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How does , " the Father is greater than I" translate to mean He is not God? I hope you know that Jesus also said, "I and my father are 1".

Xposed2020:
How?
When he clearly said he is not God.
The father is greater than I.
John 14:28

Old news. Theres no black spot anymore.

KenyaNairobiGuy:
You are very funny. Hehehe...was this before or after you ate her

Emancipate yourself. What is funny about wanting to know about Kenya?

Randerl:
Mods please move this thread to the Jokes Section of NL.

Dganji you're a good person for speaking up for the girl. God will reward you.

This is one of the perks of being polygamous in nature. Not my business.

Lol

Cool

Where did you get your stats from and did you include your sister's in it?

Chukapage:
Why you una dey risk una life?? 90% of Nigerian girls have not seen a gynaecologist before ,95% are strong infections they don't even know it most of them Bleep minimum 6different men to fund their lives but you as a man will go and have sex with them raw ...you no wan live long abi? Even wives sef are not an assurance but you will go and Bleep a Facebook girl raw?? Mtcheew

So let me get this, he has sense for whoring himself and endangering his life, whereas if it was a woman you'd have called her a "hoe"? Thank God hiv/aids, and all other STDs know no gender.

DirtyGold:
You're too mouthed... too much sense will not kill you my brother.

@OP, same way you lured her to your hut is the same way other guys are doing the same.

What's tha business?

What were you expecting going about sleeping with strangers? Fried rice?

Actually its 47k deaths.

princemillla:
He is just trying to maintain the relevance. For now with Corona sweeping thousands of souls, who give a Bleep about world power...... Ptchwwww trump should go and seat down.
World power that couldn't save his own people. With 34k deaths trump should keep quiet and humble himself

Stop insulting pastors. They're not the reason you're a zombie.

sarrki:
We are more interested in you telling us when corona will disappear

Or tell us to bring corona positive to you for cure

Yeye people

Nah only Aso Rock and politics dem dey see vision into

Stop confusing NDDC with Niger delta. That some states are part of NDDC doesn't make those people Niger deltans. We know ourselves. Its nobody's business how we choose to identify ourselves. I'm proudly urhobo and never for once have I needed to hide my identity and I don't know any other urhobos who hide theirs.

You say we're not proud of our tribe, at least we were proud enough to collectively dissociate ourselves from you. Nuff said.

Is this true?

I fear o

abobote:
Na only person do all this waka ? This tory be as e get

You will be called an old fool someday too.

Corporate2020:
Twitter Senator Ben Murray Bruce is suffering from psychiatric disorders, mental imbalance and hallucinations. He is depressed and suicidal. He has been acting strange and senseless since he buried his late wife. If not, why has the albino been posting pictures of his family members and guns. I think the old fool is planning to kill all his family members.

Beating that will only make them resent you more. Shey you go still beat when they're grown adults and have left your house. Either ways it's a lose lose situation for you and all those thinking in this pattern.

Timileyin1234:
They won’t regard me cos we are mate huh? I go beat sense into into there head. If u marry one wife, they tend to give u problem that is more than separating two persons fighting

I love every single member of my family equally.

Flier:
You can't love people equally it's not possible,just that you must not make it visible

I'm so sorry about that.

vickydankal:
Life events, child character etc could make a parent love a child more than another, but maturity demands you love them equally and give them equal right that they won’t notice who is more loved.

Else you will create a problem for yourself and the children in the future: my daddy didn’t show me love because I am a female. Abandoned us at the hospital, never allowed me in his car, didn’t pay my school fees etc until he died I can’t tell if I ever had a father .

I don't understand how people do it. I love all my siblings equally. I love my mom and dad equally too.

Too bad

And you think your children will regard you or still be "yours"? Lmao....

Timileyin1234:
After she don born my own pikin finish. she can remarry

So by your analogy your wife has a right to be unfaithful to you since you have fathered 5 children?

Timileyin1234:
If you have your money, get another woman pregnant and leave them. She is a bitter woman. That was why our fore-fathers pluralized women
Somebody whey don born 5pikin expecting me to be faithful. I can’t take my wife inciting my children against me, if I couldn’t beat senses into her, I would marry another wife

Lol. Do you know something else Polygamous men face, dejection from their kids, not being shown love etc

I also thank God this is the 21st century and African women now have sense. Whether or not he impregnates 100 women , he remains on the losing side as the children will always prefer their mothers.

