doesn't know who he is, where he is[overall state of mind] and where he is going. He is like the gangster wana be. He have been involved with gangs. Arrested. Gone to jail one or more times. All that. He is like the player type. Guess what? Women are crazy about him, they are all over him, guess what? The type of women that are crazy about him are birds of the same feathers. Is life.

So Mr. poster. when you fish and caught a bad one, is okay to put it back into the river, you don't have to go home with the bad fish just in the name that you caught a fish, or condem all the fish in the river just for the bad one, be patient in the river, you will catch a fat one and you will be happy. Your people will be jealous of what you got.

My point is, there is this tree that have many fruits, some are rip and some are not. Before you plung one off, study it, because is rip doesn't mean is good. I am sure if you study it well before you plung it off, there is a high chance you got the good fruit.

I have seen good naija ladies and bad ones. If I were to say I would say that the good ones are few. The bad ones are all over the place, they are in your face all the time, and you don't want it, they belong to the players[prostitutes]after they use them, they toss them out.

Is life.

Wether there is a shortage of men or not thats not important. What I know is that good ladies with good backgrounds get married and stay married. Bitches with bitchy attitudes are the ones that go around making noise about being single and why there are shortage of men this and that and all that bullshit.

Hey Ms. claiming to know everything[Poster] How many men did you surveyed to come to a conclusion that all the remaining men are either married, has a girlfriend, gay or is a natural born player. That's a stupid conclusion. Because all the men you hopped in and out of their you know what fit this category doesn't mean every man.

I am single and I don't fit any of your dumb category.

I think based on my experience that a guy can block falling inlove. Last year at my work place, there was this lady that worked at the same place. My feelings for her some people may call it falling inlove. But I refused to talk to her for 1yr. just because I didn't want issues. The month I decided to let her know what the issue was, she claimed she was seing some one,2 weeks later, I got fired[sacked]. I avoided her for 1yr. because I didn't want issues, it became too hard that I had two options quit the job[I actually started looking for another job] or let her know what the deal is.So I informed her what the issue is. I don't really know why I was fired. She may have something to do with it. I worked at the place for 2yrs. and got fired two weeks after informing her about what might be going on between me and her.

Now, earlier last month, I went to this neighborhood grocery retail to buy something. I met this worker at the place and asked her to show me where they have a particular item, she did, and withing some minutes, it hit me, I felt like I maybe falling inlove with her, no doubt. I came to the store the following week just to see if I still feel the same way, not suprisingly, I felt the same, the third week I came to the same store just to see her I wasn't really buying anything but I claimed I was buying something just to take a really good look at her and study her, well, it seemed like I was fallen for her. So since I have a lot of Poo going on right now, I can't deal with her. So I blocked her off, I don't go to that store anymore just to avoid seing her.

Each time I look her into the eyes it seems like she knows what I am thinking and that she knows what I know.

So, Mr. or Mrs. poster, guys do it, I don't know about all the guys, I know I have done it twice. Is like when I want to fall in love is not going to happen, when I have a lot of shit going on, it happens. For example right now, I am looking for another job. Tired of the bullshit job I got now. Also I am working toward suing my university and other issues going on too. The lady might think there is something wrong with her. No is the guy not the lady. That's why is a good idea for ladies to make the first move. If you think you are fallen for a guy and you think he is fallen for you, you don't have to wait because he may block you off or you may not even see him again for yrs. or what ever just because he felt like he is not ready.

Hey poster you stated something like you had sex with her but you didn't know what really happend or what got you into it. Did she charm you into it? I once posted a thread here can the opposite sex charm the other, some thought it was a stupid thread. If people like you paid attension, things like this wouldn't have happened.

Nigger, when I say nigger it means dumb nigger. You need to wake up and take responsibility of the child. Do not bring up abortion because you have no right to kill. Get another job if possible and do your job as a man.

Think about it do you realy believe in God? If you claim you do, why don't you do what he asks of you? Why don't you follow his commandments. You see, think about it. Maybe you are just a hypocrite. or Maybe you do believe in him.

Black by ? I don't know. I don't give a Zap. who makes it, I just buy it, spray it and is gone

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Congrats to the worst poster of the year, the poster is Yicob. Yicob good job for posting this dumb shit.

Life is sweet and bitter, you choose how much of each you want.

