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Love is all it takes my dear. That two people are married don't mean they love each other. If you love someone you will never wish evil on them no matter what and nor could you ever inflict them with any bodily harm.

LiftedMan:
Its Sad, but one lesson everyone should learn from this is to take your time b4 you marry anyone, make sure you see who they are in the spirit b4 you marry them. All this "i love you and that all that matters " is risky without proper decernment.

Secondly, that was the same man that knelt down and proposed to her,
the same man that was so eager for wedding night ,
The same man that promised to keep her safe.

Its take more that Love to keep a marriage, you need many other things , but one key factor is Christ Jesus.

Still blaming the woman after seeing this video.

Please was the woman violent in this video? That's like saying people shouldn't use expensive things so as not to attract thieves.

RaptObserver:
Sadistic pastor. Women should learn not to drag with violent men. No posthumous medal for being a stubborn wife. Always calm down when your man is in rage. E get why

Get rich or die trying mentality, lol.

BIGGESThead6:
Tell me about the Igbos in Asian Countries?

I really don't understand what he's even apologizing for.

themonk:
Apparently most people here can’t read, he was accused of sexual harassment not rape, he apologized for inappropriate conversations that might be sexual in Nature.

Every organization has its rules and regulations. I believe many institutions in Nigeria forbid such so if it's against their rules then it definitely is a crime.

Ayed44:
Is it a crime for a lecturer to have a consensual sex with an adult student?

I love abj...central area is bae

Lamasta:
I like Abuja sha apart from been the FCT its a place cool to reside

Did Freeze really say that?

I'm a feminist but please I believe in the biblical injunction that wives should submit to their husbands. The husband is the head of the home abeg.

Awol1:
I agree with Freeze sometimes but he's wrong this time.

Wives' submission to their husbands is not only biblical but also cultural and traditional. And as much as we want to westernize, there are things we must never compromise.

Bastardization of our marriage institution will be the undoing of the African people. Freeze should not speak further on that.

Chai

Don't leave me please

catwalq:
Screenshot all their chats and post it online with her face and warn her to mind her family and leave your boo alone..

Relax and enjoy your man in peace

You're deceiving yourself, Europe has the toughest football teams in the world. Why hasn't Messi achieved this feature with all the weak teams in South America?

Martinez39s:
With enough Lithuania, Estonia, Macedonia, Luxembourg and the likes, he will get there.

My GOAT

Na wa o, I thought y'all were redpillers that don't need women.

Please this is a big lie. I know places in Abia state where land goes for much less and I know people who have bought there.

Don't believe the hype. Most people who can't afford lands in PH buy in Abia state due to the close proximity so I know what I'm saying.

Sammy07:
That's because you guys are affected by war and your landmass are small.
There is no place in Igbo land where a plot Is sold for 500k or less.
Meanwhile there are many places in Yoruba land where a plot is sold for 100k

Now imagine you guys after the war, where lands are sold as much as 5million in a village. Will that person build house with olden days roofs or modern day roofs?

Check Benin, Akwaibom, port Harcourt (at least I've been to those 3)
They also have lots, I mean lots of brown roofs

Did she complain to you?

Matrimonous:
This one wey don dey old doesn't want to marry?
Who do am this kind strong thing

I hope sex takes care of y'all in your old age as well.

justosee:
we are okay with just the sex

Most of them don't think aswear.

They advocate for baby mamas forgetting that most children from broken homes (by American stats) end up being gangsters, drug dealers, criminals, drop outs, murderers etc.

So who will marry the baggage you have as a kid?

Also most of those kids end up hating their fathers and wanting nothing to do with them even in old age since the fathers weren't part of their lives growing up.

Esseite:
So who would marry the innocent children from such unions?

While you are advocating for baby daddies, would the children from such not be from broken homes?...

Let's learn to think before we talk .

Old age will knock sense into men by force.

I hope you know women "own" the kids.... Marriage favours men more but y'all don't know it yet.

CocaineLord:
Let them die single now... You know most men don't give a fvck about marriage anymore too...

If it was a man y'all would be praising him as I've seen countlessly on this forum. Your hypocrisy knows no bounds.

Itohanmiwa:
When prophet Ubunja came with the "gospel of redpill", so many people criticised him and still do, but this right here is testament to the fact that ladies inwardly hate simps.
After God fear women!

But when the man does the cheating it's better right?

jidamsel43:
Nigerian men are tired of wedding

Strange things happening in Nigeria these days

Men nowadays preferred to be baby daddies with no responsibility or emotional burden.

Imagine, you pay school fees, house rent, food allowance, wardrobe allowance, in-laws demands and other utility allowances only to find out that your wife is seeing another man. what a trauma and catastrophe

Except me please, I hate that shiiit of taking pictures at the mall.

2cribz:
It baffles me how people see shoprite as a tourist center. Is it that nigerians are too local or bush. Tourist center to nigerians.. eateries,super markets,hotel bar,local bar,malls. Its always in every nigerians phone gallery. Zoo would be empty when the animals are too damn lazy,spoon fed and bored.

You misspelled foolish...

You're welcome.

kingxsamz:
Those who are wise will quickly grasp the message.

Stop lying, that guy has never said "give your life to Christ or die". If he has then give me a link to the post.

