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Education / Re: NAAT Warns FG Against Accepting ASUU’s UTAS by Palehair: 7:24pm On Dec 11, 2020
zicoy6k:


I never said ASUU accepted IPPIS. This information you are passing around about GIFMIS is not true and you need to get your facts right. Ngige mentioned an hybrid system that combines the GIFMIS and IPPIS but we all know that it's just IPPIS as they used the same system from February to June.

Regarding ASUU members who registered on IPPIS, to what end is fishing them out. There are more pressing issues although various branches may handle that as they wish.

I rest my case on this issue

My word still stands that salary payments have already begun through GIFMIS. Have a good night
Education / Re: NAAT Warns FG Against Accepting ASUU’s UTAS by Palehair: 9:28am On Dec 11, 2020
zicoy6k:


Only those enrolled in IPPIS are being paid. It's the same IPPIS that will be used to pay those that are being owed only that they don't need to register by themselves. This is the same method used to pay them from February to June.
ASUU didn't agree on IPPIS, though some members were going behind their backs to be paid through IPPIS and they will soon be fished out according to ASUU but during their recent meeting, they agreed to be paid using the old system GIFMIS until UTAS is ready, no one agreed on IPPIS
Travel / Re: Young Black American Guy Defies Naysayers - Storms Nigeria Alone On 1st Visit by Palehair: 7:33am On Dec 09, 2020
Behanzin:
That guy is finished

He looks gay though he's probably just a sex tourist looking for a cheap place to pipe other young dudes through the āss
He's on the hunt for BBC

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Phones / Re: The New Apple Airpods Max by Palehair: 7:02am On Dec 09, 2020
The spatial audio is insane
Jokes Etc / Re: 30 Funny Wedding Pictures That Will Make You Laugh by Palehair: 7:44am On Dec 08, 2020
mrkings84:


The husband and wife on that 4th pix seems to be from Edo. If you know u no
You mean the 3rd pic because the 4th pic is a gay couple
Education / Re: NAAT Warns FG Against Accepting ASUU’s UTAS by Palehair: 6:59am On Dec 08, 2020
zicoy6k:


And you think they got paid through GIFMIS? I don't think so. The government is not using GIFMIS to pay anybody.
It was a mutual agreement between FG and ASUU
Education / Re: NAAT Warns FG Against Accepting ASUU’s UTAS by Palehair: 3:41pm On Dec 07, 2020
zicoy6k:


Are you sure? Maybe those who have enrolled under IPPIS.
They agreed to pay them through the old payment system called GIFMIS while UTAS is still being researched on
Education / Re: NAAT Warns FG Against Accepting ASUU’s UTAS by Palehair: 3:39pm On Dec 07, 2020
Rgade:

Since when?
But true force is the only language for someone who will never do the right thing.
Since on Friday
Education / Re: NAAT Warns FG Against Accepting ASUU’s UTAS by Palehair: 8:57am On Dec 07, 2020
Rgade:
So they warned the FG not to accept ASUU's platform, while equally stating that they had developed a platform of their own.
They are also demanding N100 billion.
All this is because of ASUU's unrelenting struggle. What sort of witchcraft is this.
I hope someone informs them that even the N70bn that FG promised ASUU, 1penny hasn't been seen.
Your last comment has been rendered moot. I can confirm that lecturers are receiving alerts. It was a huge shock to me but this strike has taught me that force must be applied to anything we do in this country. Without that force, FG wouldn't have coughed out anything
Education / Re: No Resumption Until FG Pays Withheld Salaries – ASUU by Palehair: 8:50am On Dec 07, 2020
Salaries are being paid as we speak, I know a lecturer who confirmed this
Celebrities / Re: Malivelihood's Bachelor's Eve Party In Abuja (Photos, Videos) by Palehair: 7:39pm On Dec 04, 2020
Humans and the consumerism culture. Typical
Sports / Re: Pat Patterson Dies At 79 by Palehair: 10:30pm On Dec 02, 2020
Weedhustler:
If only he never slept with someone's wife, he wouldn't have died prematurely!
What does that have to do with anything? I think you need to check in with your supplier because if you read the article, you will know he's openly gay
Celebrities / Re: Gay Couple Marry In Traditional Attire. PHOTOS by Palehair: 10:03pm On Dec 02, 2020
9jageekz:


And you know all about sexuality, you better change for the better before you get depressed and sunk into that abyss of homosexualism.
I've already sunken deep in it. grin grin
Foreign Affairs / Re: Hungarian Politician Resigns After Attending Gay Lockdown Party by Palehair: 3:38pm On Dec 02, 2020
A complete hypocrite. He's an ally of the conservative Hungarian prime minister that outlawed same sex marriage and also belongs to their party. They will continue to fish them out bit by bit
Romance / Re: The Fall Of Masculinity(homosexuality) by Palehair: 3:35pm On Dec 02, 2020
grin grin grin. Do something about it then. We are with you