There is this Nigerian bastard[Charlie Mekam] living here in Portland Oregon and he also have a brother some where in the east coast. First of all you have to know that Nigerians are blessed with criminal minds. This Nigerian happens to be an Ibo which has nothing to do with anything which is why I brought it up.

This is the deal. He have a business callled some bullshit name. He is a travel agent. If you have had business with agents you will know that most of the time they are crooks. This guy sells air travel tickets to Nigerians [to a lot of those who thought he was a friend], to other africans and to also other people traveling. His brother is doing the same shit in the east coast area. Good business right?

Okay, this is how his 419 works. Lets say you are traveling to Nigeria on the 21st to attend a wedding on the 25. You buy a ticket from him. He gives you a 419 ticket. You will call the air line they will say your name is on the list, you have a seat reserved for you. So when it get closer to the time you will travel, this bastard will withdraw the money from your ticket so now your ticket is crap. Is like you buy something and then go back and get a refund. So on the 21st you go to the airport, guess what? You are F.u.c.ked. The airport will tell you that you are not on the list that some one have taken a refund of your ticket and they can't help you. Guess what? Some times this doesn't happen in your home city, it happens once you get to another state or even when you get to Europe like Armsterdam.

This bastard have scamed almost over 100 people. He lives in a mansion. Drives a luxury car. Lives happily with peoples money who got stuck at the airport. This month is a big time for holiday. He scamed my Dad twice, he didn't know it was that bastard that did it. About 2 years ago he was going to Nigeria, he flew from Portland and got stuck in Detroit, stranded at the airport and then he had to some how the trip to Nigeria was canceled. In July this year, my Dad

paid this bastard around $4,500 dollars for 3 tickets round trip to Nigeria for December. This month the price of the ticket almost doubled. My Dad had to add extra $4000 dollars to buy another ticket this time directly from the air line. This bastard didn't give him a ticket. Actually this bastard was forced to refund the money first week of this month. Imagine that? My Dads brother paid about $7000 for 5 tickets to Nigeria for this month. The bastard did the same thing. Gave him a ticket and went back to the airline and took the money. He is an agent so he knows how he does it. Just this month alone, I have heared over 10 people that considered this bastard a friend that he did it to.

So when my Dad found out the the bastard he considers a friend have refunded the money from the ticket. There was a confusion, he kept calling and contact this bastard 24/7. The bastard doesn't even answer his phone. He doesn't show up to his office. Finally the got the bastards' wife involved. Telling her that her husband is a criminal that he had to refund that money that was paid to him. It was crazy, a lot of Nigerians traveling this month that got ticket from this bastard got a chilling news that the airline don't have them on the list.

Long story short. He have been doing this for years and no one knew it was him. At one time my Dads sister was going to Nigeria for a traditional wedding or something, they got to Portland international airport, and got a cold news that they are not on the flight list. That trip was canceled. This bastard pocketed thousands of dollars.

So basically this is what could have happened to my Dad if his brother didn't call him to inform him about this bastard. He and my other family members are going to Nigeria for a traditional wedding. He could have made all the arrangements, got to the airport with all your luggages and the airline workers will tell them that they are not on the list. Can you imagine that?

Can you imagine paying thousands of dollars to a fraudster for a very important event that is time sensitive to get stuck in the airport maybe even in another country that you are not on the list?which basically means you didn't get a ticket. The agent gave you a fraud ticket?
A lot peole this bastard scammed called police and police said "we can't help you." Some even said that they will camp at his house until he gives them there money. Some are even planning to beat him up.

If you think this is a joke or I am making it up, chill, it will soon be in the paper. And I will post the link in your face.
So, this is the deal if you are traveling this holiday or know some one who is traveling and you got your ticket not from the airline but from an agent to save money. All you need to do right now because you don't have time, call your airline and confirm your ticket or call that person you know and asked them who they bought their ticket from. It doesn't have to be this Charlie Mekam bastard, it could be his brother, cousin, friend, 419 ring in the same business. If you fall a victim or know some one who will fail a victim of this issue after reading this, you should be ashamed.

THE LESSON TO LEARN FROM ALL THIS, THIS IS ACTUALLY WHAT I TOLD MY DAD, AVOID CHEAP THINGS AND ALWAYS BUY YOUR GOODS OR SERVICE DIRECTLY FROM THE MAIN COMPANY NOT FROM ANY BULLSHIT AGENT.

