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NO one is PERFECT! but I'm disappointed in you guys because you are educated yet you neglected one of the major things you should be looking at for before you go deep into a relationship. when I met my husband in my 100l in school, I remember we had a lot of fights because of genotype issue, he kept telling me he is AA but I needed a proof , I wasn't ready to go deep n fall flat faceinlove only to find outbwe dont match. so I took it up with him until he provided at least two test results previously carried out. NOTE: I also did the test when I entered school o, n I was okay but I still felt lemme check his own end to , now if he's AS it means I would have had to take the test again.

people should pay more attention, education should be an eye opener ! may God continue to help us all

after the whole 39weeks and 4days of carrying and bonding with her in my inner chambers, I felt this love so surreal and I became instantly protective of her 100p, just like I have been since the day I got to know I was carrying her.

Lamanii22:
Can't they like inject someone so that one wouldn't feel the pain when they are stitching?

most doctors do, but most of the time the effect of the injection wears out even before they are done with the stitching. n after the whole thing to seat down, walk n all sort becomes an ish... they will even tell you to eat lighter meals so as to avoid using the toilet before the place heals to some extent. so that kasala will not burst#sigh#

mothers are heroes

bumait:
On dt faithful Wednesday went to bed waiting for hubby was annoyed he came home late again immediately I opened the door 11.30pm vomitting and labour pains started we left immediately for the hospital I didn't even allow him change or drop his bag. Was checked and doctor said take her to the labour room 3am I display no be small. Nearly pulled my hair off my head. Gave hubby several slaps as he was dozing off (someone dt just got back from work, he didn't even eat) exactly 3am after a few push princess came and I was even asking d nurses is dt all? Na wen time for stitching reach I shouted down the whole hospital hubby was just crying that he vowed no more pregnancy. Well it was a sweet experience sha

the after stitching is as painful if not even more painful than the labour pain

Mothers are super beings
the whole process of motherhood has made me respect mothers more

the time they used in stitching me up was much more than the one I used in pushing baby out.

it is the worst pain I've ever experienced

Oshlander:
Interesting thread.

Kudos to all mothers.

I'm praying to experience delivery with my wife too, but pregnancy first. 7years expecting.

May God answer our prayers.

God will cause your story to change and bless you and your wife with healthy and blessed children, maa Sha Allah

it was a government hospital and my husband couldn't go into the labour room with me.

even long before I started feeling anything he was already apprehensive, it was a Wednesday morning, we left home together, he was going to work while I was going for antenatal. on getting to the place they said I was already 4cm dailated n I was not in any pain

I had to call my husband to bring the baby things.
Mr man was already scared at that moment

so because he couldn't enter with me , he was checking on me through the window as my bed was close to one of the windows.

I was there with my mother in law from that Wednesday morning, they wanted to induce me but I pleaded that they let it happen on its own

around 5pm I was finally induced, because the contractions were not coming really hard n I was still around 5-6cm.

I began to slightly feel the pains n my husband would come at intervals to check on my through the window, it got to a point I was the one telling him everything was going to be fine n all he needed to do was just keep praying, when I saw he was already beyond disturbed.


I later told them not to let him come in again
you would think he was the one in the pains
all shaky n all that

he went to the mosque within the premises and saw a group of men and asked that they please make Dua together

he said through out the prayer he was just shaking, at a point he didn't even know if he was saying the right things

he came back n stood at the gate , came back to the reception and after hearing me scream ran out again n stood by the gate leading to the ward.

it was after I gave birth that the nurses called him to come , he still didn't believe them until they told him I had truly been delivered of our baby around few minutes past 7am on a Thursday morning, January 3, 2019.


Alhamdulillah �

oga poster, this your post is a big lie
before the whole issue started Toyin has been giving update on the state of the virus directly from ncdc. you can go n check her page . pls stop posting stories based on assumptions

sorry to say but I think you are selfish

she has your baby n also working haba Mr husband more is expected of you especially when you can afford two cars, as it is clear you can't let them have it while you invest for your own.

some men shaaa

How to be a Happy New mom: happy mom, Happy baby



Babies are one of the most precious gems in the world, but in all efforts to taking good care of them, mothers have to be watchful and well informed about certain situations.

It is an established and much talked about fact that, being a new mom is one of the most challenging task, in the human domain.



In other to therefore deal with the challenges as effectively as possible, aside from exclusively breastfeeding your baby for the first six months, we have come up with certain do's that can help new Moms and and their bundles of joy, have the best experience coping with their new environment.
Take adequate rest
Eat healthy meals
Take lots of fluids
Play with your baby
Communcate with your baby
Smile and laugh often
Disappoint your baby.