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Celebrities / Re: Gay Couple Marry In Traditional Attire. PHOTOS by Palehair: 11:44pm On Dec 01, 2020
9jageekz:


it's and addiction and a fantasy that they love by. there are factors to it. there bro still has a lot to learn.
Lol.... Sorry man but you know nothing about human sexuality. Just stick to your straight, it's far more safe in their
Celebrities / Re: South African Man Announce His Gay Wedding With Traditional Attire (photos/video by Palehair: 11:27pm On Dec 01, 2020
Temitopemo6e6:
Nairaland and gay people sef, dem swear for you niwhat is happening in this world of ours so one person will be acting like woman while the other like man but both has ....
Not all gay people act like women. Unlike a straight relationship, they are both equal in every respect
Celebrities / Re: Gospel Singer, Darrel Walls Deletes IG After Video Of Him Kissing Gay ‘boyfriend by Palehair: 10:38pm On Dec 01, 2020
Just come out and own it. The cat is already out of the bag
Romance / Re: It Is Women And Not Men That Suppose To Pay For Sex by Palehair: 3:29pm On Nov 30, 2020
daddymummy:
Also women have many G spots on their bodies through which they can enjoy sex but the only effective G spot on a man's body is the penis.

It shows that sex was created for women and not for men.

But in order to satisfy the sexual longing in women, nature made men to desire sex so much.

So that when men run after sex,it will end in women being sexually satisfied.

Nature does this in a bid to satisfy women because sex was created for women.

It does this by giving men more desire for sex so that when they cannot hold themselves,it will end in women being satisfied.

The proof that sex was created for women is also seen in the fact that a woman can lie down and enjoy sex from morning to night without being tired because they don't spend any energy.

But men are deceived to believe that they are enjoying.

If nature did not give men much desire, women would have been so sexually hungry without any one to satisfy her.

So nature does this to help women.

So it is women that suppose to pay.

For now they are being paid for enjoying what was created for them.

In fact that is another proof that sex was created for women and not for men. The fact that men give something in order to sleep with women shows that sex was created for women.

They have more enjoyment spots on their bodies,they can spend hours having sex unlike men and they receive something in return for sex; This is a proof that sex was created only for women.

So men stop deceiving yourselves.

Just imagine your penis as your hand and her vagina as a body.

As the hand is massaging a body so is your penis massaging her vagina.

The person who is massaged is the only one enjoying. The one that does the massaging is not enjoying anything although he might be deceiving himself that he is enjoying.

So she is the only one enjoying because you are the one doing the work on her vagina using your penis.

So men I tell you the truth,stop living in deception.You have been deceived.
If you've ever been penetrated, you will know that a man also have another G spot which is not his dick
Crime / Re: The Suicide Urge Trigger by Palehair: 3:19pm On Nov 30, 2020
Wow, is this a coincidence or what? I just finished reading Robert E. Litman's book "the psychology of suicide" Here's an excerpt ;
Several studies in this issue suggested other important risk factors for suicide.Tavakoli et al. examined the association between attentional control and suicidal behavior among a cohort of inpatient adolescents presenting acute suicidal behavior compared to healthy controls. A passively presented auditory optimal paradigm was used. The extent of processing these “to-be-ignored” auditory stimuli was measured by recording event-related potentials (ERPs), which are thought to reflect processes linked with capturing attention. The study found a relatively low threshold for the triggering of the involuntary switch of attention among suicidal patients, a factor that may play a role in their reported distractibility. Thompson and Chen Ong investigated the association of suicidal behavior with neurological and behavioral markers, measuring attentional bias and inhibition in two Stroop tasks, as well as recorded activity in frontal areas by EEG (Electroencephalogram) during each task. High-risk participants showed slower response times in the color Stroop (as well as to the word “suicide”) and reduced accuracy in incongruent trials, but faster response times in the emotional Stroop task (with reduced activity in leftward frontal areas). Results confirmed that suicide attempters have deficits in attentional control that may be related to particular conditions of frontal asymmetry.


The book is a bit outdated, but for its time (80’s) it was very helpful in starting a discussion about suicide that most people are inclined to avoid.
The book mostly deals with the psychological and biological theories that spheres the subject whereas your theory dealt with the social cause and the aversion that it's an innate feeling. As humans, we lash out when things go insane because we are rapid social animals inclined to act. Suicide is really ironic because I view it as a disappearance of self worth with the fear of death but no fear of physical pain. In the moment where we pan out or where we feel burdensome, no sense of belonging and other causes of suicide, we are stressed. The Brain has various stress responses (HPA) , this is heightened hence clinical depression which is the major parent of suicide. Your theory might be a bit flawed as it's not always innate but factors speeds the process but you are right about one thing, when one falls into all the categories of humans you mentioned, they feel alone, unwanted, unloved so what they do is they lash out investing in memories to satisfy that space and when its all down the drain, suicide is then the final resort.