That said, literally no Christian says that as well. The most they can say is that if you don't give your life to Christ, you'll go to hell when you die.

Please learn to read and comprehend before accusing people falsely. You atheists have a habit of lying against religious people to further your agenda which is why I left the religious section for good.

Now to answer your question, if someone of some other religion were to continuously do that on NL, I won't care because this is a public forum where anyone is free to post anything they want.

kingxsamz:
If you saw a post on every single thread you read, telling you to give your life to Satan or die, would you tolerate it? Yes or no?

Did you need to insult him?

If he insults you back, you'll start crying wolf and saying Christians are intolerant.

This is a public forum, and he hasn't gone against any rule of this platform so what is your problem with his comment?[s]

CaseSensitive:
Oh no not this buffoon again. See, no angel is going to blow trumpets, no Jesus is coming from heaven. Jesus died just like my grandad, the prophets in the quoran, Sango, Obatala, my dog etc. A possible occurrence that could end the world at once would be the sun running out of hydrogen, which will eventually happen at some point but not until a couple billion years. Another would be a likely event of asteroid disaster, the type that wiped the Saurs off the face of the earth before other animals and mammals including us arrived.
So when you die, that's your "trumpet" blown. For you, not the rest of the world.

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I and the over 270 people that liked his post need his preaching here.

If you don't like his posts, scroll past.

This is a public forum, not your parlour.

Canih:
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Hey Mister, I and some people don't need ur preaching here.
What has religion done 4 us?! Only put fairytales into innocent lives.
If not for Technology, you won't be on Nairaland casting your religious bigotry.

What exactly is your problem? You have spent 2 months of your life on NL just as he has. He has never for once insulted anyone here, nor stirred up tribalism or misogyny like most other members have, nor does he beg for alms or even contravened any NL rule so please what exactly is your problem with his posts?

Can't you just live your life?

Are you Seun the owner of this platform?

kingxsamz:
Seriously, how do you put food on your table?
You're always busy talking about how the world would end anytime soon, while the whole world and everyone around you is moving forward.
And how long will you keep up with this before you realize that you have wasted years of your life?
You need a job seriously.
But let me just assume that you're an elderly man living off his pension and not some youth wasting away while those around him are progressing.

Brace up for frustrated redpillers who don't even have passports complaining talm bout, "Nigerian women are arrogant bla bla bla"...

Leave them to keep deceiving themselves.

They will realize when they're old and gray. I even met a Nigerian man married to an american japanese who had three kids for him.

They seemed to be happily married or so I thought but the man confided in me that he'd love to settle with a Nigerian woman as a white women can never compare to a Nigerian woman. Meanwhile his oldest kid was about 17 at the time and the man was already in his 50s, Lol.

Mbdovey:
I don't know why most men keep saying marriage is not important. What happened when you're old? who will stand by you? Who will take care of you? We all need each other. In as much as marriage is not the ultimate, it's very important.

Aptly put

LegendHero:
These guys with their 12th century law. They fail to be civilized and I’m grateful to the Supreme Court for helping them get civilized by fire by force.

Now the next judgement to be passed is for the OSU discrimination issue.

In as much as we are in this Nigeria together, we will make sure we save you from yourself.

This entire case is what feminism is all about. Yet you hate feminism..?

Afiifii1:
while serving in Ohaji/Egbema in Imo state then, there were alot of taboos exclusively for the females. Amongst them is that female Shouldn't break the cola nut and many more. Igbo's females are very industrious to the extent of riding bicycle to and from the farm heavily loaded even with children. In this wise, while must they be cut off from inheriting their legal and biological father. Igbo's tradition is barabaric with respect to this seclusion. I'm a man who vehemently repudiate feminism, meanwhile, truth be told; woman must have due share in their father's estates not only in Igbo land but everywhere in the world.

This is exactly what's happening in America.

Originalsly:
What next?.... this is setting a precedent... the gates are now open to do away with all cultural practices. What would be left of culture next 3 generations? Don't ever believe it is an Igbo matter.... the courts will tear away other cultures as well..... e.g ... equal rights.... a Muslim woman filing to.have the rights to worship alongside men..... a man filing the right to enter and use the womens washroom. Would you be saying the same?.... men rushing in to use the same washroom that your wife just entered?... or I guess that's different?

The court is opening a can of worms.

She's telling you about her personal experience and you're still saying this....smh

afroxyz:
Are you Igbo? Because I doubt you would make such baseless comments. Go and read about Ohafia where lineage and inheritance is traced through the woman and not the man. There are other societies like that in Igbo land. If you even go to your mother's side, you would be allocated land to farm and other oeiviledgea. Igbo women were the first to organize themselves as a social group as seen in the Aba women riot of 1929. Stop exposing tour ignorance and study. You can't know these things by watching BB naija and nollywood

So sad to hear that. Sorry about that, don't let it get to you.

Denique:
Senseless tradition; Stupid culture

While some of the male children got more than 3 plots of land each, my mom and her female siblings didn't get a needle as inheritance but they all contributed towards the burial.

I wish I were this mature then, I'd never allow her drop a penny for the burial.

I don't get an inheritance(if it was my father's stand); I don't contribute to your upkeep nor burial. Let your tradition and culture care for you.