Cblessing:
Hello Paul,


Hope you get to read this.


I made same mistake; I impregnated my long time girlfriend who now has a 5-year-old daughter for me.


No woman, I repeat, no woman will ever truly forgive any man such infraction.


My advice:

Take off your mind from your wife and children for the meantime. If possible, get a new apartment for yourself.



Give adequate, quality attention to your son (from your mistress) for now. He, and at least, one of your 5 children will be your succor tomorrow, worse case scenario.


Women detest competition and they do not wish their men to have ALTERNATIVES; that drives them crazy.


You will become happier and alive instead of drowning emotionally like you are doing at the moment.


If your mistress is still single, get closer to her and you'll be happy you did.


Do not make the mistake of marrying her hurriedly though. Just keep her as a mistress.


If she is married, just bond with your son like never before.


Your wife will likely come around and behave much better to you. The 3 older children will do same.



If the above does not happen, get someone else pregnant, leave the other kids for your wife and move on with your life knowing that you, at least, have 2 children who will love, respect, and adore you and check on you when you become old.


This is Africa. Men can marry more than 1 wife. No woman should hold you to ransom for any reason; not when you work hard and make good money to take care of your family.


Cheers

Actually, he not only cheated but has a 6yr old child outside wedlock.

BlackPantherCri:
You lost my sympathy when you mentioned you cheated on her.

Cheating... Na, for me, that's the end of love, fidelity, trust and respect. Sorry Bro, ask your creator for forgiveness

Lmao.. in this day and age yall keep saying "take her to her family" like the woman can't easily rent a new place of her own. Hahahaha

miltonchux:
No matter how hurt she is, he has knelt down to apologise what else does she want. He should leave the house for her for 3 to 5months and her head will reset or rather send her to her family. If she refused. Trick her that you are visiting home together. Drop her with her family and tell them to train there daughter, her head will reset. Don't fall for those advise

So let me get this, a man cheats and you didn't condemn him but you're asking him to do DNA test on his kids when the man never made mention of his wife cheating.

RaptObserver:
You are an African man, go and marry second wife. Make sure she is young and not baby mama. All these my wife, my wife will stop when u get a second wife. She will either accept it or she will leave u. Let me tell u, if u die today u will not be missed so why don't u go to where u will be celebrated instead of staying where u re tolerated? Please, do DNA test on Ur kids soonest it is important.

You've said it all. You have divine wisdom.

Dande55:
Lol. You cheated on your wife with 3 different ladies, only God knows how long each cheating lasted. The time you were meant to be close to your children, you relegated all those duties to your wife. Now, she has 100% of their audience. And you think, Those times she cried and wept in front of those kids, that they aren't aware what's going on? You think they weren't building up grudges against You? Lool
This is the wicked mistake some of you men make, leaving your wives to train the kids alone and then, when they must have grown, you think you will just manipulate them and just have your way with them that easy?
And upon that, you had a child outside with another woman. Most of these men telling you to do this or that wouldn't have taking it lightly if this story was from the opposite gender cheating and having kids outside their home.


You've not seen anything, you will see worse when the children might have grown. You will shed blood, you will have a share of the tears you caused that poor innocent woman. Her anger on you reçently is caused by accumulated grudges she had for you all these years of your cheating and maltreating.

For you to make it work, you have to prove yourself to your wife and kids. Let them sincerely see you've changed. Cos, running out of your home gave them the impression that you must have gone to see your girlfriends as usual, reason they ignored you.
Work on your family cos you've failed your wife and kids.


Btw, women, have your own money, the op is still respecting the wife cos he knows that she's capable of fending for her kids and still living her life uniterupted if anything goes South.

Lol, I don't even have words for you. Enjoy your sorrows.

Paul8000:
Yes I have hurt my wife a lot in the past ... I have cheated on her so many times with 3 different women.... I impregnated one of them ... my son is 6 years old... I sincerely apologised to her and promised that I will never cheats on her again... she has forgiven me ... that was 6 years ago and I haven’t cheated don her since. All these misunderstandings we are having has nothing to do with me cheating.... my main problem is the way she has turned the kids against me ... anytime we are having some issues ... she keep malice with me and will tell the kids to do the same thing... and when things get back to normal again... she will tell them to start talking with me...