Take adquate rest.
Especially when you don't have anyone to help do house chores, you are usually meet with the temptation to want to finish all your chores,
once your baby falls asleep.
If care is not taken, this resultantly deprives you of the rest you need. Most times before you even finish up, your baby is awake wanting some attention. So you see the need to sleep when baby sleeps.
...

https://olatiwalola..com/2019/10/how-to-be-happy-new-mom-happy-mom-happy.html?m=1

Alhamdulillah Robil Alameen
EVERYTHING that we are is because of Allah's Rahma
i thank God on your behalf Op

laughs

u guys will not kii somebody with laughter

this is so cute

Ameen
God bless our mothers n forgive departed Souls.
Ameen .
Nice one okowa.

wow.. good one

this girl should not cause problem for Mike o

Alhamdulillah baraka Allahu fihi

Officialgarri:
The wife looks modest. I don't even know if my grammar is correct

Today just look like Monday and I'm not even happy

Officialgarri:
The wife looks modest. I don't even know if my grammar is correct

Today just look like Monday and I'm not even happy

Messyodi:
Im in the same situation as you but my baby is 5months. Did you confirm if its neg yet? Im silently praying mine is malaria oooo hmm

my sister I tell you, it's not easy at all
yesterday u needed to see how I was tossing up n down unable to sleep. I was just attributing every thing that happens to be preg. symtm.

I went to the hospital today sha
doc said it is most unlikely
that I should go n do pt

n it came back negative


I don't even know if I should Kuku go for the fp as its unhealthy to keep being this apprehensive.

kaffy4bill:
Then possibility that you are pregnant is slim ..
Finish your drug and rest well..
Hope this helps..
One love always

thank you so much mama feeling better to the Glory of God I will one love from here

Pearl05:
I think it will be best to discontinue usage until you are certain. If positive , no big deal. Na to get 2 babies in 2yrs and it's kinda kool. Las las na Godwin.

thanks so much mama
I'm gradually feeling much better
u make the whole thing look easy n interesting. but in reality na real work e go be ooo
people go just dey insult person up n down " I trust Nigerians for that".
I appreciate your contribution

Pearl05:
Fear not dear, go for blood test first. You know amatem is not recommended at early stage.

Withdrawal method can fail too.

Either way na win win

Good luck dear.

thanks for your reply
so should I stop the amatem till I'm certain
.pls what if it comes back positive
haaa
I'm scared o

mothers Pls comeee to my aid!!!!

my baby will be six months in the next two days
but the issue is that for four days now I have been feeling weird
from slight headache to fever to mild body ache

I'm so SCARED!!!!

NOTE im not on any family planning plan. my husband n I decided not to because of the risks that come with it.

since I gave birth six months ago we have only dtd 2 times, the last one been about 26days ago.

two days ago I noticed a that my discharge was somehow like eggwhite
yesterday while cleaning up after Weewee I saw a very little red blood mixed with discharge.

note I'm on exclusive breastfeeding n I have not my period since I gave birth.

I told my dh n he's says it can be as he didn't pour the thing inside me.

I did hpt on Saturday night and it came back negative

treating malaria with amatem n amoxiclin

could it be what I'm thinking

plsss no waka pass oooo

it's not Dino. guess u guys didn't read to the end

Kalashnikov102:
You don Coza her

many times reading comments on nairaland is like watching a comedy skit


op ask her n if she says it's u reply the Scenario to her

but with her actions I don't think she could have been talking to you


guys just stop all these random sex find a wife n marry na �

Kalashnikov102:
You don Coza her

many times reading comments on nairaland is like watching a comedy skit


op ask her n if she says it's u reply the Scenario to her

but with her actions I don't think she could have been talking to you


guys just stop all these random sex find a wife n marry na �#tongueout#

Munzy14:
lolzz
With the way this is going, my girl friend may have s testimony o...hehehehe

I can't laugh abeg
it's a sad situation

advocatebaba:
How old are u now minus how old you were when u were raped. The answer will give us reason why u kept quite for a long time or for a short time.

This woman get sense, she know say some women now are trending on social media, she too wanna trend lol. we have hear you, take your case to the court. Believe some of this story at your peril.

something must DEFINITELY be wrong with you.

so she would bring UP a rape case against HERSELF, JUST TO TREND.

after having gone through a lot there would be a time when you feel you have healed n fearless. guy that's the moment u have all the will power to SPEAK OUT!
it's obvious the man is unrepentant n it would be emotion wrecking for her to watch him keep damaging young girls so the need for her to speak up.

I just hope you're not like the said pastor

irene670:
Mummys pls come to my aid oo. I don't understand my 4weeks old baby again. Last week he started breathing noisely, especially at night and early hours in the morning. I bought nycil menthol and rubbed on his chest and fore head. Yesterday i noticed the breathing has reduced, but he started grunting and giggling too much. I don't know if his stomach is biting him or he is constipated, and at the end of it, he will just pass gas. he hasn't poo since yesterday.

ive been there before.
guess it totally normal in newborns
my dd was like That n i use to worry n wonder but dh always told me its normal once there are no traces of mucus blocking the nose

she will be five months in three days time and all that is history now.

i think i read it That theyre still trying to
cope breathing outside the Uterus.

franashi:
my daughter had it when she was few months old,as a first time mom I used cloth to wipe her mouth and made it worst. My doctor prescribed Nystatin oral suspension. I just put it on a cotton wool and use to wipe round the mouth and few days it was gone or you can use original good coconut oil too. Did u or ur baby recently took antibiotics? U should also check ur breast for yeast infection so u do not end up re infecting the baby

okay ma
pls how do i check my breast for it n if i do have it on them how do i get rid of it.
n can a four month old use coconut oil.
thanks for replying