Well done TheSourcerer for springing up a convo on this topic and I implore y'all to read Robert E Litman's book, it's an eye opener, though it's outdated now.

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Romance / Re: Girls Find It Hard To Resist Guys With These Five Things, Number 4 Is So Common by Palehair: 3:38am On Nov 30, 2020
peacettw:
Kinda prefer the nerdy, serious, "I need to conquer the world" look... I am not feeling the 'swag' in those pics. Those men look gay
You are right love. Actually, I only know of the second pic as he's gay in real life. That's fashion designer Ebiye
Romance / Re: Question For The Straight Guys. by Palehair: 3:34am On Nov 30, 2020
WoundedLamb:
As much as I'd always advocate for a world free of discrimination, I am not for gay people hitting on someone who has made it clear they aren't gay. The comparison OP is trying to make is, to me, hilarious cause we are talking about sexuality here and not just some desire, personal preference or habit that can be turned on and off. Sexuality is inherent and you don't just get people to "change their mind" by persevering. Continously hitting on someone whose sexuality doesn't agree with yours is like trying to force a black man to stay in the sun with white people for tanning. It's illogical and easily borders on sexual harrassment.

A straight guy's relationship with a woman can only be compared with a gay guy's relationship with a fellow gay guy. Trying to compare the way straight guys relate with women with the way a gay guy would relate with a straight guy will only give an erroneous output cause both cases are not of the same super class and shouldn't be placed side by side in the same array.
You are so right. The comparison is off but she was right about one thing, if someone of a different sexual orientation approaches you, just say NO, you can only take different measures when it becomes persistent because then it becomes borderline harassment. I have a beautiful lesbian friend who gets hit on by straight guys a lot, she just tells them she's not interested due to the state of homosexuality in Nigeria but when they become persistent, she will lash out and tell them the truth.
Sports / Re: Papa Bouba Diop Dies Aged 42 by Palehair: 3:23am On Nov 30, 2020
azzima:
I still don't understand this post....Was he gay Did he die of AIDS
Please discredit him. He didn't die of AIDS but ALS

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Romance / Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Palehair: 12:27am On Nov 29, 2020
SavageResponse:


It's been over 1 year now...I hope you're still straight!
You do realize she was being sarcastic right?
Education / Re: Ifeoluwa Olusanya Emerges Winner Of Union Bank Next Robotics Legend Competition by Palehair: 7:34pm On Nov 28, 2020
Officer4:

Adult programs mainly

Kids are only on Saturdays 10am-3pm
Ok, thanks
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Cried Over A Failed Relationship? by Palehair: 7:32pm On Nov 28, 2020
Greatihex:
I can't remember if it is Avengers in particular, but there was one of those their movies where the person playing as Thor did not have Chris Hemsworth's vibe at all.

Oh, my heart skipped a bit
Education / Re: Ifeoluwa Olusanya Emerges Winner Of Union Bank Next Robotics Legend Competition by Palehair: 7:28pm On Nov 28, 2020
Officer4:
Great

Robotics and Artificial Intelligence Nigeria (RAIN)


www.raiNIGERIA.com/available-courses
For adults or just kids?
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Cried Over A Failed Relationship? by Palehair: 7:06pm On Nov 28, 2020
Greatihex:
I just hate the change of actor for a role. It just kills the vibe for me. Just like what they did with Thor in one of the Avengers.
Wait a minute, Was Thor changed? What avengers movie?
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Cried Over A Failed Relationship? by Palehair: 7:05pm On Nov 28, 2020
Greatihex:
I'm seeing that he is Danish.
Oh my bad. I thought he was German
Crime / Re: White On White {Police Brutality} by Palehair: 6:50pm On Nov 28, 2020
Now those innocent kids lost their dad for no just cause. The men in blue continue to be drunk in power. Whatever happened to their tasers? Was it limped?

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Romance / Re: Have You Ever Cried Over A Failed Relationship? by Palehair: 6:43pm On Nov 28, 2020
Greatihex:
the payment may be to his own benefit but not for the movie fans.
Most people prefer the new person who will play him prior to Johnny Depp and Mads was their first choice. They went with Johnny because of his star power
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Cried Over A Failed Relationship? by Palehair: 6:41pm On Nov 28, 2020
Greatihex:
yet they will call it the men's world.

I'm curious, though. So, they will not be having a Grindelwald character for the movie or the will replace him with another person and then we will be see a different face Grindelwald, or will they use another person but with Depp's face?
German actor Mads Mikkelson will play the role now.

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