There is this Nigerian bastard[Charlie Mekam] living here in Portland Oregon and he also have a brother some where in the east coast. First of all you have to know that Nigerians are blessed with criminal minds. This Nigerian happens to be an Ibo which has nothing to do with anything which is why I brought it up.

This is the deal. He have a business callled some bullshit name. He is a travel agent. If you have had business with agents you will know that most of the time they are crooks. This guy sells air travel tickets to Nigerians [to a lot of those who thought he was a friend], to other africans and to also other people traveling. His brother is doing the same shit in the east coast area. Good business right?
Okay, this is how his 419 works. Lets say you are traveling to Nigeria on the 21st to attend a wedding on the 25. You buy a ticket from him. He gives you a 419 ticket. You will call the air line they will say your name is on the list, you have a seat reserved for you. So when it get closer to the time you will travel, this bastard will withdraw the money from your ticket so now your ticket is crap. Is like you buy something and then go back and get a refund. So on the 21st you go to the airport, guess what? You are F.u.c.ked. The airport will tell you that you are not on the list that some one have taken a refund of your ticket and they can't help you. Guess what? Some times this doesn't happen in your home city, it happens once you get to another state or even when you get to Europe like Armsterdam.
This bastard have scamed almost over 100 people. He lives in a mansion. Drives a luxury car. Lives happily with peoples money who got stuck at the airport. This month is a big time for holiday. He scamed my Dad twice, he didn't know it was that bastard that did it. About 2 years ago he was going to Nigeria, he flew from Portland and got stuck in Detroit, stranded at the airport and then he had to some how the trip to Nigeria was canceled.

In July this year, my Dad paid this bastard around $4,500 dollars for 3 tickets round trip to Nigeria for December. This month the price of the ticket almost doubled. My Dad had to add extra $4000 dollars to buy another ticket this time directly from the air line. This bastard didn't give him a ticket. Actually this bastard was forced to refund the money first week of this month. Imagine that? My Dads brother paid about $7000 for 5 tickets to Nigeria for this month. The bastard did the same thing. Gave him a ticket and went back to the airline and took the money. He is an agent so he knows how he does it. Just this month alone, I have heared over 10 people that considered this bastard a friend that he did it to.

So when my Dad found out the the bastard he considers a friend have refunded the money from the ticket. There was a confusion, he kept calling and contact this bastard 24/7. The bastard doesn't even answer his phone. He doesn't show up to his office. Finally the got the bastards' wife involved. Telling her that her husband is a criminal that he had to refund that money that was paid to him. It was crazy, a lot of Nigerians traveling this month that got ticket from this bastard got a chilling news that the airline don't have them on the list.

Long story short. He have been doing this for years and no one knew it was him. At one time my Dads sister was going to Nigeria for a traditional wedding or something, they got to Portland international airport, and got a cold news that they are not on the flight list. That trip was canceled. This bastard pocketed thousands of dollars.

So basically this is what could have happened to my Dad if his brother didn't call him to inform him about this bastard. He and my other family members are going to Nigeria for a traditional wedding. He could have made all the arrangements, got to the airport with all your luggages and the airline workers will tell them that they are not on the list. Can you imagine that?

Can you imagine paying thousands of dollars to a fraudster for a very important event that is time sensitive to get stuck in the airport maybe even in another country that you are not on the list?which basically means you didn't get a ticket. The agent gave you a fraud ticket?
A lot peole this bastard scammed called police and police said "we can't help you." Some even said that they will camp at his house until he gives them there money. Some are even planning to beat him up.

If you think this is a joke or I am making it up, chill, it will soon be in the news And I will post the link in your face.
So, this is the deal if you are traveling this holiday or know some one who is traveling and you got your ticket not from the airline but from an agent to save money. All you need to do right now because you don't have time, call your airline and confirm your ticket or call that person you know that is traveling and asked them who they bought their ticket from. It doesn't have to be this Charlie Mekam bastard, it could be his brother, cousin, friend, 419 ring in the same business. If you fall a victim or know some one who will fail a victim of this issue after reading this, you should be ashamed.

THE LESSON TO LEARN FROM ALL THIS, THIS IS ACTUALLY WHAT I TOLD MY DAD, AVOID CHEAP THINGS AND ALWAYS BUY YOUR GOODS OR SERVICE DIRECTLY FROM THE MAIN COMPANY NOT FROM ANY BULLSHIT AGENT.

