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Crunchyg2:
You go like am ooo, I am loaded and I know that's the kind of thing you like

‘Happy loading oo’ Goodluck with your future dates.

Crunchyg2:
I don't like beating about the bush, I like going straight to the point. Will you be my girlfriend. I like you

No thank you, I’m not interested

Broda Lai, e beru Oloun fa.

Crunchyg2:
I have a personal question for you

Which is?

Wahala! Wahala be like bicycle, e no dey hard to start. God help you o

Divanona:
Eight years ago, with tears in my eye, I held his hand, begged him to stay with me that we will struggle together and succeed, but he refused. He walked away living me pregnant. Now, he's back without anything.

We were friends from the University, I graduated before him because I was studying a 4years course. The very first time, we tried to take our relationship serious was after my graduation. We had s.e.-x for the very first time and I became pregnant.
The truth is, the guy have always been good to me throughout my stays in school.
I remembered that day he sacrificed his school fees for mine so I could be able to do my final clearance. But when I became pregnant, he walked away after convincing me to keep our baby.
I went through everything all by myself.
Since last year, he has been apologizing on phone, so last week, I asked him to come. He traveled down to my place. Without being afraid of anyone harming him from my family, he believed in me and came. He's around in my family house, staying in my brother's room for the past 3days.
He has opened up everything to me, my family members and have apologized.

now, I'm so confused with my life.

He couldn't graduate, he had problem in school after I left and all this years, he has been struggling, but now he wants to take responsibility and be with us, but he had nothing. No certificate, except diploma which he later did from another school, no job, no place of his own to stay. He had nothing. He wants us to get married and have a family.


I feel I'm about to add more burden to my already stressed life.
The only positive thing here now, is the excitement my son is having seeing his father and the relationship they're building.

A part of me wants to see this guy have a great life and have direction and not see him live like this, even if I don't settle down with him. because when I meant him, he was kind, a good person, he had dreams, vision and good plans.
But living us alone all this years, with all his explanations, I'm not contented.

Another part of me is confused, afraid and I feel ishould push him away and let him go back to his life and keep moving with my son because I don't have the strength to shoulder all these.

Please matured mind in the house, what do you have to say? This is my life and it's getting more confused.
What would you advise? What should I do?
I don't want to make more mistakes.

Sorry for my lengthy write-up

Anyone that wasn’t there for you at your ‘darkest time’ isn’t good for you. You said he left you despite pleading with him to stay even with your condition then, someone left for 8 good years! My dear sister, it’s normal to make a mistake but making the mistake repeat itself again is foolishness. You have been all by yourself for 8 good years, and God has not forsaken you. Yes your child needs a father in his life journey but don’t let history repeat itself again. Someone that left you when you were pregnant can decide to live any time again in the future when he feels like. The fact that you got pregnant for someone through unprotected sex doesn’t mean you should marry him. It’s a good thing he has realized his mistake and I’ll implore you to forgive him from the depth of your heart. Your happiness is germane and your son deserves a good life but don’t loose guard. Be wise! Let God paddle your boat, when you’re set to remarry, the man that will love you for who you are will stay and not leave you when you need him most. Be strong Sis

Anyone that wasn’t there for you at your ‘darkest time’ isn’t good for you. You said he left you despite pleading with him to stay even with your condition then, someone left for 8 good years! My dear sister, it’s normal to make a mistake but making the mistake repeat itself again is foolishness. You have been all by yourself for 8 good years, and God has not forsaken you. Yes your child needs a father in his life journey but don’t let history repeat itself again. Someone that left you when you were pregnant can decide to live any time again in the future when he feels like. The fact that you got pregnant for someone through unprotected sex doesn’t mean you should marry him. It’s a good thing he has realized his mistake and I’ll implore you to forgive him from the depth of your heart. Your happiness is germane and your son deserves a good life but don’t loose guard. Be wise! Let God paddle your boat, when you’re set to remarry, the man that will love you for who you are will stay and not leave you when you need him most. Be strong Sis

starbuck:
2nd hand condoms

Akube condom, Grade A

KingAzari:
All these 2-minute noodle marriages. People should just stay single and have kids. Marriage in this highspeed society is no more possible. We need to change our definition of what family is in this generation. People easily get bored of other people including their spouses these days. Cheating or no cheating, there is always an escape trigger waiting to get knocked on. Our parents had multiple sex partners but were still committed to their children and marriage but today, everyone is selfish - no consideration to what would become of the innocent kids trapped in these ugly situations.

‘Our parents’ Why the need for generalization ?? Not all parents have/had multiple sex partners, pls get your facts right.

The thieves most likely used Chloroform.

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anastasius:
Why do Ijaw people bear funny names? Someone bearing Police, Helpme, Nurse, Revelation, Bestie, Lagos etc. I don't understand

Even Government

TheCork:
Please will u accept 200 naira, cash?

Lol

TheCork:
Please will u accept 200 naira, cash?

you’re funny oo

It can’t be a snake, most likely a giant rat �

Bkayyy:
Even in death, the poor is not an equal to the rich.
Believe me, the rich will still have their own personal estate with God in heaven and the poor hustling with the angels in that same heaven

who told you this one?? Assistant Jesus

Good evening beautiful people. Pls where in Idumota can I buy nice and classy fabrics at Wholesale prices (vintage,cashmere, crepe, chiffon, silk and the likes)? I don’t know my way around there pls

professor emeritus...

senatepresido:
yes boss

Ok, drop your number; lemme add you to a job group I’m ffg

senatepresido:
Please Nairalanders, I seriously need any type of Job with daily, weekly or monthly pay. I am done with NYSC, Graduate of Biochemistry, Certified Human Resource Professional, Experienced as a Customer Service Officer and Admin Officer, stays in Gbagada, Lagos.
Please for those of you who can help with anything I am ready to do...
please I am so frustrated and depressed
No insults please, life hard.
abeg any help

So sorry about your present predicament . Do you use telegram app?

This is what we call ‘Àléfó in Yoruba land. I just showed the pic to my mom and she said it’s what I just called it. She said it’s just a sign that your baby will be chubby. Just visit local shops that sell dustin powders, there’s what we call ‘moju’, it’s in powdery form; just apply it on the affected areas. Or buy Cacatin cream and rub on your baby’s body, there’s no cause for alarm Daddy baby.

This video is not for his burial. You can see the banner on the wall, Adelabu and Ajimobi standing side by side. This looks more like one of the videos captured during one of their campaigns. All these bloggers sef

chiemmanuel:
I don't understand this report
The lady was buried,
And the corpse was deposited in the mortuary,
Very shallow reportage

I am confused as you are o

Happy birthday to a great teacher of the word of God. I grew up under your teachings and I thank God for what I am today through your words. Thank you for holding the fort and running the race as well as ensuring you take as much as possible people to Heaven. More grace, more fresh anointing as you clock 79 today Daddy. I pray that you add more years in good health and sound mind if Christ tarries. You’re a blessing to this generation, God bless you sir.

I got a mail from them at 4.30am today, I woke up to the message and I kept wondering when I applied to any ‘CFLEAD’ company. See below:

Hello Yetunde,

A review of your CV by our selection committee indicates the possibility of your expertise to be complementary in line with our organization objectives.

We are pleased to invite you for an online meeting for your leadership assessment as a business partner this email /message confirms your selection to meet with the Management Board of CFLEAD as a Unit Leader. CFLEAD center around Leadership, Business, Leverage and Partnership.

Meanwhile, our online interview session will be conducted via Zoom application which you need to;

Download and install on your mobile/computer device.
Sign up using your personal email address
Go to your email inbox and click the authentication link
Sign in and you are good to go


You are advised to confirm your availability for the interview by sending your full name and location on whatsApp to this line (08149729513) after which the meeting link will be send to you.


Date: Monday 25th May 2020.


Time: 9:00 AM Prompt


Best Regards!

Signed by,
Adejuwon,
for the management



Thank God for this beautiful platform. Also, let’s be very careful with job invites. Be smart!

arinze198:
Source: https://pmexpressng.com/i-was-a-painter-but-robbery-paid-better-suspect-confesses/

Make sure you don’t abandon your painting skills in the cell � paint the walls very well

This thread bring me fresh memories. I lost my fiancée’s mom on the 6th of May in 2018. She spoke with me on phone 5 days to her death, and prayed for me as usual. Little did I know that would be the last time I’d hear from her. It still baffles me till date cause she was not sick prior to her death. She was so kind, loving, sweet and strong. I wished she waited more to enjoy the rewards of her labor on her children. I know she’s in a better place now. Keep resting in the bosom of our dear lord Evangelist Ayodele, I miss you so much.

Another big blow is the death of my big aunty, my Mom’s elder sister who died on the 23rd of February this year. We spoke last in Dec 2019, I miss how she calls me ‘Ayetty mama’ whenever we talk. It’s so painful that she won’t be there to rejoice with me on my big day. Keep resting in the Lord Mommy Abosede Victoria.

It’s a very very painful thing to lose a loved one, words can’t quantify the depth of such loss. It’s my prayer that we all outlive our parents and also live a fulfilling life, amen.

...at the age of 67 He was born in 1938, that’s 82 years.

This is the pure reflection of a plagiarized work! When you know that you googled the pix of another woman’s baby to use on your wall, why didn’t you acknowledge where you got it from? Still lying after being caught. See where fake life has landed you!

9jaunite:
#9mobile 2.5gb for 350

Please fill me in on this. Does it work on a 9 mobile MIFI?