PEACE.

There is a high chance that if you don't keep constant communication and exchange of pictures, withing 5yrs. you will fall out of love with her. You may even find a fine lady in Canada. Beleive it or not, you are going to meet ladies in Canada that will make you think twice about your lady back home.

Whiteroses I think you need to see a priest or something.

Damn, this dream is some bleeped up shit.

That is not abormination, shut your mouth.

I like that Jamaican or Caribean video that was added. This simply shows you that there are some White women that are so desperate to hook up with a Black man that they have to leave their own country. If you go to Kenya there are a lot of White tourist every year. Some of them hook up and stay there while some get a visa for their partner to come and leave with them over seas. Wether the relationship will survive or not is what I don't know. But what I know is that a Black woman in America would have to work hard not just in her work or school but also in her attitude, dressing and a lot of shit. That's life for now.

I agree with sistawoman to some extent. She is speaking from experience. There were some things she stated earlier that made my hair stand up. Lets replay,

Quote "Additionally what i started to notice was the "good" ones were paired up with chickenheads [/color]and the good males had settled for these [color=#770077]brainless twats."

This is where I agree with my Black sister. Biracial kids are made fun of. I even remember back in naija any one that have light skin people call them all kinds of names like expired mango and things like that. It was just natural to say those things with no regard of how the person feels. The person doing the name calling might not understand what they are doing. So basically, my stand on this is if you have a biracial kid, get a lawyer, teach the kid how to fight any one that tries to put him/her down. If any one does something stupid, sue them.

The second point I agree with my Black sister is that if you hang out with White people sometimes they will forget that you are there and they will say something that will surprise you. I heard that Whites don't call Blacks niggers these days, they have created a new name which they only use in their midst. Last year in my Black study class, this biracial lady was saying that when she was growing up her White friends called her and her family chocolate kids. Just becasue they were mixed.

What I always tell people is that during slavery time in the U.S. there were White people who helped some Blacks by housing them and helping them escape. This is a very small percentage.Today there are still some good White people but some times people misunderstand how many. Some people think that because Obama was elected America is now free for all. Bleep no. White people still want Blacks shiped back to Africa, where the Bleep they came from. Obama was elected not because America is now a KKK racist free country. I think that a Black man will never get justice in America unless there was a public intervention. This is still a racist nation and it will continue for a long time.

Two of my brothers are dating a White lady. My parents rejected the idea and claim they are not racist. I told my Dad it doesn't make sense to say you are not a racist and say you don't want any of your sons dating a White lady. Well, to cut story short, my older brother got the lady pregnant, I don't know the details. In fact they are getting married next year. My parents are like Oh, well what can we do. So ladies and gentlemen, if your parents oppose interacial marriage, the easy way out is to get pregnant, don't take my word for it because I won't be paying for the diapers.

I have been living in the U.S. for a long time now. I have been called a nigger twice. One time by a KKK racist bastard. I refused to give him change for coins because he didn't want to sign the slip showing that the register was opened. The second one was by a racist KKK prostitute. Alcohol sale stops at 2:30am and she and her friends ran into the store and carry all their junk and brought it at the counter. They were so much in a hurry is not even close to 2:30 yet, I figured they were call girls they had to be at a certain place that night. So to cut long story short, I told them not to hurry me and refused the sale. One of the two ladies got so mad she started causing and added it with the N. word. I didn't care, I was like get the Bleep out here stupid bitch.

My point, a lot of White people talk shit about Blacks behind their backs. If you check out some of the racial chats online, you will be suprised what people are saying. Some one on youtube even wrote on my page that they are going to assasinate Obama, I was like go to hell. I am single right now. I don't live in a black community. I leave in a White neighborhood[ghost town]. Nobody gives a Bleep about their neighbor. If I were to pick one lady now of all the ladies that I know from school, nigerian parties, grocery stores, I would pick a White lady. She is not just white, she is from Europe. I would pick her not because I don't like Black people. Actually I have had people tell me that I am not Black just because I don't put up with peoples stupidity. Well I would choose this White lady who is from Europe because or two major things. One she is prety [hot] and two, she conducts her self very well. I haven't told her what the deal is because I don't know if I want a racist or KKK father or mother in law. I stated all this because there maybe a Black lady reading this and wants to know why I would pick a White lady over a Black lady. Nothing against my sisters. But life have to go on.